₦airaland Forum

Acidosis:
That's not true.

You people need to come out of these false traditions/beliefs. Lots of women from your place are based in the cities committing adultery on a daily basis. Some of them don't even know the road to the hometown. Does your tradition recognize condoms? kissing? BBM/Whatsapp flirting? lol

Traditions have a way of instilling fear in people.

hmmmmmm it's only applied to women that married from my place. ..the ones you're referring to probably married from another place but not to our men..... na wa for you oooo condoms, kissing, BBM/watsapp? how come?

donphilopus:
Lol. . .You served at Okpe Mixed Grammar School in Akoko Edo LGA. How did you cope there? But you shouldn't have expected anything much from them na. .Hadn't been you served at a (Private) Secondary School in Igarra, you would have known that their Students are trying. Okpe is a remote village na bros!!

that's what I told him instead of generalizing the whole Edo state mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

Congrats dear. ...anything you do haters must talk but na them get their mouth

Lovely

oh my own my..... gosh!!!

shogz89:
. The first time I watched this video, I shook my head heavily that it almost got twisted,, I served in edo state and the educational system there is in shambles.. Even to copy what is on the board as an ss3 student is a great task for them.. Take a look at a letter from an ss2 student, just a few out of many, we read their letters back then when we are bored.

please don't generalize this... which part of Edo did you serve? every states is having lapses in one way or the other especially in some local government or communities. ..I will take this your post to be ignorance till you meet educated edo people

Proudly uromian....... Osemhon ahu

Thank God ooooo my heart almost jumped out of my mouth when I saw the headline

What ever

Issokay we are waiting

Teebass001:
Amen. He was a visionary leader, who has the best interest of his people at heart

yeah, God bless you

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

I comment my reserve for now till I hear one of the released prisoner commits havoc

Ah ah! God forbid bad thing ooooo RIP adieu papa n mama

Waooooo thank God for this thread. ..children are indeed funny

ALISMILE:
no! Am frm Auchi!

Kk, I don't know much about them

predatorX:
na Edo State be dis. Very useless tradition

Na so when my cuzzin wan marry, They Groom pipo say she must go shrine go swear. Trust where i from come na, Isiala Ngwa olof us put leg for ground say if to swear na by force, Both Bride and Groom must swear the tin. Na for dia the EDO pipo reverse course.

my friend wey be girl dey suffer the thing now. Her hubby is a confirm slut and she no fit do anytin becoz she don swear.

what is good for the goose is good for the gander

and do you think your cousin will dear commit adultery and go scout free with it? Mbanu

Acidosis:
I don't have problems with such traditions. What I can't possibly understand is why people believe such traditions/beliefs.

A woman will only die when she accepts to partake in their fetish acts in the name of traditional wedding. Washing your feet, head & hair; eating cola nut, drinking palm wine and all the likes in the name of marriage is enough to kill a couple, cheating or not.

A man and a woman whose wedding is based on the Law as proposed by the Nigerian constitution or Church bye Laws have nothing to worry about if caught in the web of adultery. The Court would honourably dissolve the marriage when the man and the woman are tired.

I personally will not accept such fetish nonsense from my In-laws. Rule No.1, I will not partake in any "family" practise, I will not accept to buy any strange property, animal or partake in any ritual.

Cheating doesn't kill; but an evil covenant (or ritual) does...

in my place, even if the bride price is not paid, if you have a male child for the man n commits adultery, she must die if didn't confess on time

Fortunate017:
That is if the husband knows and didn't talk or take the matter to his kinsmen so as for them to do what need to be done to the woman. Before it was the first son abi child that would die. Don't know how it was reversed.

now it's even the wife in some parts.... because they now believe that he who diggeth a pit shall fall into it.... no one should suffer the sin of anymore

SStoneCCold:
I'm not doubting you, I just want some more information regarding the tribe in Edo state where the tradition has been reversed and how long ago the reversal took place.

it has been reversed for sometime now... precisely in uromi ....the op is saying the truth

ALISMILE:
Are u frm Edo state? If u re find out about wat I said!

you must be from uromi because that's the only place in Edo state I think it has been changed

xynerise:
Tradition like this can lead to temptation. If there is no law, there will be no sin. A woman whose husband beats her always doesn't need to bother herself. A way to eliminate the man smoothly is already in her hand

it's not as easy as you think ooooo. The God's have a way of protecting them, if you are doing it on purpose to hirt the man, then the woman will suffer the consequences

xynerise:
Many traditions have not been fair to the women. The men are free to cheat but the women can't because they are robots abi? Such tradition was created by a selfish man.

On the contrary, I heard that a tradition in Edo state is doing the opposite. A woman cheats and the husband dies

that's if the man know and refused to tell the elders or spends money on her while she's sick

lekan29ice:
My woman own pass this abeg

pinshure of your woman own or

andromida:
I don't see any problem you proceed with your plans only now you are a father this will impact your finances, your emotions in short your life. The good thing is you love each other you should be able to support and understand each other better. You can do a small court and traditional marriage as soon as possible i believe your parents will support you on this while her parents continue to house and feed her till your service year is over naturally most of your income has to go to your new family. She does not have to put her education on hold either there are many pregnant women in the university they survive and she will. You have to talk to her parents and yours get support and get on with the business of living.

thank you so much. .what a mature and loving advice

Opiosko:
Which trauma? That gurl is drilling our nigger. She a player and our nigure is naive.

lolzzzz, this your judgment no be here ooooo

She will/may change her mind if she finish going through the trauma and pain she's going through because of her past relationship.... just give her time and continue playing the good guy you are or you are not

God2man:
What do you mean? There is no specific answer.

yeah, no specific answer. ...I think I will just follow my mind either the man is like my father or not

Simitrendy:

why nau

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ahhhhhhhh! El rufai? Oh no. ...oh God, please I reject this

you can't deceive nature ooooo moreover too many things on their head recently. ..the Lord is their strength

theshield:
Essan women can fight.................. My cousin divorced his wife and marry essan woman. Before he come back from work one day, his wife has beaten a neighbor to coma. They almost sold their pant to settle the problem.

Hahahhhahahahaha dem no dey take nonsense ooooo