harmony940:


Are you referring to a legal document known as a prenuptial agreement. I have no idea where the woman will get nothing,except it is clearly specified in the prenuptial agreement and I don't think any woman in her right senses would sign that.

Thanks for sharing that route bro.

Not prenuptial agreement. There are ways one can secure their assets after divorce. The ''Hakimi route'' is one. The houses, cars assets, etc, you enjoy should be under a company name that belongs to a trusted family member (mother or adult child).

Have a business ATM card from the company and spend from there. Live lavishly as you want, but make sure all your spending, holiday trips, etc are declared as business expenses. Your salary should probably be the minimum wage, so like 100k naira. That's your real earnings and everything you have.

The assets that a court will share between spouses are personal assets. They can't give a company car to her, that's theft. So though you earn 100k, your lifestyle is of a wealthy individual. That is how lots of businessmen don't pay tax much.

For example, you pay more tax percentage-wise than Jeff Bezos, who is the wealthiest man in the world lol. So during divorce, it is from your 100k salary they will use to make any calculations. So in reality, you are broke

Since Women have learned to shoot without missing, men should learned to fly without perching.' Two can play this game

haphizz57:
Fear who doesnt fear women

Fear comes from ignorance.

If I am a billionaire and my wife divorced me, one naira she won't see unless it is me and her that build our wealth together. Any money she gets from me will be at my discretion, not because she and some lawyer want to embezzle me. I am an educated man.

One thing every man should make a hobby is legal affairs and law. Everything is written on paper. Then you will see many loopholes and how to get around stuff.

everyone is a mirror that triggers people's insecurities. If you are tall, then you most likely will make short people insecure, the same goes for handsomeness and ugliness, wealth and poverty, intelligence and dumbness, etc.

So if you have your life put together, it is in your interest and safety to avoid going places that remind people that God has forgotten them. No one has a monopoly on evil, and humans are plagued with vices of committing evil just to satisfy their envy.

This is why flamboyance and the need for attention are symptoms of foolishness. At best, people will treat you with indifference, envy you, or need something from you. Or harm you.

You don't see billionaires doing this. To be a billionaire takes a different level of mental sophistication, hence billionaires just live their lives on low-key. But open Instagram, and you see people who are broke to a stupor, oppressing other broke people.

And when they bill you and you can't give, you create low-key enemies. Or when you need help from them, your pride will be an impediment, after all, you have shown them that you are better than them.

Importation gone wrong lol

If any woman can do this to any man, especially a forty-something-year-old man, then he probably is not very bright.

Living in the west has its own set of rules. Understand the law, and work with it. Always bring your wife abroad if you have to, but make sure you have downloaded marital penal codes and read it like a bible, so you understand how your case would be accessed if divorce happens.

If you are riding a car, you wear a seatbelt even if you won't get an accident, it's the same thing with marriage, you prepare for the worst.

It is extremely foolish to enter a union where a person who breaks that union is rewarded when it could be avoided if you just understand how the law works.

There are many ways a woman won't get even 1 kobo if she divorced a billionaire. In fact, it is her money that would be shared between the billionaire and her. Knowledge is power.

Women like this seem to enter a relationship with the mindset that a man should serve them only, and completely clueless that he is human and should be treated with respect.

You cannot demand what you don't give. If you want respect, treat him with respect. If you block him, then any self-respecting individual will withdraw. It's common sense.

If you block someone, make sure you mean it, otherwise, you seem like an insecure slowpoke craving for attention, and will sink low to get it in the most manipulating ways.

You know that you love someone when you derive joy in being of service to them. If you understand love as ''responsibility'' to your beloved, then you are approaching it rightly.

Spending your money on them is easier, not making their life difficult with unnecessary billing and drama, and their thoughts of you should be that you're an ally, not an opponent.

Most importantly, love is like light, it cannot be confused with darkness. If someone loves you genuinely, you will know.

Theophinio:


Good evening boss

You think in business terms exactly like me

Please do you have knowledge about any country in Europe or South America I can penetrate the Agro industry fairly easily based on government policy

Brazil.

Dannydrums889:

Good evening Sir
I sent you an email, please kindly check

I responded.

