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TheCongo2:
And how can you be so sure ?

I'm sorry for disturbing you.
But Please I want you to teach me why you think my husband is Akudaya?

I'm hardly to believe about married with ghost.
If my husband is Akudaya, Is that meaning my husband is already dead in somewhere?
How is it possible he is still exist in here?
Very interesting!

Please I like to hear from your opinion!

nurey:
Your husband is not an akudaya though it's just that person's opinion of things, everybody got their opinion.

Yes!
Everybody have their opinion!
Always good to me to know and hear different opinion

If my husband is Akudaya, that's very interesting!

Anyway, Thank you so much for taking your time!
You are always helping me. I really appreciate you!!

nurey:
Akudaya (yoruba word) means wraith.

Let me explain eg if I have a very close friend who died and I am not aware, while traveling to my home town I saw him at a junction, we greet and hug and he says his coming just want to buy something along the road, then I get to my hometown and they broke the news of his death. The person i saw at the junction isn't really my friend but Akudaya.

Akudaya are resemblance of people you know but aren't really them, they are just ghost or phantom of those people.

When my mum was young she had followed such person in the market b4, as soon as she called the name, the person ran but she pursued her but on catching up with her, the individual had tribal Mark's and was somehow different creepy story

Thank you so much!
I understand what is Akudaya now.
I appreciate you!!

But sorry, I still can't understand what is meaning I married with Akudaya?
My husband is wraith? gohst? phantom?
This is very difficult to understand.

Akudaya is tradition or folklore or something like that in Nigeria?

Really?!
Your mom saw ghost?
My mom told me about I saw my dad after his funeral.
I was small and I don't remember it.
But your mom and I had similar experience

holysaint1:
And is this done with reasoning, feeling or instinct of realizing that you're naked just like eve? Or what. Believe me when i say i simply dont get it.

Care to detail ?

Sorry, What is meaning " you're naked just like eve" ?
I wanna understand very well your question!

You wanna know my reason why I don't dress up front of my husband?
Am I correct?

Me too!
Nomal day, I don't dress up front of my husband.
I will go to another room or washroom.

Please What is meaning akudaya?

I checked it on internet.
What I saw it is spiritual, myth or peoples name etc.
But I still don't understand

My name (my husband surname) is not Akudaya. I'm not Akudaya san.
I married with spiritual? myth?
What is this meaning it?

Camelot65:
Good morning from here.

Yes, I hope. Same for you.

Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

cochtrane:
It looks like you are the only Japanese person on Nairaland
I got a job offer in Japan. What do you think about working on Japan? Yokohama to be precise. I'm still thinking about the offer and I'm asking around what it's like over there.

Really?!
Working and living in Japan?

I recommend you to ask peoples on travel section!
Because I think non Japanese living and working in Japan is maybe different view of Japanese living and working in Japan.

What I know Yokohama is not so far from Tokyo.
And from my experience with my husband, I think language is important.
Because Japan is not English speaking country.
Sometimes he still said, can't read and can't write is not good.

At least if you can speak basic Japanese, it will help you or little bit easy for your life than someone who can't even speak basic Japanese.

TheCongo2:
I am afraid you are married to an akudaya

Sorry, What is meaning akudaya?
Please I wanna know what is akudaya?

Camelot65:
Oh, 8:44PM? Hope I got that right?

Oh Yes, I'm having a good time.

I'm sorry for late reply.
Here is in the morning now! 8:38AM.
Good morning from Japan!(о´∀`о)

I'm happy to hear that!
Today will be more wonderful day to you than yesterday!!

babaalagbo11:
if you're seeing this or someone else also going through erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation,weak erection,reading this right now,I'll treat you permanently and you won't have any reason to be buying 200naira road side alcoholic mixture to perform Everytime, damaging your penile natural strength and self esteem.... Are you a smoker or alcohol drinker,lung,liver and kidneys cleanser straight from the farm and herbal market.... embrace herbs, embrace nature and natural ingredients....health is wealth

I'm very sorry for I misunderstood your writing.
If I was rude to you, I'm very sorry.
I'm apologies you.

Camelot65:
It was an advertisement for those with the problems listed...

Don't be embarrassed. The statement was just funny.

Hope you're having a good time?

Ohhhhh!! Advertisement?

I'm more feel so embarrassed now!
But I don't know why I'm laughing so much about this my embarrassed misunderstanding!

I really hope I was not rude to him what I wrote.

Yes! I'm off work today.
Here is already night. I'm drinking coffee and just relax!
Thank you so much for asking!
I appreciate you!!

I hope you are also having a good time!

Camelot65:
Lol, This is funny

Oh! I maybe misunderstood?!

I thought he is talking about impotence and he wanna try to help impotence person including me?
Very kind person!
But I'm a woman and I don't have penis.
I'm a not impotence person.

Misunderstanding?!

Oh... No...
I'm feel so embarrassed now.

I really love this kind of topic!

