EreluRoz:
You will only marry and settle with one but keep numerous girlfriends. I knew you were a womanizer sef.

A polygamous man looking for a rich woman kikikikiki, you are not ready.

My women all have different racial backgrounds. Can you beat that? I have a rainbow family.

About money, I don't need it. The government takes care of all of us.

Na me say make you be Nigerian wey your government no send you?

EreluRoz:
Polygamy that you will never venture into but keeps fuelling it online. This is polygamy below hope you are ready for the unending fights that comes with it.

See you. I have more than one partner, so you know

I also no mind recruit you join, but you must have money.

This is one good aspect of polygamy. It cures issues like this lol

Try to bring your woman to Canada to live with you, or relocate to be with her, in any case, just be together physically.

The idea that a man can get over dirty sexual addictions without a woman is tough. Just like food cures hunger, a woman that you both love each other will go a long way in helping you stop it.

The reason why you don't see many women doing this stuff is because they control sex. Every woman can get sex. Attractive men don't fall into this either because they have women everywhere.

No fap, semen retention, being born again, or undergoing deliverance won't help you. If it were, you wouldn't be here again after many years of struggles.

If you are having real sex from a woman who desires you, and you empty your balls often, the urge to go spend money on some internet prostitute will be appalling.

The secret also is to be attracted to your woman. She should be your type or the proverbial spec. It would help if you found her attractive, it would help you a lot.

Just as men save women, women make men better. For example, a man marrying a slut has taken away her shame, that's how men save women. And women make men better by giving him love, and in your case, tame their lust and save you from exploitation by other women.

AmericanIdiot:


They are sha overpopulated
That’s a big problem
Go and see what is happening in Lagos
Almost unlivable 🤮

This man,

I didn't mention Lagos here na. Why bringing Lagos? No make me vex o

My hobby is breaking bottles on people's head

AmericanIdiot:


So, what you’re saying is Lagos Nigeria is supposed to be on that list?
Lagos is one of the WORST cities on earth
I speak as a FIRSTHAND survivor I blazed Lagos for over 20 years❗️❗️❗️
Carry it anywhere

I'm saying that the world is a vast place. All the countries in the list are mostly western.

Lots of Chinese cities are way way better.

EreluRoz:
😆 didn't you say we should learn to choose our poison in most of your write-up? He should accept his poison and live with it. There's no perfect person anywhere

Not the same thing o.

Choosing your poison are in situations that are irreconcilable. This one is a behavioral and foundational issue that can be resolved but the babe no send.

Relationship is very easy, just do it with someone that equally wants you.

It baffles me how your masculinity could tolerate her madness for long, to a point she grew wings and assured you'll always crawled back.

Being a man means you're so capable of extreme degree of evil and pettiness, and your kindness is an action, not the default.

Women like your babe are smart sha. They go for men they can do this nonsense with.

So after this her dirty behavior, you want to take her to the alter and tell God that from all the women in this world, she is the good things that you found?

You get mind o

EreluRoz:
It's not green anywhere please manage her like that afterall you'll still cheat on her after marriage.

Wey my bottle sef

Women find it hard to respect men that are closer to them in age. If you're also the same height or/and she is plus size, the worse for you.

When women say they want tall and muscular men, they mean it. They want to feel small, and you must honor that wish.

She has probably dated, nacked, and rolled with men way older and smoother than you. You're an appendix or last resort. She no rate you, even though you want comot her from the street

Better leave her and find someone younger, let the older men with thick beards match up with her. At your age, any lady above 25 years is old.

People who don't have responsibility are more likely to be idiots. Responsibility sharpens and brings out good behavior from people.

He probably haven't worked for money before or has people he caters for, so your frugality is seen as selfishness.

You'll notice that a major source of unhappiness in your life will be trying to please people.

If your cousin can have such thoughts about you, then he has destroyed the connection between you both.

Have you chased him out?

Men's reality lol, welcome.

Even the babe would have dump lots of guys for being short. But as usual, humans always give what they can't take.

