BigBoy123:
But you know if you go to aboki they will answer you on exchange rate, very easy something.

I am asking because when I had mine then the embassy had a fixed exchange rate which everyone must use and it was different from the normal exchange rate. Anyway thanks

Ejopee:


I can't really say, bcus I did not pay visa fee but a friend of mine paid 37000 for visa fee last year

Thanks so much for your reply.

bamdexfarms:


To add to your comment, sometimes the Embassy/Consulate tactically delays the visa processing for no reason. My wife's document verification has been completed by the embassy since October last year. The Aüslanderamt initially claimed they have not received any notification from the embassy. After so many emails to them, they eventually claimed that they have the electronic notification from the embassy and they are waiting for her file to be sent. All this back and forth has been going on for over 2 months now. As you rightly said, they don't like blacks settling down here with their families.

Please what is the visa fees in naira, I know is 75 Euro but do not know how much it is in naira. Thanks.

Ejopee:


Thanks alot for your words, I guess I just have to keep faith alive and keep waiting

Please what is the visa fees in naira now. Please�

Good evening house, please can someone tell me the visa fee amount in naira? Thanks���.

deomelo:
PMB obtained a Diploma, now Masters Degree from the best and finest Military Institution in the world and these useless Igbos are talking about a measly certificate.


Igbos are the most useless, ignorant and unintelligent people on the surface of the earth.

Hahahahaha, you are very intelligent! You mean you did not understand that the first time they award a marpters in that courses was year 2000 as against the 1980 claimed by buhari? Now if that school's first masters graduand from that course was in year 2000 where did buhari got his masters from?

You are wrong about number 1

valarinz:
Which bank you wan port to, you'll still run away?

Also, did I hear you say gtb? Those ones never get glitches? You're a learner

I have accounts in about 5 banks and active on all, use all for online transactions and I must tell you, every once in a while, each bank experience their own fair share of issues.

You should be angry more at our CBN for letting them get away with shit, scot free

No. GTB is superb! I have been using that bank since 2012, Infact I can count how many times I have entered the bank for transaction, all my transaction with them are all online. They are superb. I had acct. With UBA, I closed it. I have with union,skye,stanbic but GTB stand out

tribalistseun:
don't mind the OP, if he truly lives in Abuja he should know that things like this happen every day due to rock blasting that happens in every corner in Abuja.

This evening i noticed it, i was just warming food in the microwave when the thing happened.

By now abuja resident should be used to rock blast by now.
When i came to Abuja newly and experience it for the first time i panic and ran outside, and people will just be laughing at me. But now when it happens i don't even notice or care anymore. If earthquake should happen its going to be in the coastal area of Nigeria(lagos) not abuja that is seating on a rock.

I don't think you are right about coastal area and not Abuja stuff.

Abjay97:
..Money was involved too

Not too, it was the real koko. I hate it when people try to tell me my brains are in my stomach

ajl:


Olodo! My 12 year old nephew just told me to inform you that the party with the majority get the Senate President position.

Ah brother, you mean your linage is full of people like you? You should have kept it secret. I can't blame your nephew if agbalagba like you is a misfit

Amumaigwe:


You came from a broken or at best a loveless and dysfunctional home. Your first statement gave you away. Just make sure the baggages your mother's attitude has successfully hung around your neck do not pull your own marriage down.

Reading comments from some folks here, I now appreciate the extent of healing the family system needs. Where is love, submission, sacrifice, tolerance etc that used to be the hallmark of marriages. Why wouldn't the type of families we have these days be the breeding place of criminals that are now everywhere defrauding people and doing all kinds of money rituals.

So what about the baggages of his father "holy attitude?". Hahahaha, Mr man I sincerely advised who ever sent you to school to invest your fees in rearing pigs but they refused. Hope you see your life? Abi you don't see anything wrong with you? OK oh

Rajosh:
This is why it's never good to judge before hearing from both parties involved. when I read her story, told my brother that she's written it out how it'll favor her. She never made mention of how you used the remaining money with you to contribute to the house, she never mentioned your dad's health issues. Any sane child will use whatever money he's earmarked for any project to treat his sick father.
I'm not hear to side any of you but whatever decision you take, remember the kids. I know of a girl whose parents divorced when she was a kid. She was so lively as a kid but after the divorce, she grew up to be so withdrawn and antisocial. School performances dropped.
for the sake of your kids, you both should compromise and shift grounds.

