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Mariangeles:
Always speak your language to your children, and they'd learn.

We learnt how to speak Igbo from my dad, and not my mum.
While growing up, we only spoke English, then my dad called us one time and said from then on, whatever we wanted to ask or say to him should only be spoken in Igbo.
At first, it was so hard, we would mix in some English.
We would take long trying to explain ourselves, but my dad had the patience and it paid off.
We only communicate with my dad in Igbo till today.
No be only mothers dey raise children.

missdee23:
Best way for them to learn is to have you speak to them in your native language right from when they are babies and they'll pick up from there. In fact, they might probably be better at it than your wife though she has a longer headstart than them. Children can learn multiple languages, not so easy for adults (too many things to worry about ). They can even learn yours, your wife's with the English
language.

SanctifiedSista:
Teach them by making them go to a language school wen they are older

Opeyemiextra:
First, is your wife interested in learning your language? If she is then it would be a lot easier. If not, the bulk of the work is on you then.
Secondly, are you in an area that can enhance them learning the language? If yes, great but if not it falls on you, again.
There are kids in the abroad and even here who learn languages of their fathers. It would be a little difficult but
... Compose songs in your language for them
... Write and tell them traditional stories in it. You may want to write some down too.
... Whenever you are with the kids, speak to them with it.
P. S this should begin before the child can speak or even understand anything.

samwash:
All this people self I tire for una, any relationship with the opposite sex is just all about sex sex sex.
That's why we don't make headway abt relationship,we don't value friendship at all.
If some of us were to be living in the developed world, many of us for become a victim of circumstances due to rape.

marhez43:
If u dont have money abegii park ur load go another girls side i cannot suffer with any MAN.men double your husule

cassidy1996:
Being married is not easy, but patience and endurance is needed

if not for my wife, i for nor do this Christmas . GOD bless my wife

Rtk5:
My brother, you're right on point, the parent are even over struggling. Do you know anytime she packs and go to her parent's place if i don't go to beg them amd her to come back, she would forever remain there?

DannyXpress:
The signs have always been there just that you chose to ignore it because she has a fine face and a large ass/hips


Once you build your relationship on a faulty foundation, you won't escape things like this

Just move on and Keep working to improve on yourself.

everythinggirly:
It's good to pray for the right one even before marriage, someone that loves you can't hurt you. Love never fails.

ezugegere:
You dated somebody's daughter for 10 years? Both of you need some strokes of the cane seriously!

kenzysmith:
Masturbating nov 2011 quit 2021 feb but i think he has already damge my physical looks

BePrepared:
Greatest mistake I made was waiting till I was 18 b4 giving my life to Christ.

I can't imagine I wasted 18 years of my life

God help me

Abudu2000:
I regret not
Learning yahoo when i hard the chance. My cousin was even begging to teach me coz he saw i had the brain for it. Now he's busy buying houses while I'm just a broke architect.

Singleone461:
Giving birth, is my worst mistake. but I thank my God that I'm standing on my feet now

Agboconsult1:
Mine...around 2014 i missed an opportunity which would have made me a millionaire. And again heading back home after NYSC. BIG MISTAKE

Ochemicals:
Meeting the devil herself.
"The devil is female"
Ran away and left two kids. 1 and 3 years.
Been taking care of them myself ever since. Now they're 4 & 6 years.
No househelp only me changing diapers bathing and doing everything.
And i still do my 8-5pm job. And my side hustle intact. In all, I realized I'm a Superman sha!

nabiz:
mine is joining a cult group during my University. I still regret it, though l learnt a lot from that. I am now in a better position to council young guys.

Singleone461:
Guy, from what I have seen so far, I'm afraid of marriage

Singleone461:
Domestic violence and divoce. This two is keeping me single for now

BadRadio:
As for me, I can't stand the sight of a fat woman... sorry, no disrespect to all the beautiful fat ladies out there... its just that everyone has got their own spec...there's this thing between me and slim ladies.

My future wife has better not get fat with protruding belly, else I will personally introduce my slim side chick to her. I don't like what I hate

This is still a childish talk


That's my biggest fear

Aditkd:
I and my partner. �. We talk a lot about esoteric books we have read and the ones we haven't we exchange books and also go out for more books to study.
We do have a healthy appetite for fine whisky's, red wine, tequila's and ports.
So some evening's we just drink and talk about books we have read, how the week went at our various works of life.
We give each other advice concerning investments, we gossip ehh chai, we are more like best pals than people in a relationship o jare. To me he is my BEST FRIEND and LOVER combined.
Our relationship is not solely built on sex, though we have a healthy sex life but it's more of intellectual. Thank you.

ojasweb:
Definitely no.
But at the time she got pregnant, i am already capable, so I happily agreed to do the needful.

siofra:
That boy is angry with me because I refused to give him sex during the relationship. Because I'm a Christian and a child of God.

November24:
Well,baba,me I'm a God-fearing woman o.
I lost my virginity at 28.

I was just a naive girl.

My immediate ex is late. He had heart disease,I stood by him for 3 years before he passed on..

People are different sir

byteem:
Go to North.. U go see am tire

chatinent:
I hope this isn't a kanayo-o-kanayo mathematics.


By the way, it's sad to lose sb. Death is inevitable after all. What I don't understand is that when sb dies, another person will run and post “He shouldn’t have been Fortune.”

Who should it have been?