Men should realize that even if they meet all these requirements, the unspoken rule is that she has to find the man attractive before inspecting if he meets these requirements.

If she finds you attractive, then you don't even have to meet all these, and it will be a yes from her, otherwise, even if you over-meet it, it will be a NO if there is no attraction.

If she continues without being attracted to him, then he won't get the best of her in the relationship. Your life will be way easier if you just pick a woman that finds you attractive.

Something just switched OFF in women if they do not find a man attractive, and that determines how crazy they will be in the relationship.

And that's the source of female insecurities because they know they don't look how they falsely portray.

This baffled me about the shortsightedness of ladies who use excessive makeup, filters, etc. Giving a fake appearance when at the end, the person will relate with the real you, and see you for what you are.

Even worse, their requirements for men's appearance are up the roof, when in reality, the men look real, and you look fake.

When some people think of Putin, they see a powerful man who has led the world's largest country for decades.

When I think of Putin, I see a man with an incomprehensible burden that will break the average man. A powerful man who lacks the freedom to roam alone like the average Joe.

Some people are built for a difficult life, and the height of their power is just one side. Think of Mao, Stalin, Nelson Mandela, and Xi. If you flip the coin in the lives of these influential men, it is responsibilities, being misunderstood, paying heavy prices, and carrying a heavy burden so others can be free.

Salute Putin.

Gerrard59:


The bold was a topic of discussion a few weeks ago on Reddit/geopolitics. The OP asked how would Europe cope if it had a war with first-generation migrants and second generation migrants who still have ties with their homelands. Do we expect a Moroccan to die for Europe's cause? His other thought was should there be a war, most recent immigrants would flee immediately as they migrated strictly for economic purposes, not patriotic reasons.

Well, as I wrote in our thread, the migration movement in the West, especially Europe and increasingly Canada, would affect public affairs.

That reminds me.

Millions of Ukrainians moved to the EU after the war, but many of those Ukrainian women and the men who could escaped had dual nationalities. I particularly met a Nigerian guy with a Ukrainian wife, with Nigerian and Ukrainian citizenship, who escaped as a Nigerian to Poland.

It is okay to defend your newly adopted homeland, but to fight an imperialistic war, that destroyed another part of the world while ordaining itself as a beacon of peace is pure evil.

Just like Mohammed Ali, when he refused to fight for the US government in Vietnam, for conscientious reasons, not because he was a coward. Also, lots of immigrants fight for their newly adopted home country. French soldiers in Francophone countries are Africans with French citizenship

So yes, the immigrant should fight for their newly adopted home, that's why there is always a pledge of allegiance during naturalization but rather go to jail than fight an imperialistic war.

To fly a multimillion-dollar aircraft thousands of miles away, to throw missiles worth hundreds of thousands of dollars, on people that earn less than 3 dollars a day, and didn't attack you, is a different level of evil.

HRtechnique:


Pan, I want your opinion on something if you have one.

In my bed here, just tasking my imaginative mind, I’m having this suspicion or assumption that the reason why Europe and the US etc have allowed massive migration subtly is because of a possible and imminent war.

Like there’d be a need for workers, manufacturing operatives, builders and people to work on an ongoing basis or even to draft where possible when the time comes.

I perceive it could be an intentional orchestration or it’s just an inevitable immigration based on Bible prophecies of the end times.

The immigration level is unprecedented and like I know, everyone knows what they are doing so does the countries allowing the inflow.

PS - Just making things up but what do you think?

My mind have suggested the above to me before, so that is a possibility. Also, some precedents prove the above to be true. During the colonial period, most of the fighting armies of colonial empires are soldiers from their colonies.

Take China, with its 1.4B people, how can anyone dream of fighting them? so given western numerical inferiority, coupled with a dwindling birthrate, immigrants fills in the gap

I also see the migrants as an internally destabilizing force. Migrants vote in a certain way, and external forces can use them to manipulate internal policies and pressure the government. Like the recent French and Irish mass protests that led to billions of dollars of damages.

The Biafran agitation for example is an internal destabilizing force in Nigeria to pressure the government. It is in the interest of external parties to have it going on, since its. only a matter of activation.

What happened to the corn we ate before? why did the replacement?

Procashtips:


American scientist indeed

Na name wey them give themselves. Make I just call am like that.

