₦airaland Forum

O believers! Fasting is prescribed for you—as it was for those before you1—so perhaps you will become mindful ˹of Allah˺.

˹Fast a˺ prescribed number of days.1 But whoever of you is ill or on a journey, then ˹let them fast˺ an equal number of days ˹after Ramaḍân˺. For those who can only fast with extreme difficulty,2 compensation can be made by feeding a needy person ˹for every day not fasted˺. But whoever volunteers to give more, it is better for them. And to fast is better for you, if only you knew.

Ramaḍân is the month in which the Quran was revealed as a guide for humanity with clear proofs of guidance and the decisive authority. So whoever is present this month, let them fast. But whoever is ill or on a journey, then ˹let them fast˺ an equal number of days ˹after Ramaḍân˺. Allah intends ease for you, not hardship, so that you may complete the prescribed period and proclaim the greatness of Allah for guiding you, and perhaps you will be grateful.

Oriyomin25:
Simple answer to these problems;

Control your eating Habits and ensure you exercise at least twice a week.

papyjaypaul:
Do you know the story of Nigeria's independence? It came as a shock to Northern Nigeria that the Western Region wanted independence. They smelt the threat that it will put them behind so they told the British to postpone our independence. History is repeating itself. The reason why those in Southern Nigeria wanted independence was because they went to school in Britain and understudied them. In the North, there is a feudal system and only the elite and their children go to school. This is why today compared to the South, most children of the elite go to very good schools while the children of the masses can be almajiri. The elite will continue to rule and marry among themselves. The masses don't need to go to school.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hahxW8jYMwU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kN_Q9i4HZg4

TUANKU:
Cultism is already taking roots? Cultism has taken roots long ago and is flourishing. JSS2 student never ask you "Who goes there"?

TUANKU:
School shootings will soon occur in Nigeria, make una continue.

chigoziri2403:
Promise me, son, not to do the things I've done
Walk away from trouble if you can
Now it won't mean you're weak if you turn the other cheek
I hope you're old enough to understand
Son, you don't have to fight to be a man"

Samantha125:
Apart from different genres, the content in most of your music is no different from that of those ghetto black Americans.

Is that what Afrobeat is about? Sex and promiscuity?

Samantha125:
This is exactly what I meant... Those people are black American rappers and you guys get a lot of inspiration in your music from the black American ghetto culture.

Samantha125:
Why does it seems like majority of Nigerian music is based on nothing but sex and objectifying women?🤔🤔🤔

Isn't there anything else you guys can sing about?

According to her post, “90% of women who know their rights are no longer staying in their husbands’ houses today.” This bold claim sheds light on the growing trend of women prioritizing their rights, self-respect, and freedom over traditional marital expectations.

Feminism has tried to brainwash men and women to believe that men should be attracted to strong, independent women who don’t need them, who will compete with them in the physical, intellectual, or financial realm. But we’re not. We’re attracted to femininity; softness, long hair, shapely figures, women who need and respect us.

Many single women today who are quite successful don’t understand why they can’t get a good boyfriend or husband. They have decreased the pool of men who will be attracted to them and, quite frankly, men to whom they will be attracted. Women want to marry up. But if they have a Ph. D. or are a CEO of a company or a competitive CrossFit athlete, the number of men to whom they will be attracted has diminished greatly. Feminism can’t wipe this out. God wired us this way; yes, it may even be in our hindbrain function.

God created the brains of both males and females and wired them, you might say, according to their sex-specific purposes.

Because hypergamy is a fact of life, it controls attraction. In younger years especially, women are initially attracted to alpha qualities. These qualities are initially the most obvious. They are displayed. True/Faithful beta qualities are qualities that are displayed over the years. Initial attraction tends to be the alpha qualities. Does he exude strength? Strength is not merely physical (though that doesn’t hurt) but mental, financial (real or potential), and confidence. Is he courageous, willing to take risks? Is he competent? Does he show some mastery in something or is he pursuing mastery and showing competency along the way? These are all factors in attraction.

The man’s work is never done. He has a burden of performance that he must maintain and continue to achieve in some form or fashion throughout his life. Our attraction to women in general and our wives in particular isn’t based on their performance. We are attracted to them when we see them (with certain clothes on or without clothes on, when their hair is fixed a certain way, etc.) and when they show us respect. (I’ll have a whole letter on the subject of respect.) We want them sexually for these reasons. Women desire men when we show that we are performing men; strong, competent, and courageous.

24hrPrayer:
Let men support women to be more independent

To be a godly man you need to have both alpha and beta qualities. You need to maintain frame and mission as I talked to you about in previous letters; to continue to perform as a man, leading your wife. This will include talking to her about attitudes and actions that don’t fit your frame and mission (which are, in some form or fashion, tests to see if you will tell her, “That’s enough,” or if you will be a simp and try to give her everything she wants, further enabling her wrong attitudes and actions). That takes courage because, as men, we don’t want to lose this relationship and we want our girlfriends or wives to be happy. But they can’t be happy if they aren’t holy. It’s our job to be alpha in this area of the sanctification of our wives, being the guardian warrior who protects her from sin that will destroy her, your marriage, and any children (or future children).

