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bro It could either be two things 1) she could have slept with someone while u were apart and still feeling guilty about it or 2)U really hurt her badly, the 2nd one is most likely the case but I think as time progresses she would heal psychologically and open up gradually. try to talk things out with her

ilegend

bro my advice for you is to hold on to this love o plz don't to be a jerk to this lady in question or else u will later regret it. I won't have believe ur story if I'm not experiencing similar Thing but point of correction not all naija gals are money lovers some can love to a fault till someone breaks their heart and they change.

jollyp u are a beautiful lady u deserve someone better not a lazy gold digger. helping hands registration is 6600naira though one can open several account. my advice for you is pls ensure to collect ur 70k first before quitting that God forsaken relationship.

Na guyz without gf some gals go wan Friend zone na, before a gal friend zone me I Don delete zone her no time to waste, I really sorry for Mr nice guyz. even for those friend zone guys some of them wan just eat and wash mouth comot.

for the fact that many don't like putting their pics doesn't variably means they aren't handsome.i think being beautiful or handsome is very relative coz one man food is another man's poison. I can caption this thread as "8 guys in nairaland I have crush on "Lol

we can turn the game around brothers, get many advances from gals their own Don too much coz I don't give a damn if they get many advances,who their many advances don help.

for me nothing goes for nothing, my ex gf had a bf and lied about it, I saw a picture of her and a guy holding her in a compromising position. I raised an alarm and she said it was a colleague, hmm Colleague my feet when she went back to school opportunity came to bleep two gals which I took. as the year progress I noticed she was shady in her character,i told her I wanted to visit her in her school and she told me she travelled to her village but I didn't believe her. I visited her school to catch her unaware as I reach her house when she saw me she was shocked to her bone marrows. she latter confess she had a bf that she fell in love with me and didn't want to loss me, me ke na I give her my shocker too say I bleep two gals. we settled but from then on I wasn't loyal to her anymore. she was shocked that I was laughing when she told me she wanted out. guys diversify to prevent heart break ,never take a gal seriously even if she shed crocodile tears,no gal is single as there is a guy out there shining her congo.avoid spending excessive on gals let them also contribute u be their papa.

legendary every of ur threads dey make sense I must confess. I just dey in control since I dey read ur threads I no too dey rush for gals matter like before lol. Kia they do the calling and chat the chatting,really if many guys read this ur threads we go stop to dey complain of being dump for being Mr nice guy.
one thing I observed say gals like competition when my gf see many missed calls from oda gals she just dey jealous

she wants it but can't tell you since she initiated the no sex thing. telling you would make her look bad so she decided to take the easy way out. have a heart to heart talk with her it would help a lot.

ur friend should end this relationship quickly. I understand there's love involved but the gal in question can't be trusted. move on sharply before you die of hypertension

story for the gods na today gals Don dey pretend, na for only novices dem go catch mugu na. no man want liability for a wife,my wife to be go Don cook for me well, and do other things before I make my decision .as for the gal me I wan marry I go dey harmlessly dey interact with her siblings from there I dey collect my findings. u know shit has a way of coming out without you asking for it. trust me I be psychologist prof, u must be very good to lie to me lol

@iLegend or will I say legendary, Kia ur write up now the bomb, see as I apply the escofi button na the girl dey try to keep up the discussion becos I guess say e dey sweet her well well, just to want to say more power to ur....... u know what I mean. gals really like the good bad guys sha.

bro sharpely tell your friend o,no time to waste.

[quote author=harsysky post=47744857]For how long did you guys date? You should have even given her T-fair since you already know, did you?
for 8months, T-fair ke the money she Don chop Neva do her. anyway it was fun while it lasted ,we both benefited u know what I mean but I learnt to be very open minded and never expect too much from anyone.i also learnt money doesn't keep a relationship .

I actually saw my own coming 3months to the time so I was already detaching myself lol and have other options, she was surprised when I told her to spill it out that I know what she want to say,i felt bad though but not for long(3 days I guess) I moved on quickly no time to waste na.

sorry bro such is life, spending on a gal doesn't mean she would be loyal to u from my little experience it even makes her misbehave, it is better to keep a open mind and take time to study the gal in question before commitment .now I don't think anyone girl would hold me ransom because my trust for one must be earned with time,have several female friends it would help u a lot. I think gal don't like a guy dat they can't compete for I guess .I'm very sure you would see the gal dat deserve ur love coz that gal in question is confused and would regret her actions later.bro move on and let this be a lesson "gal don't like nice guys but good bad guys "lolz

evil cult, sound of music, coming to America.

bro once distrust have come into the relationship, it's heading for disaster, pls cut that lady lose. she is not worth the trouble if you want to save urself from hypertension call dat relationship off. I feel the lady in question is taking u for granted.

the Fact someone met the bad gal doesn't mean there are no more good girls ,I concur there are still good girls around.

bro keep a open mind dats the best for a LDR, trust ur instincts most times they are right. Trust is key coz dats the only way ur LDR can thrive, once distrust comes into play the relationship is heading for disaster. really worrying so much about your partner cheating on you can cause high bp, really life is Beautiful to take such risk for the time being focused on being a better you.

brotherly from most of the posts, almost everybody are saying the same thing, dat gal of urs obviously isn't just cleaning up like she said she is,.i think she is hitting it off with her supposed uncle,faced the truth now and quit before it's too late.look for another gal dat would appreciate and cherish u not someone taking u for a ride and continue lying to your face.try secretly investigating her but for me it quite obvious what ur findings would be. pls leave dis gal and move on

Me cry Ke.if a lady say she wan go who cares in her stead let another replace coz they are many o

brotherly I feel ur pain wella coz it's not easy, life goes on dat lady in question doesn't deserve ur love, trust me when I say this u would see someone far better than her who truelly love you and cherish u. from my own little experience lavishing ur money on a girl doesn't sustain the relationship.nice guys ends up being dumped for the bad ones lol, for now focus on your future further ur studies coz better dayz are ahead and make several female friends, it would help take ur mind off her, delete her contact, unfriend her on social media. this would be very painful but wake up to reality before a girl decide to dump u she have given it a lot of thought.try to be around friends and family coz this people will help a great deal, sorry again for the heart break.

if the guy dey try toast u and u no gree. he go meet other girls na,una too many na for this world, for me I no go stress myself for one Girl o,any girl wey no wan do again, she can go for all I care. who cares? I think she should count herself lucky to have me as her guy.

Na u ask for bad Boy sha, No complain later o

I think u don't want to mess up a good friendship, please tell him to stay clear and try reducing your contact with him