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TheSourcerer:
how's the weather down there In Japan, its pretty cold here mornings.

Here is summer now.
Clazy hot! But past few days are little bit better.
Oh! Please don't get cold, always take good care of yourself!

TheSourcerer:
peaceful hey

Hello! How are you?

So cute pictures!
Lovely!!

Camelot65:
I'll check that Yakuta out and see what it looks like.

What's your favorite food?

I haven't tasted any Japanese dishes before.

I have been alot busy lately. How's Japan?

Oga, How far?!

Yukata is kind of Kimono.
But only wearing in summer and for sleep in old days.
Even now, If you go to Japanese hotel "Ryokan", there have Yukata for sleeping.
And Yukata is not formal attire.
Kimono has formal to wear for wedding party, funeral etc.
But Yukata is no!

My favorite food is Sushi, Sashimi and salad!
I think my most favorite food is salad.
Oh! and I love chocolate!
Greedy?!

What about you?
What is your favorite food?
My favorite Nigerian food is pepper soup! Very yummy!

Really?
Is there have Japanese restaurant?
I have heard about "Geisha" in Nigeria.
Canned food?
If I heard "Geisha", I will never imagine about food.
I think most of Japanese peoples will not imagine about food if they heard "Geisha".

Oh! Busy for working? or school? or playing?!
Sorry, joking.
I hope you are fine and not too much stress.

Japan is crazy hot now! Too much heat!!
But because of typhoon, little bit better now.
What about Nigeria? your place?

purples25:
Hi peacefull! I've missed you too! My heart was warmed when I saw your message.

I am fine and I hope you are too. May you always be happy and successful.

And you also always making my heart is warm and put smile on my face!

I'm very happy to hear that you are fine!
Yes, I'm fine too!
Thank you for asking! I appreciate you!!

Ohhhh!!
Thank you soooo much!!
I really appreciate you!!
You too! Always be happy and successful

purples25 chan put big smile on my face again!
I really really appreciate you!!

Blue86:
Nope, you were not rude.
You were asking questions.

Just cry to Jesus for help.

Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

Oh! Noooo!
If I cry about my marriage, I will cry alone and I will face my problems.
That's what I always do

But Thank you so much!
I really appreciate your kind!!

TheManOfTheYear:
No you weren't rude actually

You just misunderstood his statement, what he meant was that 'Jesus Christ brings peace to anyone who believes and accepts Him'. It's a Christian parlance. I don't know if you understand.

I think I understand little bit.

Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

Asianjollof007:
One way or the other, i stumbled on this hilarious thread. I had a nice time reading some comments on this thread, from the matured response to the use of english words. I hope this person is still on nairaland.

Oh! This topic made you fun?

Matured response, Yessss!! Everybody always very kind and very gentle to me on this website!
No one is immature person to me and I really appreciate everybody!

Hello! purples25 chan!

I'm so happy to see you again!
Long time I didn't see you and I missed you!

I hope you are good and everything is ok!
Please always take good care of yourself and stay safe!

TheManOfTheYear:
LMAO

Hello! How far Oga?

Please Did I say something wrong or something funny?
I maybe misunderstood something?
I really hope I was not rude to anybody.

BritishNaija:
Imela ( Weldone). Ekene(Thank).

I misunderstood!
I thought "Imela" meaning Thank you.

Anyway, Thank you so much!
I learned again.
I really appreciate you!!

Blue86:
You don't have to be a Christian for Jesus to help you.
Just as you don't have to be a Nigerian to be counselled by Nigerians.

I think I understand little bit.

Thank you so much for your kind!
I appreciate you!!

And I'm very sorry for if I was rude to you about Jesus and Christian.
I apologies you.

Blue86:
You don't have to be Christian to be helped by Jesus. He said come to me and I will give you peace.

I'm sorry, this is very difficult to understand.
I'm very sorry.

Jesus is not God of Christian?
Sorry, Who?
Someone told you to give me peace?

kkins25:
A man having two wives is not actually the norm in Nigeria. A man not talking to his wife for 2weeks is not normal even for Nigerian standards.

If the man you're believed to be married to is not treating you as a wife, please know that you're probably his gateway to moving his "real" family abroad.
Please watch the advice you're getting from Nigerians like myself. Many women here are prone to enduring abusive relationships. So they'd advice you to keep the marriage even at the expense of your life.

I might be biased, but I know someone who literally married his foriegn wife for the sake of a Visa nd dumped her after he got it. If your 'husband' is working on a visa, watch out!

There are many good Nigerians out there, if yours is acting as you've described then youd better move on. leave him. Nigerian mehn take lots of pride in taking care of their wives, if he's not taking care of you, then I'm afraid, he doesn't love you like you love him.

Oh! Ok!

Not only him. Many many times I'm also not call him or not send him any message.
This is very common for us.

I don't care if he has a wife or not in Nigeria.
My care is if he has a kid or kids.
My worry now is if he has a kid in Nigeria, I wanna make sure that kid's life is ok like eating well, having good health, going to school, have enough clothes and shoes etc, etc, etc!
His kid means my kid too.
We have responsibility for kid's life.
We must make sure that kid's life is ok and safe.
I already told him about that many times.
But he always denied about it.

I'm hearing and heard everybody's advice and I really really appreciate everybody who giving me or gave me advice!
Really grateful!!

He already has permanent residency in Japan.
He got it more than 10 years ago.
So, if he wanna divorce with me, he can do anytime.
He can live and work in Japan without me since more than 10 years ago.

Ohhh!
If he has a wife and if he wanna bring her in here, let him try it!
I'm a only his wife here in Japan.
I will sue both of them without divorce with him
I have right to do that!
Let them try it and let me tell them who is a real wife in here!
I will never run away.
But I'm very very welcome for kid!

