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Ishilove:
Do you really believe women are the only ones who want privacy? Sholaye Jeremy will laugh at your statement.

Young man, you are very naive.

Ishilove:
Read my edited post

Ishilove:
You sound so unbelievably naive, it's almost cute.

Personally, I am a very private person and hate being the center of attraction, and I know there are so many like us out there. People need to learn that there was life before soclai media and not everything should be out there. If you like living a noisy life all when and good, but learn to respect other people's desire to keep a low profile. This is where your man is getting it wrong and he may lose a good girl because of his myopia.

MajorJeffery:
Two things are involved, she either still have some baggage to clear out or she doesn't like public attention.
Personally, I don't live a social media life and don't like any form of attention.

XhosaNostra:
Or to finish all doubts, she should mention who she's engaged to. I think that would put him at ease.

XhosaNostra:
What are the chances she's engaged to two different men at around the same time?

Valerie47:
There is nothing bad in what she said, I personally will not post an engagement picture cause I don't want monitoring spirits to know, I can only post my wedding pictures to take them by surprise, these days people hardly post their engagement picture, in case things go south cause engagement also doesn't mean marriage, so that is what she is trying to avoid.

mhizbel:
I really enjoy my life private and off social media. I wouldn't even want a public engagement because the guy involved may be embarrassed in the process, (depending on how deep the relationship is) and this is because I have to ask questions, clarify things, etc.
All these public stunts and creative engagements are great o... But a good engagement should come with a date... otherwise you may have to reconsider it.
So, it's either the lady loves her life private or she's being careful.

PediakAuthor:
Mind u, it will be very easy for u to double date even before you marry if you dont portray the picture that you are already taken...

Bad guys still follow up and woo ladies with rings in their hands talk less of the ones without rings... Yet claiming a relationship

PediakAuthor:
Why the extreme privacy
Let me make some assumptions here...
Its either the past is hunting you or your hubby has a past he is hidding too... You wanna hide your marriage from your previous exes... I guess... Im still trying to figure out the reason for the extreme privacy...
Why should you also hide your wedding ceremony from the world, except you dont have the capacity to contain and cater for them... But if its privacy, the world should know your new status, yet without noise...

Chikabel:
Some ladies actually love their privacy, I for one. I got engaged sometime in the first quarter of 2018, lai lai, one picture, I no post on social media. Only our close friends and family knew. Most people that saw few pictures where I was wearing my ring much later in the year thought it was a recent stuff. Infact, from the outset, my husband always knew I wanted a very private proposal and he did just that. Up until today, we are not friends on facebook and we enjoy it that way. Yet, our fingerprints can open our phones anytime and access is free between us. Few weeks ago, we had our traditional marriage, and it was just family and VERY VERY few friends in attendance. We were tagged by some friends on facebook for some of our pictures independently, well yeah, that's okay. I simply react to the ones I was tagged in. But we didnt post shit, just changed our profile pictures and few whatsapp status intermittently and replied some congratulatory messages we could independently and apologize for not sending out invitations for people who felt slighted.
Some of us prefer keeping our private lives private! Maybe his lady is one of us!
Cheers!

Iamtosignno:
Tell Your Guy To Tell The Girl She Should Change Her Relationship Status To Engaged If She Do So Assurance Grant...

Mankosi:
The girl did well by not allowing him to post that online. A guy can just engaged u to make u chase away other suitors and make u solely his while it last. Jealous guys can do that, then after wasting ur time and destroying ur puanny he will take a bow and leave and there's nothing u can do because engagement is different from marriage. He can give anything as reason for leaving u and there's nothing anybody can do about it... instead u as a girl will take the whole blame for allowing urself to be devoured by a man for years in the name of engagement or hope of getting married to him.

Martinez19:
At least, if doesn't want pics on social media, make sure your family and her family are aware of the upcoming wedding.

Dami12345:
You know how women are this days, she might just be asking for time to discharge the other assistant boyfriends.
If your cool with that go along.

I think tho that as guys its smarter for another party to post the pics and video and claim ignorance, tag her and all.

That way your right hand guy didn't post the pic and he puts his mind at rest.

Its better to be sure than have doubts, cause this is the beginning of marriages and am sure you guy subconsciously knows why he feels this is a big deal.

Besides is she the type that is private on social media or is this behavior wholely uncharacteristic?

Bj5all:
Some guys are actually crazy. Before you propose to a girl make sure all plans/arrangements have been made for marriage. You don't just propose out of emotions or insecurity. She has a life, why will she allow a guy that has not make plans for wedding to post her engagement pictures on social media, does he want to turn her to lord of the ring?

The girl is wise and mature, your friend is still a small boy in mind. I have a close friend that a guy did that to, that chased all eligible guys away from her and over one year and 6 months, marriage is still not in view. how can a guy propose and your friends and family ask you when is the wedding date and you say you don't know. That can be very embarrassing.

She acted the way she did because she is not seeing the readiness to get married from your friend.

JasonScoolari:
[color=#CD1076]Wait a minute bro, this one you're telling me to think the other way around, it seems you're the guy.

Truth is, some people don't like to share everything about them on social media, be happy you've that type of lady, you shouldn't be heartbroken.[/color]

XhosaNostra:
Well, did she at least update her relationship status to "Engaged"?
Not everyone likes to share every aspect of their lives with "friends" on social media. Some of them are true friends & some are just surveillance cameras, strategically placed there to monitor your every move. I personally find nothing suspicious about this, unless she has a history of cheating.

JasonScoolari:
[color=#CD1076]So because she told your friend not to post the videos and photos for now, that classify her as a cheat abi?

Help us tell that your friend that he's dumb and God bless you as you tell him.[/color]

Mikora:
Some people don't just like the public attention.

meobizy:
OP is a village boy.

youngest85:
You are a village boy Go to golf view Go to Oriental hotel

0pposite:
This Sudanese-led government in Nigeria has caused every Nigerian youth to work in the same GHNL company..
#spits