WriteerNg:
⚡Vladimir Putin arrives in victorious Vietnam tomorrow.

"The course of history cannot be stopped. There is no end to history and there never will be." — Russia FM Lavrov

Lavrov is stylishly referring to the book titled ''The End of History and the Last Man'' by the American political scientist Francis Fukuyama.

Francis argues that with the ascendancy of Western liberal democracy—which occurred after the Cold War (1945–1991) and the dissolution of the Soviet Union (1991)—humanity has reached "not just ... the passing of a particular period of post-war history, but the end of history as such: That is, the end-point of mankind's ideological evolution and the universalization of Western liberal democracy as the final form of human government."

If you need academic evidence of Western hegemony, that book is it. Every man should read it, to know the kind of world and imperialism Americans have prepared for you.

Thank God for Russia and China, evil must not win.

Social media is not real life. The views, likes, followers and overall engagement many content creators generate online is nothing but the retention of people's boredom, which social media gives a false narrative that it is somehow valuable.

A Nigerian TikToker (@grace_Africa) with over a million followers, hosted a get-together for all her followers. She showed up at the venue, with bracelets, to welcome her fans, but not a single soul graced the event.

Before the event, many of her followers guaranteed their presence, with nice words and all the hype, but there was no attendant.

Your relationship with Nairaland should be to pass the time, write your mind, have fun, and log off. Don't take it seriously to be looking for a get-together, you have church, mosque, etc for that.

ayjay45:
bro it's not me oh. The thread made FP
https://www.nairaland.com/8122846/how-una-see-thing-did

The story is that the guy hungout with his friend and went out to make a call. When he came back, the friend opened his drink and poured it in a glass. So he rejected the drink


I was wondering why hangout with someone you can't trust mtcheww

Trust is not static, it is fleeting.

Because I trust you, doesn't mean you should coordinate yourself in a way that will make me suspicious of you. Let me give you an example.

Will you sleep in peace with your wife when you lift her pillow and see a sharp knife hiding under it? No matter her justification for keeping the knife there, will you believe her even if you trust her?

If she doesn't mean any harm, why is a knife under her pillow? It is the same thing with the Russia-Ukraine war. If Nato doesn't plan to destroy Russia, why bring it to Ukraine?

Trust is not like your gender, or age that is permanent and can't changed. Lots of people who died at the hands of their friends trusted them.

Most importantly, it is the responsibility of the trusted to keep acting in a way that retains that trust. You cant be angry at me for not trusting you, when your behaviors violate that trust, and make me suspicious.

DystopianMuse:

Atleast they were allowed. Can they try that in your Authoritarian coven??

Over 100 million Chinese citizens travel abroad either for business, study, or tourism, and guess what, THEY RETURNED. Chinese students in particular are known for always returning after studies and have no interest in staying back, like Africans and other Asians.

If China is an authoritarian hellhole like your darling Western media has brainwashed you to believe, explain to me why Chinese who have been outside China still choose to go back to China.

Also, explain why the Chinese government is a highly-rated government with over 95% ratings from its citizens, and it was Western institutions
(Harvard) did this research.

Perhaps you can learn to think for yourself, its the hallmark of a well-developed human.

A summary of the full speech Russia gave one day before the peace summit in Switzerland gives an introduction to what is to come.

1. A new multilateral organization replacing the UN, WTO, ICC, Interpol, SWIFT, etc will be established. Plans and works are already in progress, and the upcoming BRIC summit later this year will confirm it.

2. A new payment system that falls outside the control of the West will be created. The new payment system will not be unilateral since it will be jointly instituted by BRICS.

3. A new global security architecture that considers the interests and security of all parties will be established. The world should not be divided into blocs and confrontation.

4. A complete pivot from the west to the east and the global south. Russia is securing its position as the pacemaker for the emergence of the global south and has completely lost interest in working with the West on an unfair basis.

5. A new security architecture for the Eurasian continent will be established, and European countries will be free to join, free from the dictate and control of external powers, such as the US through NATO.

6. Putin mourns the quality of current EU leaders, implying their puppet status to Washington, and how they were different from 19th-century leaders such as Charles de Gaulle and Helmut Kohl, who understood that prosperity in Europe means a good relationship with Russia.

