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I don't think Buhari sent this ones to Niger Delta as the name implies marine police.. I believe they are guard that ensures safe passage in the waterways.. Their life is precious.. Rip and may God give their loved ones the strenght to bear their loss

I think you are being too fast in concluding when you are not a lady. Why do u think a thanksgiving will not be done in the church on a Sunday. I see no issue with him celebrating with his friends.. God does not stop that. I am very sure a thanksgiving will be done if you doubt that look for his church and attend on Sunday.

Bobbysmart6:
Instead of goin to the house of God to thank God 4 hz life.he prefered drinking nd celebrating wit fwendz.

Smh.som people do nt knw wat God blesses as done to them.

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Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Oga, so after having sex and sleeping.. Your wife will wake you and say my husband I want to cut you arrange well so I can cut you.. Are you serious.. Please look for something else to comment about not this.. Because your type will be dead .. When sleeping you won't know what will befall you.. So keep shut

OlajumokeBread:
What a weak man
So, a female did this to him and he still calls himself a man.

I will be sleeping and you wake me up to tell me that a woman wants is at the verge of attacking me with a machete, i will wake up, disarm her and give her a dirty slap

Thank you Mr. Now you said something about Logic and reasoning. I really do not want to go into that else I would have love to coach you and also learn from you.

Please what is Blasphemy??
Also what is the case in hand??
At first they do not relate although they are leading towards the same end an attempt to incite violence.

Now there is something called an individual.. For example you, You only know yourself, you do not know about your siblings and can't bet your life on it in a dangerous or criminal circumstance with that being said.

You talk of blasphemy, when talking about blasphemy you would involve religion. Now as an individual our thinking and manner of approach differs. Blasphemy can come in any form.. Word of mouth,images and other various means.
I believe you know what blasphemy does to people in the north. The northerners don't even go to report at the police station they take laws into their hands and after that happens and the lifes are lost, they investigate and arrest are made. Take for example if we were together and I said something and you said I committed blasphemy I can deny. It's normal sense but the northerners won't give you a chance to deny.. So please when trying to give am example please do not make use of blasphemy as an example... Because it's not a good one to use. One more thing, if you had followed the story of the dog owner, you will notice he had a neighbour whose father's name was Buhari.. I am sure they had issues before now... And when you say blasphemy ... Are you God or are you Allah??.. People insult my religion as a Christian in front of me but they ain't talking to me.. They are talking to God not me.. Blasphemy against a religion, because the northerners who are not so so learned jump at someone and kill the person for saying I don't believe in Allah and call it blasphemy.. It's where their thoughts and thinking have gotten to. So please Mr... Don't jump in a thread and talk blasphemy. I stayed with a Muslim for 3-4 years he knows I only believe in my God as a Christian he has never for one day said I committed blasphemy because he is learned. There is a country that has a law that if you take a life, members of your houses life will be taken also.. Maybe all or 3 can't remember vividly. So please blasphemy is between man and his God. If you insult me as a Christian I will allow my God to fight it's cause.. And prove to you otherwise.. That's what I believe.. Not saying come o he has committed blasphemy.. That word only exists in the mouth of fools..

Bless you Mr

joseph1832:
Mr man, it is you who refuse to even think or comprehend what Mr. Obasi said.

If the man who named his dog Buhari, simply painted the name of his dog boldly on the body of the dog, took it around a place populated by Hausa's, and Mr Obasi said the man is guilty of trying to breach peace, then I see no reason why those who go about blasphemy the name of Islam shouldn't also be arrested, because they too are trying to breach peace!.

It's that simple. I wonder why many of the posters here are enemies to reason and logic. Gosh!!!!.

I agree and stand with Chinedu.

I am going to give my reasons...

If I was the police man who came to arrest him I won't quickly arrest the victim, this is because he claims to have two or three other dogs aside the one name Buhari. Now the first thing I will ask the man to do is to bring all his dogs out. When he does so, if all the dogs he has, have all their name written boldly on both sides of their body. I will counsel the man and let him be but if it's only the dog bearing buhari that has its name boldly written on both sides of its body. I will personally see to it that the man goes to jail or a rehab.