You are either lying or ignorant.

NoToPile:
There's no difference in the story naah, still same story she came here to narrate.

I wonder why you said you didn't mean it when you said she should leave your house.

She can as well claim she said all those things to you about your parents out of spite and anger.

This is why everyone should be careful what they say.

I think the main issue is the matter of background and insulting your parent she never should have used that to spite you at all but then she was angry, besides a woman would say quite a lot if she even feels you are cheating

To be honest from this your write up, you seem to have an ego.

You guys should sort your issue out,since you have decided to that she shouldn't change the name again.

I tried not to comment but I can't resist the temptation anymore! What you guys failed to understand is, if the op can ask his wife to get out of the house he can as well say something very bad to his wife that made the wife to insult his background. He gave me a slap is never the beginning of a quarrel something started it. We all believed that women are more toxic in words there are men that are worst than women in this, op can be one of them. She is from a rich home, one factor that would have prevented her from submitting to you but she never, she submitred to you, she brought prosperity, you spent your share on your extended family even building a house for your dad, you must be thinking she is a fool. If she did not bring that business would you have flown your dad abroad? Abi poor man dey go abroad! You were inconsiderate, you took her for a ride. Op you did mention the issue of women as the cause of these fracas, I can put it to you that you had extra marital affair that's what made your wife so bitter, even if you never had any affair, your condult and response to your wife was not good. You strength was that you had her by the balls you were thinking you will shout her down. You never knew she was ahead of you. That's what I want many women to be doing to some men that claim to be man because of their organ. Women must be wise, I am a man I will never support wickedness. You flown your dad abroad to your own glory, you built him a house to your own glory as well from the proceed of her brain child, she built a house with her share to your own glory again? Umba go for joint ownership or build your own

EagleNest:


You're still not getting it. And I think you are the very biased one because you are making conclusion already without trying to dig deep on the story.

Your worry is that according to the ops he wants to throw the wife and kids away from the house which of course is unpalatable but nobody have told us why? What exactly happened to warrant that. And if I ask/suggest has it to do with anything extramarital or has the man now have a mistress, some one like u will jump immediately and say I have blamed/condemned the woman to have committed adultery. I ask these questions to get the whole picture before jumping to conclusion. The story have to be sequenced and questions asked at key stages to understand the motives of each key actors.

In my first response to ops, I ask questions, suggest example and scenarios and always add is it correct? This is trying to get more out from the source.

The only thing you understand in the whole story is, he wants to push her out, he has spent his own share of money and the man can now go to hell. Yes, but it will make more sense to know why the turn of events in the marriage.

So may be we can say we are of different school of reasoning. Logical versus surficial.

No, you refused to understand my position. You feel the has the right to throw out his wife and kids from the house they built together, you feel he can do so provided he has a reason that is why you keep asking for the reason he went that far, but I am saying he has no right for whatsoever reason to do that because they both have equal share and or stake in the property. You are refused to understand that the man has ulterior motives to want the sole ownership of the house even when his wife has a larger share of the house. He is just looking for a way to place the woman on a tight corner and swindle her of the property and afterward pushed her away, if not he would have agreed to joint ownership since it was a joint effort. Thank God for the wisdom of that woman we would have witness another disheartening scheme of dubiousness from men fired by ego and pride. I repeat, the woman knows her husband and she is justified now. The man would have pushed her out of her house, she is justified

EagleNest:


Please always read critically with understanding, not with emotion. And don't label one "crooked mind" just because u don't agree. Put your own opinion and we'll weigh it. If you have been in marriage for such a long time you will know the story is still incomplete even though the woman is at advantage at the moment.

Read the front page on some of her responses and know that there is still something unknown or untold.

I am looking at motives behind each decisions. I broke it down logically with questions which I expect the ops to answer and you just came thinking, I have asked her to surrender the title doc. Haba!

You don't build house overnight and I will repeat was the man in the know about whose name is in the land document before collabo in building. What percentage did he contribute? What did he do for his parents with his money? Treatment or building? These are critical questions to know the truth.

