₦airaland Forum

IkeGod9891:
In my position am doing well.

Oya go n collect your token. U have defended as per ur job

So you know I am part of the govt and your u are making mouth,if you are better than me make I bend.

Beautifulday:
Nah you wet no get electoral value. If they say wetin him talk nah lie. Make them make public the irev results.

We agree but we can make the mathematics ourselves,who won in his polling unit where everybody was there to see how it was xounted

IkeGod9891:
Unserious man

You that is serious with your life what have you archived

turmacs:
Lolzz, another Audio Promise

From somebody that said he would clear 250k pending passport within 2 weeks and he did it
For somone that said e gate will be available.within stipulated period of time and he did it.bros! Leave hatred ,they guy sabi

Classcaptain1:
He should also inaugurate hyper-inflation, capital flight, brain drain, unparalleled unemployment, banditry, corruption, cut-throat taxation, destruction of the middle class, cyber-security levy, poverty, ethnic division, propaganda and wickedness as his legacies.

Lolz,I don't know you are now paying for cybersecurity
How did he divide you the more

Millimann:
Wetin he wan inaugurate?

Monumental failure

Even with students loan?

oyeb15:
The sole aim of Tinubu buying and grabbing power is to be called Mr President.


Nothing to offer

Even with students loan

Themanleshey:
This man don try small , but inflation and the rate of dollar is what is over shadowing his efforts .

If he can work on those 2 things , and increase the minimum wage to at least 80k or 100k max for the sake of small business and private sectors that won’t be able to afford it if it’s higher than that .

Then we will stop complaining about fuel subsidy removal and electricity tariff removal because those sectors need investment real bad and investors put money where there is profit!

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I am sure it will reach 70k but you guys will still complain.st imagine people are complaining about students loan .

DMerciful:
Illegitimate president.
Worse of the worst

Pls mentioned any president that is legitimate in Nigeria

SoNature:
The true test of leadership in the 21st Century is the ability to grow the economy - SoNature, 2024

Anybody can build infrastructure. In fact, building infrastructure is the easiest way politicians loot the commonwealth of the country, but it takes a leader with exceptional leadership qualities to grow the economy. Tinubu, without a doubt, has been horrible in this aspect.

How has otti grow economy in Abia foe him to be giving the type of praises he received

UselessBuharist:
Lol what projects……. He should tell us his achievements on Economy, Security and how he has tackled inflation

Pls is your state safe? Or better still mention states that you think are the highest unsecured state in not Nigeria

Coolsat:
Minister of power the worst of them all

Coming to be the best of them all

CodeTemplar:
After getting power by all means, they direct the masses to be looking at the ministers. Which minister removed subsidy abruptly? Which of them float naira then started defending it with borrowed forex?

Pls,that subsidy removal is it a good policy of bad policy I want to check something

ecolime:
We have just 4 ministers.

Nyesom Wike
Festus Keyamo
Dave Umahi
Olubunmi Ojo

The rest are just there.

Including minster of sport?

Auxtan:
I am not married yet but I think you totally should avoid whatever will tempt you reporting your marital matters to anyone. Find a way and settle it by yourselves. Reporting outside is the beginning of the breaking point, were intolerance starts growing.

I also said the same thing before Marriage,wait till that time bro you will know marriage is different

Justiceganduje:
Too low.

They should go on strike abi?

Smithkafors:
Why will they wail?. Your sisters or family or villagers affected than the people you are trolling.

Your guys problem is that you feel everything is about politics. You vote incompetent people every year and expect a change.

You can’t even mention one sector in Nigeria doing great since 8yrs ago till now.

Make una try dey reason abeg.