My reasons are
I have never seen where a dog after being given a name, such name is written boldly on both side of the body even the woman who said her dogs name was lai Mohammed never did that #Note.

Also we have dogs in every nook and corner of Lagos and they are all different breeds. Can anyone please vouch and say I have a dog it's name is boldly written on both sides of its body with a paint. I have never seen that... If you have please object.

Last but not the least, the guy knew perfectly what he was doing. He knew he was staying in a setting largely occupied by the Hausa's, he gave his dog the name and then got a fucking paint to boldly write the name "Buhari" on both sides of the body. He wanted to say Hausa's you people are not worth it, I will do this and nothing will happen, I will get away with it. He took the dog with its name written on it and roam the market with it. I still stand by my point that in any part of the world the man will be arrested. Luckily for him he was reported and arrested not killed because that would have started a bloody war... Now I believe you all understand when they say likely to incite violence or likely to cause breach of peace.

I am a Nigerian,
I stand for Nigeria.
I support the truth and will always stand for it.

The man knew what he did and let him face the consequences of his actions... Who e epp

Please read again... You miss points clearly.. Read Obasi Chinedu's Post again.. Then comment... But if you can't read carefully or can't assimilate easily I will help you out. Giving a name to the dog was not the problem, now after giving your dog a name... You take a paint and boldly write that name on both sides of the Dog, Now after doing that you still do not leave that dog in your home or shop rather you take it around the vicinity knowing what might arise. Shh Wait before you comment think... One more thing : people own dogs in your area, how many of the dogs in your area has its name written boldly on both sides of its body... Receive sense and be a sane human being..

joseph1832:
I'm not a lawyer neither am I vast in knowledge of how our warped and segmented law works, but from what I read above, that means anybody who blaspheme and insult Islam or the Prophet Mohammed are also guilty. It means they've also committed a crime, which is intention of breaching public peace, cos we know how our Muslim brothers act when it has to do with their religion or their prophet.

If you ask me, I'll say Obasi Chinedu is allowing sentiment to cloud his reasoning. A man should be allowed to name his dog whatever name he choose. I see no reason why I should be angry or feel ridiculed if a man name his dog Joseph, rather I'll be flattered and complimented that the man chose to immortalise me by naming his dog after me, because whether he knows it or not, he inadvently just made me the guardian of his life.

Let your heart be not troubled

deathcomestoall:
is there something more to this?

Let your heart be not troubled.

deathcomestoall:
is there something more to this?

Op message me.

deathcomestoall:
Now, while what I am about to say might be shameful for many because it is shrouded in secrecy, I am not ashamed because, you can never know the extent to what you will do when pushed or pulled to the brink. 99% of the reason why many young Nigerian women donate their egg is for the meagre(yes I said meagre) monetary compensation attached to it. And most of these fertility clinics know that if they do not attach any form of benefit, almost no one would willingly donate.

In the U.S., egg donation can cost as much as 5000 to 10000 dollars. So if you are going to donate, at least you know it's worth the pay. Unlike nigeria who don't pay the donors, they only COMPENSATE and this ranges from 120000 to 150000.

The egg donation process itself starts with an interview by an organization or clinic sourcing for donors for the clinic and then a series of blood tests for genotype, blood group and STDs are carried out after which if you are cleared of any of these, you proceed to the next stage which is to check for lumps in your breast, throat, pain in your lower abdominal region and then a vaginal scan. If you pass all these tests, then you will be given 21 injections which you will inject by yourself for 21 days and during these days, you will visit the clinic for series of vaginal scanning to check if you are producing enough eggs. After the 21 days, you will be given another 6 injections for 6 days after which you are due for the egg collection.
Now I cannot go into details of how the whole process is done because I do not want to make my post too lengthy as the essence of my post is to merely educate and share my story.

