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Gerrard59:
I agree that men could use it to aid the stimulation of a woman during sex. But it has been abused and going forward, many women especially the age range of women NwaAmaikp.e mentioned will only use men for attention and extra money purposes. Most women c.um as a result of extended pre-intimacy. The problem is many men forbid engaging in this act, especially the oral aspect. So, sex t.oy is a massive advantage to women sexually. But because it is a machine, to compete with it as a man, especially in the drilling and stimulation of the vagina is not easy. No man can outdo a machine. So to better satisfy their women, men have to engage in more extended pre-intimacy (advanced MouthAction and smooching) or use sex to.ys. Hopefully, no man complains how it affects his subconscious state.

This is deep. I think porn has really damaged our lives today as it made make believe people's belief

Do men really like lapping up like dogs

Men are not even patient normally and just want to jerk off while women need more time to get in the mood. It's physiological for men and psychological for women. I'm afraid the gadgets are also destroying women's make-up. If the man is taking too long or not doing pre-intimacy well, she just takes the machine that can do the work. I think people are not going to be satisfied amd content, they will want more than the human body can naturally give. Dopamine effect

Love800:
But the main bases is that daycare and Kg are important in the lives of children, whether its at home or in school. So if you as a parent dont have the tools or resources to give them this experience, you can outsource it to schools. Am are right?

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Ogede

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saysoo:
1994 set are the best we have had,
African champions.
Two 2 world cups qualifying consecutively.
3 World cup second round qualifying.

Respect that squared.

Thank you for the education. Perhaps, a lot of people are miseducated.

OP, if you are really interested, listen to this sermon by Late Prof Oluwole. If it doesn't challenge you to know your roots, I can't help you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ExKGqmnRfuM

Gerrard59:
It is, as no man can outdo a machine. It is almost similar to masturbation in men, but this time propelled by a machine. Men cannot compete. Just have your fun, but don't seek to kill yourself on top of a vagina. A intimacy gadget is nearby to do it.

What do you think about virginity? I am just having a discussion with you and you don't need to agree with me, I just want your take.

Before the gadgets, women could masturbate solo or have another girl (which is how many learned lesbianism in boarding schools). Here, when she gets married, the same feeling before marriage can never match sexual intercourse so no problem.


Before the gadgets, women could have premarital sex. When she gets married, she has to compare her ex with her man. It goes both ways too, for men as well. There is already a comparison for the spouse.

Now that we have gadgets, a man or woman can have a feeling that is similar to a nymph packaged in a machine. Men who buy those sex robots are like this too. A woman's clitoris and body parts have already been stimulated by machines and a man who comes closer is just for choice. That means women who use the gadgets are like men and women who jerk off to porn. They don't need your physical body because they learned how to pleasure themselves by themselves

A woman or man who is a virgin has nothing to compare with so they learn and learn how to enjoy it naturally without comparison with an ex, competition from machine or abnormal pressure from porn

They enjoy sex as it had been enjoyed for years where people explore their bodies before thumping, where they communicate before the action, where they learn the art of lovemaking and not 4kin like a dog. There is sensuality before the sexuality.

Is this a simplistic scenario

Smartcitizen:
I hate you for making this public here.

Most people here are too emotionally inadequate to know this.

Do you think intimacy gadgets are a major disservice to men

edit. I wrote sextoys before the thing changed it to intimacy gadgets

galantjoe:
This man is not too old , he can't be more than 50 years old
Just that he had eaten his quota earlier than his age

Please can you throw more light on what quota meant here?

11Monkeys:
The legendary actor is gone. Recall my childhood days in the movie "Coming To America"

King Jaffa Joffer the ruler of Zamunda Kingdom.

R.I.P

Americans can be idiots oh. I was just looking at the pix you attached and it reminds me about Hollywood's deliberate portrayal of other cultures in the image they want. That's why their people still ask questions if you live on trees and so on.

This is where our people keep seeing themselves as shit and refer to oyinbo this and oyinbo that in every conversation. Hollywood damn well does a good job at protecting their own image and projecting the bad image for you if you don't quickly catch it



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qSElmEmEjb4



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUjfGt2q7zY


I don't think we are learning anyway, we are still infected by white worshipping and PTCD - POST TRAUMATIC COLONIAL DISORDER. Or why would the government not see Nollywood as an asset and national importance? Most people are making skits and selling movies to foreign companies because of FX. We give them the power again to show what they approve. If we were serious as a people, Iroko should be the one making money not Netflix or Amazon or YouTube. That industry can keep many engaged and employed if we organize it well and they will make money for the country through the exports. Shame on us. I hope we get it right some day

Just make sure she isn't epileptic because whatever you are trying to advertise won't sell

Love800:
Daycare is a place to keep kids busy or you are referring to Kg?

