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guy I think the problem could be the way you present urself always ready to pay for as cheap as her transport fare when the both of u just met. I was also having the problem of gals demanding from me before the relationship just kick start but I blocked that with an I don't care attitude and not afraid to lose them when I say no to their outrageous demands they begin to respect me more. some when they demand I turn it around like for example give me 2000 naira "oh tanks sweetie lemme send you my uba bank account so that you can send the 2000 naira. u are the best" .
I insisted a gal pay for her things and my as well sometimes, if she doesn't I don archive her be that she is just a liability to me nothing more.i can't be paying for everything we do impossible.

bro this was the attitude my ex gf exhibited,finding it difficult to forgive sha e clear say na she hold the key of the relationship my advice is apologize once if she no gree give her some breathing space. this space go reset her proud self.guy I think u should have other gals some people may not like this especially gals but if a gal know say na only she u get she go dey misbehave. if they know say u get options they no go too dey form especially if they like u. after u don apologize once to two times and she no gree if you free her if she truelly love you she would call back after 2-3days but if she doesn't guy sorry to say she no get love for you. start to dey free her and look for someone that trully love and appreciate you. best of luck

Trina0936:
They are single because they chose to be single(with exception of widows). If they didn't, they would pretend and endure like others.
Most women who pay men for sex are using their destinies just as some men do rituals with ladies. Some things are spiritual,as an African you should know juju dey work. Nothing is really free!
Just because a single mum lives alone doesn't mean the kids won't spend time with their father.
There are many male figures in a child's life and it must not be his father. Same goes for female figures.

sister don't be deceive I know how many single mothers have chat me up on facebook wanting marriage so stop deceiving yourself that they loved being single mothers if they have the choice they would want to get married most are suffering from low self esteem

true talk guys don dey wise up. gals want make u dey follow them bumper to bumper but when you do otherwise rather instead of following them they see you with another gal e can pain. over the years I have learnt to play the trick they play on us on many of them. I starved them of attention and use them as their competitions. I have learnt to control my sexual urge so that I can easily call a gal bluff and not being scared of losing her because her competition are stand by. gals like to use push and pull but with me that's is their greatest undoing because I don't get in the pp rather I turned it on them. one thing I look at for is investment. I don't feel a thing for any gal that don't invest in me because that gal can bail at any time which I don't even care. I hardly spent on a gal not that I'm stingy or don't have money to spend but I like to correct any impression that the guy must always do the spending,if a lady don't want to spend too she can go coz she's more of a liability to me than assets.

Eshence:
so u want every girl u ask out to say yes? lol Dats not possible my dear cus one man's meat is another man's poison wen a girl likes u for whom u are den u don't have to stress Urself too much b4 she accept u but except she dont

true talk but these dating skills would open u up to a wide range of options and help you also in sustaining attraction and keeping ur relationship

[quote author=Topman0001 post=37777833]I think i'm posessed. I just woo girls anyhow and none has ever turned me down and i'm sure it will never happen.[/quote
hahaha I think say na only me dey experience am. though I wasn't like that sha till I learnt from these dating skills

Donpizzle:
BEG FOR UR LUV??..... ITS EITHER U RE DANGOTE OR U FOLLOW HOUSE -HELP...

hahaha bro no hard feelings the op dey talk the true if you bring ur A game na gals go dey beg you. talking from experience

All this epistle because of kittykat?Besides sex,What will I gain if she eventually accepte me?Infact I will be the one spending my hard-earned cash just to impress her.Abeg abeg,I dey go brothel.It saves cost and stress.

impress who bro?gals that's where you get it wrong when you act like a gal is below u she consider u dateable but when you are a ass-licking dude ur worth drop in their eyes. I rarely spend on ladies if they like they can call me stingy but I noticed one thing when I initially spend on ladies it always turn out bad unlike now when because I want to not because she say so. I call the shots now if she no ready she can go for all I care.
the secret is to get gals to invest on u,any gal that doesn't invest on u is not worth ur time and energy cos she has nothing to loss when the chips are down

Sweetlemon:
Lol.
Trust me. Been there done that.
There ain't no laid down principles for dating. It all about chemisty. Things just happen........