Infastructure,sport, FCT,security e.t.c are all doing great

franchasofficia:
Nothing happened until they secretly borrowed billions they were using to defend the naira, and now the money they are using to defend naira is finished the naira free fall has continued until they are able to borrow another trillions they will use to defend it further, you better wake up from this Baba Ijebu government

You believe when dollar was going up ,but you don't believe when dollar was coming down

LadyExcellency:
Wole Soyinka won't talk about it. He is so full of himself to assume a god status over Obedients. A man who has refused to criticize the Tinubu government because of tribalism

The man get brain to know that we don't judge govt within a year

franchasofficia:
Lol, fools in power

First they blamed AbokiFX website

Later they blamed BDC operators

And then crypto currency trading platforms

They even blamed Nigerians studying abroad

Then currency speculators

Also blamed some CBN staffs

Now it's the turn of blaming demand season


Tinubu's failure will shock Tinubu himself, including his wife and son Remi and Seyi


Una carry terrorist make President, that one destroy Nigeria una no get sense to correct the mistake, una come carry drug lord who happens to be a Lagos looting machine make am President, una never see anything

When all those factors he blamed were sorted out,did you see the changes or you are still blind to see it

christejames:
Akpata is our guy the new man to sanitize Edo State

Your own always dey different sha,even Àpata knows that he can't get second

Benjamin4388:
what the dirty job please ?

You fit pack dirty?I have a vehicle,I pack waste

vengertime:
go and check your jamb and waec score first

Lolz,Jamb score?If you are still in category of jamb or projects that shows is me and your father be mate,is my third child writing that now

vengertime:
PDP should never be allowed to come to Abia State again, Otti is working with J.Berger thats someone who wants his roads to last more than 30+ years.

this is what happens when you send political jobbers and people who have godFather to settle. PDP was all about stealing day and night

Otti has non of that, in Abia state its either youre working or you get out of the state. no room for free political jamboree

Pls what is the economic important of the road when the state are hungry.na road we go chop?

Godfullsam:
I guess he is a fresh graduate. His eyes will soon clear

Lolz,I am a private school teacher with a sakry of 60k I do dirty job that pays me #250k in a months,my students sees me and laugh but I know I am richer than some of their fathers,abeg laugh me but let me sha get money

MEEVEET:
Which part of the Constitution empowers national Assembly to carry out projects?

There are giving constituency allowance

pneumaticos:
It's takes years to deal with the problem of upbringing
You pay the bills, but she has what she does that you can't do too

The issue is the way you where brought up
I served in the restaurant for several years , so I am kinda of miles ahead of wify in this serving and kitchen matters
But then, I can remember I got corrected several years too before it was learnt

See it that way...

Regarding, taking your child to anywhere
Bro

You won't get that

For a little child
After God
Na the mama get am
You won't get reports about that one
Because,you can't tell that child's needs as much as the mum can do
If she decided to take the child to hospital when you are not around as a result of health issues she perceived
What would you do
There are some instinctive activities around the child that can never be discussed with you
And bills don't do them ... except the bills see the woman to mix with before been effective

Regarding servicing you...be patience
Regarding your kid.. forget it..it's too much and you won't get it..and if you force it..you will be heading for another woman who will show you balaubalu

In a well organized family,anywhere anybody is going the head of the house must be aware.if I can't have where my wife is going becaue she is now called an adult,I must know wher you are taking my child to

grandee4u:
I just stumbled on the internet about the news of Junior Pope's funeral taking place now In Enugu, the actor's home state.

And then this very thought, hit me so hard like I lost a loved one; what do you really fear most in life

Lets have your thoughts, mine is Old Age by that meant a state of absolute dependence on people, feeble and helpless.

You can plane for for your old age while you are still alive now

cocolacec:
You call your father's age mate single.This nairaland boys no sabi anything about marriage.
Nb: Stop disturbing us on the internet if you dont want advice.Deal with your issues yourself boy.

Funny you,and you think I just married 2 years ago means I am a boy?I am very sure you can't be older than me to the point of my dad,talk your talk but don't put my papa there,pps removed your age from 43 and let me see something

FreedomfromtheT:
Reasonable Nigerians including Southsouth people should not be happy at the colossal waste of money at a time like this on what is seen aa a white elephant project when there are better things the Southsouth need that are relatively less costly.