Born a synthetic orphan( I have parents who I don’t live with and don't care for me), freshly graduated from the University with a reasonable amount saved during my university days, I had wanted to go into food business but I was unfortunately robbed by my own blood. I have always held the notion that to make money, you must spend money. So with the little money I had left, I started looking for options on what to do, every single one failed. I had applied for more than 619 jobs and still counting, no success. After exhausting all my ideas, I was googling ways to make money and then came a list of six of which one took my interest which was egg donation. I called a couple of fertility clinics and booked an appointment with two. I went to only one of them which is located somewhere in Lagos.

Before making this decision, I thought to myself, why am I doing this, my answer was the money. I had just gotten an American visa and am trying to raise the money for a ticket as everyone reading this knows the situation of the country.

On getting to the clinic, I met a young lady who asked my age, race, education, job and some other things. She explained the process to me and asked if I lived with my parents, I answered yes. And then she proceeded to bullying me that what if my parents saw me injecting myself daily that they would seize the injections. I was displeased with her statement because I had earlier told her I went to a private university. She probably thought I was a spoilt kid who needed quick money. I immediately shut her up and told her I pay the rent and then proceeded to bullying her(I am a very opinionated person). As we were talking, I noticed some other females come into the office. One of them had come for a vaginal scan and wasn’t producing any eggs so the process had to be stopped for her and hence no compensation of any sort not even her transport fare. Just a thank you. Then I started asking questions( my transport there cost nothing less than a thousand a day). I asked her what information of mine would be given to the receiver, she said it would be an anonymous donation. I asked if any complication arises, who will be responsible for my treatment, she said the clinic. I then asked about the procedure itself. I asked what kind of sedative would be used for the egg retrieval process, then she became defensive and said I was a reporter and she won't be continuing the process. I stood up to leave, then she called me back and said she would take a risk with me. I then told her I wasn't a reporter just because I am confident and would ask questions. I proceeded to the clinic lab and did a blood test for my genotype and blood group. Before I left for the lab, she started whining me that 120000 is a lot of money, you can start a business with it. I just looked at her and nodded. I never even asked her how much it was.

Few days later, I was called for a second blood test for STDs, I went for it and also was cleared. Then I was called for a vaginal scan. Before getting there, I thought why am I really doing this. I have had more than 120000, is it really worth risking my own fertility. I would have to sell my eggs for up to 5 times to raise money for my flight. With the current economic situation, this money is almost nothing for the emotional trauma. Another reason why I wanted to do this wasn't for the money alone. I have remained a virgin for a long time and had gotten tired. Being a virgin has impeded me in many ways. I am constantly judged because of it. Every guy I date sees it as a prize. And even if I wanted to lose my virginity and become a prostitute, I didn't want to lose it to the first man that pays me and I don't have a boyfriend who will do it. Aged 18, I tried to lose my virginity but the shock and pain was too much for me to handle. He hadn't even entered, I had already began screaming. I must admit I bled due to the stress placed on the outer walls of my v****a but he never entered.
That was my first and last experience at experimenting with sex. I was happy tho I could claim I was a virgin and not a virgin, no one would know. Another reason is I am an introvert, I don't have any friends neither do I go out to where I can meet people besides I don’t even have the money and I know I am not getting married anytime soon and this is the most fertile years of my life(I am 22) and genuinely if I could help someone become a mother, I would.

On the day of the vaginal scanning, I went to the clinic, was asked a lot of questions after which I waited for a very long time before proceeding to the scanning room. The nurse then told me to get undressed and asked if I was a virgin. I couldn't lie, I said yes and she said they don't take virgins then I said I was a secondary virgin, I tried it years ago even though I knew I was lieing. Then I told her it wasn't an issue, she should call the doctor. The doctor came in brought out a long instrument about 8 inches put a condom on it with lube. I mean this was me here never had sex before, I freaked out. When she tried to put it in, I screamed. I said I couldn't do it. The pain was excruciating. She then put more lube, I still couldn't. It wouldn't enter. The doctor even had to ask if I was raped because of my shock. I thought I lost my hymen years back. In the moment of the pain, I thought all these for a meagre 120000 minus the stress of giving myself 27 needle scars and the emotional trauma I would suffer from it. The doctor then said we could try again. I said no. I could barely walk, I apologized for wasting their time. And dressed up and left. The lady who interviewed me lamented on what would be done about the money they spent on tests for me. Oh please, it's an organization, I'm sure they suffer loses. They should deal with it. I wasn't the first and I wouldn’t be the last.

