harkindele: The truth is dat, m nt sure about how marketable or lucrative my course of study is because hv seen only few people carrying d certificate as a first degree course.
I am a Project management technology student (300L) in one of the Fed Uni of Technology in Nigeria. Am I heading d right direction? Or I still got lots of work to do?

comon! My sis offerd dat course in futo and nw she is wrkn in a multi national company. Dats a big cours if u dnt knw it. Wit PMT u can wrk in an auditing firms,oil companies,banks,construction companies, etc

harkindele: The truth is dat, m nt sure about how marketable or lucrative my course of study is because hv seen only few people carrying d certificate as a first degree course.
I am a Project management technology student (300L) in one of the Fed Uni of Technology in Nigeria. Am I heading d right direction? Or I still got lots of work to do?

comon! My sis offerd dat course in futo and nw she is wrkn in a multi national company. Dats a big cours if u dnt knw it.

ohaleoghene: Some engineers don't even have job . Abegi , no be naija again ? U gat ready to walk and walk before getting a job . Graduate plenty pass available jobs . My lecturer back then said if anyone thinks getting a degree will fetch him or her good money , then he is a joker! I can never allow my child go study computer science , because someone who went to computer sch will be better off . When I was a student ,the old desktop made available for student is not even enough to go round a class of fiften , let alone a class of 200 . Nigerian university na wash ! My friend travelled abroad to school , he curse everyday that had he known , he wouldn't have wasted four good years in Nigerian all in the name of paper degree which when he got to Canada , he discovered that he was been taught nonsense all the while . Old syllabus. The best is , get education for the worth of it , not for the sake of making money .

you are so much correct. In naija 2day, so much emphasis is laid on jst d paper(qualifications) thereby leavin out d knowledge, competency an individual has gotten. Acquirin knowledge has two sides; 1. Acquirin knowledge for knowledge sake, and 2. Acquirin knowledge for its usefulnes. In our contemporary society, naija in particular education is measured on wat it can pay or offer,thereby judgin sum courses irrelevant 2 d outside wrld. I dnt buy d idea of most of d majors d OP brougt forth. I knw of ppl dat stdyd philosophy n ar wrkn in banks,ministries,embassies,oil companies,multi national firms,lecturin etc.

Honestly have seen sum gals who ar in ur shoes. In d society 2day, u av 2 knw dat sum men luk 4 d big ladies nt because of genuine luv bt jst 4 bedrum, mayb because of enormous busty nature of d gal. When i say sum i mean sum men nt al men. There sum dat ar genuine. The tin is dat, these men sense d insecurities and low self esteem of ds big ladies quicker than any oda tin, so they use dat to their advantage. Bt 1st of u wil av 2 wrk on ur tnkn nt even ur bdy, cos no mata d lng hrs u stay at d gym, wtout d rite tnkn its al jst gonna b a waste of tym. i tel u dat weneva u tnk d problem is out there, stop that thought because dat thought is d problem itself. Fat or no fat lady, u atract both genuine n ingenuine guys dats 4 sure bt u av 2 change d way u see urslf. For dat guy in d relatnshp u ar talkn abou, i tnk u wil av 2 mak a stand. Demand 2 knw wat he wants in d relatnshp. I knw he mite want 2 use sweet words 2 atract u 2 him. Bt u wil av 2 luk pass mere words. What ar his actions sayin,his character, and his bdy language weneva he tries 2 lure u wt those words. Researches av fotnd dat our bdy language reveals so much dan words. My dear dnt panic atal jst do d rite tins and d rite ppl wil come ur way.

Hi mst beutfl seun, i wud lik 2 get 2 knw u so dat we cud b more than frnds, i mean luvers. So babe can u give me ya numba so dat we cud date or even make luv 2ru d cold nite. OP i hope u won't say 'YES' to my advances?

D one tin abou our naija artistes n celebs is dat, they kip spendin lavishly on cars n houses, failin 2 hav even 1 reasonabl investment 2 their names. In times of adversity lik ill health,accidnts etc, they ar thrown off their feet, because they fail 2 invest.