Both. Day care and Kindergarten.

The school system is where the child is brought in to be structured for learning. Even if they say they are Montessori or Matterazzi, kids brain are not so ready for the dumping we give them at an early stage, that is why they mostly play and do other activities there. A child with the parents can do all of the same thing, the only difference is that there are other kids there.

In other societies, parents are the ones who teach the kids. They take them for different activities like reading, swimming, running and just living with them. This is where the bonding begins before you cut them off. This is the best way kids also learn the language of the parents because they are the first communicators. The parents not the school are didatic for their kids.

NaijaNaWaa:
Nonsense. You can easily tell that this post is sponsored by this youth jobber that goes by Frank Njoku. Apparently, the (equally good for nothing) minister has snubbed him and he now thinks that he can direct Tinubu (who’s in love with deadwoods) to sack her. Yéyé dey boom

Interview on Arise TV

Report on Daily Trust

Copy and paste on NL

You think he influenced all that as a political jobber


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PqzsvbMVAQ

It's just a place to keep kids busy while the parents are at work. Since women have been brought into the workforce and the man will not take care of the kids and there is no family or community to look after the child again, some people have found a business to sell. Nigeria used to have 6-3-3-4 and you see that minister saying only 18 yos must write JAMB. It's because we don't have a national policy we enforce where every kid must enter school at 4 years old or whatever age we decide. We copy from everywhere. ONE time, we copy from Europe, other times we copy from U.S. in Europe, they give both parents paid leave to take care of their children, in U.S. you are OYO. that's what we copied. Women are not given enough time to take care of their kids so they need to put their children in a placee where there will be 'care' for the day. Child starts struggling with life living and growing up with strangers and we now want tht child to bond with the parents when it is too late and no breast milk fit bring am back

Love800:
Is kindergarten the same as day-care?
What about creche?

Pls can anyone explain these terms for me. Its confusing me.

Hmmm, Victor Ikpeba is on this table

“I sent him a message that it was not the best way, just someone telling you that coach said that and you’re talking about me like I said it in an interview,” Finidi told Nigeria Info FM.

Hopefully, he will learn with time. To go far in life, be humble. Humility is not weakness, it is the supernatural that will come for you when you acknowledge your mistake and move on.


I wish all of them well.


Osimhen Rant On Finidi George: 5 Lessons For Life
https://www.nairaland.com/8127511/osimhen-rant-finidi-george-5

I don't know if it's just me but I hate it when women stand like camels

What has a spokesman got to do with the President's performance

Spokesman is an errand boy, he says what his Oga says. So what's this about? Is this how some of you expected Abati to make decisions for Jonathan when his portfolio was not that?

bixton:
Wike is not like Ajuri and vice versa.
Irrespective of what those members think about or have against Wike, it would be a hard one for PBAT to listen to anyone when it comes to Wike. There's absolutely no sin or crime those who dislike Wike have not done and even worse as far as politics and politicking is concerned in Nigeria.
If PBAT decides to put Wike away then it probably means the APC chances of winning another Presidential election is very slim and dangerous.
If you look well even amongst the Ministers, there are few and not more than 5 who have substance and what it actually takes to win even an election.

The bolded is how Ajuri got his position after Buhari left.

MadPolitician:
Maybe the attitude of these people in power reflects some sort of throwbacks to the indigenous cultures from where they come from. It is becoming obvious that those who have been ruled for ages by autocratic and brutal emirs and obas, seem to see governance as a place where an emperor dictates and the people follows, without necessarily worrying about the different layers of pangs of poverty tinibulating the masses. They can't do without being brutal too, since thats all they know about.

That is the only conceivable reason left to explain what is going on. Most prehistoric Obas and Emirs in some areas that formed present day Nigeria, were brutal despots who were projected as not just rulers, but as diviners too. Semi gods. They were the executive, the judiciary and the legislature in one body. The made laws and their brood of serfs bowed to say yes. Some even rolled in the mud to greet them. They had little regards for the poor tucked away in forgotte remote villages.

That is where this problem started. Because it is now obvious that the products of these societies lack empathy when they eventually find themselves government. They see themselves as some sort of "national Obas and Sultans", and because they are used to people from their ethnic groups finding it it hard to criticise them as was the case during the precolonial era, these leaders also expect the rest of us, including those that never had "almighty" obas and emirs, to also swallow their bullshit, line, hook and sinker.