While in pain in a public transit on my way home, I thought of all the losses I have experienced both financially and emotionally. I mean I started questioning my self if it was really worth it. Yes I want to travel out of the country and give my most fertile years to whoever I can but asides this I had no other genuine reason. The most important tho was the money. I lost my dog because I couldn't pay his veterinary bills. This would have been a better reason for me to have sex with an electronic gadget. I mean I would save my dog by going through this painful process if I could take back the hands of time. I am happy I went through with it to this stage but losing my virginity to a stick or bearing the pain to put a smile on another's face while my own morality is being questioned to me isn't worth it. Now I am not judging anyone who does it. They obviously aren't virgins and are in dire monetary needs so GOOD LUCK.

MY OBSERVATIONS
I stated earlier that when I was being interviewed for the first time, I noticed some other females come into the office. Honestly, only if people knew the kind of people that come to donate their eggs, many people would rather remain childless. Most of these women are stark illiterates. Some have bleached their skin so much. Most of which I noticed are your typical fish and pepper sellers with ridiculous eyebrows. Not to sound condescending, but it is the truth.

Another observation is that these acclaimed CHARITY organizations that source for donors, aren't doing any charity. They are only buying your eggs at a very reduced rate. Many of them don't care how you look or what you are even if you are mentally challenged or unstable. They neither carry out proper tests or interviews for viable donors. As long as you produce eggs for them to sell, you qualify. And I also noticed how the interviewers intimidate the women who are not properly educated. There was a point I even questioned the so called foundation on the kind of women they accept as egg donors. They know most of us are in for the money so they won't even bother asking you too much questions, I mean sarcastically, most people are there to help(for the money obviously).

I failed to mention this, on the day of my vaginal scanning while waiting in the office, a girl my age was being questioned. I was moved by her story. May be she saw how confident I was and was probably trying to speak English but she obviously couldn't hide her naivety. No one asks about your family, they don't even care. You can even lie about your identity. They do not ask for any form of identification. The girl talked about how she lost her parent at 7 and how her uncle gave up on her. She was still in school and needed money. I wonder if she's a virgin like me I mean not to be silly but if I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't be selling my eggs(it's still a sin to me). I commend her tho for not sleeping about for the money or who knows whether market is not paying well. Ok I'm sorry for that statement but I was moved to tears. Even tho I am a synthetic orphan, I haven't experienced the loss of any family member.

Giving up your eggs is not a quick money making scheme. It is traumatic. Everytime you go for a scan during your injection period, you will be inserted with that 8 inches thing(dunno what to call it) and the retrieval process is even worse, a needle would be inserted into you and can pierce your womb or infect you. You are given antibiotics tho but who e epp. You are just another tool.

MY SUGGESTION

In other to prevent losses on both sides, I would suggest, fertility clinics in Nigeria start paying donors for real and stop exploiting young women so you know the risk is equal the cost. Then no one would have to pull out of the programme as most donors do pull out of the process and huge losses are suffered on both sides because no one gives you transport fare and the injections are very expensive. You are only paid I repeat only paid when they collect your eggs.

MY ADVICE

I wish I could go through with the process but I cannot. I am not judging anyone who does it for whatever reason. Just make sure you read those forms well before appending your signature on it as most are not in your interest incase complications arise.

Do not risk your own fertility for another woman's infertility(no one knows what she did or why she's that way)

Do not think you are selling your eggs. The money is not worth a single egg. If you want to donate, donate with the mind that you are doing it for free because you actually are. May people go with the mindset that they are selling their eggs for 120000. And if you choose to do this process as a source of income, always go to the highest bidder. There are people that pay more than 120000.

