Family › Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by PatKing(f): 10:47am On Dec 31, 2011 |
charles79: I am reposting here the story of my life, All my life I have abstained from all forms of youthful exoberance, women, wine, weed. Concentrated on serviving God truthfully. Worked hard in life, sacrifised consistently and always strife to be good to people and not take offence. Full of life and vigour with a very good heart. When my mates were busy going to night club, i went to nigth vigil, when they were hanging around with boys, i was there preaching to them, when they were feasting, i was fasting. i spend plenty of my years in denial and sacrifise for bright future. Suddenly the future came, i moved on in life and settle down to enjoy her fruits of my labour, suddenly, the bubble bursted, i was diagnosed with an incurable liver disease. To add salt to the wound, they tagged the disease is likely to be sexually transmitted (and people view it so). So the whole sacrifise i made is rubbished. I will face the shame and stigmatisation of acquiring a infection from an act I have refrained from for years when indeed for years he has lived a chaste life. Now i cannot even enjoy the relatioship I have lived and dreamt of. Why is it that the i was not prevented or protected from the having this. Please give me reason why I should not consider leaving this world. If I have lost a son, I would wait to get another. If I has no job I will hope to get one day, if I lost a job, I will wish she gets another. This challenge I was told there no expiry date for the problem. My problem, nobody will believe my story and innocence and those who do will make jest that I am foolish. True life story here. I wish I have answer to your pains, I guess you are married? Your Hubby is your best friend at the moment. You need to be positive about life so you can see this happen to you. God did not seek the seed of David to serve Him in vain" You are emerging victorious, But you must have faith to be alive. |
Family › Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by PatKing(f): 10:38am On Dec 31, 2011 |
Oh, Pls keep hope alive! |
Family › Re: Tenant Kills Landlord’s Daughter Over Slippers by PatKing(f): 7:45am On Dec 31, 2011 |
Aw! I pity the tenant's sister. It is Murder. |
Family › Re: Abuja, Where Is Santa Claus? by PatKing(op): 10:47pm On Dec 30, 2011 |
Knight1: hey. i found a santa claus yesterday. (i suspect he hasn't met his target from the north pole bank plc )
WONDERLAND, BESIDE NATIONAL STADIUM. IF YOU ARE STILL INTERESTED THO' LOL Thank you very much, I was at Wonderland on Xmqs day, My little one had a photo with Him to mark his first Xmas. Tanx @Ifyalways Thank you very much, I saw the one at wonderland. |
Family › Re: Abuja, Where Is Santa Claus? by PatKing(op): 8:49pm On Dec 24, 2011 |
Knight1: try and contact all those radio and tv stations. look up their contact online.
though i think you might be too late. most would have done theirs and forgotten about it sef. Thank you very much, I thought Santa comes on Xmas day? Any way I will try and find out. Thank you. |
Family › Re: Abuja, Where Is Santa Claus? by PatKing(op): 7:28pm On Dec 24, 2011 |
Aw? |
Family › Abuja, Where Is Santa Claus? by PatKing(op): 6:23pm On Dec 24, 2011 |
Am a FIrst Time Mum, would love to take my baby visit Santa. Heard Santa will be in Sheraton, checked their website , Nothing A friend who is also a FTM heard Transcorp, checked their site , Nothing A colleague at work said Wonderland, Not sure they have a website, but sound True, and affordable. The thing is, am on a budget, those big names, am not sure I can afford. Where are the Mommas? Any suggestions pls, it's Baby's first Xmas. Thank you for your replies in advance. |
Family › Re: Have You Made Bad Choices In Life? by PatKing(f): 4:10pm On Dec 24, 2011 |
your past will only hold you down, your mistakes are stepping stones, better promises lies in 2012, never too late to turn an irreparable MISTAKE right. i've made lots, lots and lots of bad choices! But they are not holding me back. rather, i try to find a reason to be happy in the mist of many wrongs. |
Health › Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by PatKing(f): 3:34pm On Dec 24, 2011 |
pslm23: Hi all, @ Rusty, i'm sorry i never called you back after we spoke the first time. Nov was a crazy month for me with numerous doctors visits etc. i'm sure you are back in Nigeria now. Hope your stay here was beautiful and fun. @ Uzoo, thanks for asking after me. The Lord is my strength. A lot has happened since my negative result and post IVF consultation. @ Blendy, a big fat congratulations to your friend! It is always so heart warming and great to read other people's successful IVF stories. It gives me and others the courage and strength to keep trying. We need more people to speak up regarding IVF and the good it can do in a childless couples life. @ 7Colors, I'm surprised to find you here on my thread after your despicable attitude towards me and the fact that you mocked my childlessness. In the spirit of the season and because I don't want to enter 2012 hating on anybody, i will kindly advise you to please not advertise your usual "adverts" on my thread. Open up your own thread and market what you have to offer to other women but you need to pick your words carefully and know how to present your pitch otherwise the same thing that happened last time between me and you will repeat itself.
