bigcp:

just de making mouth anyhow...u think to divorce as a woman is that easy. ...divorce affects d womam more than u can ever comprehend...they say who no go no go know....go and ask a dicorced woman...ask her to remove her pride and really tell u frm her heart how it feels...it ain't easy...unless u no love d man...u think d women that prays n go to all night, seek for advice n all just for d lord to bring back their hubby...u think they are fools....no worry wen u marry u go understand...probably u are still single that's why...good luck dear...knw that divorce isn't d answer....wether na d man or d woman...divorce ain't good...

I know, I feel sorry for her. Even when she's in the marriage, do you think she's happy? She's probably depressed.

YoungDaNaval:
Ugly girl. See as you be like rope

I'm sorry you're surrounded by ugly obese females like your mum, sisters and your entire family. There's a saying ugly people never see something beautiful.
Mods he started it tho.

MyNewJackeT:


for your information I'm not even up to 21 I'm still in my University, believe you're the old one here considering your stands against marriage, it shows you're a leftover, a used and dumped rag.

that's why you said you're aren't thinking of marriage and Iaccepted with you that may you never find marriage in your path again. five years from now you'll remember this message and you'll come to nairaland to beg me to edit this post to remove the curse but it will be too late.

have fun with your youth until Shiloh comes

I'm in my late teens, you're fucking old to me. So old man receive sense in Jesus name. Amen
I've never been used and dumped and I'd never let any man do that to me, if all the females in your life are used and dump trash. I understand how pained you are nigga, cos they couldn't be strong.
Quit that mentality that every person who is against chauvinistic male like you, are use and dump old trash.
I'm not against marriage, when I'm older I'll surely get married. But people who don't wanna get married respect them. But if anyone should get married I'd advice them not get married to chauvinistic asshole like you.
Learn to respect other people view, even if it's different from yours. It'll help you in life.

MyNewJackeT:

may you never think of marriage again.
Amen

Old fool, receive sense in Jesus name. Amen

Hashimyussufamao:

sure nw, that's only 4fabulous ones like u. just stay home and chill with loved ones am i right?

Just when I'm home tho.

MyNewJackeT:
peachess and rokia2

the longer you wait the more chances of you getting barren, the more your eggs refuse to be fertilized even though you sleep with an eighteen years old boy and the more likely you won't leave any children in this world to carry on after you. Listen to what the OP says.

If you don't have money like white people to freeze your eggs until your ready to get pregnant then the time is now, it's better to give your youth to your husband than to search for a man that will take care of you when you're old. cause that's bad market.

if you're young you should know that some older women cry and beg God just to become young again so they can live a better life,

Dogs and Cats wont drive you to the hospital to go see a doctor when you're old, it's your children that can do this things.

I'm still very young and ain't thinking of marriage anytime soon. As young as I am, I am not dumb enough to take advice from a nitwit like you. Age is not really maturity cos you reason like a baby.
I pity the lady that'll date a fool like you.

Hashimyussufamao:
buh why? is it that u dnt go out @al?

I rarely go out on Sundays.

Sirgay:
Are you below 18? the way sex works the guy needs the woman's approval. The woman is the tool since the man will always need her consent. If not why do women feel used if men don't fulfill their promises after sex?

I just feel like slapping sense into your head, how can you call women tools? I won't waste my time arguing with someone like you.

Hashimyussufamao:

smiles, aleez i knew u 4something good besides, why've ur day been boring

Sundays are usually boring to me...

You're such a sexist, so the men sleeping with them are not sex tools? Just the females right? It's good to get married but it's not cool calling unmarried females names.

KingTom:
Ekosodin tho Of course I read it

OMG, I give up. Lol, you read everything.

KingTom:

Sorry I got it all mixed up, the headache question was for someone else. I'm glad you're fine, how TP going

Gee, you've actually read my diary. It's going fine.

AIZU:



Peaches. how can i get to talk to u. i would luv to meet u if u dnt mind. i read a post of urs nd i ave d same problem too. i chicken out of performances in school too even though dey luv my songs. i always tink am only good behind d scenes. I get high nd wear sun shade nw. just to feel less uncomfortable. am just tired. Thought i was d only one until i saw ur post. i skip classes too so i wont meet ppl. its dat bad. hw are u holdin up. lets talk pls

I've been improving, I'm still quiet and reserved tho but not as it used to be. I got a lot of tips and advice from people and it worked.

