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Someone is living in the land of delulu.

If the US is a so called superpower (super bully would have been a better name) with 300m people, how can China not be even in the next century with 25% of its population?

Especially in an era where humans ain’t needed anymore? With AI, robotics, and tech doing jobs humans normally do?

I advice the op to visit China in person and stop relying on western brain poison through their mainstream. I was in China two months and no where on earth they are lagging behind.

There is absolutely nothing the US can do to stop China from dominating this century, absolutely nothing. I know it is painful for western zombies but truth is the truth.

Marriage requires sexual exclusivity and that’s a pledge cheaters can’t uphold.

Everything good is difficult to do. It’s difficult to forgive, to give, to be kind, etc, it’s same thing with being sexually faithful.

An integral part of sex is excitement. The introduction of new sexual partners is a primordial force that can’t be repressed (see the Coolidge effect).

But since we live in a society that shames people for being single past a certain age, then the dark strategy folks employ is to get married, then continue surfing the streets for exciting sexual rewards.

Go back thousands or millions of years that humans have existed, and you’ll see that most people are poor and they all gave birth.

Not giving birth because you’re poor is playing against nature, and your natural predisposition.

Infact the poorer a person is, the likelihood they will have many children, and the richer a person is, the fewer children they have. It’s a paradox.

The interviewer no sabi

You can observe someone’s yansh without them knowing that you’re observing their yansh, and that their yansh is a criteria for employment.

They made it so obvious that yansh is a qualification, to the extent that the jobseekers knew and can use it for content or bully them online like this.

The sad truth here is that in many work place, beauty, height, yansh circumference, diction, weight, dentition, mannerism and general aura are shadow qualifying criteria, not spoken about but played a huge role.

Sorry, Welcome to the real world where pretext, smokescreen, and euphemism is the game.

I am sure they gave a palatable reason for their rejection, and not because your yansh disqualified you lol.

Finally employers are learning from women. Them go reject a good guy because he is short, when in reality it’s because he doesn’t have money ,

Let me be the devil advocate.

There are people that I am rude to, and they do not deserve my respect. In the same hand, I am very kind to some people as well, and they deserve my respect.

That doesnt mean my default character is rudeness, it simply means that you get what you deserve.

Before nailing her to the cross, observe their relationship and see if her rudeness is unwarranted. Most families have unheal wounds, unhealthy generational patterns, and such dyfunction manisfest in different ways.

Adulting is realising that because a person is older, that you should silence your voice, or tolerate what hurts you. When we are young, we respect people base on age, but as an adult, you respect people because they deserve it.

You can always refuse to not have sex with her when the boy is on the same room. Its not like she can force you if you dont want to.

Dont ask this question next time.

Rwandans are welcome to Nigeria.

I was in Rwanda in March this year, and their hospitality is top notch. Lots of Nigerian restaurant all over Kigali, and they seems to have no issues with Nigerians.

Even in their main Kimironko market, you see Nigerians and even chinese selling and living in harmony. Rwanda is truly peaceful, and exceptionally clean.

They also have a very high electric cars penetration. From their okada aka boda boda, buses and private cars, making the air clean and noiseless.

Speaking from the perspective of brothers.

If one is more successful than the other, it is a recipe for resentment, especially when the successful one is the younger one.

Its like a rich wife and a poor husband, where the wife have to walk on eggshells to accommodate the fragile ego of her broke husband, and her legitimate concern seen as a dagger to her husband.

The successful sibling may fall into the hole of overhelping and carrying the weight of family responsibilities, eg taking care of parents, but his overhelping will be seen as him showing himself and undermining the rest.

It doesn't matter if the younger one is more hardworking, have more drive and fought against all odds, his success will be a mirror to the failure of the siblings.

This sibling rivalry is irreconcilable, and the only way out is distance. Although blood is thicker than water, you will realise that love is thicker than blood.

Your new family will be those that loves you, from your wife, children, friends, and your God.

If i can’t carry you, I can’t marry you

Of course yes. Absolutely

But not spy, which implies you’re doing something wrong.

Normally You should know the password to her phone and can access it at will, unrestricted.

If she put up a protest, then you must not upgrade her to fiancée or wife status.

I mean if she has privacy to her honeypot, why the phone? Is a phone more private than private parts ?

In an era of hoeflation, you must take every measures to protect yourself.

