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RomanceRe: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(op): 8:20pm On Feb 02, 2018
Safiaa:
I do believe that women should learn to take responsibility for themselves. You get treated by what you accept, and if you allow men to treat you like trash they will lol. But please men are promiscuous because they want to be ahbeg. Even if all the women in the world stopped tolerating cheating, they would still do it. Probably just be more cautious to avoid their partners from finding. Because I won't lie, men cheat but they're not very smart about it that's why they always get caught lol.
They do it cos in the homes they grew up, they probably heard the women saying it's okay to cheat. And you things you learn from childhood usually has strong impact on you
RomanceRe: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(op): 8:15pm On Feb 02, 2018
tensazangetsu20:
Yes they can. When you guys say men, it's not all men that engage in this things. It's probably 20 percent of men. It's called hypergamy and the 80/20 rule. 80 percent of men are actually good and decent but women love the bad boys and are attracted to them but they are a small minority in manosphere.
It's not true, there's nothing I hate as much as bad guys. And it's very difficult to know the good guys because there are so many bad guys acting like good guys just to get what they want.
RomanceRe: Can Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(op): 8:11pm On Feb 02, 2018
NairalandCS:
Is it still promiscuity if I'm single ? huh
Hmm I don't think so
RomanceCan Females Also Be Blamed For The Promiscuity Among Men? by Peachess(op):
It's no news that the male folks are very promiscuous and when they do it, they do it with so much boldness. Most times I ask myself why promiscuity is so common among males and I feel sometimes it'll be okay to blames the female folks a little. Before you come for my head, see my reasons below
1. We're in a kind of society where females feel it's okay for men to cheat on them. Most times, the male folks grow up in homes where their mum 'accept her fate' and they usually hear their mums say men are allowed to cheat. So they grow up with that kind of mentality that cheating is acceptable if you're a guy. So the first blame is making their sons feel it's okay to cheat as long as they are males.

2. When women keep on accepting men that cheat on them, it gives them the courage to cheat more because they know she'll always forgive him because it's his duty to do so. The truth is, if most women stop accepting men that keeps on cheating on them, the rate of cheating will reduce drastically.
3. Some women want what others have, I'm a female and I know this very well. Some females are so sick they feel they're more attractive when a guy with a partner sleep with them. Some don't like seeing other happy while others have been hurt and they feel it's only fair if they retaliate even if the lady is innocent.


Our society and values are bleeped up but we can still be better. To the male folks, one of the worse thing you can do to your partner is cheat on her. Just think how it hurts when a female cheats on you, then just imagine a female feeling this way almost every time. You can't love someone and still cheat on the person cos if you love someone, you can never hurt the person. There's no excuse what's wrong is wrong.
Share your opinions, all opinions are welcome.




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RomanceRe: Can God Ask Me To Marry Someone I Don't Find Physically Attractive? by Peachess(f): 11:23pm On Jan 28, 2018
God don't ask you to marry anyone, He has given you wisdom to be able to know the right person
RomanceRe: What Should I Do? by Peachess(f):
I won't advice to get married to such a person, he'll keep on doing it. A leopard doesn't change its spot. Even if you do marry him, you'll always keep that grudge against him. And finally, he can infect you with numerous STDs out there. So babe be wise
RomanceRe: When You Grow In Love. by Peachess(f): 10:48pm On Jan 28, 2018
Not true. If I'm kept in a room for a year with a guy I hate do much, nothing on earth will ever make me fall in love with the person. Especially if the person has the kind of temperament I hate so much. I'll only hate him more.
RomanceRe: Advise Needed About An Elder Brother EX by Peachess(f): 3:26pm On Jan 28, 2018
Well it depends, there's nothing wrong about it, but if you look at it from another point of view it wrong. How did she and your brother break up, that one question you need to ask yourself.
RomanceRe: Types Of Hugs Ladies Give And Their Meanings by Peachess(f): 12:52pm On Jan 28, 2018
Fourwinds:
you are shy about it
I'm not shy about it, I don't just like it.
RomanceRe: What Is That Marriage/relationship Advice Your Father Or Mother Have Told You?? by Peachess(f): 12:19pm On Jan 28, 2018
Fourwinds:
have u been in love before
Yup
RomanceRe: Love Is Blind, Can You Wash Your Wife's Undies With Washing Machine? by Peachess(f): 11:46am On Jan 28, 2018
Zykod:
Kuku blame us for your dirty pants naa. How can we be sure it's only us that go down there self tongue
It seems you're among those guys that puts on an undies for months that's why you think everyone is dirty like you. You're not sure if you're the only one but you guys can still suck down there.
RomanceRe: What Is That Marriage/relationship Advice Your Father Or Mother Have Told You?? by Peachess(f): 11:42am On Jan 28, 2018
Don't marry for money. Make sure you can take care of yourself before getting married. Don't marry someone you're obsessed with or love too much, it hurts when things doesn't work out.
RomanceRe: Love Is Blind, Can You Wash Your Wife's Undies With Washing Machine? by Peachess(f): 11:36am On Jan 28, 2018
If I can't wash his undies then why can't he wash mine. Men are just confused, they spend all their life trying to get down there, I'd you can use your teeth to remove it, kiss it, then what's so hard in washing it.
RomanceRe: Types Of Hugs Ladies Give And Their Meanings by Peachess(f): 11:29am On Jan 28, 2018
NairalandCS:
Introvert much ?
Nope, don't just like it.
RomanceRe: Why Is It Ok To Circumcise Male Children But Wrong For Females ? by Peachess(f): 11:27am On Jan 28, 2018
mistel:
you are wrong there! that's exaggeration
That's no exaggeration, when a lady is circumcised she feels nothing down there. That's why they circumcise women in the first place, cos they don't want them to have any sexual urge
RomanceRe: Why Is It Ok To Circumcise Male Children But Wrong For Females ? by Peachess(f): 11:16am On Jan 28, 2018
Because males can easily get infected if they're uncircumcised. The foreskin is very susceptible to HIV infection and herpes. A lot of guys won't be able to wash underneath the foreskin very well and it's going to bring very bad smell. And an uncircumcised dick looks disgusting.
RomanceRe: Types Of Hugs Ladies Give And Their Meanings by Peachess(f): 11:13am On Jan 28, 2018
I can't relate to any of these hugs, cos I hate hugging.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Of Today So Desperate About Marriage? by Peachess(f): 8:49pm On Jan 18, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:
Trying force marriage on a man, is it niceness?