And Yeahhhhhh!! I got front seat!!(о´∀`о)
Thank you so much! I appreciate you!!

babaalagbo11:
if you're seeing this or someone else also going through erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation,weak erection,reading this right now,I'll treat you permanently and you won't have any reason to be buying 200naira road side alcoholic mixture to perform Everytime, damaging your penile natural strength and self esteem.... Are you a smoker or alcohol drinker,lung,liver and kidneys cleanser straight from the farm and herbal market.... embrace herbs, embrace nature and natural ingredients....health is wealth

Sorry, this English is very very difficult to me.

If I'm not misunderstood, you are talking about Impotence?
You wanna help Impotence person?

I'm a woman. I don't have penis

PaulOtl:
I started reading this morning and I almost shed tears just seeing how you were confuse, scared and seeking answers some years ago.
I'm glad that that everything worked out well and you're happy with your man there.

I've never encoutet Japanese ladies. Only a few men, maybe three in total, when I was in China. We call them Ryuben Ren. Lol.
Forgive me, but I've only really seen Jap ladies in porn (in the past, I no longer watch such) and in few films in TV. The ones in porn look surgically enhanced, compared to the ones on regular TV. And I know Jap ladies are known for having Fuller breasts than their asian counterparts in Korea, China, Indonesia, and so on. This too, made me curious to know why.

I would hope I can find a Japanese girl who o as open minded and jovial as you are someday, either online or through my journeys through life. Maybe you can even be of help in introducing any to me, over the internet. A friendship for starters. Then see where the waves sail us to.
Thanks ma'am.
Nice reading your diaries , as well.

Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

Yes! I was very confused and I'm still confusing.
I'm very very confusing person!
Yes! I'm still happily with my husband!
But We are not perfect. Sometimes We still have bad times, we made mistake, we misunderstood each other etc. But we are still together!
Sharing bad times and good times together and getting old together

Sorry, What is Ryuben Ren?
Fuller breasts meaning big breast?
I'm a very skinny Japanese. My body is very very flat. I have nothing on my body.
I don't even know which is my front or back side!
So, I think depend on person.

Japanese porn is interesting?
I didn't know Japanese Hentai and Japanese porn is kind of famous before joined this website.
I want many peoples to know about more good side of Japan and Japanese peoples!
Not Hentai or porn

Wow! I like this word "jovial".
Yeahhh! I'm jovial person!♪ヽ(´▽｀)/ Thank you so much! I really appreciate you!!

I'm sorry.
I don't have anyone. Most of my friends are married.
Very few are divorcee, but already have a boyfriend.
And one my local friend is already grandma!

I'm sorry for I can't help you.
I wish you can find out good Japanese woman!

Thank you so much!
I will continue to write my diary.
I appreciate you!!

TheSourcerer:
War is never good , what is your opinion on the Russian -Ukraine war?

Yes, never good.

I don't know what to say.
But I'm gonna try to write my opinion.

Many Japanese peoples, I maybe can say most Japanese peoples empathy for Ukrain and Ukrainian peoples including me.
Very emotional.

But emotions is nothing to war.
Emotions can't stop war.

War is justice vs justice, belief vs belief.
Both side believe what they are doing is right things.
No matter what peoples say or think, What other countries say or think etc, they have very strong belief.
They believe they are right. They are fighting for their justice.

I'm not Ukrainian or Russian.
I don't know much about their society, cultures, politics etc.
I'm not in there. Very difficult to know or understand their real justice or belief.

I read and still trying to know what is background of this war.
But just reading is not enough to know or understand.
Very difficult to know or understand what is truly background and their belief.

To be very honest with you, my emotion is for Japanese elderly peoples at first time when this war started.
Not for Ukrainian peoples or Russian peoples.
I maybe heartless person.

TheSourcerer:
please share peaceful . Siberia is one on the Dorset place on Earth to be a War prisoner

I have met two prisoner of war survivors.

One elderly man didn't talk about his experience like other elderly man who said "War can't make anyone happy".

But I once heard from him that he appreciate he is alive, he appreciate every day he can eat until he is full, he appreciate every day he can sleep on warm bed etc.

Every day he appreciate everything.

Because when he was a prisoner of war, he said everything he couldn't have it.
He still remembered how much cold and hunger in that time and he can't forget about how much he had very hard time in there.

Everything common for us these days like eating every day until we full, every day taking a bath with hot water, every day sleeping on warm bed etc, are not common for him at that time.

Just alive in peaceful days is very happy things.
He knows that, because of his experience.
That's why he always appreciate everything.

When he talked about it, he kept his smile.
I still remember very well. Very gentle smile.
He never ever said something like grudges.

I have heard some war experience from some elderly peoples both men and women.

Some of them were small kids.
Some of them were soldiers.

"War can't make anyone happy"

"If lost war, not happy. If won war, still not happy"

This is what I heard from prisoner of war in Siberia survivor.
I heard it and I also heard his experience about war from him few years ago.