This thread isn't as scary as I thought ...it would be But remember Men ought always to pray and not to faint And D kingdom of God suffereth violence and only d violent taketh it by force OK bye
Georgekyrian: It still baffles me that after 3 years people still view and comment here, currently viewing are @anuofGod @phenomenal16 @favy1235 @petjane @heistman I salute una
...lol The link appeared in of one of d recent threads Nothing new u knw
IfeanyiTheMan: So I was bored and I needed to hear some new gist, so I picked up my phone to access Nairaland. On opening my Google, I saw this beautiful 'GOOGLE' design ; It shows some things wearing nose masks. It changes from time to time, depending on the season. Check out some others
vivsravine: Ladies too, also has their worries when it comes to marriage with already made men, one of the reasons is that many of them are highly promiscuous, no true woman wants to share her man with another, these men are exposed and attracted to lots of women, because of their fame and wealth, it only takes the grace of God, self discipline and guts to find a wealthy man without flicks of ladies to play with, its truly a big concern to women who eventually marry them.
Attension is far from women who marry wealthy men, today he is in the south, tomorrow he is in the east and this also makes the woman helpless and lonely, many of these men feels all a woman wants is money money money, no we want our man and his time and attention, we crave to hold him and lay on his chest doing nothing, that's the best feeling so far, we love to bond and share all with our man and when this is lacking, you find out that her attension becomes divided too.
Our society today must be questioned, many men have gone out of their way to seek a means to become wealth, many have divulged in occultism and has done so many unheard things to get rich, there by become diabolic, guess what most of the time they use their wives for ritual too, ladies are also scared of marrying such men, most especially when they don't know the source of their wealth, we hear scary stories daily, no woman was with a man from the very onset, hence the reason we also want to be very careful hanging around them
Some of these rich men are highly arrogant. Some are women beaters and they don't care, as long as they feel the money is coming form them, they can be very disrespectful and saucy, then you start to wonder how you want to spend the rest of your life with them
Real women check these facts too, marriage is honorable, the future is far and your life matters too, how you find peace should be of upmost concern to you when it comes to spending the rest of your life with someone, make sure you find peace before you indulge in forever or position yourselves for regrets.
Chinkos99: Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.
I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.
When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.
I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.
On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.
Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.
So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.
After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.
Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.
After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.
I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.
Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me
Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.
Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.
rasheylaw: 1. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath… No man, not even your husband, will like to see you that way.
2. Do not leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there’s a reason they sell nail polish remover…
3. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t bother. Just pack your hair neatly.
4. Do not do artificial nails that make you look like a dragon queen, being simple is always sexy. Just try it once and you will love doing it always. Have you heard men talk about a lady being natural before? It’s because they like natural women.
5. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!
6. Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.
7. Never contradict what your man says in public.
8. Never stalk the man that left you for the other woman.
9. Do not share your best friend’s personal life with every Tom, * and Harry.
10. Women should never act on distress in relationships like checking your man’s phone, nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will simply release him to someone else by doing so.
11. Never dish out your entire family drama on a first date. The guy just wants to know about you.
12. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that.
13. Never over-accessorize. Stop looking like a Christmas tree.
14. Never leave home without lip-gloss, your phone and most of all your dignity.
15. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!
16. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk grasshopper.
17. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the wrong impression.
18. Never think you can threaten your man into submission. You simply get him irritated in the end.
19. Respect is reciprocal. You earn your man’s respect if you respect him first. And finally,
20. Never wish to be like any other woman. There are others out there envying you for who you are… Be yourself!
..OK oo I want to ask this simple question A guy I was once in a relationship with ....I gave him a gift on Saturday So, he haven't called or texted to show appreciation Should I confront him trmw in church or I should leave it Is it against the rule too
I av never been in love with a wedding like today Kai! God of love here is ur daughter Give us Berra men When virtue meets priesthood Ur guess is as gud as mine Salt and light 2020
SonOfALion: Phillip Blanks, a former college football player and ex-Marine, made the greatest catch of his life when he saved a child thrown from a burning building over the weekend.
A shocking video showed the moment Blanks caught a three-year-old boy thrown from the balcony of a burning apartment complex in Phoenix, Arizona, on July 3, right before he got the ground, KABC reported.
"Instinct. There wasn't much thinking. I just reacted. I just did it," he told the station.
The 28-year-old said he was always raised with the mindset to serve others.
Blanks served in the U.S. Marines and currently has a job in the security industry.
He also credits his time playing football as a wide receiver for Saddleback College in Mission Viejo as key to his personal growth.
"I know how to catch," he says. "I've learned how to catch a football. So I'll give some credit to football."
On the day of the fire he heard a lot of commotion outside of his building.
Then Blanks heard someone yell there was a fire, so he grabbed a few things and ran outside barefoot to check it out.
"He was twirling in the air like a propeller," Blanks said. "I just did my best. His head landed perfectly on my elbow. His ankle got twisted up as I was diving. The guy who was there with me – it looked like he wasn't going to catch him. So that's why I stepped in. I just wanted to make a better catch."
While the child's life was saved, his 30-year-old mother died in the fire. Her final act was to fling her son to safety while she was already engulfed in flames.
"She's the real hero of the story." Blanks said.
"Because she made the ultimate sacrifice to save her children."
The boy's father was at work when the blaze broke out. Investigators are still investigating the cause of the fire.
In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.
Moving to today... I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that" However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.
I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.
What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.
........this have happened to me personally Even though no pastor prophesied..... But I had series of dreams that he was king leaving Guess what He left ,,,,,he stopped calling me as usual My dear,,,,,the spiritual controls the physical I could remember creating series of threads Then.......continue praying
Stargurl20: I'm tall, not so dark skinned or lets say chocolate. I think that's all I can describe about my physical features.
.....babe u need to seriously come out of ur shell U r even tall Are u sure is not spiritual..... I used to be a very shy gal ooo But now..... M getting along with ppl now very well U need to buckle up Being an introvert is not bad m one self But it shouldn't be too extreme
Stargurl20: I've a very low self esteem, that everytime I'm being scolded about it, I always wish for death. My low self esteem is killing me, and I feel this lack of confidence of mine, began from childhood when people would criticise my appearance. I hide my face from the world.
Something happened today that made my mum opened up to me that she isn't happy with me. We attended an event( more like a compulsory one for me otherwise I would have avoid going), and I hid in a coner throughout the party that the entire family was wondering the kind of person I'm. I know some thought I'm arrogant which is wrong.
I've cried severally today, that I wish for death.... I'm just a very young lady of 21year old. This lack of self confidence also makes me avoid guys.
......can u pls describe ur physique U know this low self esteem can lead to chronic depression Bf u know it....u r thinking of committing suicide
Family › Re: I Can't Stand My Wife's Unhygienic Habits. by Phenomenal16(f): 3:39pm On Aug 12, 2020