Its obvious na dat naija hard wel wel. Ppl ar stl hussling a way 2 fnd 1.lol

U guys shud gv keshi breathn space joor. I remmbd wen past coaches wer calin foreign basd players 2d team, sum nigerians wer complainn y home basd players wer nt gvn d chanc. Nw keshi came in n he is tryn 2 incoporate bt home and foreign basd, we ar nw sayin he shud go bak n recal dose old legs. Abeg keshi has brought in a philosophy that i thnk wil b a major developmnt 4 d SE team. Wat he shud do nw is 2 map out a given list of dose he wants in d team, wrk and improve on his atack and defence line. If u guys noticd most of d wrk was done in d midfield. So i tnk ds is a period 4 him 2 focus on hw 2 improv on individual players tactics n skils.

smhw, one's lifestyle reveal the character of the person in question.

yea i mean a mohawk hairstyle

Swaggot00: komot here' See lie
OP would ve advice to stick to wat dis my nigga said but i think it all depends on maturity, i dont see how dating a gal wld affect ur studies or viceversa, if you are really spiritual,then stick to what your girl said but as i said earlier it all depends on maturity. I cant even recall the exact age i started 'boy n girl' thng but i knw i was quite young,at 14 was already dating a girl of 18, had s.ex wit my friends elder sis at d age of 19, the secret?? maturity

u cal ds maturity?

In my opinion, musa need 2 up hs game. He has d quick - run lik ronaldo, bale, robben e.t.c bt lack d tactcl initiativ 2knw wen 2mak dos runs in d pitch. Musa shud watch hw ronaldo conservs his energy n waits 4 d oportun tym 2 mak fast runs. He shud wrk on his croses too.
I thnk keshi shd bgn polishn hs team especialy hs atack force. A team lyk ds enyeama-ambrose,oboabona,omerou,echiejile-onazi,mikel,mba or ideye,moses,musa or ik uche, emenike. Ts team wil go places.

Hey! Guys, thinking about this for sometime now. What if you find yourself in the hospital for one treatment or the other, and you find out that the doctor on duty did a gallas hairstyle. I mean a weird - looking hairdo, will you prefer to go to him for consultation or you wait for another doctor?

paulshakur:

sorry boss, the mail i sent did not get delivered. guess the mail is incorrect, try sending another mail. below is the failure notice i got.

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However, The site of the school is www.registration.pgschool.ui.edu.ng if you want to do any registration, please be aware that you need to use internet explorer to fill in your details. mozilla firefox will give you problems and, it won't complete your registration.

so sory dat was a mistak in typin its tonyofordum101@yahoo.com ds is d corect email tnx.

Hvn probs 2 can u help sen d prospectus as pdf my email tonyofordum@yahoo.com tnx

Pls sum1 shud help, does UI PGD acept degree 4rm skuls affliatd 2 foreign skuls?

Haha! Mosquitoes are simply attracted 2 d waxy juice contained in the ears of men and women. Its jst so annoying when they make those buzzing sounds. But these days mosquitoes no longer make those sounds in the ear, they just quietly fly straight to their host's skin to bite and suck.

I understand that ur one desire nw is 2 get a husband 4 urself. But 2 b frank wit u, there are sum married women that are weeping and regreting on why they entered in2 marriage, wishing that they neva got married. Why am i saying this? It seems natural 4 guys and ladies especialy at ur age 2 bcome so obssesed and desperate in2 enterin marriage. Bt i tel u it wont work dat way.
What u hav 2 d first of al is 2 wrk on urself,ur character,personality, etc. If u ar truly lukn 4 a husband 2luv u, u hav 2 make urself luvabl. Do away wit any traits of personality dat may repel ppl away 4rm u. Hw do u present urself in d public? Ur bodylanguage also matas alot and ur dresin. In all, b nice and friendly and u wil draw guys 2urself, where u can nw make a choice. Bt dnt mak urself to seem too needy and desperate. Relax,be calm, live a healthy life, attend responsible social gatherings nt d crazy bar,niteclubs etc.
And lastly, check ur opinion on wo d ideal man is 2u, no man is perfect. Anyway wish u luck!

If u av a personal relationshp wit God, then why are u so obsessed wit d faith of d Catholics. Occupy urself wit u and ur God and stop meddling.

Comon! Gal dry ur tears and move on wit ur lyf. Hw do u want 2 eva cope wit both ur enterin school and crazy relationships lyk ds. U beta make a choice.

Pls Tell me what faith do u belong 2? If u do belong 2 any faith, dn't they use candles 2 pray? Also,d pulpit ur church leaders use to preach d word of God, wil u tel me those church leaders and the ppl worship d pulpit or d candles too? Ciao!