I'm sorry, I can't think our marriage is abusive.

Before I joined this website, I had read some Japanese women complain about their ex Nigerian husband's bad behavior on Japanese website.
About cheating, not working, violence, wasting their money etc, especially after their ex husband got visa.

I know!!
I already know that many many Nigerian peoples are good peoples!!
Everybody I met, I should say talk? communicate? Sorry, everybody are very kind and very gentle to me on this website!
I really really appreciate everybody!!

Yes! I think I love him more than he loves me.
But that's not bad.
At least I'm a happy with him!

He is paying our house rent where most of times I'm living alone.
I think that is his care for me.
Only sometimes like one time or two times, I pay it by myself when he go to Nigeria or when he came back from Nigeria.

Anyway, Thank you so much for your advice to me!
I appreciate you!!

Blue86:
Read your story.
All I can say is that, Jesus now is the only one that can tell you where you really stand, and where your future lies.

So go to Jesus everyday.
Tell him to help you, and tell you where you stand and how to move on.

Because He himself said that those who come to him, he will not in anyway push them away.

John 6 : 37

I was really confusing when I joined this website .
My feel was really really negative when I wrote this topic.
But I didn't write it for divorce with him or ruin our marriage.

I'm sorry, I'm not Christian.
But Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

kkins25:
Why haven't dumped him yet? Do you have a kid?

I'm sorry, What do you mean?
Why I should dump him?

Yes, I have a kid before I met him.
I was a single mother without marry with anybody.

BritishNaija:
Yes. Ekene means Thanks

Imela and Ekene has same meaning?

BritishNaija:
Cool, Ekene diri gi.(Thanks be to you)

Ohhhh!!
Thank you so much!
I wanna try to say this Igbo language to my husband!
But I don't know how to read it
"Ekene" meaning thanks?

Very beautiful!!

The5DME:
I really do think your husband has a family back here in Nigeria.

I think so too!

But I have no proof and he always denied whenever I joking about it.
So, I have to trust his word!

Anyway, Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

BritishNaija:
Yes, Dalu is Igbo Word. I'm Igbo anyway, But the way of communication between you and your husband is strange, Ndeme (Ndeme means Welldone in Igbo).

I will check that word!
I know some Igbo words!
But my problem is I don't know how to write

Sometimes I think so too. But this is how we have communication now

Oh! Thank you so much!
I learned again. I appreciate you!!

Imela!

BritishNaija:
Tell me more about Osaka. How is your husband doing? Say dalu to him.

East is Tokyo, West is Osaka! (also many peoples know Kyoto and Nara)
There have famous tourist spot like Tsutenkaku (or Tsuutenkaku), Dotonbori (or Doutonbori) Osaka Castle etc.
I think Takoyaki and Okonomiyaki is famous foods!

One of dark side of Osaka is there have famous slums.
I have heard about it from local person.

My husband is doing fine! Maybe!
We don't take contact every day. Once a week or sometimes almost 2 weeks We don't talk.
No call and No message
Strange?!

Anyway, Thank you so much for asking about him!
I appreciate you!!

Oh!! I think this is new word to me!
Is that Igbo language? Dalu?

Camelot65:
Hey! Cool, you'd get used to it soon . Practice makes perfect as they say.

Ya welkom...

Yeah. As someone suggested in the other thread, click the link to Know more about basic pidgin language

I love it. There's a Japanese movie I watched "Rouruni Kenshin", I enjoyed it, the dressing, sword fights and the language.

You have kimonos presently?

No problem actually. We can derail all we want on this thread.

Also, tell me about Japanese food.

Yes! I need practice about this phone.
But problem is I can't have interesting about phone

Welkom!!
I like it!

I checked it!
Very very interesting! I found out some words I have heard from my husband!

I also watched it before, but I think I only watched first one and second one.
I enjoyed it too! But I have never read that manga.

No, I don't have Kimono.
I had Yukata before, But I gave it to someone long time ago.

I didn't know here is other topic!
Am I not rude or not derail if I continue to talking on here?

Oh! Japanese food!!
Here in Japan, We have many many types of foods!
In summer, ( oh.... here is too much hot now like crazy! ) Peoples like to eat cold foods.
Like cold type of noodles, cold type of side dishes etc.

Have you ever tried to eat Japanese food before?

Camelot65:
You welcome. Lol, what type of phone is that? That iPhone you bought?

You can check up how to maneuver your way around it on the internet. You prefer the former?

Lol... kikikikiikiki, Yours is sophisticated japanenglish language I'd love to hear your accent.

San Q madam pishfull

I'm trying to say, your English is not straight forward and yes it's pidgin.

I can as well say "Your English get K-leg", I mean same thing.

That kimono � looks good on you, I saw those pictures you posted.

Peacefull, I don't want us to derail that other thread with our talk.

Yes! iPhone SE 3rd generation.
Sometimes I'm checking internet.

Yessss! I like flip phone. Very simple and easy to use.

Sophisticated Japanenglish?!
I like it! San Q soooo macchi!!

I learned meaning corner-corner!
Oh! I learned K-leg before too. But I didn't know that corner-corner and K-leg is same meaning.
Learning language is very interesting!
Thank you so much! I appreciate you!!

Thank you so much!
Very very old pictures. That Kimono is old design. Small girls wear more colorful and gorgeous Kimono these days. Very cute!

Oh! I'm sorry.
I never meant derail. I'm very very sorry.
I apologies.

Thank you so much for taking your time!
I really really appreciate you!!
And I'm sorry for disturbing you too much.
I apologies you.