She likes you. If you like her, then call her and move things forward.

If you don't like her, please let her be. Don't convert her to fork material. I use God name beg you. Let her be.

Women generally are passive. They thrive well in responding, not by initiating. She is giving you the green light, that you should take things forward and she will respond favorably.

flokii:
You folks that screenshot private chats to post online, what exactly do you people intend to gain?.. does it make you feel good or add extra money to your accounts or what cos I don't see the need for this.
You chyke girl, she no gree.. move the f*ck on.

Evidence of low self-esteem. Now imagine make a girl come send him nude. She don finish be that. Low self esteem bad.

Why you go invite a girl to swim for the first time? Na yansh you wan press. weyrey.

With the way you are addressing her, she did a good job refusing you.

Tell her.

Sapiens3:
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You are right Mr panso. Imaging procuring sure expensive gagdet in this useless economy and someone is making choices SHM. As if she will use the phone for anything better other than take selfies and nonsense.

Yes, and snapchat, picture editing, Instagram, Facebooking, tiktoking, and texting other guys etc.

Gerrard59:


The US and her vassals allies just want war. As it is, it is glaring that Russia cannot be defeated or ostracised. A good thing countries have played neutral, rightfully so. Why should a problem in Ukraine concern an average Indonesian or Indian? Did Ukrainians before the war bother themselves with problems from New Delhi or Jakarta?

All die na die. The West hasn't come to terms with the reality that its hegemony is fading away. I urge the Chinese to stand strong and steadfastly. A defeated Russia means doom for China and the rest of the Global South.

Yes. China understands that very well. if you go to the geopolitical section of zhihu.com (Chinese Quora version), lots of Chinese think that China must intervene if NATO officially joins the war. I agree with such an analysis.

If Russia is defeated, then the 4200km sq Russia-China border will become open for Nato presence, and not even imagining the humanitarian crisis in the form of refugees. That under the almost impossible scenario, the West's dream of collapsing Russia comes to pass.

Now add the problem NAto is giving to China in the SCS, Through Korea, Japan, Philippines, and Taiwan, then CHina is in a deep soup if it won't ally with Russia and fight the war away, instead of in its home.

EreluRoz:
You no even sabi pamper sef or don't you know she just want to be pampered?

Where's my GWagon

I get one question for you. Oya tell me, what's the difference between pamper and entitlement?

I thought it was a skit, but it's not.

The idiotic dude is standing there like a statue, and another woman (I guess his sister) fights for him by refusing to validate his girlfriend's rotten behavior. Men like him damage women by tolerating such nonsense.

I don't blame her sha, people like her will always exist. It is left for you to avoid them. IPhone 15 that you can't buy for yourself, you are angry at a man who bought an iPhone 13 for you, even when he uses a lesser phone. In a country where MOST people are poor. Not broke, but poor.

This is no longer entitlement or being delusional, this girl has dementia.

China is ready to intervene militarily anywhere if the United States or NATO decides to attack Russia. China Ministry of defence warns.

With NATO floating with the idea of engaging Russia directly in Ukraine, China seems ready to officially join the war. Things are getting more messy it seems.

Nmeri17:


We obviously cannot do anything right. If we could, we would have, for once in the past 64 years. My question was from a realistic /pragmatic perspective, not fantasies such as us miraculously being less hypocritical. We have both established that we are inherently bad people. There are two possible outcomes out of such event:

1) substitute us All with "x"
2) revert to the last working condition (explains my colonial suggestion)

Unfortunately, the west has devised another way to benefit from us, without the annex overhead–thanks to our dumb leaders (the leaders are no more guiltier than the people, in general)

Option 2 is most obvious but implausible, which was why I requested other options (ostensibly, under "x". So, will you be so kind to oblige me with favorable, realistic options that can fit this situation?

The third option.

Ditch off the imposed political system by the colonial masters and explore what works for us. The leadership of the whole is the most important segment of any people/society. China is very prosperous right now, but if they substitute their political system with our cesspit democracy, then they will be as dysfunctional as us.

This is my x.

Putin my man.

The main servant Gos is using to usher in multipolarism. God bless you. God bless Russia.

Nemesis0147:
I don’t regret following you on Nairaland even for a second… keep it up
From a big fan

Thank you

CockPit:
I have trained myself with the mantra "whatever I don't have, I don't need"

I could not even ask my father for money growing up.

Strong man

ZaraIhua:

This post just took me back to the days of my childhood. My eldest brother in particular would give us a hard knock on our head if he finds out we begged or borrowed from a neighbor/friend and ask us to return it instantly.

Act of contentment has helped me alot and is still helping me till now..... Especially in avoiding insult and see finish.