Now to update you my dear friends and well-wishers, Jan 11, I'm scheduled for the esure tubal litigation surgery, This is the one where they'll go through the vajayjay to tie of the hydro tube. It will take approximately 3 months to completely heal from this procedure before i can commence with round 2 of IVF. It is well. I have another thing to worry about oh. I suffered a nasty slip and fall at my local walmart (their roof was leaking heavily on a rainy day and there was nothing catching the water and no sign indicating that the floor was wet. I went flying through the air and landed on my tailbone and now my back is busted real bad. I had to do an MRI and then referred to a neurosurgeon becos i had a herniated bulging disc that was causing unspeakable pain down my legs. The doctors are throwing around words like back surgery and steroid injections. This is going to put a big dent in my IVF plans. Like my doctor says, I will not be able to carry a pregnancy to full term with the damage in my back. When it rains it pours my sisters and brothers. Your prayers and love are still very much needed by me. To cap it all my beloved grandma died last week and I have to go home for the funeral. How will i sit through almost 17 hours of flight from PHL to Abuja when I can barely walk now from the pain in my back. The Lord is on the throne. Hugs to y'all. I don't know you, but this is one of the most touching texts I've read on NL. You are in my prayers, all will be well. Not that am insensitive, but did you sue Walmart? that could help in relieving your pains. Please, relax and get well. Sorry about your Granny, wish you a safe trip home. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Video : Bishop David Oyedepo Responds To Slap-gate ! by PatKing(f): 5:11pm On Dec 20, 2011 |
leave Him alone, concentrate on your selves. |
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Family › Re: BB Pins and Twitter names Of The Nairaland Family ! Blockbuster Thread.! by PatKing(f): 2:56pm On Nov 30, 2011 |
Aaooww! Is'nt that too personal and revealing? IMO not a good idea, sorry. |
Family › Re: What Was The Feelig Like When You Had Your First Child? by PatKing(f): 2:12am On Nov 25, 2011 |
Wao! I heard the most desperate screams, My heart melted, had drips on both hands, the best we had was a cheek-2-cheek contact for 3seconds. He was taken away from me for 48hrs, OMG, so I can be managed to remain alive for Him, longest hours of my life. When we were united in a regular ward, the first 48hrs was spent staring at him,SO I don't miss those tiny smiles. It was an experience, but I will do it again! |
Programming › Re: Female Programmers Stand Up And Be Counted by PatKing(f): 5:51pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
+1 here. C#, and PHP, My brain has refused to take on JAVA for exactly 10yrs now, LOL Into business, Civil Servant, No much programming at work place except server Mgt., Configurations, and Monitoring. Always browsing the programming section but no commenting as am a lazy Typer. Ok, |
Business › Re: Which Lucrative Business Can One Start Here In Lagos Nigeria: Someone Help by PatKing(f): 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
maki: go to a fashion school for 6-8months and u'll be start for life, am enjoying myself now as an emerging fashion designer, i went to a fahion school here in lagos and dis is what i get and more trainings on different things like assessories making,
check this out www.makioba.com.ng You go gal! |
Business › Re: Which Lucrative Business Can One Start Here In Lagos Nigeria: Someone Help by PatKing(f): 1:33pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
PleaSe where are the Industrialist, and Entrepreneur? Your advise is needed here. Have you considered Barber shop? Well, I belief better advises are still coming. |
Family › Re: Being Born Into A Religion by PatKing(f): 12:54am On Nov 19, 2011 |
Wao! Cant believe I read every single line. For me , Being born into a religion is a privilege. I think I will always chose to be a Christian, as this works for me. Just as the others believe in theirs. Christianity is not forced on children, it is a way of life for a Christian parent to teach their children what they belief on. But becoming a Christian is a conscious effort of every child at a later age, RECIEVING CHRIST , IYKWIM. Being born into a Christian home does not qualify you being a Christian, except for documentations purposes. |
Travel › Re: B.A First Class Charges; Accra-heathrow ($4, 902) Lagos-heathrow ($9, 846,19) by PatKing(f): 11:46pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
untainted: Wow! So on point. You will make a great strategist in the advertising world. I bow! LOL I wish. |
Travel › Re: B.A First Class Charges; Accra-heathrow ($4, 902) Lagos-heathrow ($9, 846,19) by PatKing(f): 3:30pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
who are your audience? Senators? Reps, talk about Economy class, then lots of audience! LOL You just let me know the difference between me and the First class. Thanks But really, that is unacceptable, I pray it wil affect the ECONOMY class as well, cos my family is increasing. |
Health › Re: Humidifier Or Vaporizer by PatKing(f): 3:04pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
my dear, it is Hamattan abi? thinking of getting one my self, are you buying from Nigeria? let me know where you get it, as I plan buying one from the States. Hope this helps: Home Health: Humidifiers Vs Vaporizers Discover the differences between a humidifier and vaporizer and why humidity can help with colds.