If making a promise now and not keeping it was d case now, what would you say here on nairaland
I don't support the making a promise idea, but your advice is not cool. If he wants to leave fine, he shouldn't use and dump like you suggested
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Of Today So Desperate About Marriage? by Peachess(f): 8:32pm On Jan 18, 2018
adedeij02:
I completely understand that she's going through pressure and I'm still willing to make it up to her no matter what but wants me to make a promise when we will actually get married. I think she's confused
She's obviously confused, at that age she's going through a lot of pressure, seeing her mates married with kids, stuff like that. But don't make the mistake of promising anyone when you don't feel that way, just wait. If you like her and you think she's the one, then get married to her.
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Of Today So Desperate About Marriage? by Peachess(f): 8:26pm On Jan 18, 2018
RadicallyBlunt:
Somebody simply admired you, now you want him to say what doesn't come from his mind. All because all her friend don marry..No be man by himself go talk him mind?

Dis kind girl na for chop and clean mouth, she don show am herself, just play along. I no go advice you to promise her marriage. If she dey too desperate, just withdraw. Her emotions go make her come back for you. When she now comes back..ehnen.. that is your own time to knack the living daylight out of her kpekus, opportunity comes but once. Nack am like say na concrete u dey nack, naxk am like sex doll, nack am day and night, nack am without mercy, nack am terribly so tay she no go waka well again. When her eyez open, another man go continue from where u stop.
That's just pure wickedness, if he's no longer interested in her, he should just stay the Bleep away from her
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Of Today So Desperate About Marriage? by Peachess(f): 8:02pm On Jan 18, 2018
When ladies get to the age of 25, society starts putting so much pressure on her. They make her feel inferior because she's unmarried and they commend the married ones (whether miserable or not) like they've made an achievement. The girl you're talking about is 27 and it kind of old. So don't blame her for being desperate, society made her that.
FamilyRe: Why Do Poor People Give Birth To Plenty Children Unlike The Rich. by Peachess(f): 10:43am On Jan 18, 2018
I once saw a poor woman defending people who give birth to lots of kids when they're not financially buoyant. Her reason is because she feels children are investments, she believes if she gives birth to lots of kids one must become successful. And it's a very stupid ideology cos I've seen some large families where everyone is miserable. Apart from that, if one actually becomes successful, unnecessary burden would be placed on the person.
They just need enlightenment, they need to know that giving birth to lots of kids doesn't mean some might be successful.
FamilyRe: My Cute Niece by Peachess(f): 6:46pm On Jan 17, 2018
Aww, the baby is so cute. But you shouldn't have posted her pic on a public forum sha, well different strokes for different folks.
RomanceRe: Cut Her Loose! Let Her Go!(photo) by Peachess(f): 6:31pm On Jan 17, 2018
blackgold2018:
Hmm.. you sound innocent regardless. Mostimes that's because for a man to get want he wants(s.x).. it's more easier to deceive a girl in a serious relationship than telling her he wants her for fun. That's the world we live in.
Yeah I know that why I said "I wish". If he wants just sex he can just go to the brothel where he can get it without any stress as far he pays cash, instead of deceiving girl about their true intention.
FamilyRe: Is Cheating Necessarily Borne Out Of Lack Of Love For Your Partner? by Peachess(f): 6:21pm On Jan 17, 2018
tosins:
you are also right, but for a man that truly love his wife, true love ooo, and still cheat secretly, will you say the love is fake or what
If he truly loved his wife he'd know cheating on her will hurt her, and if he really loved her he wouldn't hurt her.
RomanceRe: Someone Should Advice My Friend... by Peachess(f): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2018
That girl is so cunning, lol. Your friend will soon be a father, he should go and see her parents. No more free of charge for him again
FamilyRe: My Husband Doesn't Want Me To Be Close To His Brothers. Is He Normal? by Peachess(f): 3:26pm On Jan 17, 2018
They're his brothers and I guess he has reasons for acting that way. Maybe he probably doesn't trust them or...I don't know sef. This one is strong.

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