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I don't believe the story especially when the poster said "at this winter time". This is surely no winter time in UK. Working full time and earning 900 quids with a student visa? And the slapping bit and every detail of the conversation, no, this story is not real. I am not saying that such things can not happen but I strongly believe that this particular story is not true so no need to crack my head for solutions to an imaginary story.

All of you blowing hot over this story must have a low IQ. How come you did not notice that the post is without a link to verify its genuinety and there was no quote from the Ikemba. So anybody can just come here and post anything and you start a mini civil war here.

Please dear Super Eagles fans, the list(s) posted here is not the official list. They are just imagination of the posters. And please, no one should ever mention Amodu's name here again. Do you know how many people got high BP during his last spell as coach of the team? Even Lagerback fails, Amodu would have "failed more".

Any list without Rabiu Afolabi, Lukman Haruna and Ikechukwu Uche is way off the mark. Baring injuries, these three players would surely make the squad.

What bothers me most here is the security breach. If the security at the airport is so corruptible, desperate terrorists can use this route to execute their suicide missions. Imagine if that man was a suicide bomber! I feel that Nigeria was put on the terrorist list not because we breed a lot of them but because of our over-compromised security. This matter should be properly investigated and those found culpable brought to book immediately.

0hsisi:
I am telling you that sending your wife things you get off the web as tools for her reform will lead you nowhere
Take it or leave
na you go get the headache not me
I'm just an anonymous poster on the web
na you go carry the aftermath of your childish ways on your coconut head

See me see wahala o. My wife wey I dey send something from net never complain, na you come carry the case for your head? Abi, na taboo to send person something educative from internet? My posting that I sent it to my wife is just another way of telling the poster how helpful I think the post is. I wonder which one come be your own. Please take it easy. Marriage is not a gender war or is this a case of transferred aggression?

kay9:
@clemcy: I didn't know the issue of your gender has been resolved. Still remember back when u were ''bisexual''

@Ohsisi: you, my dear, are ABSOLUTELY full of droppings! You are so full of it, it's actually spewing out into NL. WTF?? Here's a guy (papa ejima) actually talking about HIS REAL LIFE, and your response is to make mockery of him. Just listen to yourself! ''Could it be that. . . .'', ''Sounds to me like. . .'', making assumptions! And about his guiding rules, please you don't have to follow them, ok? Sheesh, small wonder you are still unmarried - in fact, ''still-single-and-desperately-searching'' is more like it.

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Thank you jare @kay9. Na all this I-Too-Know people wey no fit learn anything. They always think they now it all. The topic was 'HOW TO BE A BETTER WIFE" and I was just making my own suggestions based on true life experience. It is peolpe like @ohsisi who go into marriage with the mentality of a gender battle. Even look at her educated assumptions. Because my user name is papa ejima, she just assumed that We have twins. Every husband want to make his wife better and every wife wants to make her husband better. If you ask any married person, he or she would tell you that there are always things we wish we could change in our partner. If the topic was "better husband" my wife would probably send it to me, we don't hide our feelings from each other. A married man should know better what a man wants from a wife and a married woman should know better what a woman wants from a husband. People lie @ohsisi who think they now it all always find out at the end that they know nothing.

ademoshood:
I wanted to buy my old man a phone and i would like the one that is not complex in operating, simple and cost effective.

Buy any Nokia phone that has torchlight and radio. Make sure you teach him how to use the torchlight and the radio. Apart from making and receiving calls, these are the two other facilities he might use and appreciate. I recommend Nokia 1650.

Thanks poster for this topic. I copied it and sent to my wife's email. If only she and other wives and wives-to-be could keep to at least half of your suggestions, marriages would be a lot happier.

I think that where our ladies get it wrong is that after the wedding, they think it is all over. They now relax thinking the "battle" has been won. In fact, many of them desperately want to "wed" but not to "marry". By this I mean they look forward to the wedding and put all their efforts towards it without a commensurate effort towards the marriage itself.

My guiding rule to any wife-to-be is to always treat your husband as if you are still competing for him with other girls. You should not stop all those things you were doing before he chose you after the marriage. Instead, you should even double your efforts. Let me use my marriage as a case study here:

Before our wedding, my wife never joked with her body and especially her face. She used to use a very expensive face cleanser but she has stopped using it now and the difference is showing. When I asked her, she says she does not have the money for it but she and I know she can comfortably afford it. I bet you, if she was still single, she wouldn’t have stopped or expect me to always buy it. The way she talks to me has changed dramatically. She is now so much commanding as if I have to obey whatever she says.

We use to go out for a drink or two when we were dating. In fact, there is a particular bar we used to go to almost every weekend when they have live band. Now when I suggest we go out, she will say she is tired and I dare not even suggest going alone. She will say if I want to drink, I can drink at home! Even the way you make love with your husband should not change after the wedding.

Please I am not posting this for blame apportioning. I am just saying that the best way for a lady to approach her marriage is to treat her husband as if they were still dating and she is still in competition for his love. In everything, the way you treat him, talk to him, make love with him, tolerate his inadequacies, etc should not change when he marries you. When he starts seeing you as different from the girl he was dying for when you were dating, be sure to expect the inevitable. Remember, prevention is always better than cure.

@katsumoto, Sorry you still did not get me. It's not just you but in this country you hardly find someone saying "yeah, I think you were right". I am also a member of some foreign forums especially UK sports forums so I have noticed that they have a different mentality from ours. I know it is a difference of opinion but when sometimes you can find out that your opinion was flawed, you just admit it instead of embarking on an unending argument. It is not weakness, to me it is a sign of a great mind. This is why you find out that most of our forums here are riddled with personal jibes and insults. Everyone seem to claim they know it all and a psychologist will tell you that it is a sign of insecurity or weakness. I hope you find the advise in good taste. PEACE.

One thing I find common among many "educated" Nigerians is that they find it difficult to admit they are wrong in any argument. See how @katsumoto is still arguing even after being corrected and adminished. It is more honourable to say "yeah, I think I was wrong" than to keep on arguing a wrong point. Almost everyone who has had some kind of education in Nigeria think they know it all and can never be wrong. They think when they give in to a superior argument, they are losing face. It is a very bad mentality we have to change in this country. It is because of such mentality that you hardly find any Nigerian resigning from a post even when there is a clear case of incompetence or ineptitude.

Music is art and like beauty which is in the eyes of the beholder. What you consider bad music might be wonderful music to me. I think the poster is just ignorant of the qualities of music. Music can educate, inform and also entertain. For example, we have various forms of traditional music that has only beats and no lyrics. Will you call it rubbish because it only entertains? The answer is NO. Naija music is on the upsurge and this is the time for us to be proud of our own.

My advice to the poster: If you only listen to music only for its educative and informative value, there are enough contents for you in Nigeria. Leave those who want the entertainment value to enjoy themselves. Terry G is popular and successful because his fans buy his works so go and buy your favourite artistes' works and make them successful too. We have so many artistes with informative and educative value in their content like Asa, Djinee, Obiwon, Nneka, Lara George, Dare Art Alade, Sound Sultan, Jeremiah Gyang, just to mention a few. I guess if you have bought their works, you wouldn't say Naija music is retarded.

Please we need more rumours of acid rain or even acid sun to eliminate traffic jams on our roads.

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Silly thread. Or should have been in the comedy section.

Am still waiting oo.

I have always liked the design of Naijapals especially its colorfulness. I intend to open a website soon so I was wondering if the designer of that site is among one of the members here. Does anyone know who the designer is and how I can contact them. Or does anyone here believe he can do better than that(with proof) because I want the best. Thanks guys.