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Tallesty1:
A cat

respect80:
Wow! This is amazingly amazing

unpredictedone:
abuja

Strahovski:
Misspicy must be mine or I will cut my wrist and bleed out to death.

I'm rich and young. I have everything an African woman needs!

Misspicy I want you for myself. I am very rich.. I can prove it and I want you to be my friend please.

castroevans:
Bae and I

managermahmud:
No company has such time. So long as u can discharge ur duties efficiently

ZedX9:
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austine4real:
Do skin-skin wt &dump her

cashcity:
I met dis lady when I was serving in gboko, benue state last year. She was serving in the same local government with me. In fact, Wat made us so close after little discussion is that her parents house or where she was brought up is currently the same town with me in enugu state. Feelings for each other started building up becos we were always visiting each other and discussing abt our town and it's latest developments. I decided to ask her out and she said yes without wasting any seconds. Our relationship started moving smoothly to the extent that everybody knows abt me & her. Problem started when she secured a small job as Secretary in one private company within town. Her take home pay was 30k permonth. I was angry with her for not informing me about the job openings as the company advertises other departments apart from secretary position dat I can still fit in. Though, she lives in corpers lodge where info abt jobs in town can be gotten easily and I rented apartment in town. 30k is big money for corpers coupled with 19.8k federal allowee. We were happy after all and the relatnship continue. She is the type of girl that don't ask me anything. She will just enter my house if there is food she will eat and if there is no food she will cook or just relax and we chart and go.
Problem started when I noticed she no longer comes to my apartment as often as b4 and she hardly picks my calls. I will call her like two or three times in the morning as usual, she will not take the calls. Initially, I was assuming she might be in bathroom or seriously preparing for work to catch up with 7:30am office time.. In the evening when she won't be in the office, I will call again like two or three times to know how her day goes, she will still not take the calls or even flash me back when she sees the missed calls assuming she wasn't around when I called. I stopped going to her lodge to examine from that angle if she will miss me and visit.. A lady dat cannot go a day without seeing or hearing from me can now stay weeks without asking abt me and even taking my calls. Pals I started struggling with my emotions just because I truly love her. She is everything somebody like me can be live for.
To make the matter worst,she started using another guy's pics as her WhatsApp profile pic. I took to my heel and entered her lodge and started demanding explanation of why she's treating me bad all this while, and what was the meaning of the pics on her WhatsApp. She wanted to walk away from me but I drew her back. She saw the fury in my face and calmed down to listen to me. I told her that all our corper friends knows abt me and her and they have her contact, means they are her WhatsApp friend. I told her that I dnt really know what she say dat I have done to her, but if she don't luv me again Dat she shud plssssssss don't DISRESPECT me like this. I told her that if she keeps on changing different pics of dis guy on her watsap, dat life Wil be hard for me over here because of the pride we have established in our relationship. Pals I know in life, there is a way you will build a relationship that is soo famous in ur environment, no matter how small ur area will be, it will be difficult to move on or live in that environment when u broke up wit ur partner. Thank God she understood me and called me " baby, pls don't go and kill urself", that the guy in question is her cousin. She said she is always stressed in her work, that is why she has not been visiting me dis days. She gave me a kiss and a hug. The truth is that the hug and the kiss saved a soul dat night from getting hypertension.
She saw me off. I know she lied to me abt the guy. I know she is a professional lier because of other incidences dat occurs btw us. I have caught her on many occasions red handed on other things and if I ask her, she fashions lies to the extent that you that ask her will be wondering if you'd just woke up from dream and start accusing somebody. I was not bordered because wot she was lying to me was on unnecessary issues.
After the fiasco btw us, she started taking my calls, though I was the one doing the "callings" for weeks. She starts her watsap charts with me like dis..... "hey",...." guy",... "oboy sup".." u still dey alive ". (though in a funny way). I have not seen that guy in real life but the difference pics of the guy I kept on seeing on her profile wit expensive necklaces and wrist watches that comes wit the guy's atire forced me to accept defeat in dating her.. To say the truth, they guy is FINNER & RICHER than me(even if it is for ones I say truth in my life). Sometimes I will be wondering if the guy is a musician or actor because of the manner of his dressing.
I started calling her my x girlfriend, though none of us have said "it's over".
