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I fear nairalanders with their bad mouth...let this dj breath please

He should just retire

Jewessgratitud3:
The last time I bought it, it was 250 so I stopped because it wasn't making any good financial sense to me. I then decided to make mine at home but ended up wasting it cos after having one large size, I was fed up. I kept the remaining five but couldn't resist the temptation of the eggs. That was how I removed and ate all the eggs leaving the dough which I later threw away because I was tired. It was very delicious and milky o but I don't know why anything I prepare myself dey quick tire me.

See how much it cost me to make five Large egg rolls.

Half derica Flour -. 400
Sachet powder milk 100
One milk cup of sugar. 300. ( Didn't use all)
Powder Nut meg. 100
Veg oil. Half bottle 600
5 small sized eggs. 650
I had baking powder at home.

Making it a total of 2150 naira that I spent but could only eat one dough because I made them very large; not intentional though because the balls were small when I rolled them only for it to get to the fire and start rising beyond control .

The thing pained me because it was too sweet but my mouth no gree accept am again. For now if I see egg rolls on the road I get full immediately. So that craving is gone for good .

You are stingy. You threw them away. You couldn't share with your neighbors.

Sincerely it has gotten to that point where we all need self protection not just these communities but trust Nigerians with unmanaged anger issues. Papa fit wake up one day shoot stubborn pikin or husband kill nagging wife or even provoked lecturer fit shoot student. Let the government just do the needful before it gets out of hand.

Boyfriend or hook up

Pictures of buildings please. What caused it exactly?

soundOsonic:
Why do Nigerians don't think.
She assaulted you with injury, you would have gone to the police station to make a statement.
Why don't you guys go the legal route?
You ask for full custody and she will pay you every month because of her violent nature.
No judge will rule against you.

Can it happen in Nigeria?

Moshybear:
You dodged a bullet @OP

How old is your daughter?

She's 5 now

imagrg:
Forget her for now but before then get to know exactly where your daughter is and make sure you fend for her via her grandparents. Get their account number for easy funding on behalf of your daughter.

For that Jezebel, don't take her back under any circumstance. She may harm you later if you do.

I'm thinking so too. Thanks

dinachi:
Calm down. Why should you loose it? I don't need anybody to tell me that she is either Tiv or Igala. You should be thanking God that you are rid of her. Be calm, go to her and calmly ask of your daughter whereabouts. Get access to your daughter but under no circumstances should you cohabit with that criminal of a woman again, else you will loose your life from her hands.

See what wandering dick dey do.

Thanks

tochez24:
I understand my brother..... Nothing spoil⚠️

You just have to be a responsible father to your daughter and be there for her, you will still enjoy her in your old age when she gets married♂️ if it's within your power, send her to university and make her understand the circumstances about her birth and how you have choosen to bear the burden to watch her become successful, i bet you that small girl you see will never forget you in her lifetime✅✅

Your mission is simple, manipulate your way around your baby mama and her mother, tell them plainly that you want to train your child personally.... You know them too well, you know what they like, dance to their tune until you get daughter⚠️

Get your daughter and train her yourself, limit her contact with her mother and her family members once you take her.... If possible relocate to a different town or state and start afresh!!!!

Any other woman you chose to be with in the nearest future, make sure she's responsible and make her understand the circumstances about your daughter... Set your boundaries and make sure your future wife doesn't cross them.

You have the power to still put your life into place if you're willing to man up💯

I wish you all the best in life my brother👏🏽

You've done too much already. God bless you

Rexymania:
Don't you have families? Take your daughter to them

Can't even reach my daughter currently in the first place

rickleye:
Dude - there is no place inaccessible except heaven that will stop me from getting my daughter.
So go with a male friend . Give the grandma money and go and get your daughter from the village.

Stop blaming cohabitation. You fell in love and then out of love. Period. If you were not sure you could have put rubber on it.

I believe I should understand my feelings better bro. I really WAS NOT IN LOVE. I was sincere enough to tell you what kept us going until she got pregnant. I made my findings just today after some comments here and their culture does not recognize fathers of children who hasn't paid anything on their daughter. It enough pain already. That why even if you have to insult please also give me sincere advice. Thank you

etrange:
"At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant"

The statement above shows the writer isn't ready for sincerity. If you want to get sincere advice, start by being sincere to yourself. You've long passed the point where you try to present yourself in a good light. You should, therefore, acknowledge the fact that your actions resulted into this mess you're into. Don't brush them off and most importantly, don't even attempt to make this all about her cause she's not the one crying on NL. The feeling was from her end, yet you were the one that brought her into your house? At least, she could say she moved in cause she had feelings for you. What excuse do you have for allowing her? Sex? And the sex was so good that she became pregnant? What does that even mean? So getting pregnant is a matter of how good the sex is? She became pregnant? Really? So it's just her doing, right? Dude, you impregnated her. You are extremely wayward, and the fact that you tried to casually brush that aside while making the write-up all about her only casts a shadow of doubt on every other thing you wrote up there. As a man that lets his third leg rule his life, you cannot convince me that you weren't sleeping around while you guys were together. That woman is exactly your type. Her actions, extreme or not, were just her reacting to yours.

I only pity the little girl that you both brought into this. In case you don't know, being her biological father doesn't necessarily give you any right over her. You need the mother's consent to take her in, and to be sincere, I'm not even sure she'll be better off with you cause a man like you could expose her to a lot of things or leave her at the mercy of the next woman that develops feelings and moves in and then becomes pregnant when the sex is good. At least, your promiscuous baby mama was honest enough to admit that she isn't fit to be a mother. There's nothing in this write-up that shows you're any different.

