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Family › Re: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Pascopele(op): 2:12pm On Mar 16, 2022

Mercychen:
The wife deserves a hot knock on the head.

Did she see any love message?

She folds her hand watching her family almost dying of hunger and does nothing. The man goes out of his way to beg ( not cheating on her in the process) so they can survive, she's fuming? Shes maaaaad.

Let her go and hustle too since she doesn't want help. Na her fellow woman drop bar without flinching while she's there protecting penis wey no bring food. Oponu.

So far the man did not cheat or is not trying to cheat but only seeking help where he knows he can get, no problems. Any body can help any body provided it's with good intensions.

Let her gerraway.

This even reminds me of my experience with my ex and his ex.

That was in 2013. I was preparing for one immigration exercise that year for a job.
My ex was just out of school then. I didn't have anything doing. No money.

His ex was still on his neck then. My guy told her he found someone else but she wouldn't let go. So he just ignored her.

Now, I was planning to go for the recruitment exercise but no white canvas, no white nickar, no money to move, nothing.
You know what my ex told me? He said his ex had those things, that he'll go and get them for me. I just playfully told him I don't want somebody that will beat me cos I used to see her a lot on the road and she's so huuuge. He just told me she's not like that but by himself later changed his mind.

Another time, he used her account to do a transaction for me or collected money from her and gave to me then. I can't really remember now. He told me about it and I said God will bless her for me. . What's my own.

Romance › A Commanding Officer Always Told His Recruits Two Things Which Really Struck by Pascopele(op): 2:12pm On Mar 16, 2022

A COMMANDING OFFICER ALWAYS TOLD HIS RECRUITS TWO THINGS WHICH REALLY STRUCK A DEEP CHORD.

He said ....

1. Everyday when you go to bed ask your buddy to fix up your uniform and hang it up on the wall opposite your bed.

When you get into bed look at that uniform and ask yourself.... What happens if I don't wear this uniform and try to enter any army installation....?

The answer is far from being saluted!! You will be stopped at the gate and questioned!!!

And if your buddy wears this uniform and walks past the quarter guard he will get a salami shastra!

So the salute was not for you it was for the uniform hanging on that wall which made you what you are but remember it's not going to be yours forever!! It will go away one day...
prepare yourself for it!!!

2. Every day when you finish work make every one leave your office.
Get up from your chair, walk across to the other side, sit down and look at your chair..

There were so many orders you passed today thinking they were very important...

But tomorrow someone else will sit on that same chair and may reverse all your orders rubbishing them..!!!

The orders you passed thinking you were an important person was actually the chair which was passing them. And that chair is only temporary!!! It's not going to be yours forever!!! It just gave you some temporary powers which will be gone the moment you leave the chair...!!!

Use the powers given to you judiciously. Use it to write your name in GOLD, use it to wipe away tears from the faces of the less privileged in our society. Use it for nation building and not with arrogance to prove your superiority!!!

May I ask you

What are you using your uniform or chair for today?

- Are you using them to bring people down and show them where power lies?

- Are you using them to help friends and cronies even when it is not their time and just because they salute you every morning?

- Are you using them to divide and rule and create enemity?

- What are you using them for?

- Remember the person today you are using your uniform or chair to destroy may be the one that will tomorrow supervise your child, nephew, niece, grandson, granddaughter, stepchild, your sister or brother.

- How will you feel if same is repeated on all these people?

- Life is full of uncertainties.
- Think , my brother, my sister think. For you do not know tomorrow.

- Use your uniform or chair to promote the betterment of all.
- Be a mother , father ,sister, brother, a friend to all.
- Hate none, but try to love all. For tomorrow is unknown.

You might not be a military personnel but ask yourself what are you using your position for?

Remember One day we are all going to give account for our stewardship.

No one knows *TOMORROW*

God bless you all

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Family › Re: Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Pascopele(op): 1:34pm On Mar 09, 2022

AutoChick4U:
The wife ought to be thankful to the ex.

Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Pascopele: 10:53am On Mar 09, 2022

Naijeria:
yes sir/ma I have but they are cash strapped at the moment, and staying in school continuously isn't helping at all ,,I jst want to get back so I can work a lil Nd have little cash b4 d school resumes

Look for a building site and carry some blocks, thank me later

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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Pascopele: 8:52am On Mar 09, 2022

Naijeria:
Gud day everyone ,,,am really sorry for disturbing this space but am a student,and I need to go home to hustle for d strike period ,,I don't if anyone can help me out with transport fare ,,I'll really appreciate it ,,tanks Nd once again am very sorry for the disturbance

Have you spoken to your parents about this?

