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Successfulben:
It is a BIG sin to have a girlfriend. You and that girl are both candidates of HELL except you repent.

Pastor,what should we now have?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Are you saying it’s a bad thing?[/color]

Yes,it is bad.I was train like that but I am regretting it now,family first!!!
Eniyan laso eniyan

It depend on how the parents train them

No reason I change my TV be that

ekene101:
Nothing..they are the same..

So what now make LG 43 inches almose double the price of 32 inches

Apart from the size please what other feature make 43inches different from 32 inches

harmony75:
it's not a big deal for a child of God.. you can only understand if you're a child of God. God's grace is sufficient �

Are u OK? You talk as if u are the only one that know God...we are talking about nature here, for years nio,nobody to toch her for more than 3years,stop deceiving ursef

Japz:
You’re very stupid and wicked !!! If they’re oppressing you, your best option is to leave your current place and move out to a place you think would be suitable for you. What will you gain if you call the feds on them? Leave those hustlers jhor

Am not suprise sha with this ur respond
If he pack out and move to another quite area,what is the probalbilty that another Yahoo guys will not come and join him in that area
Better still what of if the house belong to hin, he should move out becaua of yahoo guyZ

Blabbermouth:
A fat lie to prove a cheap point.

For ur mind,I am.Lairing, seee u,if u don't believe is your cup of tea,the more we live the more we know.

just know this,Virginity does not garunty a good or faithful wife, I have seen a Lady that marry as virgin and still cheat in marriage, and I have seen a prostitude that never open her central bank for somebody else again after marriage.like me,I don't care if u cheat in me,most important thing is I should not just know.I trust alot

TheWalkingMind:
If you schooled in OAU and stayed in Awo, you can cook with #0. In fact, you can eat comfortably the whole session without bringing foodstuffs.

When did u pass out in oau?

CHOPbeating:
I met her a virgin, naïve but very descent. She later told me her status when I had struggled so far to get in, I found it difficult to believe due to how girls have been, especially in our university environment – A normal young man body go always hot, I thought I should check it out.

…I love her over the years having known her deeply, and at times, we would be pondering independently who love each other more, so I relieved going more for the intercourse. In fact, I am more of the agbero compared to how cool she’s been (then we designed a way of cooling off when I noticed she was new and true). I’m not naturally a cheating guy and I think I only dug the hole of two external ladies in our 8 years of dating – I no holy pass, but I’m still holy compared to many other guys around me.

I am a choleric man and at the same time I am as cool as water. I avoided more girls (even up till now) cuz anyone I tried to date would always want to hold me too tight – especially when I penetrate their kpekuism (na die for dem).

So we found a way of getting along with very low sexual life knowing that she was sexually inexperienced (I could vividly say that for sure even before marriage – 8 years no be 8 minutes). Up till now, new people would call us siblings (brother and sister – we’ve come to resemble). She’s made so many sacrifices that a woman without your true love would not attempt, and I’m a scarce man too; I had my sacrifices.

Then days after marriage, I penetrated (it was very stressful that I had to watch online videos to learn how to open it – we even quarrel small in the process when the whole thing became so laborious). I never cheated ever since our marriage and I do not intend to. Even if I find she was not a virgin, I will still accept her fully because I’ve known her so much (though I may scold her to express my disappointment) – but at last, it was true.

My way with her might not work for others. It would be a very big risk to try that with many girls of nowadays that can so pretend. Mind you, I was a broke ass nigga when we were dating until about 2 years before married. I’m a researcher and have won many academic medals + being a confam street guy and I enjoy philosophy, so I had the wisdom to discern and know the true her overtime and discovered she is my GOD gift. Ezi nwanyi di uko (a good woman is hard to find).

Though everyone with their own palava, nobody has it all but her advantages far overweigh her shortcomings. Even me too, my head dey touch; I’m not perfect. So, she married my good and shortcomings together, the same way I tolerate her too.

She has been a GOD sent and more than just a woman. Only those without the experience of true love are convinced there’s nothing as love – it does exist. I am enjoying myself and have rest of mind.