I never said I was righteous. No man actually is...and NO I never bleeped other girls why she was with me. The neighborhood taught we were married considering how much time we have spent together and she was the jealous and angry type. She could go any length to prove it hence I never misbehaved because I fear for my life. The day I told her I have had enough was when she cleared my house till this moment I haven't retrieved my properties. Yes I made mistake in how everything started but I was sincere enough to tell you the sex kept us going. If only you could understand. May God never make you meet her kind maybe then you will understand

Tynaclem1:
Am really sorry you're having to go through this, pls take heart. How ever, what has happened has happened. Pls get enough money, find a way to beg your ex's sister to take you to the village so you can bring your daughter back

If the sister refuses to help try and find out the name of her village in particular, her name and surname. One thing about a village is that everybody seems to know everyone. Get enough money and journey there yourself, ask questions and directions, you will definitely find her family or people who know them.

If your mum is in the city with you, you can take your daughter there and see her from time to time. So she can receive the proper care and education she deserves.

Pls take heart and be a man, all is not lost yet

Thank you for this sir

COOL10:
If she ever tells you to send money for your daughter's upkeep, reply by saying that you're never going to send any money until you're granted access to your daughter. You're not going to send any money until your daughter is brought back and you'll be allowed to see her whenever you want.


Her reaction to your reply will inform you on the next steps you need to take.


How sure are you that the child is even yours? Have you bothered asking yourself that question?

She looks everything me. Even to my hairiness. There's sense though in what you wrote

abba190:
man forget about that ur daughter for now, she is using her to make you uncomfortable, ignore them and act like u dont give a fk about the daughter she will look for u.

Is there a possibility? What if she's brainwashed

zed7:
Any man who can tame his sexual urges has solved half of his problems. While it's easy to blame a woman for a man's misfortune, it's much easier for a man to blame himself for his indiscipline.

You can't control another person but you can control your own discipline.

Abandon that woman now for your own sanity and wellbeing, you will always reunite with your daughter in future.

So some friends adviced

Zaheertyler:
I've never had children so I won't advice you on that
Before we marry or say we want something intimate with anyone
Be friends with them for 2 years
Not like you don't have feelings
But it will help you decide with common sense
As for your child and mental health maybe focus on yourself now and heal... learn from your mistakes and grow...forgive yourself for your mistakes
You will have more children and wealth
If they ask for your help with training the child
Don't hesitate to do...but focus on yourself King...and if she chooses to side with her mother tomorrow life and experience go teach am
Focus on yourself 5 years from now you'll look back and laugh
Who knows if the mother too will grow and change and you'll still end up together lol

I appreciate and understand you. I so yearn for that strength.

tochez24:
You need to get your daughter outta there bro else she will turn out to be a prostitute just like mother... But you have to use wisdom, visit to your baby mama and discuss with your her, calmly get her village address and her father's compound name from her and track your daughter down there⚠️

Obviously, you made a baby with the kind of girls we are always here warning guys about♂️ Bleep and pass to the next brother... And you foolishly privatized her instead!!!! Now you will bear this scar all your life💯

Good luck as your take your journey to rescue your daughter shaa✅✅✅

The mistake have been made already

Thundafireseun:
The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody

The moment I saw this I knew it’s an imaginary story

But you traced her to her sister’s house before?? And you can’t plead with her sister again to give you directions to the village….

Mstheeeeeeew

A village where you will have to park your car and continue with the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it

Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we started living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will I say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.

rex21:
1, I can push out air through my eyes.
2. I get very triggered when i sense a lie, blood pressure rising (and i always sense lies).

You suppose dey act horror film

Cheap group for England

Nobody will pray to know her cos nobody wants to loose someone they know. Fact!

Na Mohbad cos all this thing

May her soul rest in peace

Dunno who to fear more between Women and Nigerian Police. Bros if Nigeria police do you something you go fear fear. Watin they do innocent me my mouth still never fit talk am

Even the theif beating touts are still thieves at the end of the day. Dogs eating dogs.

Go brekete family. Human Rights radio Abuja

365profitz:
Good evening well-meaning Nigerians,

My name is 0LA0LUWA. I am 34 and an O-Level holder. I had a car accident last year, lost my job, and became jobless for months.

Please help me; I am seriously hungry. The last time I ate was yesterday morning, and it was my remaining garri that I drank. Please, my people, I am really sorry for begging, but it is just that I am starving to death. Please, someone should help me with something to eat, no matter the amount. I don't mind. I will always appreciate you. I am starving. I know things are very hard these days. Anything you have to spare, I would really appreciate.

I live at No 25, Adewale Joshua Street, off cooperative villa road, Badore, Ajah, Lagos State.

If you live near me, please invite me for lunch; I am dying of hunger. May you never lack the good things of life. Please have mercy on me and help me.

My phone number is 0 9 0 6 6 0 4 0 6 5 2

Please help me with any amount; #600 will do a lot for me at this time.

ACCESS BANK PLC
My account number is 1 6 6 9 0 8 8 8 7 5
My name is 0TUK0MAYA TUNDE 0LA0LUWA

I want to sell my Vivo Y1.

Price: 20k
Location: Lagos
Contact: 0 9 0 6 6 0 4 0 6 5 2

Please buy my phone. I need to buy food. I am beginning to feel pain in my stomach.

But you get money buy data...Lolz..all these lazy online beggars self

May her soul rest in perfect peace