No matter how sissy or macho you act, if I'm not naturally drawn to you because I think some rare/desired qualities in you, you are just acting movie. Nothing will happen.

what brings about the chemistry? so many things are involved walahi if the guy can use his mouth well coupled with little cash and swag.i think chemistry would be created.

N1one:
Tales by moonlight.. Go and make money and all girls will be yours..
easy

pure lie if you get money and scooping skills u are good to go

NotNairalandi:
Teach me how to creat everlasting wealth,when I'm wealthy girls will flow on my side like river including Buhari Daughters

guy gals go eat ur money anyhow but if you get game and money u are the complete package that gals would find irresistible not to blow my trumpet but all these techniques works and make u irresistible to the ladies without trying hard

classicB:
.this is one of the most silly post have read here so far, lemme assume that the OP isn't yet a man, cos if you're then u wouldn't come up with this kinda trash u call a post.

are you trying to say a girl u woo cannot say no and mean it?? what makes you think she is forming hard to get when she doesn't have you in mind at all.??
I have a guy that as been asking me out for over 2years now and i have told him NO from the onset but he kept persisting simply because he has a fish brain like the OP , he must be thinking am forming hard to get.
if we don't love you then we don't!!!! you can't force your love on us and if u insist we agree for you then welcome to the friendzone arena, and pls remember not to complain about being friendzoned afterwards
tnks

jeez what is this gal feeling like did the op write on guys following gals up and down like mumu nahhh rather he is telling guys how to work on their approach. I really sorry for that guy wey dey ask you out for over 2years now he no get work at all no be all guys get that kind of time, me I will not spend one week on u trust me coz my plate are full

I don't think him not calling often means he doesn't care, I for one I don't call often because I have had bad experiences with calling often. I'm used to not calling my gal often not that I don't care for her nor I'm with someone else. we are not robots that would be feeling love 24/7 we can be occupied with work,from ur write up u said he should have called for sometime before u decide to call him that was wrong maybe he meet someone who keeps In touch with him regularly so u are gradually fading out of the picture. communication is two ways I think he got tired of always being the one calling and he stopped. we guys have pride we can tolerate something for sometime but when we pull off it is hard to come back to our default setting.

that escofi button technique na killer,when I used it gals were hooked they don't know why. I like and love ILegend write up coz it is practical and easy to learn. despite some insults escofi button have help me now to work with an abundance mentality that I'm not scared of losing any gal no matter how beautiful and endowed she is

if I find a gal beautiful instead of telling she is cute I usually tell her she's ugly that's reverse psychology. gal do the same to me too so bro she is attracted to you but no want make your head swell

like seriously good riddance to bad rubbish I don't waste my damn time on one hoe claiming level no time to waste na only her punnany dey mtchewww gals wey plenty everywhere I can't even count how many I don see now. so why this ego seeking gal come dey broadcast this rubbish for guys to see foolish. this guy fall hand seriously gal wey supposed to dey beg instead u bring urself so low to type all those rubbish.

ur story remind me of 10years ago when I was ur age how time flies I had a gal then who I loved deeply too though she also loved me when I told her I love her she said I was funny really I was I said it like a child when I look back now I laff at my stupidity then I never had a very solid relationship when I was in the university because of the so called love I had for her but all I can see now was a childish guy who never know what he was talking about.
I have moved on no feelings for her anymore and I have met gals who I appreciate and cherish more than her so my advice for you cut ties with her love is not forced stop killing urself over someone who might be somewhere enjoying her life with another guy u know what I mean.
broaden ur horizon they are finer gals around who would appreciate and love you right now focus on ur studies and be successful u will have more admirers than u bargained for.