7. He pointed out that the theft of Russia's funds will not go unpunished, and no matter how they twist the legal facts to claim it, it's still stealing.

8. He mentioned how the West through IMF and their sister institutions has restricted the growth and development of the global south, and how they have created barriers and rules for others to follow, which they do not practice themselves.

9. He laid out conditions for peace in Ukraine, which are the neutrality of Ukraine, the ceding of the four regions to Russia, and recognizing the minority rights of ethnic Russians.

10. He also blames NATO and the West for the conflicts, how they have broken every agreement and premise they had with the USSR and Russia, ignored the Minsk agreement to buy time to fight Russia, and how the US abandoned agreements that kept the world safe.


You might want to read the full report here, it may take you about 30 mins

https://mid.ru/en/foreign_policy/news/1957107/

The woman should be having this conversation with her husband. Her husband cheated on her, and her husband has to be faithful.

The husband might have lied he is single, or whatever. And if he has five side chicks, and maybe one live Ghana, she will travel to Ghana to fight her?

What if she jam a slayqueen that is a malian without manners, them go beat her with her heartbreak.

I understand you are angry, but its necessary to still use your sense. You can be offended, cheated on, and still be guilty and locked up.

The woman should be having this conversation with her husband. Her husband cheated on her, and her husband has to be faithful.

The husband might have lied he is single, or whatever. And if he has five side chicks, and maybe one live Ghana, she will travel to Ghana to fight her?

What if she jam a slayqueen that is a malian without manners, them go beat her with her heartbreak.

I understand you are angry, but its necessary to still use your sense. You can be offended, cheated on, and still be guilty and locked up.

The guy even tried.

So after all the insults your cousin and her sister gave him, he was still begging her to forgive him. That should have been the sign he needs to move on.

If she accepted his plea, he would be a simp in that marriage. You don't beg when you didn't do anything wrong. Otherwise, you are rewarding bad behavior, and by nature, bad behavior rewarded will punish you later. The snake you feed will bite you.

Sadly, lots of people only learn with regrets. And even more sadly, they won't ever appreciate you if they didn't suffer. They need so suffer first, get old (in her case), then she will learn.

That's her problem. Her regret is her karma, and it is sweeter when the only person to blame is yourself. She was her own village people.

Many are called, and few are chosen. Many are given sense, but few hardly use it.

There is no place in the bible where God said you need a pastor to pray for you before he will answer it. Collect the cash, enter your room, lock yourself, kneel, and pray.

Our God is a democratic God, you can reach him directly, not through a proxy.

dvkot:
they don't want to defeat Russia in the battlefield again 😂

The fear of SATAN2 is the beginning of all wisdom

mrjojo:
can you expatiate more on this please? with a scenario if possible, and how do you raise kids in this environment? if you as an adult is subtly made aware of your blackness, and it can sometimes be draining , how do you prepare your kids for this? and also been wealthy and physical attribute(height, fit, cute) can also be a "redemption "

My experience with what the OP described was during my time as a student. During group work, and also during internships working with other interns. So from a professional setting, I don't have it, since I run my own business and have formulated my life in ways that those nonsense have no place in it.

Then, we can all be in a group, but unbeknown to me, they share a subgroup where they do things without the awareness of those they deem undesirables.

And it's also not clear-cut racial. Their so-called clique can have a minority in it, also referred to as ''token black person'', to give it a multiracial flare, but the token minority in the group is a beech in that group. He has to lose his self-respect to fit in.

So you might also be facing disenfranchisement from the in-group black person, which may annoy you further because you may be expecting solidarity based on race. But mind you, the token person suffers, he just hides it.

As for kids, it's mostly bullying, and the above doesn't apply, but Western schools are increasingly becoming accepting and multicultural, so black kids don't feel left behind, and in many cases, black kids are novelty, and the love of the town. It is not always a bad story.

As for redemption based on physical attributes, it's a two-way thing. It can also be a source of jealousy. A short white racist guy will not treat you better because you are taller, instead, your presence will boost his insecurities.

The only redemption is not to play like I said earlier, and operate from a position of strength. So do not need anything from them, and know your turf very well. Be smart as hell. After they finish fooling themselves with their cliques, they all know that you're a boss on your own, and you only relate with them out of courtesy, not necessity.

