₦airaland Forum

Prayers have held the minds of Africans down

The feminization of men is the consequence of the demonization of men's innate features. Masculinity is now renamed toxic. Men now want to be effeminate because there are forces that want to weaken society

Focusmind:
My parents generation are the last set of parents to experience what it means to have your children around you, discuss with them, get together as family during festive periods. Our generation will not have that opportunity. Greater percentage of Nigeria's middle and upper class are preparing their children for life outside Nigeria. You can't quantity the true cost of "japa" to Nigerian families. The failure of the system has destroyed the very fabric of unity, which is the family. Generations of Nigerians born abroad will never get to see the country, understand their native languages, know their cousins and even their kinsmen.

Their own parents could pull you from everywhere you are in the world to the family house and there were few telephones yet we that have facetime,Facebook and all the technology are not connected.

The earlier people learn to mind their businesses and let people do what works for them, the better.

All the guilt tripping and ahhh ooh does not help because if you don't pay their bills, it ain't none of your headache. So the child could not be working in Abuja and the father died in Lokoja Or the kids cannot be scattered around Nigeria or even Lagos. How many times do you see yourselves within Lagos People like guilt tripping but they don't want to move on with life. These same people will yab the yaba left out of you if your life no better for home. Now they come to ask you what about daddy or mummy. We cannot live together forever and you should know that. Mummy and daddy will die regardless of your presence. You don't even know that it's the child abroad whose finances are funding daddy's retirement yet na your own papa and mama de collect that same money from father xmas.


Nigerians, no be only u de travel. Indians dey, Chinese dey, even British dey. No be Lebanese dem de Nigeria so? Like if you do not know where you are going in this life, they will just be pulling you here and there with their nonsense opinion that does not pay your bills. I saw NOI give a speech yesterday and I remembered the same woman came from abroad to serve in Nigeria, her mother was kidnapped, she voted during election, she went to WTO, she came back again to give a speech last weekend. She lives in U.S., SHE lives in Nigeria. She is living the life meant for her. Growth does not take place in your comfort zone. Leave that place make you see life small so that you fit come back contribute with a bigger different perspective, not tweet character words.

Fearyourcreator:
He can ask for whatever abeg ... The ones collecting big money before now get two heads

You are right but the cards have to be in your favor too. His market valuation is affected by the current news that Conte wants Lukaku, at the same club they want to buy him from. What does that tell you

Mbappe signed his contract before he went for Euro. He had option of letting his price increase depending on his Euro performance. If he did not sign before the tournament, his price could have reduced as RM could find another star player.

Negotiations depend on a lot of factors. Favor should help you and good press. Osimhen's recent press does not help his favor, both in performance and conduct. He has not played recently for Nigeria and he has lambasted the coach. What is the hype about if he misses the World Cup and Chelsea spends so much on him? How will they resell him? I opened a topic about him when he went live and some things are adding up. His national team appearances add to his market value

https://www.nairaland.com/8127511/osimhen-rant-finidi-george-5

mmadu4:
Men plz value your self more forget these girls .. na only toto them get to offer. even the one you marry and keep in the house. the day you lose your job or go broke . that is the day you will know you married yourself. Baby mama way is the best option now for every reasonably thinking man out there that doesn't want to get tied down with marriage..

Words are enough for now...

Your words must not be for the wise but for the foolish because how do you advise men to value themsleves, then become producers of bastards

If she is a baby mama, what is the man? Baby dada?

Any reasonable man will not bring a child to this world anyhow. Only unreasonable men will think he will just plant his seed and his offspring will not be in his kingdom

Luxury will always get recycled

Fashion will fade and make a comeback

Emefiele


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=todKE4tjj94

Your report cites 40 Indians many who could not speak English among other difficulties then you cite 1 Nigerian and this is how you got your headline Sensationalist

To imagine that the people dragging Dbanj were not even alive when Tongolo came out
If I tell them the koko, make you tell them the truth

Respect will give you wisdom. Disrespect will get you stuck

Educate yourself

https://www.nairaland.com/1551723/records-obasanjos-letter-margaret-thatcher

The education is more useful to Nigerians

DatoDatuk:
Even you failing all your courses in Uniben is still talking?? Dont say nothing about this Southy and Naija issue because you know nothing...and better face your studies little boy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJHKmkE268Q


Dude obviously does not known his history. To sell BP na beans? Or does he know the speeches Murtala gave that got him out?

Did you see the person talk about Soviet and 2000? Should someone tell him what Israel and Palestine are doing in 2024?

That post is evidence of what has always been designed, to make sure your history is erased, to make you look like nothing, to glorify foreigners and colonise the mind. forever slaves


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5rp4_hKSgbs

We4all:
Barbaric! This reminds me of a girl who stabbed her friend to death out of jealousy because she was gettting maried. The neighborhood guys numbering over 100, held her captive and took turns to rape her before handing her over to the Police. As for this man, It would have been better if he was castrated though. How do I unsee this?

murder? rape?

My question is what is ICAN doing about Amosun? Was he professional to be negligent

OALandAgents:
Brown as in South Asian or Arab?
And yeah, what tribe or ethinicity are you?

If only you knew how US defined black until 1920s and how UK defined black until 1980s, you won't be asking this question.

wellmax:
Not a good record for Nigeria.

Can someone please remind South Africans why Nigeria did not participate in the 1976 Olympics in Montreal

This is a moment of lesson for those who forget easily.

1975

The waters are angry. Be careful

The guy looks like Mikel Obi

Banjo phone wey you buy yesterday,

Na im u wan make do shakara for me

Is this Human Trafficking in another format

Who owns the child As co parents. We are not forcing her to marry but you are suspicious in your post and you want people to keep off and not ask questions because it smells fishy. A serious woman who wants to get pregnant no ask about genotype or if craze de d man lineage, she just wan marry Christian brotha. Comot dia!!! A man in his 40s is already thinking about his legacy and he is more circumspect in his approach. Where are her family members



Men, don't fall for this trap even if you want children out of wedlock. A woman's family is everything you need to know about her. If she deserts her family and works with strangers to help her find men like you, the same thing will happen to your co parenting arrangement. Na strangers go put hand for your matter.

Go and speak to the men in her family. Do am man to man, no online arrangement.

Sacrifice for family

Hit the nail on the head. To get that perfect fit, your dream job or goals, you have to be willing to bear the pain. Progress does not take place in comfort.

You can whine about society and how it is unfair but someone is grinding and moving forward while you are whining on Twitter and memes

OP has your teacher taught you about extrapolation and sampling

Peakdesign23:
I once dated this guy who had body and mouth odor. He wasn’t even ready to take corrections, he said it doesn’t really matter. I left him immediately.

Are we going to misunderstand you like Imani

That has implications for sex in the aza room. How do you want her to enjoy the blessings of the Lord if you come with a dirty smelly body on top of her Even if she's enjoying it, your dirty smell will choke her.

Men should listen to women, don't come home from your work with a sweaty body and want her to bend down for you. As a man, you should also make sure your home is comfortable for the aza room. These are small small things men ignore, women are like damsels, handle with care.

Four places for men to clean

1. Armpit
2. Groin area -wash your privates
3. Mouth
4. Hands


5. Bum
6. Chest and nipples
Last one, your neck. Just take a bath and apply cream on your body. Men don't need to take as much time as women do to look and smell good. If that woman is spending 1 hour just to dress up, think about what that means to her as a person if you are dirty.

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