Just two months to our passing out in June dis year(2014 batch B),another hidden opportunity came up, trust corpers in lodge, info circulate that federal university of agriculture is recruiting non academic staff. This my x girlfriend called me for first time in three months since our relationship was strained and told me abt it that I shud come to corpers lodge. I was happy and rushed down to lodge. She showed me a photocopied paper where different departments and there requirements are stated. I studied mechanical engineering from polytechnic wit upper credit, she studied secretarial study and therefore choses one in skul administration office. As an engineer, I choose lab attendant(technogist) in mechanical dept. I told my X how important it is for us to visit the skul and enquire how eligible we are due to lack of discharge cert. we picked a day together, went to the skul, met d director in charge of employment. We sat together in directors office, discussed and he assured us to apply that b4 the intake and interview will come up that we might have gotten the nysc cert. Me and my X rushed out, configure our CV in near by cyber cafe asap and returned to directors office within 45mins. The man was amazed ask us..... "are we married corpers?". My X said no that we are good friends. I pretended as if I didn't hear her and we sat down. He called his secretary to come and take our CV to where others were kept. His secretary was on his way to the "Ghana - must-go" where other CV are kept. He called him back, took our CV, open his office table drawer, and gently lower our CV there.. Director started gistin us and in directly toasting her. It doesn't matter to me cos all I wanted was to be shortlisted and he has assured us that.
We traveled back home feeling happy as if we were just given an employment letter. She followed me to my apartment in town because it was already late. She bleeped hell out of my life dat nite and gave me hope dat she has changed,, that she will start putting me ahead of her job...
Just a month and few days later, lists were published. Another batch B corper that travel in time told us that our names were among.. In fact that me and my x girlfriend are the only corpers he knew that was shortlisted . We were very very happy on hearing the news. My fellow corpers started banging in my house and begging me money as if I have gotten the job, and on her own side, hmmmm she wasn't safe either.
I entered book Shop bought two current affairs. Gave her one and preparation starts. I ransacked current affairs front and back.... "I no wan wait for buhari to choose ministers". I crammed all the ones he have chosen. And on my x girlfriend side, she told me she was preparing but I know her work wunt help matter..
To cut the long story short. We went for the intake together and I succeeded and she didn't.. email was sent to me inviting me for an interview. We passed out June dis year and I remained in my apartment waiting for interviews day and she continued her work at least for the month to run out. I researched everything concerning mechanical engineering laboratory, equipments and it's uses. God helped me as he has been helping me, everything I was asked in that day I answered it.
I was given employment latter to resume proper by 1st August.
I told her abt it she was happy for me. Few days later she removed that her cousins pics and replaced it with her own pics.. She started calling me everyday wit a smooth watsap chart. I remained silent and kept on observing her. Just two days of using her pics, she changed it to my pics. I was like GOD,,, "is this how love of a thing really is" ... Just a twinkle of an eye relationship have already changed.. I have never even started work. She now goes to work from my house, spends her money to cook for me, clean houses like professional maid.
I took time to analyze this my luv story hoping to get good advise from my fellow nairelanders.. Am currently dating a new girl in my place of work and I love her so much but this my x. still calling and disturbing me. I still have feeling for my x girlfriend but what she did to me still hurts. The truth Is dat, if she hadn't called me to give me the info I wudnt have applied. Again, It was her Beauty that attracts the director and subsequently made him to give our CV a preferential treatment,or else I wudnt have been shortlisted and she is currently using these evidences to pin me down.. Am in a middle of dilemma right now... Mature advise plssssssss

willace:
I have noticed Dat nice, sincere and Faithful Guys always Get Heart Broken. But D guys who are players and flirts always have good relationships.
I have been a victim of This. Maybe it's because am 2 nice dats y we don't last long in our relationships. But My friends who are players and Flirts always good lasting relationships. I have never double dated before when am dating am always very polite, sincere and Nice 2 these girls.I But I know Of guys who Triple date sef. They are always Rude. At times even beating Their girlfriends. But they always last.
Comments please

Shiningstarss:
I was thinking maybe a lot of work can make me forget someone I love so much. But that isn't working. Any suggestions?

demicupid:
dumb in what sense?

Ugliest:
I couldn't sleep last night,....i had a terrible nightmare ......i have been seeing a particular girl in my dream for the past 7yrs now,,,,..but last night was terrible''' i asked her who she is,,-- she said she's my Coven wife,, .. Gosh!!! Im so scared right now...my dear readers' I can't really explain what happened last night...'''' it was horrible.:. ..Oh God help me..my life is at stake....