Peace.

am really impres with ur testimony,how I wish I can share such one day,but the ground have spoil already,but anyway God is invlove

Bigfish121:
Before I marry anybody I am dating,she must live with me for at least 6 months or 1 year.let me see if I can endure her.i nor want hear story.
To me that girl nah loose.fkrget those her plenty talk.

you talk childish.
when u get to a certain stage in life u will know ,people change with respect to circumstances, the same girl u know very well today might not he the same you know tomorrow due to.many factors,like money,child position.e.t.c

lanreonplanet:
A deeper life member will involve the marriage committee in your quest to marry her. They will insist on genotype test, check whether you as a man is potent, HIV test. Both of you can only meet in a public place, no exchange of gift or money until you're married. This your babe may be attending Deeper life, but she is not a member

what of if she is dating somebody that is not depper life church nko?

CalliDora1:
Not really.

The last relationship I had, ( I won't lie) I visited and even cooked.

Today, if I get into any relationship, and I'm sure we are heading to the Altar, I will visit and try to put a few things in order, to suit my taste. Though I'll be careful not to sleep over and it has to be a trusted bro.


If you both are spiritually mature, you can handle it. She can and should in fact visit and try getting herself used to the new environment. Simple!

wat can u do in the night that u can't do during the day,I love ur sincerity sha.thanks. am oluwadamilola

healthbing:
For me it's important to know the house of the person you want to marry and get to know how he lives or do things.

If you can't visit him than collecting gifts from him is also not good..

To take precautions Don't go at odd hours and Don't sleep over.

You're relationship is intimate enough for her to visit you maybe with friends or siblings since her parents are aware of the relationship..

For me before I say yes to any man
•I must know your house
•Your parents house
•The way to your village
•Your village house
•Your work place
•Your best friends place and behavior
•And I must be sure you don't have any erectile dysfunction through test..

A woman I know got married to this guy without knowing his place because the guy told her that their church don't let a lady visit a man before marriage and after the marriage she found out the guy was squatting with a friend in a one room apartment and that brought the marriage to an end..

You have to know how a person lives to be able to manage that person.
Some persons are actually very neat outside but so dirty inside.
While some married men keep their wife at Aba and go to Abuja to get married again.

Visiting a man is not sin see it as a way of checking how much you can control you sexual urge.
Many people have fallen victim to fraudsters,cheats and liars because of this.

Our prayer each day should be 'Lord lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil'.

If you love her go and make your intentions know to the parents formally (introduction) maybe after that her parents will allow her visit you

u mean,before u say yes to my proposal to date me or to marry me? if we both.meet outside the country nko?

CalliDora1:
If you're tripple sure she will marry you, don't force her to your house. Even me as an RCCG member, we are not advised to meet in secluded places.


As for the money.. I can't advise you not to help her. It's your money, do whatever you deem fit with it. Some "student" wife to be are not loyal.

are u engage?
did u visit ur fiancé @ home?
did u cook for him? pls answer the following with all sincerity.thanks

CHOPbeating:
Dear chinedumc91

It is not quite, but very dangerous to intend marrying someone whom you have not known so deeply; that is why many contemporary marriage scatter.

You guys needs to be really into each other in all perspectives so that you can have series of problems and settle it; your both abilities to settle such issues are what would establish the fact that both of you can get along. Even if you date angels, there must be problems!

Even though my own was too long, I dated my wife for 8 years before marriage; we met early in university, graduated, served, and until we both got jobs. But we do have issues as we get along; it, therefore, taught me that until death do couples apart, they will always have problems.

A girl that is as Deeper as her in Christianity (so she claims according to your write-up) even up to the extent that she doesn’t want to come to your house based on her church’s guidance that she’s adhering to, yet she knows what it means to be collecting money and gifts from a man; Christianity generally does not support such.

I also want you to note this: A Deeper girl has nothing really to do with such volume of carryovers; she’s expected to be serious and morally good. Who da hell is registering carryovers with N50k? shey we no go school? How many carryovers and why? I can’t condone or overlook such nonsense. Lack of academic seriousness alone is a very big factor to cause problem between I and my bae; she knows me.

Look beyond ass, breast and affection; you need more than that in a woman. If she can accumulate such academic debt as N50k due to loss of focus, that alone destroyed her moral ground and shows that her education is a waste.

I graduated from a university where girls are just about runs (sexual business) and I’ve lived so closely with many to understand their life and how they feel, so I’ve seen enough girls to advice you that SHE MIGHT BE A LovePeddler (and they always need money). You might nearly die the day you’ll find out. But wait, which school is she studying in?

