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slimjohn2k5:
The story Jaga Jaga. most times u refer to the woman I can not tell if u are referring to the side chick

If u say he has all these qualities then he will likely fall into such trap again.

You self never learn ur lesson, na life imprisonment u go go for this your friend

For wetin na. I'm learning how to become a good guy thru him. So don't bother urself.

I called his side chick his new love and his wife, his original wife. What's there to confuse you?

Mr Asari is my friend. Yes! My friend. The kind of friend that the Biblical Lazarus was to Jesus.

At our younger age, he once impregnated a girl and in his effort to abort the child, the lady died. He absconded and I was arrested. It was terrible. I was arrested because I was known to be closer to him than his brothers or sisters or any human beings.

We lost touch with each other for about 16yrs. When we eventually reconnected in Abuja after my graduation, it was great. Although the obvious difference in our financial status affected our old bond. Even though we maintain certain level of social call once in a year, we were not who we were.He was far more successful; houses in Abuja, 3 cars, four children and a stable job with a reputable organisation. His take home pay is in 6 digit.

In 2019, after our in and out of touch, he called me that we need to see. He sounded urgent. I gave him my house address and we met.

IN THE BEGINNING,
He narrated his predicament to me: that his life has been chattered. He told me that he has not been or seen his family for 3 years. My eyes began to twitch briefly as soon as I heard his opening confession. He told me that a woman-a widow assisted has ruined his life.

His line of job involves traveling every night to the north

He continued that, he met this woman who told him that she lost her husband some years earlier and her in-laws made her life a living hell, and that things has been rough for her and her 3 Children-all grown. My friend took pity on her and decided to assist her. My friend is such a person; he hate to see people suffer!

He told me how he took responsibility for her everything: accommodation, feeding, clothing, health, bills, everything. And then, intimacy set in.

He continued that, one day, the woman told him that she will travel to Abuja with him. He said he agreed and both travelled down together and he has to lodge her in a hotel for one week. There was romantic exchange and both of them became inseparable afterwards. He said he became more and more involved in taking all her responsibilities.

At a point she dropped her demand: that she would like to relocate to Abuja. My friend said that he couldn't resist any of her demands. He said he had to rent a house of 500k and furnished the house from ceiling to floor. Then she brought her children. Her 2nd and 3rd children were still in secondary school and so he enrolled them immediately under his sponsorship.

HOW THE PROBLEM STARTED.
He told me that a year after his relationship with the woman, he said he began to look down on his original family. That his wife began to cause trouble for him, accusing him of extramarital affairs. His mother-in-law supported his wife misdemeanor and it resulted to miscarriages of trust, respect, misbehavior and worst of all, antagonism from his children. He said that his neighbours and tenants began to treat him like a riffraff. Eventually, he decided to leave his family behind for his new love.

Although he said that he still bears all responsibilities in his original family but he has lost touch with them. Churches and families has tried to resolve the problem between him and his family but to no avail. Bad enough, he said he has had rumours of infidelity from his wife.

Now, his new love would not allow him to breath. He told me how his new love bragged about the profile of men he rolled with in Abuja and the state she was resident: how she makes multiple demands, promiscuity, to comparison with other men, to insults and quarrels. Everything.

THIS IS WHAT I TOLD HIM
When I asked him for what he wants me to do, he told me that he want to settle her with 1 million naira and bid her farewell, since he was the one that brought her to Abuja.

First of all, he is no longer making money. 2ndly, he was almost sacked from his job; because he had accident (on duty) with the company's car and according to the company's policy, you're promptly sacked if you're involved in accident. BUT they spare him , although he was mandated to pay for the damage on the fence he fell and the car that got damaged as well. As such, his full salary has been going into settling the damage. No salary for couple of months now.

I told him to come and stay with me. I only have my kid bro with me and I'm still single. So we have been staying together since last year July.

I told him to leave the house for the woman and her children & never to return again. I also told him that he should have nothing to do with the woman be it call, message, visit, settlement, food, anything.
Funny enough, the house rent has expired and the landlord is all over him with calls though. Nice one!

Lest I forget, my friend sold all his cars and the other ones he had at car stand and spent it on this woman. Yet she has reported him of negligence to all his known friends and colleagues. She insults my friend's original wife at any slight provocation and yell all manner of craps to his face.

Now the guy is looking for where to secure a loan so he can go and service his outstanding (expired) rent.

As for his original family, I've resolved his relationship with his wife to a reasonable extend, although he still stay with me, because he says that he can't stand the shame in his neighbourhood and has decided to let his family house and rent another one in another district.

They'll be traveling home next month to properly reconcile before his parents, because his parents and pastors and Reverend fathers has tried.

My friend has a personage that anyone can reckon with. He's as tough as nails but women usually have their ways on him. Growing up, he often criticized my lifestyle with women but I guess he has learnt the hard way.
He's very kind, compassionate, handsome, and one of the most natural human beings I've known.