This doesn't have to be on the internet. Gen-Z people and oversharing everything on social media.

You should always leave room for unknown situation. If it happens that she cant conceive in the future after egg freezing, this video will haunt her.

Na wa

Many people know that the US used nuclear weapons on Japan, but few people also know that the US tested nuclear weapons on “Bikini Atoll”, in Marshall Islands.

The homes of people wiped off overnight, with widespread diseases and loss of lives. The documentary was so heartbreaking to watch.

They came to the Island as friends and made good relationships with the people like they did with Africans during colonial period, with the people not knowing that their homes was the chosen site to test what nukes could do to a human skin.

But no matter the crime against humanity the Americans do, they have die hard fans on nairaland that will support them and hate the victims. There are folks here that even if the US soldiers grape their grandma, they will blame their grandma.

The US and Israel are the biggest terrorist in the world, not Iran. Iran just wanted to be left alone. For God sake the war is at Iran border; not America. The US will loose. Evil can never win against good.

Dating site is a bubble. It doesn’t represent the street or the average girl.

Also lots of people do not delete their profiles after leaving, which gives the illusion that lots of people are there. Dating sites also have lots of fake female account, just to keep men hooked.

Also due to its free and low barrier to entry/registration, it will attract the scummiest and fake people. Especially when your profile pictures is the sole determinant if you’ll deserve a right swipe.

Also if it’s tinder, bumble or hinge, it doesn’t count. Those sites are the 304 factory. Paid dating platform will always yield better result.

Lastly, easy with the blame on ladies. They are just satisfying the demand of men’s sexual needs.

I have actually tried what have hooked lots of men, and I was not hooked.

I have tried gambling, smoked cigarettes and weed, went to a strip club (the prostitute disgust me), etc. But after doing it once, I wondered what’s there that made lots of men hooked and a slave to it.

Then I realised that a man need to upgrade his soul, if there is any such thing. If you’re playing at the basic level, everything will tempt you. You’ll be a slave to your vices.

So do the hard things to upgrade your soul. Start from your mind, getting used to pain, and doing things that are difficult. Try to prepare to run a marathon, start a small business, read ten books in three months etc.

When I was was preparing to run my first marathon, I was training everyday for six months straight. I was running about 15km everyday. In a month, it is common to run for 500km.

If you see men then, I looked like a Greek god. Muscles and was very lean and fit. From the content I consumed on the internet was all to reach my goals.

If you pick something above you, You will start playing at the level that these things can’t catch you anymore. You have to gradually leave the old life and onboard the new one.

It won’t happen overnight, but you will progressively reduce the time, energy and resources you give to the old life, because the new one is getting interesting.

All these useless lies that one has to be an idiot to believe.

But let’s just assume it’s true, then the man is an idiot. And idiots by nature usually suffer.

Firstly, You don’t go where you cannot afford and secondly, you don’t take her to the second date if the first date is bad.

If you’re a mad person like me, then as she is busy gulping foods that is higher than my budget, I’ll politely ask if she will pay for it.

I will never be ashamed to tell a woman that what she is ordering is above my budget. If she thinks I am too broke for her and not a good catch, no problem, bye.

Because if she has any shame or self respect, she will understand that a date is not an eating contest to display her almajiri skills, but to actually get to know someone.

This is why on the first date when I was still in the dating market, I will always take you to a local beer parlour. Call it low effort, I don’t care.

Feel free to meet any man that wants to prove his masculinity with how much he can spend. Goodluck. For me, you need to prove that you’re worth it before I will spend.

I am strategically greedy. My wallet, my choice.

It is only after you have passed my thorough screening, became my babe, then I can even spend millions on you. You must prove that you love me, and not my money.

Weak men everywhere.

Mumu man.

You could have just walked away

If you don’t have a family member be it sibling, spouse or a child, that is washing your dirty linen outside, go and count your blessings.

How some men date rubbish eh,

Even the way she respond to him, so rude and unladylike.

How can you even give a rude person the dignity of experiencing proposal, and also the privilege to reject you?

With all your sophistication as a man that wants to provide, you will kneel down to propose to a rude woman? Really?

Men please have standards.

It’s the low standards of men that makes these women get away with being foolish for long.

Na wa

I seriously wonder how some men enjoy sex with minors, prostitutes, forced sex (rape), sexual coercion through authority (eg teacher and student for marks), or all kinds of abnormal sex.

