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SMH. Again SLOW THINKING

A book's name only yet you reason like a ret@ard so you just assume the book is a "GUIDE" to manhood. How about the book discussing the trials of men of the 21st century? How about discussing what it means for men from diverse backgrounds (black, white, asian, african etc) to have responsibility and how culture intersects with perception? No? AH, I forgot, of course whatever you "ASSUME" is right (as I see you do a lot of ASSuming.)

You are free to probe the story however you come off as the type of guy to make a snotty comment about how a 15 year old girl must have wanted some d1ck if she was at a guy's (who is 28) house and now is "screaming r@pe" as you see it.

TO you Chika MUST Have wanted to SLEEP with her boss, of course, she is a mind reader she should know that a GROWN EDUCATED MAN WHO CLAIMS TO BE A MAN OF FINESSE AND CULTURE expects s@x when he takes her out for DINNER....AH of course, her job description includes being an escort... RIGHT? You "ASSUME" all women in the workplace Must want your d1ck right? Because, of course, she can not have a goal of wanting to strive ahead in the workforce...why should she? Right? ALl she must think about according to you is TAKING IT FROM THE BACK. All that "intelligentsia" she has is too "proud" as CHIKA's BOSS put it..

This is why you are representative of the rotting nigerian man and his complex.

eziza: Yea, yea, the Gay Agenda comment was just to say I doubt your gender because there are a lot of confused souls running around claiming to be men when they are not but that was neither here nor there. However, I can see you have allowed your imagination to run wild by coming up with more conjectures that has nothing to do with my response.

All I did was:

- Probe Chika Oduah’s story which I believe anyone should be allowed to do, and I personally believe that it is fake.
- I went on advise her on how she should value herself by only giving it to someone who is worthy and not jobless nigguhs whose only work is to f*ck all day.

But you somehow concluded that I want to “display dominance” from the above?

Then you claim you do not have a “misogynistic view of women” although you inherently believe as a man, you should dominate your environ. And a man’s environ does not include women? How is that not a contradiction?

And also, why should I read a book on the "path to manhood" when I am already a man? I guess you can see why I doubt your gender. You are the one who needs the path to manhood not me.



No, but I’m assuming she’d like it from the back like most women would. Or do you know her preference? And why should I shut my imagination when Chika Oduah could freely write about hers and you have allowed yours to run wild by coming up with r@pe scenarios, sleeping with house helps and 12 year olds. Are those the types you love to indulge in?




But you have already limited my preference to "low brow easy women", so that means I do not fancy everything in skirts. And I never said sex is difficult to get, after all it didn't take much for Chika Oduah to go "hang out" with her boss. And only God knows what she hung on while taking that bulala. Lawd have mercy! : )

thank you! lol

they haven't solved the ruckus in the house of assembly they are chasing broke guys talking about disappearing organs

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LMAO.. Nigerians smh


Poverty and joblessness is a bad thing

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The guy from how I met your mother that sleeps with all the women on screen is openly gay . That's a flawed logic

Henry praise: Little wonder dia were little or no intimate scene btwn him n sarah in prison break. Chai!!!

maybe

thoth: if writing MAY in capital letters does not give it enough empahsis then i don't know how else to put it...maybe it is just my Nigerianess at it again.

I see the type of person I am talking to.

FYI: It does. MEN do not sleep with everything running around in a skirt. You are the type to sleep with the help, or a 12 year old and claim - she has a pu-ssy. Sleeping around DOES not make you a man - at all. Sex is easy to get, way too easy.

eziza: And even if your conclusion is true, it wouldn't make me less of a man.




So how do you know she did not sleep with him? Were you there when it all went down? And no, all female employees do not want to sleep with their boss neither do all bosses want to sleep with their female employees. However, I do believe Chika Oduah took some nuts on her face consensually. From the boss that is.

Classic. Throw the gay joke once a guy doesn't want to stick his d1ck in everything. That I have class, decorum and CHOOSE who gets to sit on my D1ck doesn't = less man. Males stick their d1cks anywhere, MEN are selective. So if I said, YES let's r@pe Chika and every girl in the office wants to be f-ckd then I will be cheered on as a man? See how retarded your thinking is?

