₦airaland Forum

vivie01:
You see, it could be very painful and it's in both ways, I mean a man can do this to a woman too.
Know that I perfectly understand your angle but some revenge just dont worth it because in the process, you'll hurt many people including yourself.
I think it's just better to allow Karma takes its course or God take revenge for us.
Someone ones said to me that the best form of revenge is to move on, be resolute and determined to succeed the more so that the person that do you wrong will see you on top and regret that he/she ever did you wrong.

. This is the truth you've just won my heart here, well I have always forgiven easily and moved on and trust me every body that ever hurts me in one way or the other , after a while always find their way back to me to apologize.

vivie01:
There you go my dear! Wicked heart!
It will only take a very wicked person to do that!
Remember it's not only the lady he wronged here but also the family members from both sides.
What of the money spent collectively and individually to arrive at that point too?

. Dear what will you call a girl you gave all your heart, love and trust. And at the end she ends up taking you for granted and cheated on you, you caught her cheat several times she promised to change but never did? Don't you think some of them deserves this kind of treatment to feel how it is to hurt someone deliberately?

vivie01:
Exactly!
Why not call the wedding off before that date?
Why embarked on such callous act just to punish the woman?

. My dear if some women do you something en you sef go regret truth, wished I can do same thing to my ex en , but I just don't have a wicked heart.

Eaugusta:
I clearly understand your point, but also know that guys treat sincere ladies same way, I have seen.

. Well it rare for guys, but ladies do it more truth be told

kinkybunny:
you are really pained

. Can you really define the word "pained" well that's why most of you girls are being led silly laden by the guys who would never love you. Money Oriented set of girls.

Eaugusta:
Don't make it look like its one way thing when it is actually two ways. I mean guys also do these things so girls shouldn't be the topic here but human beings in general; we have both the good and the bad in both sex

. My dear it never a one way thing but let me make you understand and see the truth, most girls take good guys for granted too much, even when the guy pretends to ignore so many things that the so called girl might be doing just because he feels he doesn't want to be a player, but the girl would still keep doing it over and over again. And that is when you see most guys take drastic decisions to end the relationship. Have been there and I know what am talking about dear.

xpressng:
I feel your pain bruv. if there was nothing to hide why block you on all social media. even my pastor is on Facebook bruv. and you said you believed her.? oh my, well it could be 50-50 true or false. but hear me she's playing you bruv. she has your balls and now using it as her play thing. block her on all social media. send less. note that in every relationship the one that love less controls the relationship. guard your heart. there are other women out there who needs you bruv. you too handsome to be held Ransome.lol
note don't ever tell a woman you love her. the best you can do is show her. and not go sing praises.
don't take her calls. don't reply her messages. just let her go. find someone else. always have at least 3.

. Yeah this is true she knew i loved her so much and am the kinda guy that hates to double date it not just in my DNA. And i tried to please her, well I am just gonna feel it for a while but believe me am a strong character and sooner or later she would run back begging.

[quote author=xpressng post=66571761][/quote]. According to her she said she wants to be closer to God and become Churchy. I choosed to believe her though.

xpressng:
painful ah swear. but learn never to make the same mistakes you made again.
I have learnt my lessons and I had to learn it the hard way. but now I'm a pro.
download this PDF and read meet other ladies. Neil Strauss - the game.pdf
download and become a pro spend less on women and have them drooling.
regards xpress

. I will do that now bro, I learnt the hard way too, for a girl to have suddenly decided on her own that she doesn't want to be intimate with me anymore, but she can open her mouth to still be asking for financial assistance I mean that's so absurd.

xpressng:
it hurts bruv I've been there too. worst part is she always wanted me to put a hole in my purse for her

. It is well with us, mine deliberately blocked me on all her social medias, but I just felt I loved her so she over stretched the rope i gave to her and was still asking me for money which sometimes I just use my mind, but when I told her it was over just few days ago she thought I was joking. She's gonna keep calling me but it would be too late. These girls are wicked and heartless and they don't feel any remorse atall , just because they felt you loved them right.

Can't say much my Ex had all these traits and thought i would be patient forever with her.

My guy told me today he finally blocked his Bae on whatsapp after taking so much she shit from her to the extent that the babe always want him to play low, doesn't want him to meet any of her family members or her friends. And I doing all these the babe blocked my guy from all her social medias apart from just whatsapp. Reason being the guy is too sensitive, so today right in front of me I encouraged my paddy to block her on whatsapp too, though my paddy is feeling it . But believe me i am here for him cos this babe does not deserved to be loved by this nice paddy o mine after taking care of her like a wifey oo.

prince3009:
You said it all bro. The real reason men cheat is mostly the woman's fault. There must be something a woman is not doing right to make her man cheat.

As for who cheats more in a relationship between a man and a woman, for the men to have multiple girlfriends, it takes resources...for a woman to have multiple partners, nothing is absolutely involved except the mere opportunity which they are faced with everyday...that should give you a clearer picture who cheats more...WOMEN!

. My dear you can imagine oo, women are just something else. Now my girlfriend is asking for 10k for something important, but I called her today and over heard her pricing clothes and shoes more than 10k to buy .