Look at it this way, most single guys will want a beautiful girl just for a short-term relationship not minding if the girl is so dull in the brain. But a guy in entering into marriage will look for a girl with intelligence, so as to help in the running of the affairs of the family.

I remember vividly those things we were taught during those times in our social studies classes. One of those things was the different roles played by members of the family. The father we know is the head and breadwinner of the family; the mother being the manager of the household welfare. But I have observed of late that wives are now acting as breadwinners in the family. There are families I have seen that the women are the ones paying the house rent, providing for the feeding and also in charge of making sure the children school fees were paid. Meanwhile the husbands are the ones washing the children's clothes, and also cooking for the family.

I really want to know your say on this issue because it is something I think that is becoming so rampant. It looks like we are approaching a time in history when women are taking the roles of husbands. It seems to be that wives are relieving men of the curse placed on them at the garden of Eden. What do you really say on this issue.

There is something that has always lingered in my mind, concerning the two separate species of humans; men and women. This has always overwhelmed me looking at their thought patterns and the way they experience the world at large. These two will I say are made differently the same, in a sublime and unique way.

In the creation story, it is said that God fashioned woman using one of the rib bones of Adam. Thereby making Adam to say thus 'At last, here is one of my own kind - bone taken from my bone, and flesh from my flesh'. So it was said that 'woman' was her name because she was taken out of man. This historical experience paved the two paths in which these mysterious of all beings now tread.

In our contemporary society, men are continually bewildered at the way women think. They see themselves always longing to know what women want of them. Women are not left out of this because they themselves are searching for answers as to how and why men usually behave in some certain ways. I have encountered so many women that complain bitterly about their partners in a relationship. They feel sad and so much unfulfilled about the whole situation that they look for where to pour out their frustrations. This I think has been one of the causes of extra-marital affairs, unfaithfulness in a relationship and promiscuity that is now pervasive in our society. A lady I once spoke with, complained that her fiance do not listen to her.

'Whenever I talk to him it seems to me like he does'nt listen. I feel as though my feelings are not validated enough'. Wiping out the tears trickling down from her cheek as she narrated this to me. Some women in a relationship are not happy with their husbands because they feel that their husbands do not care about how they feel. Whenever some of these women try to voice out the little problems affecting the relationship, it only results to making the man withdraw and becoming totally defensive. Thereby relegating the woman to becoming more frustrated than ever. Also men complain about how the women are not tired of talking and how they are so filled with rage whenever their wives voice out their complaints in a relationship. These have been the unending stories that permeates so many relationships that at first seemed cosy and rosy, but later on resulted into minor disagreements, quarrels, and at last the couple going their separate ways.


As I was making research about men and women, I came in contact with a theme that I think most of us will find interesting and also what we fail to realise. Something that really points at the true face of reality. That is 'Men are from mars, women are from Venus'. Yes! This is what we all must come to understand. You may see it as men and women coming from two of the nine or eight planets we have in the universe, another person may see it the other way, but it's all about relative perspectives. The one single messsage here is that men and women are made differently the same in all ramification. I mean their approach towards life, the way they think, feel, express emotions are totally different. It is something good to have this knowledge prior to entering any relationship whatsoever, so as to have the needed emotional competence to be able to handle any setbacks in a relationship.
Men are what I call aliens from mars, while women are also aliens from venus who are constantly in a search to know the other. This is so evident even in the psychological development and growth of boys and girls during childhood. Goleman pointed out that boys are threatened by anything that might challenge their independence, while girls are more threatened by a rupture in their relationship. Boys at a certain age in life feel the need to be independent, they are always wanting to solve their problems by themselves that they feel bad if someone tries to help. Girls feel the need for communion and intimacy that whenever they face a problem, they need friends to help talk things over with. That is why women talk more when they are sad or upset while men withdraw to themselves in order to be able to tackle that problem by themselves.


A research about the two emotional life of both boys and girls revealed a picture of the way boys in a primary school related with themselves and also how girls related with themselves. Boys while playing football may not hesitate to keep playing if one of them looks partially bruised. But girls may stop to try to show compassion and sympathy on a wounded playmate of theirs.
There is really much to put down concerning men and women and how they think and feel. But there is still something about why men are from mars women are from venus. For women, intimacy means talking things over, especially talking about the relationship itself. Women are endowed with rich emotional competence. This enables them into trying to make things work in a relationship. They are the emotional manager men should not fail to acknowledge. To be continued...