Try
The Book of Man: Readings on the Path to Manhood by William J Bennett

I did not contradict myself - A man should be STRONG, DOMINANT (of MY environ), CONFIDENT and IN CHARGE (of HIMSELF, his Actions, etc)

vs

A misogynistic view - a MALE who wants to be IN CHARGE (of everything and everyone around him) to this one DOMINANCE of EVERYONE is his way of spearheading. These are the guys that WANT to be SEEN as in charge, with all the posses.. This sounds like what you want to be or your IDEAL. This is the majority of Nigerian men. Unfortunately


When was the last time you saw Obama TRYING to be/to be seen as DOMINANT, or even "dominating" a conversation? YET he is indeed DOMINANT, he gives the AURA of Confidence, Power, Dominance and Strength, THAT is a man.

Clear?

Chika told YOU that she took it from the back? She didn't? I guess then you would do best to shut up and shut your imagination along with it.

eziza: Well, the Gay Agenda and all sorts of backward behaviours are thriving in the West. And who knows, you may be one of those confused lot who believe they are females trapped in a male's body and are fighting desperately so that they will be able to use the female restrooms like other naturally born females so that you can be sitting down to take a piss instead of standing up like a man.





Go tell that to the feminist and they will call you a misogynist. I can see you are contradicting yourself and you don't know where you stand especially with women. My dear, go use the women's restroom and call it a day.



Why would the police assume that without an investigation, and to hear the other side of the story? But you no see you now, even in Nigeria such cases are dealt with at least to hear both sides of the story and this was supposed to happen in the good ol' US of A where women can file sexual harassment cases so easily and the cases are taken seriously and not swept under the carpet. But your Chika Oduah could not report it after she believed she was sexually harassed? But could find solace in a blog? Why? Is it because she is a Nigerian woman who loves taking it with a smile from their pure Nigerian men? Taking it from the back that is! : )

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Stegomiah: Comment with the number that best illustares your sleeping style/position.

Waiting for all the homophobic idiots

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I am and unfortunately for you I don't have to have a Pig misogynistic view of women. They love me naturally, I love them. So why do I need to "want to display dominance" I am a man, I should naturally be dominant and just be confident and in charge. Males who want to show "manhood' are insecure weaklings, which unfortunately a bulk of Nigerian men fall into, the same friend I know accused me of "loving confident girls" he says confident girls tend to have an opinion of their own and that he'd rather have a wife he can tell to sit and do things and she will obey. I asked him to get a slave rather than a wife.

If she reported to the police they reason like you. They will also tell her that she must be lying and that she must have wanted to sleep with him. Why don't all guys get it? A girl can smile at you and not be even remotely attracted to you. Am I wrong ladies?

eziza: So if Chika Oduah actually believed she was sexually harassed, why didn't she report the case to the police instead of blogging about it? The whole story is a figment of her imagination and I doubt ozoemeka is male.

The nigerian male approach to women is disgusting.

Even here, once I had a nigerian friend, we were talking about Lil Wayne sleeping with a 15 year old and his answer shocked life out of me. He said
" 9ussy na 9ussy, if the girl come open for you you dey tell me you no go gree, abeg if she look like she old pass am and she no talk about am I go knack"

I was 19 btw and this guy was 27.

I understand what you mean by the pure ones, rotflmao, those 'thoroughbreds' that even if they travel overseas you can still smell the stench on them.

LOL Yes, those OVERTYPICAL "nigerian guys" like chill with your Nigerianness...lol.

MAY...... ACT LIKE A NIGERIAN

You forgot to emphasize that. Besides Obama was raised by a white woman? Have you noticed oBama acting "Black" or should I say "Kenyan". I'm waiting for your very erudite reply

thoth: Shame , you know when i read your post i know you are probably suffering from a serious complex, i deliberately added number 3 as a trap and you fell for it. so 3 MAY act like one just because he was raised by a white woman ?
I think you and chika should marry some white man and leave us and our mothers who could not raise us well alone. nobody will really notice.

