Biggoozz: @ OP, this story is so funny I find it unbelievable.

HERE IS YOUR BEST ADVICE:

HAVE A DISCUSSION WITH THE GUY AND SHARE YOUR WORRIES ABOUT HOW YOU CONTRARY SEE A BETTER FUTURE IF HE LIVES CIVILIZED AND DEVELOPED.

1. IF HE SEES REASONS WITH YOU AND WANT YOU TO BECOME HIS "HELP MEET" TO REALIZING A BETTER LIFE, BE PATIENT, COACH HIM AND ENJOY WHAT HE TURNS OUT TO BE, (I HAVE SEEN THIS WORK!!!)

2. IF HE STICKS TO HIS GUN? THERE AND THEN THANK GOD FOR EVERY GOOD THING YOU LEARNED FROM THE RELATIONSHIP AND BREAK IT UP AND MOVE ON WITHOUT LOOKING BACK, ELSE WE WILL BE READING YOUR BOOK OF LAMENTATIONS SADLY EVER AFTER.

I WISH YOU BOTH WELL.

afam4eva: I don't know what's wrong with some girls sef. You knew all these before you went ahead to marry him and now you're whining. STFU and live with it.

pweeryambre: We are in the 3rd year of our relationship

richeyy:


LWannaTMB This your guy na real "George of the jungle"
. As per that pin thing, I've heard of it. Orthodox medicine cannot to fit cure am,

yorke: Cock n bull story

sigmundfreud:
Well said biggie!
Just 29!!! BTW...ow did he scope u or u did the scoping?

dayokanu: OP If he is so traditional how did he toast you? Did he just say "A furungi nnanya"

Do you go on dates or just play hide and seek in the farm?

Does he eat rice with spoon or prefers his bare hand.

Does he use fan and AC or prefers sitting under the tree to enjoy fresh air?

Does he have electricity or he uses lantern

Girls next time beware of guys whose names are AFAM4EVA, AGBABIAKA, or OKIJA JUJU

dayokanu: OP If he is so traditional how did he toast you? Did he just say "Mo ni ife re"

Do you go on dates or just play hide and seek in the farm?

Does he eat rice with spoon or prefers his bare hand.

Does he use fan and AC or prefers sitting under the tree to enjoy fresh air?

Does he have electricity or he uses lantern

pweeryambre: We are in the 3rd year of our relationship. And i knew he grew up from the village and was trained by his grandmother(very old woman) although he has been displaying some annoying local champion attitude from the begining, i over looked it and thot that it would change with time, but recently its getting so annoying dat its begining to embarasse me u wont even believ he is a graduate.he is just 29.
He wil not take proper medication to cure his sickness. he wil go down to village to hav one native doctor beat out wat dey call pin from his body. Atimes ordinary malaria wil last a whole month in his body as a result. Always chewin garlik and all sorts of local herb which leaves his mouth smellin funny all d time.
Dosent beliv in romance anymore , our sex life has bcome so rigid, he just want to f**k without any form of 4play. Says romance is for d white man.
He prefers d company of very old piple or very small boys dat just left sec skul and says his mates dosent know wat dey r doing,,, dis is coming from sombody dat belives C ronaldo uses charm to play football
. He Dresses funny atimes. And his views on life generally is archaic.the other day we visited a married couple friends of ours and dey served us springles potatotoe snack and he just flong the thin away saying dat its food for pigeons dat dey shuld boil yam for him to eat wit red oil,which dey did. Althou we laughed at it. I was just embarassed. I dont even want to talk abt how he spent overr 950k buyin ordinary 2nd hand audi 80 car, just because he belives dat an old model car is better than new model. even though he complaind bitterly of bein broke.
now he says he wants to park and go and live in the village dat i shuld join him. I m thinking of dumping him cos dis is not wat i want in a man, but d only thin is dat he is too handsome.and he has a good heart.

shymexx:

Can't you see your question is oxymoronic??

shymexx:

If they're not compatible, she should leave the guy in peace - rather than ridicule him for being himself in cyber space... Judging by the rant the OP posted, she wasn't seeking honest advice, she just came on here to ridicule the guy... And she had a field day with other posters ridiculing the guy for being himself..

shymexx: About "he's so archaic" - like most of you are not medieval yourselves, with no identity smh... At least the guy has an identity and he's sticking to his "guns", what's your identity?? I guess, modern.. Bwahahahahahahaha... GTFOH with that bs!! Nigerians are so twisted!

dayokanu: OP If he is so traditional how did he toast you? Did he just say "A furungi nnanya"

Do you go on dates or just play hide and seek in the farm?

Does he eat rice with spoon or prefers his bare hand.

Does he use fan and AC or prefers sitting under the tree to enjoy fresh air?

Does he have electricity or he uses lantern

Girls next time beware of guys whose names are AFAM4EVA, AGBABIAKA, or OKIJA JUJU

sexkillz: Stay with him.

He has done nothing wrong. He is not to be blamed for how he was brought up. You are just being petty. There is nothing you perceive as a problem that he cannot overcome with a little encouragement from you.

That is all you need to do. . . Encourage him and quit being lazy. That is what a girlfriend should do. . .

pearl~hapi:
God bless you times one million