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What you fail to understand is that the fact your husband keeps making enough money might be as a result of the Goodwill he has with his family..most times we don't understand what we don't know..do not try to make him stop helping his family but rather help him tone it down in order to save...that money might stop coming in the moment he stops helping his family.

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keeps sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.
He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keeps asking him for money, he keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keeps crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him, his two junior brothers that always asks him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest, his married sisters are the worst if they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family. We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drop two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately. I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.
I am really pissed off and tired.
Sorry for the long post.

You my friend are a very stupid human being.. nobody should ever have the right to insult an ethnic group.

Throwback:
The dolt who penned the above should direct his agony to the graves of Azikiwe and Aguiyi Ironsi.

The structures were good and not to be allowed a chance for separation without a war, when the Igbo dreamed of dominating a heterogenous Nigeria?

The structures were deserving of a unitary consolidation when an Igbo man was head of a military government?

The sanctity of human lives was irrelevant when murderous Igbos hacked down Yoruba and Northern senior military officers and political leaders, but became a relevant sanctity when it concerns the lives of the tribesmen who executed such assassinations?

Very touchy hypocrite.

Need Korean tv series in the form of jumong and kingdom... something about acient Korea..history

Oh you just got sucked in..it's one of the best shows I have seen.

Pattypatt:
I take it back, I take it all back, Ozark is very interesting. Season 2 is lit.

With you on this

Biafrarep:
The question should be if it's proven to be effective! You can start treatment on the elderly or those with underlying illnesses first. COVID-19 is always fatal on them so of what use is being worried over possible side effects when they are going to die if left alone?

If it's proven to be safe and genuine then am all for it

Ishilove:
That escalated quickly

Porn don finish you

Stallion93:

On behalf of the Good people of Nairaland i want to Thank you, Mr President for Deeming us worthy of this presentation, For your words are as soothing as the Breasts of Purn star Moriah mills. We look forward to hearing from you again Our President

You look like your from China....chinko babe

Amatarasha:
Now I have decided to present my pretty photo out of boredom

Like it plssssssssss



Ladies forever

Released for who and by who I meant the north? because here in ayobo Lagos we haven't received anything from the government apart from total blackout since 4 or 6days now

Hi everyone,
So what is the light situation in your area like because as for me in ayobo, we haven't seen light for the past 4days and all the perishable items I bought have all spoilt.
Infact I don warm my soup sotey the taste don change ..so guys what's the light situation in your area??

Succession is one of the best tv series I have seen...Kendall went loco on his oldman...wow
As for money heist definitely not my cup of tea.

Needed

Na to relocate go village for now

Part of the problem we have in this country

voltron14:
No.

Patience Jonathan's hotel is better to celebrate.

And this is worth celebrating

Divorce is never an option for me,so carry your cross my brother.it is well with you guys

;Dna enjoyment kill this one

This ones don't have an atom of shame....mtcheeew pathetic lot.

The good liar 7/10 thoroughly enjoyed this movie..the movie defined karma itself

Need some more inputs from those staying in Gambia

Cant even remember when last i was at church

How can you not support saraki?oloye2019

#istandwithdakwambo#

dakwanbo has my full support,contact me am ready to rally and campaign for him

Lalas247:
The list is small seff
Another A4 sheet will do .... some guys don’t know the value of a good woman ... he should buy it all and then some ....

My own list na book
Please don’t quote me o ... it’s friday

cray

Your a fraud and a thief sending me gnld food supplement as ivory cap..

hi everyone,I have a question...what kind of visa would someone require to get into Australia in order to hustle most especially when one isnt that educated. .thanks as I await your response

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Ngeneukwu or whatever you call yourself,how can you discredit such a huge group of people protesting for what they feel is right to them on party lines?are you so lost or far gone that you cannot differentiate between right and wrong anymore?I actually feel sorry for your kind because your so far up your own lies that you can't actually know right or wrong anymore!!