I like how you hop around looking for who to enlighten, shockingly enough JESUS didn't even run around looking for who to "throw light" on

Anyway, you do know that Homosexuality predates to Africa right? Or you are going to ignore that FACT?

donedy: You know what, I think you just shot yourself in the foot. You floored all your argument. For the first bolded sentence, are you really sure that nobody in Europe will want to practice polygamy. You mean to tell me that million of muslims women, and christians in Europe gives a damn about their husband marrying more than one wives. Please don't debate me if all you have is fallacies. Also, based on your argument, why would Nigeria legalize something that 99.9% of its citizen despise?

Secondly, go and ask all these women in the North, villages,if they care about their husbands having more than one wife. Also, ask most of these educated women that are in a polygamous union with politicians like OBJ, Atiku, e.t.c. How about your popular actress Funke Akindele?

I'm not debating with you because all your logic are based on dogma and delusion. I'm only trying to enlighten you.

Oh not at all. In fact I will be VERY GLAD TO get an educated response in opposition. All i Seem to read are sentimental tantrums. I am very eager to hear a LOGICAL opposition. There are supportive people who are stupid about it as well.

Uyi Iredia: Would you mind an educated response opposed to homo$€xuality or are all educated responses on this issue supportive of gays ?

thank you for the civilized post. My sentiments. I don't despise homosexuals. I am not a part of their lifestyle either. However some simps believe you should throw stones like barbarians

ladenz: initially i didnt want to comment but i cant hold back anymore. Like majority of the people in this thread i dont support homosexuality. but at the same time i do not despise homosexuals. i lived in Europe for 3 years and i learnt to distinguish the individual with homosexual tendencies from his/her actions. This does not remove from the fact that it is very very unnatural and very wrong. the guys defending homosexuality in this thread are very intelligent and those hurling insults at them are only making them look like heroes. i met homosexuals who had those tendencies but realized that it was unnatural and sought for help. some have been able to overcome it. it is scary that we start accepting these things just because many people have the tendencies. In Europe today, marriage is becoming non existent because people started accepting that its normal for spouses to be unfaithful to each other. it slowly became the in thing and now most dont see any reason to get married in the first place. the result is many children who are not privileged to grow up with a father and mother and dont have that sense of belonging to a real normal family.

so many other societal problems could be accepted as normal because many people are inclined to such acts; drug addiction, alcoholism, extreme violence. people still fight against such because the danger of accepting it is more obvious. it is the more subtle ones like homosexualism that people are tempted to just look the other way. i attended a seminar in Europe where a young teacher tried to show parents how many of his teenage pupils were beginning to see sexual relationships with their brothers and sisters as something normal because of a popularly TV show in which this was presented as a normal thing. the parents didnt believe it until they started hearing with shock what their kids were saying. in the next 50 years some people will be pushing for us to accept marriage amongst brothers and sisters as a natural thing because they simply feel those attractions to each other and are not attracted to other people outside their family

lastly for those who keep on saying that those who have sinned should stop condemning, i want to say that if everyone was to keep quiet because he is a sinner then the world is in trouble. we all have to help each other. i have my weaknesses and i have learnt a lot from those who have openly professed themselves to be gay. at the same time i believe that they also have weaknesses and i can help them. i wont keep quiet because i am a sinner.



throw the first stone

Far from it silly. I am an EDUCATED BLACK MAN. Unlike you, I don't wallow in sentiments, I separate them from Logical arguments. I may not "like" Politician X but that doesn't mean if X has very SOUND and LOGICAL proposals I should overlook them or simply, in your case, ignore them because I "FEEL" that the other one "should be right"

Mr. How many of your Nigerian senators are educated? I'm waiting till I hear the crickets
If we actually go by your standard - with full support of Nigerians - that will be your demise.

You see according to the World Bank index of Economic development (Google it I know you don't know what that is), the IMF and the OECD (did you know what either of those did?) the top 5 developed countries actually are proponents of marriage equality. Countries like Nigeria (with your "full support" and all) rank abysmally on the bottom portion. Make your inference. (Google that definition of "Inference"

A word of enlightenment from who? You? Please, you are not even a graduate of a bottom tier school, and you want to give an Ivy a word of enlightenment? You could use some of that "light". Did your bible not instruct you to clear the log of wood out of your own eye? Apply that enlightenment and BRIGHTEN your future FIRST, before you start looking for who to "enlighten".

donedy: In fact, you should be deemed an enemy of the state on the ground of ignorance and excessive display of foolishness.

