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peelovee:
ABEG make una fill the space with the correct answer (a) love (b) partial love (c) true love

1) Money - look = --------------
2) look - money = --------------
3) money + look= --------------

luxoire:
money fit make one wowo guy - fine - look at 50cent for example!!

money is not the be all and end all - neither is looks - but a combination of both in the right doses would be perfect for me

madolla13:
@Abuzola
The wisdom of God is foolishness unto men never on earth will you think your intellect will apply on spiritual things. Scripture

Ist Corith 1v18
For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.
1 Corinthians 1:21 For since in the wisdom of God the world through its wisdom did not come to know God, God was well-pleased through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe.

1 Corinthians 2:14 But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.[/color]

My brother I pray that you recieve the Holy Spirit
John14v26

26But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will [color=#006600]teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.
The Holy Spirit will do it Recieve Him today. Have a blessed day juss like me

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Well said

Like spike said, it's easier for some, harder for others.
I see it as a decision and sticking to it.[/color]

rashy:
The guy you gave a NO when he asked you out is dating your best friend! How will you feel gurl?

heather:
u cant eat ur cake and have it. u said No cos of pride or maybe he is not ur kinda man .but he finds someone that likes him the way he is and happens to be ur friend LET THEM BE, like the old saying goes ONE MANS FOOD IS ANOTHER MAN'S POISON. guess u don't have a choice

Itohan123:
By taking a pic of yourself holding a teaspoon in front of your nose

biola44:
u've got 2 overcome it 2 stand any chance!

pc guru:
Fear is an understatement.I'm swimming in it

justwise:
Thank ur God that u have somebody who even mention natural love. u better treat her well and don't let her go else u will know what un=natural love is when u get dumped

Princess2:
A classy lady does not price herself to have an affair with someone. For her to accept it, its either she is having a crush for the guy or she is in love with the guy. The ladies that ask for money or present in exchange for their boby are not CLASSY PLEASE!

Sasha009:
OP, did you mean "if you 'caught' them in bed together, or cough?
If you meant caught, then there's no excuse for cheating at all. They will still do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Dump him and move on. Trust me, it may be hard but you will be a better person for it. a cheater is not worth your time.

biola44:
emotional blackmail,

justwise:
If one is not enough for him interms of wife then 2 will not be.

No wife should put up with that nonsense. Dump his sorry arse and move on.

peelovee:
If you cought a guy/babe you love so much cheating on you beyound your imagination,and you have a heart breaks, and sleepless night,what will you do. ;

Abeg naija make una advise

biola44:
But, what if every body, including the parents and freiends and neighbours pleads for you to go back to him/her, and already you have decided not go continue with that relationship. does it mean you are wicked or heartless.
abeg i need advise.

The guy/babe is saying it is better to die if you dont come back to him/her, and the people pleading are using that it as a key word so as to make you change ur mind, what will you do?.

biola44:
I'll dump her asap cos i can stand cheats,

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Get Out of the House
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Treat Yourself
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dns:
i do understand this one hooo nairalanders please help me. 4 instance ur girl just call u one telling u that she has no feelings for any man that she want to be alone, and that is just the she feels what do u do, and what does it mean. help hooooo!