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[quote author=Mynd_44]You have to do more that hope[/quote]why can't I understand your comment?

Leobreezy: We all possess diffrnt xters. D fact dat he was amenable doesn't mean all village guys are.

love conquers all,word!

Leobreezy: Change him 2 become what?? She said he's local and frm her narration its obvious. Why are u guys being so quixotic?? What if he's not willing 2 change? And who said in dat 3 year period she hasn't attempted 2 change him? U can't remove a leopard's spots! If dis guy went 2 a university and the collegiate life of 4 years didn't change him, how do u think he will change? Be logical.

why don't you believe in this word“change”even in movies you see village dudes who their spouse made a meaning out of their lives•it happens everyday and everywhere,how do I explain this to this boy?

ferhyntorlah: This is good but what if the dude in question is not willing and ready to change? You know there are some men like that; no matter how you try to make them see reasons, they still won't bulge.

At the coloured:
This is a very good counsel; I thought I was the only one who saw what the guy did as being wrong and inappropriate.

thank God I gave an instance with my bestfriend so that should show that no one is above change and ehen before I forget,my friend drives one of the cutest cars we have in nigeria÷courtesy of the supposed village boy with lots of other things the guy has really done for her•this isn't a story I heard or was told,I SAW it happen so op just dnt abandone the guy abeg someday you would be proud of him

Leobreezy: Ur still naive, soon u'll understand. And by d way, i never said u have 2 give a girl a car 4 her 2 date u. My point is, didn't d op notice his primitive personae b4 she began dating him?? Or did he pretend 2 be 21st century?

me naïve?well I hear you btw my advice is to Op and not people who think they already know everything and are perfect

beblessed: Hmmmmm. Op, i think you are still a teenager at heart. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your guy. He is simply not used to modern foods, facilities n propensities etc. For me, i love his kind of person. And i dont think you really love this man. True love will not use others to judge love. This guy is health conscious and so prefers local foods and remedies. You are not his type but i pray you dont miss him because he is very original. It's time you know what you want in a man and not what your family, friends,and society dictates for you.

you said it all•mehn am done with this issue!

hornipipe: damn! another cutie

SMH

dontador: Thank you senorita.... I hope you fit my description?

eeeerm all of it except that am not tallllll like talllllll!am jt ok.com

Leobreezy: U've got a point. D girl has herself 2 blame for falling in love with "Jedidiah". I mean, wat did he use to woo her, a goat and a bottle of palm wine? Gosh!!

you obviously do not know a tin about love!you that knows how to woo a gal with cars and flowers,doooh you try

Leobreezy: U can take a lion to d city, but u can't take d jungle out of it. Do u really think a 29yr old guy, brought up from infancy in d village, can change and become 21st century?? Like i said, don't be quixotic.

and when did age become a factor for change?the guy needs help and the only gal that can help him is the woman in he's life.whatever happened to being there for the one you love huhn,or how would you feel if your gf abandons you simply becos you av a foul attitude•my dear like I said earlier,if my gf could change her bf then op should do same[no one can ever outgrown changes]

Leobreezy: My friend say the truth and stop being quixotic. If dis guy approached u with his malodourous mouth and comical attire, would u bat an eyelid?? I hate people who speak sententiously.

wats ur own?I said yes I can date him and all I wud simply do is make him change•is that something to pretend about?I didn't say it to mpress anybody naaaaa I said it cos yes I can so take it or leave it

chinedumo: i take this to mean that you don't mind dating this Archaic guy

God knows I don't mind•i love to see people change for good as a result of my counsel•i would soooooo change he's mindset and stick to him like forever

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Stay with him.

He has done nothing wrong. He is not to be blamed for how he was brought up. You are just being petty. There is nothing you perceive as a problem that he cannot overcome with a little encouragement from you.

That is all you need to do. . . Encourage him and quit being lazy. That is what a girlfriend should do. . .
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God bless you times one million

kpolli: Just break up

never a solution¤my bestfrnds bf used to be atypical of that dude the young lady just narrated but today they have the best love life any gal would ever wish for¤when I asked how she did it,simple she replied!I made him the kind of man I needed in him,she went further to state how she taught him a lot of things and even when he frowned at them all she would simply tell him I love u and that's why am here for you.she got him nice outfits and took time to explain how he should use them,atimes she purposely prepared what ops bf termed a white man food in d guys house and taught him how to use cutleries and why he needed such meals,my gf is the most loyal person av ever come across so even when the guy was gonna scream and shout and hate she still smilled and made him calm down.my dear op make ur bf the kind of man u want him to[my gfs bf was even worse]but today its all a story.correct him in love,be a mother and a friend and a sjister and I bet he would change•just don't frown wen he displays those he's archaic behaviour and use every opportunity to teach him,eg when he did what he did during your visit to your marid friend did you sit him down when u got home and explain why he shudnt av done what he did?or why he shud av just simply said thank you and maybe eat a little from the meal even if he didn't like it?did u take time to tell him that such things would make people loose respect for him?my dear if my friend of just about 21 years of age could make the best out of a man am sure you can do better•cheers

berem: Babes beware! If una try dis kind hairstyle with indomie, na im be say indomie go cost pass brazilian weaveon

lmao

hornipipe: cos shez a sweet heart i guess

now am blushing*

cindyrella: I no do kele kele love

gud answer[mynd is behind]

dontador: I luv them moderate with nice curves and tall... I dislike short ladies even if she's more beautiful than rai...

me I love your discription

hornipipe: Keeping things as discreet as possible
and how many times will i tell u guys its 'hornipipe' not 'horneypipe or hornypipe' sounds gay

how com onli pearl know how to spell ur name correctly?

Chykason: pearl dear, while we're having FUN, no need for us to be peeping through the window when your hussy is away then. We can always shout SEPTEMBER FOOL. The niqqa gon be played. Haha

lmao biko spoil me not

ITbomb: Pearl says you talk too much , that 'he is so ugly that he has to make extra effort to get people's attention '

jeeees when did I tell you that one?abeg oooooo I don't want•seriously that's expensive don't use my name to mock anybdy

[quote author=Mynd_44]Now you are just derailing ITBOMB' "lovely" thread[/quote]your handiwork!so stop and now too btw ow cum the thread became lovely to u all of a sudden huhn

[quote author=Mynd_44]This is some serious poo[/quote]still laughs

[quote author=Mynd_44]I still do not know[/quote]I hope you are not the person

[quote author=Mynd_44]SMH[/quote]lmao!breathesdown*[he spared me]

BluStreak: Hey Pearl, u got it wrong on this one; matching belt & pants (ie your trousers) for the guys. Its should matching your belt with your shoes. Just imagine a guy (I see a lot though & I feel pity on their ignorance) wearing a blue pair of chucks and a white belt on an off-white three quater chinos. Horrible I'll say.

I just tot of it too!I think that's off btw thanks dear,buh í know there's something that should match a guys pant can't really remember how it was explained to me.

caseless moi love whr aff u been

dagr8: u made mi remember dis:
‎@BasketMouth_: What wil u do if u came home one day n met ur best friend and ur fiancé naked on ur bed n as soon as they saw u, they screamed: APRIL FOOL!!

lmao a veryyyy gud ansa