If you say Airtel is kinda bad, what will you call mtn, mtn will tell you to subscribe 1k for 1.5gb it won't even get up to 5 days it has been exhausted, I just switched now this night to Airtel my dear, because I can't be subscribing 1k every 5 days for mtn data bundle. So Airtel to me is still better bro. Maybe they just having network issues but it would be resolved . But am not going to subscribe for mtn bundle anymore it been over 15 years with them now so at least I don try make I switch . Before them wreck ma enemy.

I just want this country divided please, because I can see some myopic morons who wants to die in poverty and starvation they should just go there way these northerners. Mind you am from the south south and we can survive ourselves. We hate poverty. How can youth like this channel their energy to wanting a man back after everything that is happening. So this is how Nigeria wants to survive as a country. Please let's this country be divided let everybody go their own way and let's see who suffers the most . Rubbish

Leave this country for these evil men legally if you have your money else some people of this generation are going to die poor in this country with what they are seeing about these Evil men. Nigeria is a hell already for some inhabitants and this one is here shading someone mtcheeew.

izzou:
The only good news about this country is that we are participating in the 2018 World cup



It's either Buhari loses or I'll leave this country for good.

Na one of the two go happen.

. Believe me am with you on this bro. I almost cried the day a big guy walked up to me to say bros abeg you fit help with anything make I take eat even if na without meat. Mehn I was like where is Nigeria heading to.

Yeye Nigerian Govt.

Offpoint:
Bro, I know GOD exist, but I can boldly tell you religion was designed by the rich to control the poor and to further make them remain poor and be comfortable in their poverty. Do you observed one thing about the rich? they don't spend much time in any religious houses. they came in last and left first.

. Exactly bro and both in the mosque and Church the front seat is always reserved , in some cases oo for some big men's arrival.

Take this for your stupidity jaaam

Offpoint:
lol, that's shît of dem was designed for the broke.... nothing concern rich man with what.......... make I stop here... you grab sha

. Hmm bro me tire ooo cos I can see through her hands and neck in this dress

Somebody i mean a Muslim should please Enlighten me, Does Muslim do White wedding i thought it against their tradition please i seriously need a muslim person to Clearify this for me cos the ones that are my friends are so daft sorry to say.

Take that Paedophile

Treasure17:
Absolutely. Don't know when all these going to stop. The future of this country is not guaranteed.

. It not guaranteed bro, that is why we have to use our PVC's very well now, another 4 years like this will be serious hell for some Nigerians. I already told some elders close to me and some young men too they should vote wisely come 2019 , no matter what they shouldn't sell their vote for mere 3000-5000 naira for some few bottles of beer or pepper soup, else they would regret again for another 4 years like they are regretting now .

Treasure17:
Honestly, you deserve a statue for this. Some will just type without considering the reality on ground.

. Hahaha thanks bro. We are Nigerians and my greatest Joy would be when every single youth can be able to boast of at least 200k in his or her account without blinking an eye haba enough is enough for hardship.

Take note of this 3 sectors he mentioned, Health, Education and Oppotunities, our health sector is dead like really dead, let's not talk about education cos we can't even go there. Last which opportunity is here for the youth. I hear people always saying here on Nairaland that the youth should not travel out of Nigeria that there is a lot of opportunities. Like seriously where, someone graduated from school okay he was able to learn barbing so that after Nysc he can open a shop and start small till he get a good job. But where is the money for clipper, fan, Small Gen, Wall mirror etc. not to talk of paying for store rent. I mean Nigeria is going down every minute of the day and some people are here just spewing trash maybe because they have a good job or maybe some of them were opportuned to be born with a Silver spoon. Dear youth if you have the chance to travel abroad legally please do not think twice take the risk and I bet you on the long run you would be glad you did.

khiaa:
Make sure your friend doesn't sign any paternity papers until he gets a DNA test done on the child. What he has to do is to be there in the hospital when the child is born and request a DNA test, that way he will not have to pay for it. Tell him to record her threatening him.

. lols DNA na moi moi abi, do you think carrying out DNA is so easy, the both couple have to be aware and ascertain to it. Moreover money for DNA no be rice and beans own ooo. So the guy better just look for a way out or if I were him I would just play along get some strong evidence to use against the gilr when the time finally comes. Getting a DNA done might reduce the guys bank account drastically, that is if he has the money sef .

Now can you just imagine a the average Nigerian politician, he doesn't even care if the state moves forward or not. All what he cares about is his personal vendetta against the incumbent because he refused to dance to his tune, people believe me with these sets of politicians Nigeria is doomed take it or not in the next 10 years Nigeria will still be the same or even worse. Wicked sets of politicians.

CuriousMynd:
Shame on this THING. IT can't express ITSELF without using foul language.

IT can't even write correct English when all that full IT'S head is abusing.

How did IT know someone is a Paedophile?? Well, it takes ONE to know ONE

.No need wasting my time on a moronic human being like you, die on top your stupidity.

CuriousMynd:
I think you stvpid enough to have create the topic in this section

Can you see how shallow your mind is, and very useless. You want to be reading news about unlcladness everyday. Stupid idiot. Paedophile like you.

To me i think it was all a political arrangement I mean come on. Just my thought though.

uyiekpenn:
some men are naturally very emotionally weak and at the same time very stupid. What's so special about a woman that I should have sleepless nights over? If she's not willing to have sex then she shouldn't expect a kobo from the guy. Who no get sense?

. And to think that she's a gf o real one oo not a side chick . She just took that kinda of a selfish decision didn't even consider the guy to say okay at least once in a month.