So, Inspite of the emotional, psychological and physical torture this woman has subjected my friend to, would it be right if he goes ahead to settle her?

The woman is helping herself from other sources including brekete family.
Opinion pls. My friend was a simp.

Queenlovely:
opera mini or opera Winfrey has a Midas touch.

what ever she touches turns to gold, she has made so many obscure authors popular. I wonder if her death would shake the world like Michael Jackson.

the only persons death that may shake the world small now is Celine Dion.

I remembered the day a young boy ran into me at Kampala, he wanted to start a food business, but lack capital. today that guy owns a several restaurant chains, he came back to pay homage. if he were nigerian, I won't help him

Lionel Richie is loved in Russia as well as the Carribbean. I'm sure Africans love him too. His death will shock the world harder than Celine, Steve wonder and Donald Trump

[quote author=azraeljaheel post=98050317]na operah dey middle?[/quote

na operah dey middle? Which kain question be that? And why do u stress d "middle"?

Boolean algebra just come to mind.
A X A=A
A X 1=1
A X 1= A
A X 0= 0

Digital is all about 0, 1.

AdolfAboki:
Lol... Nigerian lecturers are the most corrupt people on earth. I tell you the truth, it'll benefit Nigeria more to shut down our universities and order everyone to go and farm.

You sound like those calibre of APC freaks from Kogi.

My vote will go to

Yemi Osibanjo

Or
Tinubu

Even though I'm not an APC member

Hassanmaye:
Which course is that

Nuclear Physics then we were migrated to Digital Electronics after NUC revokes their accreditation. Can U imagine?

NeoWanZaeed:
What matter is what you can deliver

Absolutely bruv

Johnnyplus01k:
Even with your first class you dey ride okada or teaching in one muchroom school, don't be surprised you can work in LNG with the third class no be dis country.

My sentiment towards 4.5 grads knows no bounds. Very boring, mono-tasking specie.

LongNipple:
Learn a Skill.

I finished with a Second Class Lower (2.2).

Most 2.2 are the champs. Society love them because wherever they work, they're the ones that champion activities. Never a dull moment.
Intimately, some 2.2 grads do not know it. I love 2.2 grad. Whenever I come across them during interview, they're my first picks, bcs I know they can deliver

I never looked for 2.1 or 4.5. I don't want to enslave myself to books. First class is for administrative and social science courses.
My 2.2 is ok for me. My department has NEVER produced a first class in the history of my school and nobody is looking for it. Imagine a department with a population of 18 students and a professor will tell U that U guys are overpopulated. You must go grey.

So my point is, if you think my 2.2 is not good enough, engage me in an interview or a job in my field. Nigerian Nuclear Regulatory Commission can testify.

xProfx:
The best advice I would give to any 3rd class graduate is to enrol for another bachelor's degree immediately after graduation, even if it's an online program and try to achieve at least a 2nd class upper. At least the person would start from 200 or 300 level via direct entry considering the previous qualification.

Nobody wants to hire 3rd class graduates cos the bar is too low when the market is so competitive. There are more graduates than job offers and definitely the law of demand and supply will apply...

The 3rd class degree would be a complementary qualification while you have another one to show your grade. Then you can pursue a master's degree afterwards... That's the smartest thing.

Advice indeed!

I'm enjoying my day walahi. Gaskiya, the concept makam for sense! Badamua! Dan iska Yoruba, nyamri kuna Wawa be. Yoowaa!!

Odewaleadesoye:
We are now very Stingy Sir

Aveg I no fit laugh

Many young boys and girls are not even aware that demons are resident inside them.
[/i][/quote]That's not true. Do you think it's easy for demon to take possession of human body just like that? We're not created as a mere vessel for devil to posses the way they want. God didn't create us like that. You (Righteousness 2) too like to glory devil as if God gave them more power than human beings.
The likes of you do not realised that human beings comprises of body, soul and spirit. The only God's creation that are trinitum. The devil is a spirit. And they need serious effort to possess human being. There are attitude we display that has nothing to do with devil. Most times, the life we live are meant to be live, but some don't know. . I mean there's a life to live but some people don't live life. They only follow the pattern in which they're programmed. Wake up brother and stop making devil feel good all the time. After all that's what devil want; to keep some people busy talking about her.

If you have to defend my assertion, pls don't quote Bible

evergreen9:
Mallam na Mallam, whether u spell am from front or back, Mallam go always be Mallam.

Wow! That's quite revealing. You're 4kin intelligent walahi. Mallam na mallam

Flackoo:
The truth is all these activists are just after self popularity and the hustle for fat media paycheck, public validation on every of their opinion. If Aisha can't answer the following questions then she should cover her face with shame and either walk back to her village shell in Edo or the streets of Kano where she grew up !!
Name of the homo couples
Venue of the wedding ceremony
Name of officiating priests
Name of the bride and groom parents
Then pictures from the homo wedding!!

