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ndy87:
Chai. Twas bad....

XXXwhistleblowe:
Thank you. This made me feel better a bit. Even though moving on seems impossible.

lefulefu:
well most times ladies that multiple date may prefer giving it only to the guy they fancy while they close up their legs to their other sideboyfriends .they do this in order not to feel sexually lose but then they can be collecting money and expensive gifts from their sideboyfriends sha. All na racket and only the experienced chicks know how to play the game right.its just for u as a guy to be smarter and beat them to their game.iyam not saying this is what is happening in ur case oooo but most times u can't over rule this. U just have to be smart and cunning when dealing with a sharp babe.

ndy87:
I just paidback an insecured man in his own coin. >

shasha25:
i have a question please, can someone in france process my visa and admission for me. and what are the necessary documents for a bachelor degree course

XXXwhistleblowe:
Gone at the days when it was easy to have long conversations and all, phone calls is going extinct. My phone only rings when my mom and dad calls to check up on me or when my so called friends needs me. The world is busy and I'm afraid I can't keep up.
Scrolling through my whatsapp feeds, some are clubbing, others preaching. But still no messages. I initiate a chat and it goes thus
Me: hi
Friend: sup
Me: I'm good
Me;you
Friend: same here

And that's the end.

I always feel empty most times.
My girlfriend has been giving me attitude because I'm yet to get a job 2 months after service. She rubs it in my face that other guys are willingly providing for her.
The love has become toxic and I know I should gave her space but I keep running back to her and she keeps being flippant with her words.
I want to be busy, I'm trying to be busy but opportunities aren't forthcoming.
The only person who shows me care is mY mum.

ndy87:
I am guilty of this o. I pretended like this last year got wat I wanted and ran off. Wen we wanna bite we bite deeeeeep.

lefulefu:
lol the funny thing is that sometimes the ladies we tag as slayqueens in some cases have better character than those bible clutching ladies on long white skirts and headties . I am talking frm experience brother. Some of the ladies we unjustly tag as slayqueens cos they on jeans and T shirts in most cases are submissive and respectful while the bible clutching ones tend to nag,they will be bringing issues of Daddy G.O said i should do this and bla.bro sometimes u go even tire.

ndy87:
Wear your canvass and run faster than usain bolt. This return will be deadly and bloody.

ndy87:
Bro never wave away warning signals.

ndy87:
Maybe u dated a slay queen. If a lady doesn't want a future with u my bro u will know cos it wont hide, some things she will not do no matter what you do.

ifrosh:
Bro abeg just read what u write again.......b4 i die ur english don already kill me.

ifrosh:
can u please repeat that....ooh my god kuku kill me......i was really hungry b4 ooo but ur english belle full me.

ndy87:
Allow a lady love you naturally. I believe you saw some signs but u shoved it aside like they didn't matter.

ndy87:
Try this ma bro and u will be glad you did.

ndy87:
Narration of painment. Chai sorrry! Bae sabi your pin code... All I am trying to say is you don't try to buy a woman's love, u earn it.

MhizAJ:
You guys were cool all along until you trespassed...You violated her privacy and you expect her to apologise??

Reading someone else's messages without their permission is a major breach of trust

Please learn to respect people's privacy, it doesn't matter whether she's your wife/girlfriend

You need to apologise to her and address whatever issues you have head on

If i were in her shoes,i wouldn't feel any form of remorse too

Treasure17:
I would have loved to but not active on any of the social media platforms. Strictly nairaland ..All the best bro... Your happiness first before any other thing. Shalom

Treasure17:
Hmmmm... I don't see anything bad in your first four lines, but you have to do things in moderation. I guess you are still meeting the wrong ones and With time things will work out fine .

Treasure17:
Hmmmm... I don't see anything bad in your first four lines, but you have to do things in moderation. I guess you are still meeting the wrong ones and With time things will work out fine .

Treasure17:
Lol. Then learn to deal with it and don't allow emotions to becloud the reality.

Treasure17:
I understand you quite well. There's every tendencies for you to be skeptical towards them cause of what you've experienced . Just make sure you study anybody you which to go along with before you engage her into any thing meaningful.

Treasure17:
Lol. May be the ones you've come across cause not all. I guess you are now team foreign bah

Treasure17:
Hmmm..I'm speechless. Too deep

Treasure17:
Lol. odikwa serious. Since you know them in and out, please proceed with your decision but naija girls ain't that bad. Just that some are Obsess with money and comfort .

Treasure17:
Lol. Common, that's hasty generalisation Don't conclude like that. We still have good ones. Do you base in France or Nigeria cause white ones are not better off either.

Treasure17:
You welcome. All the best. I believe you will find the right one that will suit you.

mgtow:
She stopped sleeping with you cos she's sleeping with someone else now. You can take this statement to the bank and cash it. As for me I have given up on them. They are all useless. I only spend for myself and my family. Bought new clothes, a car, upgraded my skills and increased my streams of income. I know it's hard but just bury your heart for one side and take these demons at face value before they wreck you cos that's what they are - demons. If you do mistake come my side cos you're feeling the boy's package and swag, I go just chop you and discard you. Fvck you and your fake love. Guy you just said it all , she blocked me from her social medias apart from whatsapp she said I do go through her walls too much as if maybe we are dating secretly. Now to the makeup stuff I payed 80k for her which her Ex boyfriend refused to pay for her, and several other things I did for her you know. She told me that once she finished learning the makeup at least she won't be demanding from me too much so I bought into the idea and agreed, but trust me she's not using the makeup for anything rather she's using it to makeup herself, and each time I ask her she would say her things are not yet complete to start making people up for her to be earning money. That is the reason she's asking me for 20k again but I refused to give it to her. Well for me I am leaving her bro. After my NYSC now it gonna either be real white woman for me or a foreign woman am done with Nigerian women, sorry to the ladies in the house , but some Nigeria girls are so useless they don't even know who tru loves them and who don't. Thanks bro for your kind advice.

That money you gave her to learn make up, is she now using the make up skills to make an income for herself? I am very sure that the answer is NO which means that you just wasted your money. Please learn from this I beg you, it's gonna be hard so i'd suggest you delete her number, messages, pictures and unfriend her on all social media platforms. I give you two months maximum and you would have forgotten all about the witch. Guy don't dull yourself o, 2018 is trickling away already. Put your ears to the ground and look out for opportunities to keep growing and improving yourself and you will find that you are even beginning to attract better quality women.

As for my and my house, 2018 is my year of ELEVATION!

Treasure17:
This is deep. I just hope there's no extra curricular activities going on. Whatever you decide bro and move on...

Treasure17:
Lol. Who no like better thing. Wow!!! I see no reason why she's not reciprocating your efforts. Maybe you should sit her down and rub minds together in order to iron out the issue. just saying

Treasure17:
Lol. Now I know where her acting is coming from. These alone can make her to over demand from you knowing full well that those G-guys can provide in excess without taking cognisant of the consequences attach to it. But why sticking to a girl that you believe she has nothing what so ever to add to you? I guess you can't resist her beauty ..lol .You have the Sole responsibility to do the needful .