Every parent wants what's best for their baby, and this is especially true when baby is sick. At some point, most parents have to make a decision about what type of humidifier to buy. At first, the task seems simple, but then the questions begin.
What's the difference between a humidifier and a vaporizer? How do these machines add moisture to the air? Which one is best for my child? Relax.
The answers are here.
When a person has a cold or allergies, humidity helps alleviate the symptoms. When congested, if a house is too dry, nasal passages also become dry. Adding moisture to the air loosens the congestion in the nose and makes breathing easier and coughs more productive. Bacteria are more likely to adhere to a dry nasal passage than to a moist one, so opportunities for infection increase if nasal passages aren't moist enough. An overly dry house can also yield nosebleeds, dry and itchy skin, and increased static.
Many agree that humidity levels are best at 40%-50% in a house.Anything below 30% can be uncomfortable and too dry. A doctor may also recommend increasing humidity when a person has a cold or respiratory infection.To add humidity, there are two basic choices: a humidifier or a vaporizer.
The main difference is that humidifiers release cool moisture into the air, and a vaporizers or steam vaporizers boil water and then release warm moisture into the air. The good news is that doctors seem to agree that both methods work equally well for relieving cold symptoms, so long as directions are followed and the machines are kept meticulously clean. It's basically up to the consumer which method they prefer.
There are many types of humidifiers on the market, and all are electric devises that release cool moisture into a room.Perhaps the biggest difference between the humidifiers and vaporizers is that humidifiers don't boil water before using it and vaporizers do. Because of this, there is a chance of spreading water laden with bacteria or molds into the room. Additionally, many water sources contain minerals and since the water isn't boiled, minerals can be spread into the room, too. This is evidenced by a fine layer of white dust in the room; however using distilled water can prevent this. Because the humidifier releases cool moisture, many in warmer climates feel it is simply more refreshing and cooler than a vaporizer.
There are several types of humidifiers on the market. A cool mist humidifier uses cool water to create a fine mist or spray which is then blown into the room. Similarly, a warm mist humidifier uses warm water but it cools it before it is blown back into the room. With an impeller humidifier, water is broken down and diffused into the air. When it is released it looks like steam or fog.Ultrasonic humidifiers use technology that produces vibrations to fracture and disperse water into a fine mist. The mist is released into the room. An evaporation humidifier is sometimes also called a wicking humidifier. A fan blows air through a wet filter, pad, or other such device and produces moist air to be release from the machine. Each type of humidifier produces moisture in the room; however the price is going to depend on the technology within the humidifier.
A vaporizer, also called a steam vaporizer, creates moisture by boiling water and then releasing the hot steam, thus moisture, into the room. In general, vaporizers are usually less expensive than humidifiers. Unlike most humidifiers, you can easily add inhalants to vaporizers. Since the water is boiled in a vaporizer, there is less risk of spreading bacteria or molds into the room with this method.It also does not spray mineral deposits into the room, but because it boils the water there may be a fine white mineral dust left in the reservoir of the vaporizer. However, since the water is boiled, there is a risk of burning an infant or child by accident. If a vaporizer is used, then it and its cords should be well out of reach of any children and its steam should also be out of reach.In cold climates, people report that vaporizers help add a feeling of warmth to an otherwise cool room or house.
The key to both humidifiers and vaporizers is to keep them meticulously clean. Water should be changed every day, and the machine should be cleaned regularly according to the instructions.Also be cautious about adding too much humidity to the air. When conditions are too humid, it's the perfect climate for bacteria, mold, and dust mites to grow. People with allergies to these should be aware that an increase in humidity can cause these organisms to thrive. To keep humidity in check, a good rule to remember is that there should not be condensation on a cold window or windowsill from the humidifier or vaporizer.