THIS, might just be the epic of your foolery. Seriously, do you even know what an "enemy of state" is? I can't even answer that, you just displayed your unearthly disdainful reasoning. Apologetic.

Start by reading a Book, Perhaps you could start with this

Good Natured. The Origins of Right and Wrong in Humans and other Animals, London, Harvard University Press. by FBM De Waal

It is voluminous so you might need an actual "scholar" (not your pseudo-scholastic attitude) to help dissipate what EXACTLY the book is saying.


When you have READ UP, then try again.

donedy: I can deduce from response to people that you're deluded black man that needs help. I'm not saying I'm the best cure your stupidity, but I'm quite sure that a word of enlightenment from me wouldn't hurt.

A black man who now think he's wiser than the Nigerian senators and representative that voted overwhelmingly for the anti-gay bill, with full Nigerians support. In fact, you should be deemed an enemy of the state on the ground of ignorance and excessive display of foolishness.

Smh FYI ret@rd, I am not gay.

1. In between caps are to clarify words that your simple mind seems to wander over.
2. Again your simple soul makes you think that once someone argues in opposition to a topic they must be a "PART" of the other. SMH

So I think America is corrupt, means i AUTOMATICALLY have a "perversion" for justice right?

That is too complex for you to break down so let me bring it to simplistic terms for your simple mind to grasp.

Say John likes Bread and Peter likes Donuts, Peter then says that his DONUT is the right food to like whereas bread is WRONG because XYZ. So if Paul says that XYZ is not "sufficient, SOUND and LOGICAL" reasoning why Bread is wrong so Paul MUST like Bread right? Ah, I see, the myopic reasoning you have. Try stepping outside of your locality, borrow a book from the library, read and inform yourself. That Wole Soyinka spoke ill of Nigeria on the local level did not MEAN he was a PART of the "other side" of the international community, matter of fact he defended nigeria at the international level. YET when Nigerians were stupid, or thought it simplistic terms (like you are doing now) he rebuked them and stirred them towards knowledge. You would do yourself good to acquire WISDOM. I mean try knowledge first then seek wisdom.

donedy: I would have responded to your post again to share more enlightenment to your deluded soul, but I couldn't because I'm not yet in the mood to stress myself analyzing those random characters you called sentences. Please learn to type coherently. You should be using uppercase, lowercase, in between sentence. It's shows how much you're lacking.

All the examples I provided to you are valid based on your initial comparison, you're just too daft to see the similarities because your sexual perversion for other men anus has induced that homosexual dogma.

[size=13pt]This is an example of an EDUCATED response.[/size] I am straight too and these guys here just don't seem to know how to reason.I think any guy who feels threatened by a gay guy and want s to "beat him" etc is dealing with underlying sexuality issues,

Jayeris: "Let the one that is without sin cast the first stone"

Most of you here bashing and judging people negatively based on their sexuality are guilty of one sin or the other. You have no right to judge anybody!

Nigerians pretend a lot. To be frank, i even admire these gay guys that have come out openly to admit their sexual orientation. It just shows how real they are. It also lends credence to the fact that we Nigerians are too close-minded. Stone age thinking! A sin is a sin, whether its lying, masturbation, fornication, etc.

Let the one that is without sin cast the first stone. Mind you, i am straight.

Man, come on do better, REASON. Have you NOT heard of gay men SLEEPING with women? Was Kerry Rhodes not dating women, likewise Ricky Martin etc? SOME GAY MEN SLEEP WITH WOMEN AS WELL. RESEARCH! You know one thing I've noticed. It's the high school degree holders and local college grads that tend to type like you and put all their sentiments in - God go punish you, nyansh, dead - while the educated ones I've seen tend to have the most mellow reasonable responses lie _ I don't support it but if it's their choice then whatever.

Education is key. IT is SENTIMENTS like these that control the mob when they killed the ALUU4, because if those people REASONED, they would think of the repercussions of their actions and ASK themselves if they were HOLIER than the "thieves" nigerians LOVE to point out people's sins, ALWAYS forgetting THEY ARE WORSE SINNERS

In this whole gay debate I may not be on the side of the fence but I am WAITING to see someone who can LOGICALLY dissuade me, all this sentimental God go punish you etc IS barbaric.