Believe me, it's cultural..

Oh yeah. It's cultural Read, watch and listen to some history.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UClZ8PnGPD4




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4hZ2DmS0bk


Your comment does not show that you understood the history of our traditions with government arms like judiciary, legislature and executive. You don't even seem to know what women protesting naked meant for a ruler or who was part of his council. You simply assumed they had autocratic powers.

Unfair taxation and levies is what led to the Aba Women Riot and Abeokuta Women Riot.

The work of Zeinab Bedawi is something you should look at if you want to understand some history and cannot read. Look it up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4hZ2DmS0bk

Makamatic:
No industrial revolution , no means of industrial goods movement , no good healthcare, heck they even brought maize ,cassava plantain. Tomatoes etc to us , no good education , heck we even use their languages as our lingo franca these are things the westerners conquered more than 250 years ago. continue deceiving yourself , Africa is a massive shithole and would never be at par with the westerner world

And comments like this is MISSION ACCOMPLISHED. They let them reduce themselves to nothingness. Even the Western countries where fellow black people built infrastructure, they make sure they call themselves shit. K.O.

Bob Marley and Fela gave the best advice. Relieve YOURSELF from mental slavery but until you do that, you and your own will remain shit. That is, you amd your own who accept to be defeated in this world, does not find his own history and decides to be shit.

Let me give you one small work to do. Go and find out the various definitions of black in the 18th amd 19th century and tell me who you are

Achebe already wrote it

A woman can sleep with 40 men but a man cannot

Men Think They Are Strong In Bed...this Picture Tells You Not
https://www.nairaland.com/8085674/men-think-strong-bed...this-picture

ukaface:
A different kind of comment from the male specie would have been made if she were African Nigerian .

Na oyibo woman and I didn’t read any form of derogatory comment.

So it’s safe to say, NL men are sycophants

They have low self esteem. Despite that, I am happy our women are not degenerate to this level..The moment we start embracing ridiculousness in the name of anyhownism, we are done for.

Let the Oyinbo woman get all the fake respect she has brought to womanhood so our women will not bring true disrespect to our lineage.

bixton:
The point behind my post is not that he is leaving based on medical issues due to a member of his nuclear family....for that is a story and a fictional lie.
The statement PBAT a telling him which they are telling the public is just a proof that he is no longer with them and there is no place for him in the administration again and in the future.

Is that wrong

I think we are almost saying the same thing. I know there may be politics behind it but what do you expect them to write? I genuinely want to know. It is the most appropriate thing to write in this circumstance, don't you think? Do you remember the StatePress release when Sanusi the CBN Governor was asked to go?

Ajuri is one of the few that got lucky to remain in BAT's team because The President from Day 1 wanted his own men and he did this gradually. Some members were not happy he was left in the position and these are people within the same party. I await the outcome of Wike's relationship with Tinubu because he too is like Ajuri when it comes to how some members of the party view him within the cabinet. I think Ajuri has done well for himself and he may still get lucky with another President. He has served 2 different Presidents. That itself is an achievement for his career.

bixton:
I guess it has to be a secret......
How do you wish someone who is on an indefinite leave well in all his future endeavors!!!
This kind of indefinite leave is a sign that he is longer with them and his services no longer needed.

Isn't there a future after the leave

I think we are reading too much to this. That was the best thing to say, even in corporate world. You want to wish him bad? When people already have a bias against someone, they look for all clues to support it. I am not a supporter of the President and they could have managed the issues behind the scenes and giving us official statements. Even if it is true he has personal issues to attend to, ypu still want to wish him well. common guys!

Ajuri was perhaps the only silver lining in that cabinet when it came to media. Is it Dele Alake, Onanuga or Bwala or Lauretta that behaved well? Time will tell.

aswani:
Some good points by you in your post, thank you so much for the civility too.

However, let's just say while APC people on here were seemingly mindful* of teethering on the boundaries of decency and taste in their opposition to GEJ, Obidients started from as far away from that boundary as possibly (on the wrong side) and then kept moving further away.

*They stepped over the boundary sometimes admittedly but you get the impression there was some element of self control of sorts overall.