Sorry

AmericanIdiot:



But those cities are overpopulated
An overpopulated city can NEVER be livable
It doesn’t matter how beautiful or advanced the city is once it’s overpopulated it’s automatically disqualified

Who cares about you see it?

I don't expect any measurement by western Institutions to be fair.

madridguy:
It's so disheartening no Africa country made the list.

Anyone who has been to Shanghai or Shenzhen knows the list is biased. These Chinese cities make the above list look like a ghetto.

Now go to youtube, search for Shanghai 2024, watch the videos, and come back to tell me that those western cities come close.

eneazi:
My bad I should have added that as a number "eleven"

A man can be good to a woman like jesus, basically be everything she wants in a man. But most women will ignore him if they don't find him attractive.

I don't think women are sincere when they said they want good men.

Try to be handsome sha. That's all I can say.

It will make many of the above rule not working against you, and your shortcomings can be ignored easily.

Three industries that will always thrive no matter how poor a society is.

1. Get rich quick scheme e.g Gambling, pyramid schemes.

2. False hope to success e.g churches,

3. Sex industry (the largest of them all).

lavylilly:
Would you like to join a Singles WhatsApp channel group?

Yes o, I want to join. Send me a link.

The lavish spending.

I can understand if you're spending lavishly on a ten, twenty, thirty years anniversary. A time frame where couples have proven the worth of their commitment and overcame challenges.

But for a marriage that just get started and haven't withstood the test of time, lavish spendings are is unnecessary.

Gerrard59:

I think the issue is the overload of rules these days. However, I see video calls from someone I met and interacted with for the first time two days ago as a breach of privacy.

It is.

I'm only saying that if she finds him attractive from the onset, she will not permanently ignore him because of that.

At best she will control the pace by chatting until she is comfortable for video.

Magnoliaa:
Infact, here is LIKELY where you fell out of grace.

She literally sent "hii." That was enthusiastic (real or fake) enough.


But if I greeted you like that, and the next thing you did is to call me on video, mo ma gbe e shepe ni.

If the girl is attracted to him, that single act of video calling will not make her ignore him. At least she will respond to chats.

Talking stage is not only about saying the right thing to a girl, it is about being the right guy. If video call is too early, what about those that nack each other same day? Lol

.

Once in a while I'll come across post online that says men don't chase women anymore, then I'll come to Nairaland and see post written by men who can be comparable to a goat. Lol

Oluromantic:

You dey mind the idiot? All this mental energy he's investing into getting women's attention, if he invest it in what will fetch him good money, it's women who would read books to get his attention. It's a no-ambition man that pursue women instead of financial bouyancy

Exactly.

If a man does what he has to do, he would not need these books. Men should become the best version of themselves, not buy books to privatize another human being.

6. Converting men's genuine desire for you as an invitation for exploitation. Or seeing a man not as someone to ally with into the future, but as a big bank to exploit for your vanities.

5. What makes you a high-value woman is not because you think so, declare so, speak big English, and wear expensive wigs, nails, eyelashes, and iPhones. Those things are all external.

Your value is judged by your character, being supportive, agreeable, a homemaker, not being combative, wanting to fight or manipulate, or thinking being cunning means being brave.

4. You are not ''settling'' because your preferred options do not want you or you can't find him. In reality, the man you think you settled for is the one settling for you, depending on your age, social status, and truckloads of baggage.

The reason why you think you are settling is because your man is kind enough not to point out the defect in you, and even cherish you despite it. The very defects that made the kinds of men you want to ignore you.

3. Confusing ''high taste'' with ''high standard''. If a high standard to you means attaching your broke self to a rich man, then you are materialistic, not the sweet name (high standard) you deceive yourself with.

Having a high standard is judged by your selection based on a man's character, amongst other things, not only the size, depth, and weight of his pocket.

2. I understand you want a provider man, but if you are not greedy and lazy, most men can provide for you. A provider doesn't have to provide at Dangote's level.

1. Knowing everything a man should do for her, but completely shocked to imagine that men have requirements too. Your ability to demand anything is based on your ability to give something.