Jomark: I was just simpathizing with you cuz you are dead... I mean walking dead... All gays are dead! I don't know how you guys think.. You should ask yourselves if your fathers were gay would they have given birth to you? FOOLS! If gay is the best form of mating why do they later adopt a child-- a child brought into this world by non gay parents-- straight parents. FOOlish devils!!!

IT is NOT 14 years in Nigeria, that 14 years law is a PROPOSED law, it has NOT been Passed yet BECAUSE Nigerians don't have the balls to stick to what they "believe"

Jomark: So you be gay? I pity u cos if we catch you here eh! You know na... 14 years that's if boys no kill you before police arrives

Are YOU godly? Or are you just Good at pointing out the "ungodly" like the pharisees?


JESUS, the only sinless man in the world said to the ADULTRESS, Neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more. Talk less of you, who I am sure has sinned A LOT. How DARE you point out who is ungodly?

adebayd: Homosexuality is ungodly,but if you are one, kindly list out the usefulness.

Learn English next time before you try to come at me.

1. I am justifying a "gay tendency" ? Show me ONE LINE where I said I support gays.. Can you? NO. because you reason with your @ss rather than your head. I DO NOT SUPPORT STUPIDITY PERIOD. REGARDLESS OF THE SHAPE AND FORM

Did you listen to yourself before you typed? How on earth does comparing an Asian being a Nigerian President to a Gay man? REMEMBER retard , that a gay man can be white, black, nigerian, green, yellow, asian, indian etc.

And YES if the asian man is a CITIZEN of NIGERIA he CAN be the President

Explain then to me how my points "damaged" my arguments. I'm waiting, this time around write coherently and at least ask a friend to read your typos.
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donedy: You're a f.o.o.l for using slavery to justify your stupid gay tendency. Were all black slaves? To say the least, slavery is worst in other region of the world prior to the trans-atlantic slavery. So all Jews are descendents of slaves, fool.

Of course, those are normal things we human say. If I may ask, can an Asian be president of Nigeria, even if he met all the requirement?

All those points you listed did much damage than advance your argument.

1. History has it that Women who spoke back to their husbands were termed mentally ill, it was diagnosed as "Women Hysteria" and the dilddo you know was once a medical equipment. If she was good at math she was a witch and burned at the stake. History also has it that Black Slaves who ran away must be mentally ill to not want a master and protector, it was diagnosed as Drapetomania.

2. Animals exhibit homosexuality from insects to penguins, dolphins, dogs, giraffes and even plants.

3. Likewise before it was said a Black man could not be president.

4. Some women can not procreate

5. People used the bible to justify slavery (Ephesians 6:5. Colossians 3:22, 1Peter 2:18 ) So are all black people 'guilty' of disobeying this law?

emmysenior: Na wao... I won't judge, but come to think of it, I think this gay stuff isn't good at all...

Me thinks, that most people are initiated into it and that people started doing it as a result of unavailability of men/women around them for a long time and they later became addicted to doing their fellows...

Reasons why I think it's a bad omen are:

1. History has it that, it was termed as a brain disorder in 1873.

2. Even God's creatures are all made in twos.

3. A gay can never be a president.

4. They can never procreate.

5. Even the bible kicked against it. (Sodom and Gormorah)

So people can know that gay people are not all flamboyant queens

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Has someone killed him yet? Someone should murder this boy mercilessly and let his blood drain.

The_King'sQueen:
Coxson Lelebori Lucky, alias ‘Bright’ is the name of the Aluu4 debtor who borrowed money from one of the late Uniport guys. He was the person who equally raised the false alarm that the victims were armed robbers. Pls anybody that comes across anyone bearing that name or nickname should quickly alert relevant authorities.

1, 4 now behaviorally 2, 3* may act like one

thoth: there are 6 Nigerians , all 6 of them are 45 years old, can you tell us which one is a pure Nigerian according to your definition.


1: Born in Nigeria,left Nigeria before 18 years to USA.
2: Born in USA , left USA before 18 to Nigeria.
3:Born in Nigeria and raised in Nigeria, Mother is a white British woman.
4:Born in Nigeria, left Nigeria after 18 years.
5:Born in Cameroun and raised in Cameroun.
6;Born in USA and left USA for Nigeria after 18 years.