Preferences for the humidifier and vaporizer vary among people, but knowing the difference between the two can make a purchasing decision easier. With added humidity in the air from either machine, parents, and baby, can rest easier knowing that uncomfortable cold symptoms will be alleviated. http://www.essortment.com/home-health-humidifiers-vs-vaporizers-26490.html |
Literature › Re: The Book That Profoundly Imparted Your Life? by PatKing(f): 11:08am On Oct 26, 2011 |
CyberSaint:
Omo, why are you tryna to pop a vein just because people say that the Bible has profoundly imparted their lives? Do you know these people personally to conclude that they are "shamelessly cherry-picking and implementing ONLY the parts of the Bible that suits their selfish purposes at any point in time"? Base on your venom on this thread, I perceive that you are in the gall of bitterness, and in the bond of iniquity.
I think you really need to look inside yourself and find out what problem(s) you have with the Bible and/or the people who love the Word of God Thank you for the post! @Pro01 You certainly are a bitter person, it's not easy being you! Just try and reconnect to you base. I wonder the morale you practice at home with your kids, Or may be no family yet, sorry! |
Literature › Re: The Book That Profoundly Imparted Your Life? by PatKing(f): 4:10pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
[size=8pt]"TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST, BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO"[/size] By Robert Schuller |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Reputable Isp Firm in abuja Needs A Maketer. by PatKing(op): 10:55am On Sep 21, 2011 |
rocean: what does it take to apply, i am an achitect Oh, It is an ICT job, with real good knowledge of the items listed in first post. I have told their client of my inability to get any one. Achitecture is good, my little Bros is, Weldone. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Reputable Isp Firm in abuja Needs A Maketer. by PatKing(op): 8:02am On Sep 21, 2011 |
OMG! no one applied! When I was in the Labor Market, jobs were really scarce , Thank God, that was in the past. Maybe it looked like SPAM. The email was a .co.uk not a .com (my mistake), I was just trying to be a blessing to someone as I do not qualify. The opening is still open but my Quota is closed, the Company will now advertise in the dailies. Good morning Nigeria, God bless you all. |
Jobs/Vacancies › A Reputable Isp Firm in abuja Needs A Maketer. by PatKing(op): 8:41am On Sep 20, 2011 |
A reputable ISP Firm in abuja, looking for an experienced Marketer (for a manageria position) with 4-5years experience in VSAT, Fibre optics, and Radio technologies. Interested person must be based in Abuja. The job will need your 24hrs presence if need arises. So, it is a full term job. Forward your CV today only, to isptoday@yahoo.com this email will cease to exist by 3pm of today's date. Wish you the best! |
Family › Re: Igbo Boy's Names by PatKing(f): 7:21pm On Aug 18, 2011 |
Congrats on the Birth of your Child! What does the name mean? |
Gaming › Re: Good Facebook Games? by PatKing(f): 7:06am On Aug 18, 2011 |
[quote author=kay-one link=topic=713330.msg8948393#msg8948393 date=1313619221]Hmmn! so there are games on FB. where do i find them?[/quote]In the "search" field, where you search for your friends by name, search for the game name you want to play for the first time, then once installed it will be part of your applications. |
Gaming › Re: Good Facebook Games? by PatKing(f): 7:08pm On Aug 17, 2011 |
"Words with friends". Very addictive, |
Family › Re: What To Say About A Very Ugly Baby by PatKing(f): 5:39pm On Apr 30, 2011 |
@OP Wao! if not that you said a colleague of yours, i would have ignored you, thinking you are one of those TEENAGERS on NL. My apology to the Teenagers, because they will be more REASONABLE than your blocked sense. How on earth, can you look at a few days' innocent baby's picture without falling in love with it? A child that when you hold, will grasp onto you for cuddle and comfort, and even SMILE at you, when no body will. You really got to get your Head checked, Cos we are dealing with a Psychiatric case here. You need to know the Pain, and the Joy of having a child. |
Politics › Re: Let's Keep Hope Alive - Dora Akunyili by PatKing(f): 5:54am On Apr 30, 2011 |
see who is complaining! the Nigeria she had the opportunity to Re-brand RIGGING? if they rigged, it is part of the Democracy she helped in building in Nigeria. Momma! I wish you well. |
Family › Re: She Left Me After My Effort With My Kid by PatKing(f): 4:14pm On Apr 02, 2011 |
Yesterday was APRIL FIRST, Fools day! This OP chooses the said day to close the past chapter of his manifestor! So you took two weeks to fool NairaLanders? It really beats my imaginations that you took two weeks to settle the score of your life. I am just worried because lots of people actually cone here for real advise, but people like this OP spoils such chances with fake pathetic stories, Am really angry! |