ILegend Baba I hail o keep the story coming already glued

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obontami dey talk the truth most of the ladies I have bleep have weak pussy only 2 I can remember was tight truth be told what u said is right no sentiment attached I don't know about my sisters or cousin they get their life to live. people should stop using blackmail of one's sister, mother or cousin.
the truth is bitter but it should be said I stand to be corrected but I think naija dey Bleep sha imagine at 21 years one pussy don wide like river benue.

guy na exactly wetin ur gf dey do you my ex gf do me though I didn't buy the phone for her sha but I could look at her phone before but all that change months into the relationship. people may not like my advice but u be her papa? wey go buy phone for her since u buy the phone it means u have taken that responsibility and you have right to look through her phone not the possessive kind of way sha ,truth be told she's seeing anoda guy and don't want you to look into their chats,the innocent have nothing to hide or some silly pictures.
guy leave when the ovation is loudest it is painful now but it is better this way stop showing care and behave like u don't care what she does. guy get oda options and start removing her from ur mind as ur gf this would help you when the obvious becomes reality.my advice to guys stop spending so much on gal who is not yet ur wife u be her papa if dem like make they call me stingy but I would spend my money to forward my future than on someone who doesn't worth a cent of my dime

bro the guy is a bf of a gal too don't take things too personal don't allow insecurity to ruin ur relationship and you are too young to get high bp because of gals matter just turn a blind eye but keep a open mind.
don't allow her to know keeping in touch her ex is getting to u or else you will further drive her away into the hands of her ex bf. have several options that would be help take ur mind off her case. recently my ex go contacted me I just kept the conversation casual nothing nothing less she and I knows nothing can happen btw us again.so stop killing urself over that rather keep a open mind in other not to get hurt

I no support the guy sha for keeping malice for 2 weeks but chow na only the gal sabi the game if she tell me say she don get another bf me I go tell her say me I don get another gf at least no be only she dey and me I no dey put all my eggs in one basket I will simply replace her with one of my side-chicks. for Naija no love na convenience no be me one gal go use take play football una many na so while kill myself wey I go see many better options. later gals go dey tell you say every guy wey see them na sex they wan just sex them go na the lifestyle they live they follow them no be the guys fault .

we tell guys not to be too Quick to spend on a gal,any gal dat doesn't invest on u can spill at any given seconds.
that gal no serious make she vomit the money sharpely for this Buhari era, she for dey very blunt at the beginning make the guy go him way at least wetin she get way another no get na so her thing special mtchewwww

I'm reading this post 7months after the op wrote it kia Benue here I come .I'm hoping for a very good Nysc camp experience and off camp experience as well.

Anthony I'm a Uniben alumni I know what u are talking about as regarding hall 3 and hall 4 and 500Lt but i'm glad I went through a federal institutions my eldest sister spent large amount of money to study same course in a private university but like what that bro said is true it doesn't really changed much about what happened letter on .

Like seriously me avoid pretty ladies lie lie na them I dey like to approach o because they dey make my blood hot and adrenaline rush . Let the competition begins because I think I match them strength for strength in my own right maybe if a guy consider say he no fyn approaching beautiful gals go dey difficult sha but confidence and braggadocious na be wetin u need o. those pretty gals no dey go toilet iffa hear am so na human being them be.

see seduction in the highest other .hmm silkmoth33 I no blame you for your comments o not at all damn that breast of hers deserve some milking but not by you sha. leave am for her husband or guy o before you start the World War three

you no lie brother me I no fit marry one broke lady o after i don hustle finish she wan come chop oshio free for her mind I prefer assets than liability some gals don gerrit nothing say una no fit buy something for una guys. guys most not always do the spending we be una papa

haha bro must every body be politicians Jim iyke no need am jare coz he've got business to take care of. keep up the good work ILegend baba

good work ILegend baba hmm if you deactivate ur account I go fight u as Niger Delta guys concerned but it will be non violent sha