I still am looking for a way to get out of this country. I am damn scarred but I won't have sex for money or get money with issues concerning my … To get money by any means is not easy truly. I don't care about being a virgin tho. Infact it means nothing to me but I won't take so much pain for any one. The pain has left and now I'm thinking if I should go back lol.

Bless you bro @Madcow

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I never knew you own a University

MadCow1:
If my Dog could gain admission into UNIBEN, then please don't make UNIBEN admission look like a big deal.

UNIBEN is where people go when other Universities have rejected them and they are too arrogant to attend a polytechnic.


Look at that Petroking bastard, he is one of you.. If that federal Mor'on ever managed to gain admission into my University, I will tear my certificate to shreds.

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Walahi you look Awesome.. Something said I should take a good look at your profile... Because of the moniker slimBrownie not Brownie

SlimBrawnie:
That was his purpose of studying medicine

Did you just comment. This is what I call OMG! .. What are you for Christ sake. You are forgetting that there is a weapon"the dog" which was used making it likely to commit breach of peace. One more thing you where found with a gun or a burglary equipment at the front of another man's door without entering, it will lead you to prison. Oga you need to read, assimilate, think before commenting. Or is it your brother and if he is my brother he did wrong I will castigate him. I can only plead for leniency.. Vamose if you have nothing concrete to say

bonechamberlain:
"likely to commit breach of peace" ur support for fascist ideologies might make u more stupid. You would likely be kept in prison custody because u are likely to steal, without u stealing. If anyone cannot stand insult he should vacate the place immediately, we cannot say because some animals are violent we should give in to their demands.

Manhood makes womanhood suffer lol... Just kidding n passing by n saw your statement

PerkyJeggs:
Manhood nko.

Thanks for the compliment. What is wrong is wrong I do not support such. Do have a great day and stay blessed

fiizznation:
Man I really give it to you. Like debating with this pro-whatever nairalanders is usually not my thing. What I normally do is; after I have dropped like one or two comments in a thread, I don't make any comment again, I rarely even reply any of their 'insulting' mentions because it will always be like a total waste of time.

When people choose to deceive themselves deliberately, no matter what you do or say, they will always love to clinch on that their pseudo believe. Is really pathetic but that is the fact. The thing is; if your motive is to incite violence of any kind, you will be apprehended even in the best democratic countries in the world.

You don't just go about looking for trouble and expect the authorities to clap for you. This is my stand here and that's what they want to play 'ignorance' with.

Hey don't just comment any how. You can still pass by if illiteracy is your top priority. My dad can't be insulted anywhere. N this thread ain't about budget padding or Olympics performance of economy. I think you missed your way. You are in the wrong thread. It's like you see we sell only garri written in a store and you walk in to that same store and say I want to buy beans.. It does not make any sense. Vamose

tiwiex:
And that case is so serious. It is more serious than the budget padding. More serious than our olympics and more serious than the economy. I see. So, now, if someone insults your dad anywhere (it happes alot on NL), na court case be that? I notice the plaintiff is the police and not the neighbor. Ok oh.

Since you fail to see what wrong he did or his offence . Go ask his lawyer or ask a lawyer friend if you have one.. What can be derives from the story. Show him the story let him read and ask your lawyer friend. You will know as funny as it may sound you will hear from him

marshborn:
Thank God you said India, THIS IS NIGERIA and you are yet to tell me the law violated in this case.

Also the man in question. I can bet my life that if he is checked using lie detector he will be jailed because he had alterior motive. A lady named her dog lai Mohammed no one made a noise of it.. Before commenting next time try going through the story. First most people think that this has to do with the president it does not. So I don't know why people are just being biased, is it that Nigeria Now train people and yet they still become illiterates.. I really do not understand that someone reads a story and still says President Buhari. It's quite funny...

hungrynigerian:
bros you didn't answer the question o, he asked you did the man break any law?