Whatever I don't have, I work towards getting it but if my hand no fit reach, I kuku rest. I can't come and kee myself for nothing.

Thanks Op

Virtues (which contentment is) make us powerful. For example, if you are content with what you have, others will find it impossible to mock or tempt you through your greed no matter how wealthy they are.

If you are secure and have accepted yourself, no one will be able to mock you with your insecurities. If you rely on yourself, no one will be able to mislead you.

If you have a strong character, even your haters would know that their jab does not affect you, because your character is like a light that automatically makes all darkness disappear by your mere presence.

So yep, your brother is a smart guy.

Franzese:
Tell that to your Gen Z social media freaks.

Was watching one match making hunt game show. This one say her hair 950k, the other one say hin shoe na $1200......

And na trek and danfo una use come hunt game show...inside sun.

I laff tire.

Many idiots seem to place their value on what they wear, not the personality inside. I mean, I can pick an almajiri girl, wear her all that expensive stuff, and viola, she is a high-quality woman right? But it doesn't work like that.

With all their expensive wear, they came to look for a man on live cam, without shame. So no man can pick them up on the offline, where they have existed for decades.

With the advent of internet, one would think a lot of people will use it to become better, but it just made them more dumber, stupider, and just shitty to be around with.

Money.

The kind of sin some men commit will shock the devil. Now the slogan ''some men are dogs'' seems like it makes sense.

How many people have you offended like this? You offended God, her husband, and the unborn child, betrayed your character, and lost the respect of all men and yourself, all for sex?

E worth am?

CaveAdullam:


Excellent analogy.

Well done, big chief.

Chief suppose dey enough, you come add ''big'' on top. Greetings fellow comrade.

faceland:
Don't you want your daughter to marry a simp... The only problem is you might not want your grandson to have a simp role model as a father.

What goes around comes around.

Nmeri17:


What do you propose? A return to colonial rule? Any other option?

What I proposed was implied.

That in a bid to protest and be a moral judge of the corruption of the political class, it is imperative to self-reflect, and not be the exact thing we hate in others.

On the individual level, a lot of these protesters are not good people to their families, friends, employees, neighbors, etc. The golden rule (to treat others how you want to be treated) is not reserved only for the ruling class, but for everyone.

So no, returning to colonial rule is not even in the list of options. But doing right, matching our actions with words, its the way out.

Improve your social status.

They are ghosting you because they don't see you as good enough, and the ones that are after money just want to use you, before the final ghosting.

Be aware that just because a woman does not see you as good enough doesn't mean you are not good enough. A child will always pick a biscuit over a million-dollar suitcase, or a dog biting a person that wants to rescue it from a trap.

But even if we can fake and deceive other people, we can't deceive ourselves. Only you know if you are a good catch to any woman, and in that case, them ghosting you is their loss.

All in all, keep improving yourself, and the one who sees your value will appreciate you, stay, and make the rejection of the previous worth it.

ElliotP:
In my opinion they're both stupid, they're both on the extreme ends of what it means to be a man. You should strive to be a good man, not an alpha man or simp

A good man is an alpha man.

Vanity test. Are you ready?

1. You will become a billionaire in US dollars instantly, but magically transform into a 95-year-old man. If you do not agree to this deal, then ''time'' is more important to you than money.

2. Also, you will be a billionaire, but lose all your loved ones. You will be the only remaining one of your lineage. If you do not agree to this deal, then family is more important to you than money.

3. You will be a billionaire but must give up sex. If you do not accept this deal, then sex is more important to you than money.

4. You will be a trillionaire right now, then tomorrow, you will be killed. If you do not agree to this deal, then life is more important to you than money.

5. You will be a billionaire, but the price you will pay is SS genotype and stroke. If you do not agree to this deal, then health is more important to you than money.

6. You will be a billionaire, but spend the rest of your life in jail. If you do not agree to this deal, then your freedom is more important to you than money.

So please tell me which of the above you will sacrifice for money, and then we proceed from there.

If I were you, I would tell him one faithful morning that he should leave. If he needs a few days to plan, I will pay for a hotel for those days, and he leaves from the hotel. Staying longer in my house instead of a hotel will make the whole place toxic. Its my house, not a prison.

But before I take such action, in my mind, I have canceled him off. I do not want such a friend, and don't care about him after that. Also, people like him are what I call ''living dead''. They are dangerous.

Giving him extra days in your house to evacuate might allow him to harm you. People like that have no sense of appreciation, and can't help themselves. They are losers.

Just throwing him out without a temporary accommodation would be psychopathic, but make sure to pay somewhere else, so he can plan from there and leave.

