ikp120:
You're doing the right thing. Ignore his calls and act cold towards him.

Thank you dear

kushercain:


rubbish advice....
stick to snitching

wats yiur advice then

Oyindidi:
One good guy is about to be hurt

what to do now

cruchenuti:


OP did you tell him Verbally that you don't love him? Are you sure ?

If you said it and he keeps coming. OK na, keep collecting the money. He his your benefactor

Yes, i did.
Its not all just abt mmoney

BiafraBushBoy:


Nonsense!!

I pity the jobless guy calling you morning , Afternoon and Night.

Show me your account balance, let's know if you are worth calling, even for 30 seconds!!

If you had sth in your acct you wdnt need a lady with sth In hers

FitnessDoctor:


I definitely don't know when you are planning to get married because most of your posts are on relationships... Please remember that the way it is for you that is how it will be for your kids.. So thread carefully and take time to do the right thing...

But the way you feel is the most important and if you feel that nothing can ever happen between you too... then you can keep going with what you want...

But like someone told me "make decisions with your brain and not your feelings"

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Mmonitoring spirit. Lol.. I think i also need to consider my feelings

BiafraBushBoy:


lol...

Even in a drunk state, I no fit toast this kain babe na...

I dey mad??

Marisol911:


Mmonitoring spirit. Lol.. I think i also need to consider my feelings

But remember, that your feelings can change anytime... You can feel so jealous if you see him any another lady and she is so happy... Then you might want him.. and also because those guys calling you a talkative just want to talk with you and not be the man in your life...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

FitnessDoctor:


But remember, that your feelings can change anytime... You can feel so jealous if you see him any another lady and she is so happy... Then you might want him.. and also because those guys calling you a talkative just want to talk with you and not be the man in your life...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

*sighs* now im confused.. Such wisdom. Thanks

Marisol911:

*sighs* now im confused.. Such wisdom. Thanks

You are welcome

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

And who the fuckkk do you think you are miss world or queen Elisabeth.
I have said it I can't be rich and girls will be making shakara for me,even now I m just comfortable and they are begging.
If I were you I will first go to church and thank GOD because girls are literally begging for almost any kind of husband not to talk about one that is worshiping your feet.
Then convince him that you are tired of heart break,and that your next agenda is marriage.
Then be happy Atleast you won't be joining other girls to do fasting and prayers for husband.

Marisol911:

If you had sth in your acct you wdnt need a lady with sth In hers

Have you asked yourself why Indimi the rich guy married Zahra Buhari the president's daughter, not Amaka the village girl?

Think!!

We all love Golds!!

Oyindidi:
Lol, this boy don spoil

Lol... oh baby!!

BiafraBushBoy:


Lol... oh baby!!

Be good

Marisol911:
what to do now

Free him, roll with the one you love. You may regret in future though.

BiafraBushBoy:


lol...

Even in a drunk state, I no fit toast this kain babe na...

I dey mad??

Your comments are not cool. Do you know her?.

BiafraBushBoy:


You are not God fearing..
God is fearing you...

Ermm.. what is dandy

Hahahahaha...Ya silly

I mean am good good

Marisol911:
So, this guy claims he loves me, buys me stuffs, calls me and gvs me attention. He's trying to show me he loves me but I'm not feeling the guy. I mean, i think abt other guys and prefer to press phone when he's around me, i feel he's invading my personal space when he calls morning afternoon , night to know my whereabts. I can't hold any reasonable conversation wth him cos i practically don't know what to say to him. Meanwhile I'll be quickly referred to as a talkative by other guys.. Ive told him times without number that i don't love him and that I'm not the gal for him but he wont take no for an answer. He says he knows ill grow to love him, that i just don't know it yet.
I want to let him go so i have decided to cut off all communications with him.
Right now I have not picked his calls since two days ago. I hope im doing the right thing, and hope its not a case of ignoring the ones that truly love us...THE END

I think you're doing the right thing. Love isn't by force, and he can't force affection where there's none. If he calls again, simply tell him to stop calling you. He'll stop with time.

technicallyrich:
And who the fuckkk do you think you are miss world or queen Elisabeth.
I have said it I can't be rich and girls will be making shakara for me,even now I m just comfortable and they are begging.
If I were you I will first go to church and thank GOD because girls are literally begging for almost any kind of husband not to talk about one that is worshiping your feet.
Then convince him that you are tired of heart break,and that your next agenda is marriage.
Then be happy Atleast you won't be joining other girls to do fasting and prayers for husband.

Thank you but we Dont lead same lives

DaveHert:
I think you're doing the right thing. Love isn't by force, and he can't force affection where there's none. If he calls again, simply tell him to stop calling you. He'll stop with time.

God, thank you!

Mariinee:
Hahahahaha...Ya silly

I mean am good good

lol...

Oya manage that one!!

This your moniker sef!!

DaveHert:
Your comments are not cool. Do you know her?.

Must I know her to say I can't date her?

Please!

You can send her a pm... don't use me and count scores.

Oyindidi:
Be good

Free him, roll with the one you love. You may regret in future though.

Or maybe im just selfish.
I want to eat my cake and have it

BiafraBushBoy:


Must I know her to say I can't date her?

Please!

You can send her a pm... don't use me and count scores.

You don't comment just because you had the urge to. She said nothing bad to warrant those words from you.

BiafraBushBoy:


Must I know her to say I can't date her?

Please!

You can send her a pm... don't use me and count scores.

Bro..sure looks like you've got beef wih me from your past life

Marisol911:

Or maybe im just selfish.
I want to eat my cake and have it

That I don't know dear. How old is this guy?

Oyindidi:
That I don't know dear. How old is this guy?

25

Marisol911:

25

Tell me why you don't like him

DaveHert:
You don't comment just because you had the urge to. She said nothing bad to warrant those words from you.

Hey dude.. you gotta hold up for a while...

What is bad in saying I can't ask her out even in a drunk state...

or... are you her bf?

you better go land yourself something quality!!

Don't quote me again... I won't reply you!

Marisol911:
Bro..sure looks like you've got beef wih me from your past life

We wouldn't get so close to start having beefs!!

Excuse me now!!

BiafraBushBoy:


Hey dude.. you gotta hold up for a while...

What is bad in saying I can't ask her out even in a drunk state...

or... are you her bf?

you better go land yourself something quality!!

Don't quote me again... I won't reply you!

You're being unnecessarily rude. Let me guess, one of your babes just broke your heart?.

Marisol911:
wats yiur advice then

First of all you need to ask yourself what it is that turns you off about the guy..is it bad looks,an annoying habit?or the chemistry isn't just there..when you consider these..his pros and cons..you tabulate it and believe me you'd know wot to do

Oyindidi:
Tell me why you don't like him

Normally i like guys with whom i can talk at lenght..Intelligent discussions ofcourse.
Someone who'd bring out the best in me ..make me a better person blah blah blah.. Someone I'd ill always want to be with, and that mks me Hot just seeing him. I don't feel any of these with him