It's sad that the marriage is crashing simply due to poor communication and mistrust. What is the cause of the quarrel in the first place. Is it connected to the issue at hand. The best would be to share the title but we need to know the side of the man's story. why is he man refusing.

I understand your position but you were biased, now when the MSN spent his money in treating his dad, did he told his dad that the money was from his wife? Of course no, so how did he still expect his name to be solely on the property without considering the wife who sacrificed her share?. You try to put holes in the story in favour of your friend without criticizing the MSN inhuman act of throwing his wife and kids out of the house they laboured to build, even if the man had used his portion to join in the building is is fair to remove his wife's from the ownership? Obviously you were biased. Treatment or not, do you think the woman does not have pressing need at that time? If she had used it like him would he have come to drag the house. What I am criticizing him for is his inhuman act, over bloated ego and wickedness

divinelove:


Shut up already
U are full of shit
Demented goat without common sense

Hahahaha, another sign of a weak man. When they have no valid point they resort to mudslinging and threat

divinelove:


What's the purpose of this thread since the man has left everything for her and left already. Why is the lady crying all over the place, playing the victim card, let her go n marry the house n stop crying now. The divorce she planned for is here already, what an evil woman that destroyed her home for common property.
The man is very right to get angry over this massive betrayal of a devilish woman. Let the woman move on too like the man since the man is not even dragging anything or do his bidding as her husband n stop crying already.

Submission of a married woman is not negotiable, do the will of your husband or divorce him period, u can't eat your cake n have it.

I hope the house is a mansion and worth all these stress after all, good luck to both parties in their future endeavors

Submission my foot, you do not buy submission, you earn it. The woman know her husband very well and she is justified now by his action. She would have been on the street now and you are here talking about submission? Are you human? Do you have conscience? Why do you keep threatening women with divorce? Divorce affect both parties even the men more if the woman is really serious. It is because of people like you who spend their money on frivolous things that they speak I'll of men. You are caring because your kind has fallen victim of its own trap, if it was the other way round you will still find a way to blame the woman, you see why I called you a weak man?. Justice,empathy and sincerity has no meaning to you, but oppression and male chauvinism. Some men are men just because of their organ nothing more, its a pity

Obason22:
may be people like u would prefer to live under their wife, that is why u have refused to work and make plan for future cos u want to get married to a lady that will built mansion for u to live, shameless thing like u.

I will prefer to live under roof than steal her house! Yeye man, they believe in pulling down a woman to remain relevant. You don't remain relevant by pulling down your wife, you labour and plan.

wordbank:

Lol, I don't think he added spices as you observed.
The woman in question is deceptive from her narrative. Men may not have issue with their wives owning businesses without their consent, but owning the property they live in? That one na disgrace

How is it a disgrace? If you do not want a disgrace then you labour for your own that you can call your own. Even if he succeeded in claiming ownership its not his own.

divinelove:


Alot is at stake here ( except the woman wants a divorce) and we are talking about husband and wife here. In a family the husband is the head and taking a major decision like house owner ship without his knowledge and approval is unacceptable moreso sole ownership as a married woman.

The man has moved on already n his wife is the one crying all over the place now even with sole ownership left for her already. My brother it's not DT easy to say bleep him other wise the wife won't be here crying when the man has left everything for her already. It's not like the man is dragging anything he left everything.

Whose idea was the biz that brought all d money DT caused this problem?

Let them shift grounds, they have alot of juicy joint businesses ahead.

Concead 60% ownership to the man and make peace n save the marriage

I will love to know the section of the constitution you are quoting from. He can only decide on his money not on his wife's I keep cautioning my fellow men on egoist tendencies. Its very dangerous, whoever built the house provided its our own. What if the woman used her share the way the man used his? The man is a terrible man who is bent on manipulation and oppression, if he has no ulterior motives I don't see anything wrong with joint ownership and living together in peace. No he want it in his name so that he go out and shout at the top of his voice to everyone who care to listen about how he laboured for the house. I know he will never tell the world about his wife's. I got to know lately that many houses standing are actually the brain child of women but they were swindled off the ownership. My sister I am a man, never ever reneges your ownership. Put it in the name of your children at worse

Oklander:


So, when I just read the post, this question was what came to my mind. Unfortunately nobody on the first page asked. And, I do not know whether I missed it, but I couldn't find the response from the 2nd page that you happened to ask the very important question to around the 5th page that I could reach.