For a man of 43 years to not know he is a burden, has no sense of carrying his weight, and discuss your bed matters with a work colleague is the definition of a loser. dispose of him.

The women who want simp are shortsighted.

It's like preferring a pet cow to a dog because all you can think of is the milk you will get from the cow. But when a snake shows up inside your children's playground or you have to kill a poisonous rat terrorizing your flat, you will realize how useless the cow is.

Real men lead great families and make everyone safe, but a weak man (aka Simp) will put all of you in trouble. Nigerian politicians are good examples of simps. When the weak rule, the people suffer.

Just as you can manipulate a simp, others too can. A simp is simply a man who hasn't defeated himself and is ignorant of the ways of manipulation. He will be dealt with outside and you inside the house will suffer for his foolishness. Women outside will use sex to get him, just as you are using sex to manipulate him inside.

Only low-barrel women want simp because it means they can be as rotten as they are, and no man will show her the mirror and call forth the best of her. Instead for her to improve, she chooses to settle with a simp.

Until when the responsibility of a real man shows up, she won't realize how useless the simp of her husband is. You went to give the responsibility of a lion (real man) to a sheep (simp), and you are surprised that you are suffering.

My people suffer from a lack of knowledge.

Being good-looking is just one of the tools you can sharpen, to make your life easy, but there are a lot others, that even rank higher than looks. I will name a few.

So eloquence is one, intelligence is another, being fit also, your brand (e.g. the guy that everyone knows as a doctor), being organized and clean, a good cook, healthy (e.g., no colored teeth due to smoking), and many more others.

Being good-looking is winning the genetic lottery, but to develop yourself is something that only those who are strong can do. It is not for the weak.

your character is the greatest one you can sharpen. Be that person everyone knows that they will always get the truth from, will treat them with justice, is benevolent, altruistic by default, is responsible, impartial, wise, etc, Also, try to make money, it is very important.

Of all the great men who were respected and idolized, none were respected for their handsomeness but for their character and the life they lived.

I am not saying this will magically make your life perfect, but you will be in a better place than feeling sorry for yourself. The world only empathizes with your suffering after you win, not before.

Gerrard59:


Honestly, this is the best. If more men adopt this measure, then maybe we would have fewer heart broken ladies in the society. Be upfront and clear with them that you are not interested in a relationship. So, the lady knows that if she consents to sex, it is not an avenue to be in a relationship. This is because the average man will slot preek if he sees an opening.

No be say I be saint, but I get small conscience, and I like being straightforward.

Na that small conscience be the point here. A lot of men no get am at all.

They will see a perfectly good woman and just mess her up. The same goes for women too.

You don't like him right? no wahala. but why scam him? why the billing ?

Adv14:



Hmmm I dey feel u always I no just talk ni, suggest few of these books

Try search my previous comments. I always write it.

The country you come from have a far more influence whether your effort will retain and compound over time, or leak off like water in a basket. It also determines if you're starting life with surplus or deficit.

Almost all Nigerians came to life with a deficit account balance. So you'll have to save yourself without systemic support, then save your parents because who else will save them if not you?

Then make sure your own child won't have the burden of saving themselves, you, and finally be able to thrive above all inherited difficulties just by the mere accident of birth, which is to be born in an underdeveloped poor country.

So before you think you are not working hard enough, just know that your effort are meaningless is a failed system. Like a caged Tiger fighting to get out, but all an exercise in futility.

Will God save you at the last moment? I hope so. But a better question is, why did God allow it to happen in the first place?

Two of una make sense.

Although ask our future wife make she try loose small weight. So you go fit carry am for beach pictures

I come in peace.

jeromestarks:
Once you see a single lady above 25, you have seen a frustrated individual. A woman single at 30 is a psychiatric patient.
A woman single at 35 is a dead man walking.
A woman single at 40 is a detriment to the society. She has the tendency to kill, kidnap, rape, steal, assassinate, gamble, swindle etc. Avoid such women at all cost. In fact, avoid any single lady above 30.


If you a peaceful lasting happy home that you can return to after work, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman of 18/23 and marry.
Avoid my advice and regret the way many married men are currently regretting their marriage.

Rubbish

lastkingsman:


What's wrong with steady supply of steamy sex?

Well, nothing is wrong technically, as far she consented. But, you will know if she is having sex with a commitment relationship as a goal, and a man shouldn't abuse that.

If you don't want anything serious with her, don't use her for sex. Better to even pay a prostitute than use someone that loves you for sex. I am not encouraging prostitution, but it's about the lesser evil.

With prostitute, it's pure transaction and no one is being deceived or being used, and you can sleep well at night without feeling like a demon (that's if you're not a psychopath who is incapable of empathy).