To be a godly man, you must maintain this frame so that your marriage (or future marriage) will fit into God’s frame. Your wife or future wife desires these qualities because she desires someone stronger than her who will lead her. These tests are sometimes difficult to endure, but that’s why you are a man. You are built to endure them. As King David said, “Prove yourself a man!” (1Kg 2.2)

papyjaypaul:
Tarnishing the image of Natasha does not write away the allegations against Akpabio. That's what the SP doesn't understand. We know that there is an attempt to tarnish her name on social media but she has alleged something big and this is not the first time that someone has alleged Akpabio doing that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=057wP_UXpf8?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOa_GrHfJk4

She is not innocent yet and he is not guilty yet but if people accuse you of the same thing, you have to watch out for a pattern there.


When Joy Nunieh raised the allegations, it is this same script Akpabio rolled out. He talked about the love for his wife and 4 previous husbands of the accuser. That's what is happening here again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWfJr1LBdoc?feature=shared

Maybe if we investigated the allegations back then, it wouldn't have got to this stage of the Senate Presidency.

INTEGRITYA1:
We husbands have responsibility of respecting our wives as well and always treat them with honor. That’s for the good woman.

Feminism has tried to brainwash men and women to believe that men should be attracted to strong, independent women who don’t need them, who will compete with them in the physical, intellectual, or financial realm. But we’re not. We’re attracted to femininity; softness, long hair, shapely figures, women who need and respect us.

Many single women today who are quite successful don’t understand why they can’t get a good boyfriend or husband. They have decreased the pool of men who will be attracted to them and, quite frankly, men to whom they will be attracted. Women want to marry up. But if they have a Ph. D. or are a CEO of a company or a competitive CrossFit athlete, the number of men to whom they will be attracted has diminished greatly. Feminism can’t wipe this out. God wired us this way; yes, it may even be in our hindbrain function.

God created the brains of both males and females and wired them, you might say, according to their sex-specific purposes.

dkidd:
Most of the so called "self made women" don't need men to "handle" them, they rather be the handlers and no straight man wants to date another man. It's not just a Nigerian thing. It's global. So most of these "self made women" end up with wimps, fuckboys and gold miners

Because hypergamy is a fact of life, it controls attraction. In younger years especially, women are initially attracted to alpha qualities. These qualities are initially the most obvious. They are displayed. True/Faithful beta qualities are qualities that are displayed over the years. Initial attraction tends to be the alpha qualities. Does he exude strength? Strength is not merely physical (though that doesn’t hurt) but mental, financial (real or potential), and confidence. Is he courageous, willing to take risks? Is he competent? Does he show some mastery in something or is he pursuing mastery and showing competency along the way? These are all factors in attraction.

The man’s work is never done. He has a burden of performance that he must maintain and continue to achieve in some form or fashion throughout his life. Our attraction to women in general and our wives in particular isn’t based on their performance. We are attracted to them when we see them (with certain clothes on or without clothes on, when their hair is fixed a certain way, etc.) and when they show us respect. (I’ll have a whole letter on the subject of respect.) We want them sexually for these reasons. Women desire men when we show that we are performing men; strong, competent, and courageous.

papyjaypaul:
Tarnishing the image of Natasha does not write away the allegations against Akpabio. That's what the SP doesn't understand. We know that there is an attempt to tarnish her name on social media but she has alleged something big and this is not the first time that someone has alleged Akpabio doing that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=057wP_UXpf8?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOa_GrHfJk4

She is not innocent yet and he is not guilty yet but if people accuse you of the same thing, you have to watch out for a pattern there.


When Joy Nunieh raised the allegations, it is this same script Akpabio rolled out. He talked about the love for his wife and 4 previous husbands of the accuser. That's what is happening here again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rWfJr1LBdoc?feature=shared

Maybe if we investigated the allegations back then, it wouldn't have got to this stage of the Senate Presidency.

fuckingAyaya:
their generation did worse but codedly not like this present generation where there's internet and everyone wanna flaunt lavish lifestyles online. I won't say more. Runs wey day in existence before christ?

fuckingAyaya:
Self made women that always use clitocurrency to buy lamborghini, What exchange rate is that?

malali:
If you want to see a hungry politician.

Stand in between party lines.

You see those ones that jump from one party to another.

Those are the hungry politicians.

ppogba:
Jesus!

If only you know who well you have exhibited your ignorance to the whole world, you will rather deactivate this account or come up with another moniker.

Indeed, you are the one with a big mouth and a brain.

If at this stage you do not know that an MD of a large company like MTN is equally an employee then, your case is pathetic.

Ignorant calling others names.

BlueRayDick:
Stealing is a crime whether u steal a small item or a big item.

The fact that what he stole appears to be of little value to u does not excuse the crime. This idea of making excuses for criminals is what makes small criminals graduate to become big criminals.