I have sentiments for Obi not because I believe he is a saint but I believe the value he would have brought is systemic. What he was able to achieve given the time and resources he had before the elcection and the 3rd position they gave him scares anyone in APC or PDP. It wasn't expected Nigerians around Nigeria will vote that way and in trying to control the fake narrative they want us to believe, this man who was 3rd continues to receive constant attack that Atiku doesn't even worth their time. No politician is a saint and I am old enough to not give 2 hoots about these guys. Not everyone in APC is bad and in this world, you have to follow structures. The body language APC was lying to us about was what Osinbajo did in few days when he was acting. Our big moguls don't want a good system because they benefit from the bad structure but these same guys go abroad and comply.

The people who have spoken for Obi's campaign have been largely civil in the way they address issues but I don't take everything they say or do to be the holy grail. That is why I am not surprised Kenneth left Politicians will always be politicians. I also don't agree with some of the things Aisha Yesufu does, for example, even if they believe they won, she wastes her time saying "not my President" when she makes her videos. Even Obi wey lose has enough sense that the current structure gave Tinubu the presidency even if he felt cheated..

Let's go back in time a bit. Do you remember Okupe under Obasanjo? Attack dog. Fani kayode and the rest of them. Abati could not do that work and Okupe came back again under GEJ but guess what? When he was campaign director for Obi, did he act the same way he did under PDP

Let's look at Femi Adesina who called Nigerians wailers. Let's look at Buhari who calles a certain part of Nigeria 5%. Let's look at Buhari who said if you want to leave the country, you can go. Let's look at Tinubu recently who said, whatever you do I AM STILL YOUR PRESIDENT. Let's look at Wike who said to Ireti , an elected Senator that you will meet me in 2027. Let's look at Akpabio who said make una de protest while we de chop. Let's look at so many instances I can pull out, I don't even think Bayo and Lauretta are worth my time or is it NIDCOM woman who goes on insulting people she is working for because og political differences?

APC officials lack compassion and behave anyhow when talking to Nigerians. That is the biggest insult they can give us. They talk down to us and act as if Nigerians are beneath them. I am happy they are in power so that we have something to compare with.

I am using this speech by Jonathan and cannot believe it makes sense but he was right. Take a listen and tell me if it is untrue. Back then, I would have said Jonathan should please go and leave us alone but time tells the truth.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32aKgc0j0Ws?si=zu03VcjFbD6seehV

But there is still some silver lining. As bad as Adesina and Shehu were, Akande did not involve himself in those dirty games. The current media SA ,our high chief has been mature enough to be civil enough. Not everything can be 99% bad or 100% good. There is always a silver lining

aswani:
I have been on Nairaland for over 15 years, Obidients are by far the worst I have seen when it comes to needless curses, abuses and insults. It isn't even close.

APC supporters started being churlish as a response to the abuse, same as PDP were when they were in charge against posters supporting other party's. However when the abuse got to seriously toxic levels, APC people starred fighting back too by fighting fire with fire.

Those of us that are neutral, and there are a lot of us, are tarred with being APC and lumped in with them to receive regular abuse from Obidients.

You cannot mention Peter Obi in a sentence like "he is not a messiah", without Obidients lining you up in their sights and hammering you for something that is not insultive and is your hover opinion.

For the most part Obidients on here bring nothing to the table, discussion wise, they are also adept at multiple monikers, don't care about being banned and bring mayhem to this portal.

Despite never abusing anybody once, yes I have tweaked Obidients to catch fun at their expense a few times, I can count on the fingers of ONE HAND Obidients that have been civil to me at some point or the other.

Obidients are a totally different level of uncivil and nuisance behaviour, way higher than others.

I don't agree with this though I understand your underlying sentiment. I have been on Nl since 2005, I will not reveal too much but I have been involved deeply before taking a backseat and observing and commenting. Things have changed along the line. There was a time PDP was in power and I know what they used to post here when the AC > ACN > APC guys were trying to gain power. NL started going to the dogs in 2008 and it took a worse turn in 2010 when GEJ was seeking his first election. That is when NL took a downturn. Obi had a lot of youth support so it is natural to have young naiive people in his support base but where did they learn this from? APC has traditionally been good on traditional media and the problem Obidients have given them which they did not prepare for was the social media space. They bought the other spaces with their lackeys but the Obidients with their nuisance value have given them something to chew on. I can show you how APC violated NBC guideline and editorial ethics on TV and newspaper and online. They now want to preach to the youngsters they bred to act civil. How na

Let's not start what we can't Finish. APC is strong on propaganda and the response you get is not totally uncalled for. If you are not careful, they will sail with false and fake news then gaslight us into believing their own narrative. APC cannot cry wolf here when what they accuse Obidients of is what they have on record before they got into power and now that they are in power. That is DOUBLE STANDARD.