If you understand female biology, you will be angry at God for not giving you a clitoris.

The sexual pleasure that things give women, I don't think a man can comprehend it, after all, he will never experience it.

That Ctoris is the single unfair sexual advantage women have over men. The orgasm that comes from that place eh? walahi its unfair.

Silentgroper:
is kissing on the mouth that important .. I mean kissing me on the cheek or forehead would but which one be mouth ...

Btw, you just might be right..

Make I spoil your mood small

There are more bacteria in the mouth than in the anus. Yes, you heard that right. The misconception that bacteria are infested in dirty places is always not true.

Everything that goes out of your anus enters through your mouth. The tongue is the dirtiest part of a human's body.

So if you don't like kissing for health reasons, you probably are correct. And if you prefer to kiss the anus instead of the lips, you are probably healthier than those who kiss through the mouth lol

FreeSpirited:
Plan a fake travel or conference together with ur wife...tell them ur family have to travel....they should have sense with this scope and fly out of ur life. Ur wife has to support u on this or else it won't work...
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2nd scope is to tell them directly that, your ability to take full responsibility of the house is becoming unbearable in this hard economy that ur earnings can not support more than 2 mouths at the moment coupled with expensive baby food, that u are resorting to borrow.......If u can do this second trips... they will respect ur manliness or boldness and won't take u for granted cos they know u wont take rubbish.

3rd scope......If the above 2 don't work,,,,,,then reduce the quality of food they cook and eat drastically...This scope is a silent scope....u dont need to explain to ur wife, just cook a fake story of how u no longer have enough cash...maybe work related or project related...make ur wife believe the fake story....
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E.g if they use fish for stew, cut it to only egg.....reduce soup to once a week or once in two weeks....let them eat more of beans( give them garri with the beans instead of dodo+bread) cook vegetables soup without meat, instead use Shawa fish...lol....this may cause quarell with ur wife,,,don't shy away from the quarrel, infact welcome it and use the avenue to voice out on ur wife so that everyone will hear ur complain of lack of fund and have sense.....
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Economy is hard, they are using u to chop free food..... ...u have to be smart or die in silence

He should do number two. Why lie?

Tell them straight up that they are a burden on your family and they should leave. If them vex, that's their problem. Every person have a right to dump unwarranted burden as he deem fit.

Silentgroper:
I've got no fear for it. It just feels awkward and ignites no passion in me ..

All the while she was doing it .. my mind was just like "Wtf" ... She was getting intense with it, I was just there doing nothing waiting for her to finish .. I felt her tongue and this mild nausea almost engulfed me ..

Omoh French kissing go really make me puke oo ..

You don't like her, that's why.

This is common when you are horney, but not into the person in front of you. Its why prostitutes don't kiss their client. Shew will be like, ''just nack me and get out jare''. Lol

For those who don't understand what the OP is saying, let me put in another way.

There is racial hierarchy the world is built upon, and most Africans who haven't left Africa don't know about it. Ngozi Chimamanda spoke about being aware she is black after she left Nigeria. She never knew it was a thing.

You might not know about it, but the world will show you where they think you belong, and it can be dehumanizing if you don't know how to navigate these terrains.

It's like how a bank manager may single out a millionaire standing in the queue, even if you all are customers. Or in a church, the big boys hang out with themselves, forming cliques.

You never thought your poverty could be used against you, after all, you didn't bother anyone with it. it's the same for race. I am black, but I didn't trouble you with my blackness, so why this treatment?

The best way to navigate such a scenario is not to play. You can only lose if you play. Just be in the group if you have to be there, but be mute, don't view their comments, mute the chat, and only respond and reply where it is NECESSARY.

Don't exit the group, to avoid giving a wrong impression, but you need to operate overtly since they are also operating overtly. You act like you don't know their game, and when they hope to catch and beat you somewhere, you are not there.

But make sure you are good at whatever you do, your competence is your redemption. Let them feel superior, or disenfranchise you from whatever, but when they are done operating in deceit, they will know deep down that you are good, and them no reach.

icenti:


Mumu

I happy say na you reply am. Be like say him dey eye your 2500 USD