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Many Thanks for all your post.

All that I needed is advise, not judgemental posts.

I pray this never happen to any of you or someone close/related to you.

I dont know what to do with this pregnacy.....
My fears: Its ten weeks and I dont know if it will be safe for termination
What about my life
What about My future


As for the marriage I have decided to let go..

advise pls

D sage: @op, sorry dear, the Lord is your strength, he will surely take charge of your problem.

From your story,I can see that your fiance is not mentally and financially ready for the marriage. Sound as if you and your family trying to force him while he's not ready for such a thing. Since he has done what's right(introduction), you can keep the pregnant and hope he come back to his sense one day.

Lastly,don't forget to find out whether he has another wife in the village.

Many Thanks,

greatgod2012: What was his reason for relocating to the village? what about his job here in the town? does he want you to join him in the village? did he accept the pregnancy? is the wedding cancelled because of finance or because of the pregnancy? Are you ready to move in with him in the village, if that is what he want?

Many thanks dear
House rent has expired 6 months ago, and the mum has refused to give him money. cos the meeting she enter has refused to lend her money based on her request.

He has been feeding me with lies and fake identity card, the mum just had to open up that he lost his job since 2006 when he fell into critical illness.

Yes he accepted the pregnacy. He has just refuse to say why he is no longer interested.

Greetings Dear NLs,
I am in big confussion right now!

My spouse and I have been dating since 2008, at the end of 2011 he went to see my parents to let them know his intention. after 2010 we had a misunderstanding which was his fault; that led to seperation. This kept me in a very tight heartbreak it took Gods grace for me to get on with my life again, without any relationship. He came begging, saying he has realize his faults so on and so forth, that I should forgive and give him a second chance that he is a change Person. 2012 November I decided to give him that second chance because of the Love I had for him. Jan 2013 He went for my introduction and traditional and white has been plan for April 27th cards has been distributed (All expenses 70% from my side, 15% from my parents,10% from my spouse). febraury fell ill seriously after, after treatment I discovered I was already 8weeks pregnant, I told my spouse, his response was not encouraging.

Just yesterday he called me and said he is no longer interested, that no tradition/wedding till after i deliver the baby. And that he want to inform me that he has relocated to the village to stay(I confirm this morning and it is true), and that I should have it in mind that i can not seperate him from his mum. even his mum called to confirm dat.

My mum called his mum last night and she told her the same story. She even went ahead to tell my mum that i am lucky they did my introduction before the pregnacy, that what about girls that gets pregnant without see who's is responsible.

I am totally confussed: this pregnacy is just my major concerned as it is almost ten weeks.
what should i do? advise

Good morning Doctor,

I have not seen my MC for January, went for PT test yesterday and the result was negative. I am so worried and confused please i need your kind advise.

I think it should be:

What is the age difference between the both of us
What is the age difference between us

I think it should be:

What is the age difference between the two of us
What is the age difference between us

orovah            make i go look weather boille (rusted plantain nd fish)  don ready make so i go regain my strength. if you are interested plssssssssssssssssssssss on your green tooth        

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=830500.msg9816536#msg9816536 date=1324558557]Oshiomole finally hitting the nail on their heads.[/quote]Exact.

go Oshiomhole, fire them they all deserved it

GoldCircle:
who be dis so called market woman?? she has spoilt everything!!!

instead of her to ask question, she want come let public know where them be invite her and her media group to

freecocoa:
We no kuku get light sef,abeg keep us updated.

same as We. I dey use my laptop to watch, but the bad news is that the battery don dey give me signal.
I just they pray for light to come before this battry kukuma rundown.  

Sanusi's point are ideal

Nigeria for you without dragging it look as if the business is not moving
so Enugu Shoprite Bread on the move

Why her visit to the late Rapper Dagrin's Tomb

NL

Speechless

More ways to make more money

Source please

Applicable to both sex
are smart cheaters you never can tell

        you never can tell what cheaters can be up to,  na only God go deliver person

CHEATING TEST should also be introduced (Cheating Test = CT)

Gaddafi died at last

justwise:
What happens if the wife or hubby cheated after marriage?

The topic is not about wife or hubby cheating after marriage
it all about knowing the medical wellbeing of the couples 

But in case you are so concerned:
Maybe CHEATING TEST should also be introduced        but i am considering the specimen that will be use for that (Cheating Test = CT)        

Pls stay tuned!

Progreen:
Doing this does not save the trouble in marriage.

at least it save the core medical balava in the marriage 
The couples should only be considering medical attention  for normally illness like, malaria, typhoid   feverish condition etc etc etc.

r231:
I see

I am surprised CRB and Credit Checks are not on your list

abi you will like to know if he/she is wanted now

and if they are credit worthy as well

it will be enlisted yesterday no be for naija

Princek12:
In order to prevent surprises post marriage, should couples jointly undergo a comprehensive physical exam checking for, among others, the following:

HIV
Sickle cell trait
Diabetes
Erectile dysfunction (for the I don't want to get down before marriage couples)
Hepatitis
STDs
Fertility
Mental Disorders (just to make sure that your partner is not kolomental)
And many others

yes, it is necessary

Emzybrown:
this post is discriminatory to the physically challenged viewing this thread,poster dont you think so?

In my own prospective I dont think so.

6. Avoid talking about any future plans that involve him. It is your first date with him. You don't want to sound desperate or get ahead of yourself. Don't talk about settling down, finding that perfect house, or having children with him or any guy at this time.


REAL TRUTH

Can you marry a physical challenge (lady or guy)
NLs let share our view