Pps how did yiu think the coastal road is planwd to be financed?

cocolacec:
Nothing is wrong with your wife,you are the one looking for a zombie or a maid.Treat your wife like your best friend not a lord and his servant.

You can also help out with market runs sometimes.caring for a child is a demanding task on its own.

The providing is a small work.i set rules for my house not your house that it must follow.

Pls if you are single just keep quite becaue you won't understand

TheWinterBird:
Re. Her serving you food without clothes to wash your hands:

So... she serves you food, along with water to wash your hands, but no cloth [or towel] to dry your hands and it's the last part you're complaining about? Na wa oooooo. Why can't you get up to dry your hands yourself or is that too much for you to do? That will not reduce your being man; get up and go dry your hands. It's possible she forgets amidst trying to get everything done (going by your post, you probably don't help this woman at all with any chores in the home!!!), so you could get up to do that yourself. It's your type that will not want to lift a plate in the home to wash because your wife is a maid that will do everything. Na wa oooooo.

Another option is to be reminding her and doing it gently and respectfully: "Darling, can you please get me a cloth to dry my hands?" or "Darling, please get me a cloth to dry my hands". If you're doing that and speaking to her like sweetly, she will be remembering gradually.


Re. Her taking the baby out without informing you:

If you're not home and she needs to go somewhere important, is she supposed to call to ask for your permission before going, or leave her baby alone at home because you might not want her taking the child along? Oga, reason am na. This is a 1-year old, so it wouldn't even be a good idea to leave him/her with anyone else (other than you), hence it's best for the child to be with her mother when they need to go out and you're not around. I don't live in Nigeria and see a lot of new moms and their spouses here taking their babies (not even up to 1-year olds) out and about in strollers. They're usually in strollers that keep them protected away from the sun. I hope your wife has a good stroller like that, but if not, get her one! You obviously don't help this woman do anything at home and definitely not outside either, so I believe she's doing the best she can.


Re. the insufficient salt in food

Mr. Man, get a salt shaker (a little bottle/container where you put salt in and meant to be kept at the table where you eat in order to add it to food, if needed). A meal having little salt isn't a bad thing and is better than it being loaded with too much salt! It having little to no salt means you can always add salt when eating. Secondly, we all have different thresholds when it comes to tasting things like salt. It's possible she's one of those people who tastes food with little salt and can enjoy the meal like that. You've to inquire from her to determine if this is the case and if it is, stay with her in the kitchen (hopefully being in the kitchen would not induce any anger in you since you cannot get up to dry your own hands because you're too big of a man to do that) to show her how much salt you'll like her to be adding. That doesn't mean telling her to dump a gallon of salt in the pot and being inconsiderate of her own taste but coming to a compromise on how much salt would be cool for both of you. In the meantime, get a salt shaker like I suggested above and if you show her and you find the food is still lacking the amount of salt you like, then continuing using the salt shaker and add your own salt when eating.


As for your temperamental issue, get help. I don't know what she was thinking marrying someone "very temperamental" and seemingly sexist. You're close to turning her into a punching bag (I hope you're not already doing that) because of these small issues, therefore seek help before it gets to that stage.

Yiu can't take my child to anywhere without informing me not even your matters house. you must inform me before letting my child goes anywhere,you can go anywhere you like but for my child ,I just be aware


I don't do anything at home and I won't do it except I feel like doing it,I also don't share any bills and I will never get you involve in my bills,infact I don't even expect you to say thank you for paying any bills, I wnt even ifoemwd you that I have paid, so why getting me involve in your work,if you think you are big for it then tell me to get you a partner and that will be second wife.

Roles are define and if you think the roles are to big for you then tell me,I will know what to do,you can't force me to do house chores in a house where you and I is living,I take care of you and secure you like your dad,can you adyiur dad be at home and you expect your dad to be washing plate or you share work to your dad