It's true. Kano was a hub to dandaudu in Nigeria. You don't need to castrate urself over her revelation

Kingspin:
The most confusing government on earth.
Keep increasing and increasing without any backup policy to alleviate the hardship that fellow.

Bunch of crowns without any atom of 1plus 1 in them.
The economic circle of this government is zero.
They will end up not improving anything after 8 years. The signs are there.

Clowns not crowns

Eriggs:
coming from d number supporter of d corrupt party of thieves that were in power for 16 years without building just one refinery.
I wonder how you wailers still have the mouth to talk after the evil looting you did to Nigeria.
Leave this kind of talk for genuine and good Nigerians,
Who meant well for the nation.
Government and Nigerians will take those ones more serious, not pained losers and wailers.
You are pained cos d thieves u support are no more in power to loot, not that you care for the common man on the streets.
You pdp supporters, supporters of thieves should all go and bury ur heads in shame.


You are a good Nigeria.
People like you are who will need for naija to move forward.
Unbiased peeson you are,
not like other pained losers quoting me to wail.
Corrupt thieves

But the 6 years of looting in this administration so far has overtaken the 16 years of ur acclaimed corruption govt of the former administration. When I looked at the development stride in Abuja, Lagos, Portharcourt, Kano, Kaduna, Delta etc within the 16 yrs of PDP, with our international status and what's going on now, I weep.

Omihanifa:
There's hunger and anger in the land nah maybe the senator went there and didn't drop something for the boys

With the way Naija is going now even if a governor should lose guard them go beat am to the point of death

Especially Ikpeasu and AbdulRasaq of Abia and Kwara and my state

I don't know what's wrong with Kwara, Niger and Abia and my state? Bad leaders all the time.

southniyikaye:
Na so
Abdulrasak just dey behave like pickin wey dem take akamu feed from 0-8months without breast wey come see baby food for the first time...

Just fighting everybody like an impotent man, scattering everywhere like a leper who can't squeeze wara but can throw it away

Ikpeaaasu

Odkosh:
We are here, come and prosecute us and have your family members slaughtered.

100%

GamalNasser:
I now agree 100 percent immediately I saw some Endsars activist supporting the prosecution of those that occupied US capitol...The Buhari govt must act fast and make sure those behind the Endsars insurection are brought to book..they cost Nigeria many lives and so much loss of private businesses many who have not recovered till date

If you don't talk like this, how'd i believe that you're an arewa? Always thinking with like a sheep

jansonn:
But seriously, I speak based on my experience!! I live in Kaduna state and I'm neither a northerner or muslim, it's important to state that el rufai is one of the best gov in Nigeria based on infrastructural developments!! Most of you might say he's a fanatic and a bigot but this man doesn't care about anyone whether Hausa or Christian, presently he has demolished over 5 major markets in the state from which his people (Hausa) majorly feed from. One of the woes of his gov is this banditry and kidnapping, that has single handedly destroyed every other thing he has done for this state.
Also, el rufai is sturborn, he doesn't listen to anyone, I'm sure the advices are just there as appointees and nothing else and he doesn't really care what the people will go through from whatever policy he's making but if we base performance in structure, advancement, roads and educational policies, el rufai is the best both in the north and Nigeria

How do I justify a scenerio where u destroy a lady's woman and give her 1billion naira?
The peace Kaduna state enjoys over the years hsa been crippled majorly by the administration of el-rufai on a muslim-muslim ticket and the pursuit of installation of emir in southern kaduna. He believes that he will do everything and anything for kaduna BUT that very one thing that's a signature for everyone will be taken away.

If GEJ had not ceded defeat in 2015, there would have been more deaths than mere invasion of capitol hill.

Crunchyg2:
Yea, will be waiting for your response. Thanks

I'll chat you at about 9pm. Cheers

Crunchyg2:
Please I am interested in starting a POS business in Lagos. Plz I will like to know like how much I can be making in a say in a busy area like market in Lagos and which bank is best to use that can give me pos fast

This is ur WhatsApp line abi?

A woman came over to one of my PoS' outlets the other day. She was jittery and restless.

Fast forward>>>>

I handled d transaction by myself. After the transaction, she got alert in a phone. She shouted yes, in excitement! "This is why I came with the phone, so I can delete the alert she proclaimed". I asked why? And she said, it's her husband's ATM card. I said oh! I was like if ur husband could trust you enough with his ATM pin...... And she said that I won't understand. I mind my business after all

My point is, someone close is most of the times responsible for such cash out. A good thief will not spare any amount in the account.
You guys should check; there's a resident thief close by.

MOST PoS AGENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE. MOST!

It's easy. I have a PoS outlet and I can tell u how to track it.