KingTom:
Still feeling that headache? I hope you're not I'll sha

Headache? I'm fine...

Hashimyussufamao:

u're here again, d great sis. who don't want a lazy man that will slow her down how has been ur day dear

Gee, is that what you know me for? My day has been boring...

KingTom:

But I hope you remembered me in your own prayer oh, because na pray for me I pray for you dey reign now

I would have if I went to church but I didn't.

Martin0:


Exactly so what will u adviced as a lady to we men..

It shouldn't be all about looks, tho looks is still a major factor but it'll fade with time. So look and a character you can tolerate is the first thing look out for I guess. I dunno, I'm not a man.

KingTom:

I did, I didn't exactly know what to pray for so I just said, I pray for her

Lol, all na prayer...at least you remembered me in the prayer.

Martin0:


In addition to what u said,making sex a major objective or a first point kells the ambition to drive inn true love

Yeah, so many people go into marriage cos of sex or the physical appearance not minding if they're not compatible.

Which people can learn how to honor their vows and know marriage is not like a relationship that you can come out of it every time. That's why I feel that before getting married the person should be all you want, so that there won't be no excuse in the future.

Cos our parents had patience and can endure a lot. These days there are temptations every where, so married people cheat a lot. In those days when men cheat (I'm talking from a female perspective) the women endure and do nothing. But females now are more expose and wouldn't like to stay with someone that won't respect his vow.
People frowned a lot at divorce then and even when they were not happy, they stayed back. But these day it's has started becoming an order of the day.

Wow, cute couple. They guys looks younger tho.

I guess you don't know the meaning of no makeup.

KingTom:

Lol, there's a bit of shame if I waited till the week of exams before studying only the first page . Thanks a lot, and don't let anyone make you feel uncomfortable about your height or body, we're all unique in our different ways . Off to church, well talk later yeah?

Thanks, I won't.
Later, don't forget to pray for me

KingTom:

Once? Honey I'm a card carrying member still am don't think anything can convince me to shave it off. Hmmmm Naomi eh? Tall, strong, dark, confident and here I was calling Heidi klum. Smh, I don fail exams

Lol, there's no shame in failing an exam you didn't study for
I'm a big fan of dem beard gang. Don't let anything convince you to shave it off, many guys are dying to have it.

KingTom:

We all obsess about different things. At one point I was obsessed with getting flat abs and subsequently I became obsessed with getting a pot belly, let me not even get started on the obsession that has me carrying beards and looking like one Arabian Alfa. Seriously it doesn't make you a freak. You have to learn to feel good about yourself though, I can see confidence in your pose. Keep it up miss Heidi Klum

Aww, thanks...but I'm more of a Naomi Campbell tho. :p
LOL that Arabian Alfa got me laughing, so you were once a member of the beard gang?

KingTom:

Obsessed with looking good or obsessed with feeling good? I'm obsessed with the latter I spied o my dear and they're right 'You tall slim' lol

Obsessed about unnecessary things like height, weight. Gee, I sound like a freak.

KingTom:

And now I have to confess, I'm no psychic I just got all those facts by reading your diary. As soon as I saw Heidi klum and Naomi Campbell e click for me jare

LOL, so you spied eh? Gosh, since you read it I know you're probably looking at like an obsessed freak.

KingTom:

I can't estimate the height from my phone na, although the pose gave you away

Lol, true sha.

KingTom:

Yeah it is actually, the pretty face and 'something light' body

Lol, I guess it's the "something light body" and the height tho, cos they're a lot of pretty face people out there but they don't ask them.

Martinez19:
I am a guy, I know gold digging is bad but it is wickedness to marry and give birth to children in poverty. Given that one can't cater sufficiently for a child, why would one decide to introduce a soul into the environment of suffering(poverty)? I know there is true love but at least pity the children. For me no sufficient and steady source of cash, no marriage and child bearing. Chikena. If getting married to a poor man would indeed draw you back, then don't go ahead. I know guys won't like this since they always see things from their selfish perspective.

My point exactly, I've seen poor kids suffer and I want the best for my kids. They'll soon come for you calling you an ass licker lol. That's what they say when they see a guy saying the truth.