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Family › Is The Man Justified, Is The Woman Right With Her Actions And How Best To Handle by Pascopele(op): 8:44am On Mar 09, 2022

A SERIOUS MATTER THAT NEEDS YOUR ATTENTION

There was nothing at home, no money in account and the children were hungry. He started thinking of way out. Who can I reach out to in this period?
It's serious a issue. He felt embarrassed that his family could not eat properly.

As he was scrolling on his phone then he found his Ex- Lover's Number. Old memory came and he decided to send a funny message as thus, "My wife that run away with another rich man. Tell your husband to send #2k because he snatched my wife".

After a minute the lady replied as thus, "Tell me you don't have money, old husband". Then he replied, " Yes, I don't have money, just send something". In a nutshell, the lady send 20k into his account instantly.

He jumped up, took his Master Card to the nearest ATM and withdraw. He gave his wife 10k and keep the remaining. He lied to her that a friend sent the money. She buys food stuff and prepare food. He was eating and left his phone on the TV when a message came from his EX asking if he had seen the money.

His wife saw the message, she took time to read the previous message.

Now, his wife suspend everything. She decided to be starved than to eat from that food. He tried to explain but all in vain. Worst part of it is that she instructed the children not to taste or touch the food.

Is the man justified?
Is the woman right with her action?
How can the situation be handled?

Please I need intelligent Answer

Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:37am On Mar 09, 2022

Karleb:
Na you no dey get the point.

The claim that you can't work at 60 is bullshit!

There is nothing wrong with being 60 and your first child 20.

At 60yra you probably don't have the strength and possibly have some underlying health conditions which would be eating a chunk of your income.

Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:31am On Mar 09, 2022

In few cases though

SmartPolician:
I think the most important virtues in marriage are love, respect, fear of God, support and understanding. If you see a woman who has all these qualities, don't think twice before settling down.

For every man who genuinely works hard and stays focused, money will definitely come. The truth is, if you marry the wrong woman, she will ruin your life.

Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:29am On Mar 09, 2022

You are not getting the point

Karleb:
Wtf are you saying?

Osinbajo is 65 and he has one of the busiest job in Nigeria.

The talk of age gap difference between kid and father lacks substance. Stop it.

His a grand father already the last child is graduated 6-7yrs ago, doing well.

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Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:25am On Mar 09, 2022

siofra:
Stop pressuring these young men abeg.

This is no pressure, it's a fact.

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Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:24am On Mar 09, 2022

Karleb:
So if you marry at 40, does that mean you will not grow with the kids?

What the hell did I just read?

once you first child is 20yrs you will be 60yrs, do you think at that age you can still work at that age?

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Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:23am On Mar 09, 2022

Vulcanizer, bricklayers, Cleaners, Gateman are getting married even in their early 20's don't wait till you are comfortable (but it's relative though) and marry

Favfables1:
OP sir...
I understand the concept of marrying early, but truth is our current economy doesn't make that possible for a lots of people over here....

You said, "if you can feed yourself, you can feed a wife", and this isn't true in all cases, when I was in school, I know many people who at 25 were still dependent on their parents (400 medicine and surgery student), so how do you expect them to be able to feed themselves??

And besides...
See the greed lots of women in our time have...
How many women are willing to stick with a man who can not provide them the lifestyle they dream of? How many women are willing to grow with a man who has little in his pocket?

So my dear...
This is actually not feasible for lots of men out there...

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Romance › Re: Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 8:20am On Mar 09, 2022

AleAirHub:
OP
Who told you that marriage is by age?.

My kindly advice is; Marry when you have the maturity and beside not everyone on earth are all Destiny to marry please.

Truth that your last statement but unfortunately not in Africa

Romance › Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Pascopele(op): 8:06am On Mar 09, 2022

SavageResponse:
If what I saw in your profile pic is anything to go by then I can't say I blame the guy

Romance › Re: Ladies Have You Almost Dated Married Man Who Acted Single? How Did You Discover? by Pascopele(op): 7:40am On Mar 09, 2022

Moeman:
WOW

e shock you abi

Romance › Dear Young Guys At The Age Of 25 To 30 by Pascopele(op): 7:39am On Mar 09, 2022

DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow. My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families. Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. God can change your life in a blink, with a good and Focus wife by your side, you will succeed by God’s grace....
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Business › Re: How My Access Bank Account Was Cleared by Pascopele: 10:16am On Mar 08, 2022

Ifakiland:
Una go just dey post useless imaginary fake story....which one be careless withdrawal, we be like mumu for your eyes

It's like you don't know the level of fraud ongoing in Nigeria

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Romance › Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Pascopele: 6:51am On Mar 06, 2022

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: AdasLounge18 (AL) by Pascopele(op): 6:36am On Mar 06, 2022

sucess001:
Which ones have massive ass pls

You have been given food, you still asking for spoon. Just hold on I will point you to her.

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