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OfficialR:
I created this thread to ask for advice on how to ask a girl out

This advice can also be useful for others viewing the thread and also planning to ask a girl out

Oga no dey write textbook for mata of only one chapter

Person Wey go like you go like you

Person Wey no fit like you no fit like you

Most important thing is to be yourself, look good and be confident

One or 2 go fall for you last last

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Frankhad:
I know a friend who has wooed over 50 ladies with no affirmative answer from none of them. I am wondering how that is possible, and the kind of advice to give him.
Should he keep trying or forget marriage?

I don't think this is true.

You can't woo 50+ ladies without one reasoning you.

Well if it's true, let him keep trying. There's someone for him out there. His self worth and esteem is not tied down to some random girl.

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greencard:
My opinion: Other suitors be like they get money pass u small, so she deh consider them join ,

and as she don deh with u for some time now, so she knows your financial statements and feels you may not be able be bankroll her kind of marriage , which she doesn't even feel you are fully ready for.

Suggested Action: tell her to go for the other suitors if she considers them ready or better positioned than you.. that you will call her people to call off your meeting since it seems she have other faster options and can't wait anymore.

If you beg her , you will continue to beg and beg and beg. Because according to you, she said she no longer knows what she feels for you...

Bros..Value who value you

.. ditch the b.....

Exactly.

Value who value you.

pete1234:
Hello guys, I sincerely need advice on current happenings in my romance life,. There is this girl from the East I have dated for 3 years, I love her so much and she loves me too, we have been through thick and thin, fast forward this year I put a call aross to her sister and brother in the east telling them of my intention and also gave a timeframe March April that I will travel down to at least see them.

All of a sudden I noticed a change in attitude from my girlfriend, I asked her she said nothing, then she came to my place saying I am wasting her time, she no longer knows what she feels for me, and besides two guys are on her neck for marriage, that as it stands now it's now survival of the fittest among the three of us, that infact if I decide to go to the east I may be on my own.

I was so shocked and currently devastated, I kept asking her that why did she not draw my attention to the pressure but no tangible response from her..the last she told me was that she wants to think about it

Please I need advice, should I just call it a quit and let her be

Leave madam alone make she find her ready made husband.

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falcon01:
she's 27, she has been in the game for soo long she's been in many relationships she is looking for Someone to hold on too she just wanna get married no blame her

"Been in the game too long" at 27? As how?

Cutestboy:
Bravo...... you really right bro........ that's just the factor in it. you just have to attract them first.

It is not a man's duty to attract a girl.

The girl makes her Choice.

If it's not you, don't fret. Another girl will choose you

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Let them continue to be stupid

Wetin concern us?

You better go and make money and get closer to God and leave these ones Wey no wan get sense

ngoziwrites:
My relationship life has been hell! Trust me, it's been crazy and unfortunately, I am a sucker for love.

Why do guys keep leaving or hurting me? I would ask myself so many times. What made it worse is the fact that I was Loyal, Honest, Committed, Supported & Loved these people with my all. Zero demands, just someone to grow with and smash goals with.

Finally, I realized my mistake, I was going for the wrong guys! I ignored the ones I am very sure are ready to take bullets for me but one can't force love yeah?

Sometimes being quite beautiful is something else because plenty guys just LIE & PRETEND.

Questions Arising:

1 . Is it sane to meet a girl online and ask her out without seeing her? When a guy does this is it real?

Personally, I think before agreeing for anyone to travel down to see me, then whatever we have should be defined. I.e Definitely, we should be friends for weeks or months as the case may be, build something good, ask me out and then I can accept, then he can visit as a boyfriend or I visit as a girlfriend.

But I think it's lame to just accept someone to visit or vise versa when we haven't made it official yet or am I being too hard on myself?

Like why stress yourself to travel to visit or even stress me when you know you don't want a relationship? I will rather wait and save all that energy for someone sensible.


2. When a guy doesn't asks me out, yet keeps calling me baby and says I love you and wants to travel down to come see me and we lodge (We haven't seen). Note, he didn't talk about relationship or anything serious, he is just babying me up and down and wants any of us to travel to visit, he also painted sexual images of what may happen.

Is this the way players behave? Can any meaningful thing come out of this kinda scenario? Note, he isn't asking me out or hasn't asked me out, so why the baby or saying love you?

Note: I work from home. I am an introvert and rarely go out, which means, I respond to messages online.

Note, I constantly make the mistake of thinking people can't purposely lie and hurt you just to get whatever they want. Because, I won't do that.

So, the question again:

Can a guy who just starts calling you baby, my baby, love you or making it look like y'all saying without necessarily asking out be serious or want a meaningful relationship in the long run? Is this the player thingy?

I am tired of being lied to.

Any tip to help?

You're the cause of your problem.

The one Wey like you una go say he too Boring he no Sabi toast

The one Wey wan chop and clean mouth na them you go follow dey gum body

Shiloh will solve you and your fellow girls problem

Jack005:
Relationship is stressful especially in Nigeria.

I tell you.

Genetic modification is the way forward.

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MiVida:
I'm in the same thing right now... She mustn't sniff me close to another girl, always telling me she loves me, always playing with me in public to claim ownership.... You should thank your God that yours is a long distance thingy.


It's suffocating!

Na one strong sign of love

Woman no dey hide their jealousy if dem like you

Manage am cause scammers full outside now

You don't know what you have till it's gone

Na love be that oooo....................

No use am play.....just go with the flow and open your mind.

Na she go dey bring topic....all you have to do is to listen respond and support the gist....

You don't know what you have till it's gone

This girl reason you well....no use am play.