THEY WILL LOOK SO INNOCENT BUT THEIR RUNS MIGHT EVEN BE INTER-STATE THAT MEN PAY FOR THEIR TRAVEL EXPENSES.

Guy only GOD can singlehandedly give you the woman HE alone has prepared for you.

I DON SEE THINGS ABEG!!!

I love ur wirte up,u dated ur wife for 8years?wow!!! how did u manage to cope,
be sincere,did u engage in premarital sex? are u not tired of her nagging now? have u ever cheat or her? pls am here to learn thanks

Naanlong01:
My brother, that's their Church doctrine, am presently with one

and u are doing the sending?
is good ooo
I respect man that can do it because I am very stringy,
am very nice but very stingy,I encourage no sex before marriage and also encourage no kobo before marriage

pls of what use is Christian courtship (am also in 1 now going to 2 years) u spend like eveery regular guy outside do all wat of things but she can never come and cook for u even if u are sick, I am getting tired of it

iamcee:
You said "without having sex first too see if she is great at it" .
So, pre-marital sex should be made compulsory,right?..okay so,when you have sex with her and she isn't good at it,you would dump her right?.. after dumping her, then her next bf is someone like you who likes testing and if she still not great at it,he would leave her too, right?..
Is she doing giveaway?
I don't understand this kinda mentality..
I'm not in support of sex before marriage..if you get married to a virgin who doesn't know how to have sex,teach her or maybe she isn't a virgin ,teach her.
Besides,do you wanna get married to a lady just because she is great at having sex?..no other qualities??..Damn!
To any lady reading this, don't give room for sex before marriage..stop rendering yourself cheap.

sorry to ask,
how old are u?
what level are u in school?

this descion is the best u have make,but with time I will see if u can stand by it or not..talking from experience sha

thinkmoney:
She is doing one good but leaving the other out.
*It's good she doesn't want to come to your house. She should consider coming in company of friends or a brother.
* You too on the other hand is not obligated to fund her.
If she isn't telling u that deeper life actually discourages collecting too much from somebody you are in courtship with, it may be that she is being selfish and really want to just use u

are u a dapper life member?

boom99:
Everything way get advantage get disadvantage. In deeperlife courtship you are not allowed to touch yourself or cook for the guy. Because after 6 month courtship if you don't like yourself you go your separate ways. The lady won't feel cheated cos you no use am dump

who will now refund all expenses the guy has incure in the cause of the relationship.



if what u are saying is true,I think I need to tell my younger sister to start going to deeper life so that one mumu brother can toast and and pay her school fees then break up after 6months

LoyalHustler1:
Hello nairalanders, i want to know if i can build this type of house in three months.

All funds are available and Money is not really a problem, i want to know if it's very possible to build like blocks of flats in three months, i am even thinking of two months but i was told it's impossible.

Pics below

How many bedroom flat?

Viralmagg:
Thanks

Which browser can I use to play it

Good day nairalands, pls any body with simple 3bed room design, all what my engr is showing me is outdated..pls u can chat me up on 08068791600
remember all rooms must be cross ventilated,including dining

Chii59:
At my current age. I'm at the peak of my beauty, with all my features intact. Stop looking at me like that

What age pls?

Pls,I want to know how u can know w guy love a lady very,what a the sign?

Martdc:
Me, my bro and dad got 30k each

How u take apply

Racoon:
Senseless & useless explanation by dumbass religious fanatics in govt.

Is well...you talk childish... How will you justify the post with your respond of religious fanatics in govt

Yes

Zzor:
my aunt is 40 and not bothered,she has everything and will only be doing a man favour if she eventually decides to settle down.shey men brag about money,so if a woman now have that money in surplus,why would she be desperate over a man

You sound childish....
Woman count marriage has security, to be secure...a lot of woman nowadays don't even need a man that will spend on them they are ready to spend on you if you can just let her be bearing your name,there are a lot of intimidation where an aged lady never marry,so they always want to get marry as fast as possible, you might not understand now but when you rrwch the age you will knwo what it feel not to be married

GraceMicheall:
I WILL ADVICE YOU AS A CHRISTIAN THAT I AM,


GO DOWN ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY TO GOD TO DIRECT YOUR STEPS AND SEE YOU THROUGH.


HAVE FAITH AND LISTEN TO HIS INSTRUCTION
AND THANK HIM LATER.

Have u serve? If yes where did u serve? Why did u think you serve where Did want u to serve?