Madam op, the crap that most feminists wannabe and the so called feminists, and the disrespectful girls here who hasn't experinecd the marriage institution, and those girls who kept on criticizing the African marriage instituion, and the ones who totally lacks what a good man wants in a woman and the rest others who couldn't think far to what exactly you have done to turn a 'good man' into a monster(only a monster would want to chase out his own family JUST LIKE THAT), will not help you and the problem. The craps may make you feel better now but certainly for a very short period of time. As far the most important issue is not factored into what they are telling you here now makes it crap.


Do not tell us what happened is private and can't be revealed here, you made the post already.


With the little you presented up there, the man is now seen as a monster, very wicked and unreasonable? Agreed. But then, tell us, what have you done to a man you knew to be a 'GOOD MAN' to turn him to a WICKED MAN as presented in your op.?

Another weak man spotted. You do not ride on a woman to massage your ego. Strong leave by the consequences of their actions.

wordbank:

Ogaaa, take your time to read all her posts on this issue to understand why the man you quoted said that.

Yea I saw it but he try to add spices

Obason22:
You are not wrong to use part of ur money to support ur husband, but u are wrong to use ur name as ownership without His consent, in as I'm not in support of him throwing u and kids out of the hasu, our elder said that when u beat a child with right hand u draw him with left hand, I advice u to do the needful because he was the one that brought u as wife, if u actually want peace, for me personally I cannot leave in a hasu built by my wife and has her name attached as ownership its wrong, so I pray for peace between both of u and total reconciliation, u shall over comes ur challenges and not ur challenges over coming u, Peace and restoration upon ur family.

Then you can live under the brigde, I hope your ego would be adequately nursed there. Hahahaha.

EagleNest:
For me the story is not complete. What caused the quarrel in the first place to warrant separation.

Based on the ops responses, I can deduce the following:

(1) Money was jointly made and agreement made on sharing.
(2) probably the husband used his share for example, to take care of his sick parents in agreement with the wife.
(3) And the couple agreed to use the wife's share to buy land. Both agreed, is that correct ops?
(4) Assuming it's ops sole decision to buy land with her own share...was there a communication to ur husband to such effect before/after the purchase. Was it presented to him as yours or his or joint?
(5) Now the land was jointly developed, am I right? This is where the story appears incomplete. Because if the husband is in the know that the land title is in the wife's name he would probably not have invested so much in it unless there is clarity of ownership. I could smell deception here.
(6) How much percentage contribution from both parties in actual building of the house? I just want to know if the ops did most of it?

(7) Lastly, there is element of unbelievable assumptions in the ops marraige due to lack of communication. This lead to mistrust.

You are just trying to form your own story, what she wrote here is very very clear and straight forward but your crooked mind will not allow you see it that way. You prefer to think his father was sick what if it is true the man used his share to build for his father thinking he will use Hus wife's to build for himself?. Stop putting women in shackles its a sign of weakness.

HEseesall:



He doesnt want that, i suggested it he said no, he has to be in charge fully not jointly

And you don't need to do thst . I am a man but I will not support wickedness. You can't eat your cake and have it. If he can he is humble enough to live by the consequences of his actions fine and good

RedAlert08:

He couldn't have blamed Buhari since he already mentioned the devil. That would be tautology.

Guy you fit no make heaven oh. Sincerely

asuustrike2009:

Do you mean answering the same question?
In even calculation subject like mathematics, Physics, Ecomomics among others, there must be a slight difference in one step or the other. Waec doesn't tolerate that especially if the students are answering same questions.

There is no basis for that principles, its just sheer wickedness, in your earlier submission , you did said some differences which you repeated here yet you are still saying waec do not tolerates that, I want to ask you one question, did waec at any time sensitize the student on this? Or they kept it to themselves and just wait for the student to fall prey? Education in Nigeria is a scam. Have you ever taught? Have guys carry out a research on this? Do you people have a tested hypothesis to back it up?.