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Most advice I read here are good.. You are not alone in this situation...most people are though to certain extent. I myself have decided to stop being angry at people no matter who is wrong or right this year,its emotional exhausting for me....its not easy to follow but I hope to go through with it.
I discover also a trigger to my anger issue is expecting someone to treat me good the way I would treat them. So it really pisses me to find out one could hurt me this way when I can't even think of hurting you that way....then l lash out to the person but the funny thing about pouring out my hurt angrily is being remorse after I'm calm no matter who was right or wrong,I would always tell myself I should have told this person about my grievance calmly.

People would always hurt you thats for sure,no one is perfect so stop expecting everyone would treat you good. I've had serious issues with my mum n siblings but do I cut them off? no ! lol. A friend once told me when I had issue with my sister that quarrels with family is like placing something in the armpit it will eventually fall off when u move or raise your hand.
Again have friends you can talk/chat with,when ever you are in a fix talk or chat them up,they will be able to tell u want to do before u use anger to ruin something.

If you keep malice this way ,you won't be able to relate to any human! you would still need people even those that may have hurt one day in life.

There are some wounds that are difficult to heal ,there are some issues you just forgive the person and move on with your life .

Get trusted friends to talk to when you about loosing it. We all need that in our lives.

amzzykeks:
The Infinix Note 5 is outstanding and I'm totally loving mine.

how much did u get yours?

Billyonaire:
Always remember, you were born alone, and you will die alone and will be buried alone. So your journey will be lonely. Learn that loneliness now and know your heaven before you vacate the planet. Reincarnation is a trapping of the soul and Earth Life is an opportunity to carry your cross, raise your frequencies beyond the levels of the lower Astral Plane and mental planes to the worlds of pure spirits and the uncreated reality, the Home of Source.

is it possible for a child to be born on earth without have reincarnated from someone that have lived before.....cos it's like almost every is reincarnated from someone else.

I learnt a lot from your topics in nairaland........like it makes you want to read and research more, ask yourself questions about life itself......Anyways we would miss you. wish there is another way to still reach you or read your articles. Your topics on nairaland is even bookmarked in my browser....i wonder how I would those stuff again once u deactivate.

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Use another measure order than sacking to punish them and not sacking them because of 500.....if you feel cautioning them and letting the matter die of isn't comfortable for you deduct some money from their take home pay if that will bring you happiness and peace of mind.

I'm not siding your employees but I need to ask this, do you treat them right?

This is so sick! This man must be mad.

please house, my c8 charger got burnt due to high voltage.....other chargers I've used are too slow...it takes like 7 to 10min before 1% enters. Which other charger can I use that is faster?

rawpadgin:
u just insulted me without saying anything reasonable

I wanted to hit back @ u but on a second thought, u ain't worth it

do have a horrible evening

Horrible evening ke? No my dear I had a great evening on that particular day. And for starters, I never threw insults at you.... You are just being too petty. Telling me your age will go a long way for me to understand where you are coming from. If you are under 25 and you are whining this way then I'll only smh for you..... Why go through my phone cos you bought it for me?? Haba ! If you are above 29 and you are bringing this petty issue here then you deserve a knock on your head! This generation sef.... Wey u suppose to de hussle for money and how to be better you de form lovesick calf for woman matter lol.

Please take a decision and stand by it.....you don't know that this 'control freak' attitude drives women faster than cheating sef.

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You are a big baby and too petty... This doesn't even require posting in the first place, take a decision, stand by it and stop whining. Again you complaining about not touching the phone you bought for her is childish!! How old are you again

This really cracked me up big time! Imagining the questions the police would ask him makes me laugh even harder!

Immediately I saw dead palm tree', I knew what you were going to show us. It's hard to chew anyway.

How do I save videos,apps, musics....to my memory card?cos it keeps saving in my phone storage...even after setting the default memory to 'SD card'.

What is the best data plan to use
on my c8? Someone shared 1gig for me on Sunday but what's remaining as at today is 300 mb. I just want to know other cheap plan other c8 users use that the gig is high too.

Again what other tips should I have in mind while using android in order to save data?

Person go take expired weed come begin de yarn rubbish! Guy go pour cold water for body.

Back then in primary school, we called it 'condess' ! Lol

Same here! Today makes it a week yet I've been calling customer care yet the issue still lingers. I'm even tired of reporting the issue sef! I don't even know what step to take....

Jayjay0:
Even ugly ass girls that have never been approached in their lifetime will still come here and lie...

Well

No matter how ugly a girl,she would still have chykers! You should have known that!

Ulunne. Many are named Ulumma like my sister.

Ok first of all I want to commend you for being faithful ,caring and loving to you lady...most guys don't possess these attributes. You know her very well more than any one here giving you ill advice to dump her. Get to see her first,give her a listening ear...then you can make your decisions. Left for me I won't ask u to quit now,if it happens again and you are of full conviction to let her go...then do it.

Ha...if I be the girlfriend walahi we go dey use the balm together..lol.. See talk. If you know and trust your man I don't think you should panic ....I think this is trivial issue..the girlfriend should channel her energy to more productive stuff than a lip balm issue,or just ask her guy to throw away the damn lip balm and not acting like a drama queen.

....and he was the only child of his parents.