You have to be an unhealthy, and a sick individual in your soul to enjoy any of the above.

Sex is enjoyed with mutual consent. The other person desperately wants it as much as you. They can’t wait to unzip you and pounce on you.

If you can’t get healthy sex, just settle for prostitution, at least it’s consensual and a permitted industry even though it’s not legal in many countries.

fyneboi79:
Please what is the "canton fair" about?

Google it bro, also put it on YouTube.

It will give you more info that I can ever say here

Alamkiir:
It's all useless since they are never going to use it

Exactly, that is how deterrence work, and why the hyena (The US coalition) of the earth won’t attack them.

But if the hyenas are mad enough to attempt war, the Chinese are ready

Suicideboy:
You are not a technical person so i won't blame you.


https://www.theregister.com/2023/02/07/chinese_android_phones_leak_pii/


https://discuss.privacyguides.net/t/are-chinese-android-oems-unsecure/17951


https://www.tomsguide.com/news/xiaomi-huawei-lithuania-warning


https://arstechnica.com/information-technology/2021/09/security-audit-raises-severe-warnings-on-chinese-smartphone-models/

https://www.bleepingcomputer.com/news/security/fbi-warns-against-using-chinese-mobile-apps-over-to-data-security-risks/

You are not an unbiased person so I won’t blame you.

Imagine a child throwing off a hundred dollar bill for biscuits, only to grow and realise the mistake.

If you're genuinely good to someone and they choose to dispose you, it’s their loss.

Suicideboy:
Chinese phones are cheap but almost every one of are massive turd. Don't ask me the reasom for that.

Your prejudice speaking. No point to engage

kinzd:
Formerly we don't fancy Made in China stuffs these days how the mighty have fallen!!!

I am currently in China for the 2026 Canton fair. I used a driverless car in Shenzen. The car seat has massage and a mini screen to enjoy on trip.

If anyone thinks made in China is inferior, then that person just denied himself off the most amazing tech experiencing he will ever have.

It’s an inevitability.

If Nigeria get electricity right, then it will become ripe for Chinese cars to take over.

If you want to survive, you must adapt. Chinese car in the next decade will dominate every country where there is no malicious tariffs to keep them out.

The PLA just conducted its first unmanned military exercise. An exercise where unmanned shooting robots, robodogs, air assault crews all interoperable with no single human on sight.

Guess who was the first country that went to the UN to make countries commit to not developing autonomous systems, it was China in 2021. But the G8, including Russia, India and Israel refused the motion.

Then China said Okay, and what they’ve developed so far is damn scary. Terminator is now a reality than ever.

Unprecedented and a world first

The People's Liberation Army conducted its first unmanned military exercise.

All participants were armed robots and drones, operating without human intervention. pic.twitter.com/bj93uJP7mH

— China Now (@ChinaNow24) April 20, 2026

Just want to clarify that single mums and widows are not the same thing.

There are single mums as a result of youthful recklessness, or single mum that left due to domestic violence, or single mums that are widow.

Although it’s safe to marry a single mum that is a widow and the kid’s paternity have been settled.

Every single mum should not be put in the same basket, doing that robs us of our ability to be empathetic and humane.

If you want grace for your shortcoming and/or unfortunate circumstances, you must extend it to your fellow man, and woman.

Rubbish.

There are lots of principle women that even if you’re single, and a yahoo boy, it’s an instant rejection. Talk more of being married.

You won’t even know she has rejected you, although you might have a clue because you may not see her status/dp on WhatsApp anymore.

I know many of you guys are used to lowlife gold diggers, but lots of women are not like that.

The more you upgrade yourself as a man, the high likely you can unlock the pool of high quality women with beauty, brain and class.

Money is not everything, and it is those that don’t have money think money is everything.

I was mostly broke all through my 20’s, and it’s from like 30 years I start to see road. It’s a uniquely male experience except you come from a wealthy home.

But if you’re like the vast majority of men, and from Nigeria (so sorry), it’s normal to be broke at 40.

Don’t make social media fool you.

Not only the UK, it’s same situation in many western countries, especially densely populated countries like The Netherlands, Belgium, and Ireland.

And there are no signs that it’s getting better. It just seems like people work to pay rent, mobile data, utility bills, fake it on social media and repeat monthly.