₦airaland Forum

BLUELemon:
My daughter will always be my daughter...

What she experienced is part of development into adulthood. It's pathetic how the Nigeria blog-osphere and the institution handled the girls issue

Very pathetic!

Nicoddemus:
You're broke brother

Not everyone is pvssy starved like you.

atakamus:
Fine girl. Who is scared of dating you back? The person dey crase? This girl wey fine like this, come full well well for everywhere. Na wah. Me am not afraid oooo. I go date you. Expect DM.

Kindergarten pick up lines

CaptainMeks:
You have no sense. You think boxing is all about throwing punches like some savage?

Valid! But Wilder will kill him

Joiceee:
if you say the reason for the halt in communication whenever am in school is actually because he doesn't want to spend, then I am left with no choice than to call him a stingy man.

Its not just because he doesn't want to spend...Like I said, female students are volatile, irrational and naive. No sane man, puts his egg in that basket.

Why would I spend a dime on a woman I don't get to see often? Why would I spend on a woman who's still in her hoeing phase? Why would I spend on a woman who doesn't know her left from her right? Why would I spend on a woman, who prolly still gets fvcked by other male students on campus or some random men?

It's best I reduce my risk exposure as a man and wait till I have some form of control when you're on holidays and I can see you and you're somewhat on break from the bubble.

Nicoddemus:
He doesn't owe her anything. But she Beg...... that's she begged someone she was in a relationship with just 2k and he refused

Exactly my point... No book of the law anywhere, states a man should give a woman he is in a relationship with, any farthing!

The only woman any man owes a dime, is his legally married wife. Even the law backs you in that case.

Joiceee:
well you see it as being smart, but I see it as being foolish and stingy. I would be done with school in weeks time, and am ending all communication this time around. How do you even call someone who can't be there for someone he claims to love when she really needs it but would only show up when things are rosy smart He wants to reap where he has not sown!

You guys think everything is all about money........the truth is most times its not!!!

In one fit, you say he's stingy...next thing you say it's not about money

You say the man will show up when things are rosy with the student? When has things ever been rosy with female Nigerian undergraduate students? They are always hungry and in need of help...Reason why they are easy prey for game boys

TonyeBarcanista:
Because most "matured females" come with their baggage and from time immemorial, it is always the younger, the sweeter and the most preferred.


It is not a guaranteed that they will be faithful, neither assured that they won't leave the man.

However, misbehavior is not restricted to only undergraduates, it is also common among some female folks. Also, not all undergraduates misbehave.

So, it depends on the girl!

Personal Experience:
An ex started misbehaving after she was admitted in a Uni as a DE student. Well, I noticed it but deliberately watched before breaking up without even telling her.

You know the funny thing? I already noticed some traits in her that wasn't pleasing to me even before she got admission and I wasn't surprised that she would play herself... Although I was disappointed when I found out

My Point is, who wan spoil go spoil whether undergraduate, apprentice, working class or housewife.

The point Tonye is simple...The propensity for a young girl 18-23 to misbehave, is higher than those in another age bracket 25-30s...

Girls within the former age bracket are in their hoeing phase...They want to explore, which is totally fine. At that age, the are susceptible to all sorts of vices, naivety, hit and run, experiments etc

Girls in the later age bracket, ideally have gone past that hoeing phase and life has taught them one or two lessons so they are better prepared to know what they want in life, relationships, men etc.

Of course it is not fool proof...but it is what it is

Joiceee:
you make sense especially in the last paragraph.

Imagine a guy who will never call you when you are in school, but will want to hang out with you during holidays and bring marriage talks. And once holiday is over, communication ends. A guy who will chat you up once in a blue moon and only concerned about when you will be done with school.

It doesn't just make any sense

That man is a smart man. No sane man with self esteem, wastes precious time on a young, naive girl while she's still on campus where you will bombard him with your problems and he can't even see or be sure of what you're up to.

His best is to wait till you're on holiday when he can see you.

Nicoddemus:
So you even have money and could not even spare 2k. Do you know what it means for someone to BEG for only 2k? You're very wicked and stingy

Da fvck is this suppose to mean? Is he her father? Does he owe her anything?

While I might not see 2k as anything to give to a hoe, you have to know that it isn't anyone's birthright and if I decide not to give you, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Stewart883:
Yeah. I was once in that phase too when I lived around Uniport as a young bachelor with a nice ride and apartment. I changed those students like diapers mehn. Later I got very tired of the whole thing then relocated.

Lol...it happens. You outgrow that phase and your priorities become different

CSTR2:
For Me,I don't even want any agbaya disturbing my sister when she should be buried in her books in school..

So i don't disturb other people's sisters in school.

Their books and developing sense should be their only priority, not jumping from dicck to dicck.

Lol...valid!

Few years back, unilag students hear am for our hand. Office dey yaba, house dey yaba...dey change them like bed spread.

These days, I have lost my connects that way and there's little attraction to students...Can't even remember when last I met one.

The thrills of sleeping with students has been overtaken by hustle as well as value based relationships.

CSTR2:
What is interesting about dating a student?

How many of them get sense and how can they contribute to your life?

Lol...I can't imagine what me and a student will be discussing about or what value she will add to my life. Students are best for 1 night stands or when pr1ck scratch you, you call saré wa gba

tosyne2much:
About how many MB will the match gulp bro?

Can't put a cap to it but I know with a 4-5 gig sub, you're good to go with spare data left for you self...Except you are shooting for HD view

Foolish woman!

Lol...So you paid for premium bouquet to stream a one-off boxing match? What happens after the match?

Match wey you go stream online...

bigzykizzy:
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Lol...5 years experience 80-110k

Electrical engineering wey I been wan study when I dey secondary school...Nawa oh

obidr:
[s]Very easy to see that this fellow is underachieving, jealous, inadequate, low esteem individual who has gone paranoid either due to his inability to pass medical training or being found way below par in IQ to ever become a medical doctor... Maybe someone might have left his sorry arse to be with a doctor.. a wise decision by the lady in avoiding being a punching bag to this narcissistic sociopath. Medical doctors are not the cause of your deplorable low life but I can recommended sniper for you. Your death will do your family and the society at large a huge favour. It is one more bastard of the streets[/s].

Rubbish!

My post was not directed at foolish and senseless medical practitioners. Some of us, pay heavily for healthcare and do not get any value.

A simple trip abroad shows you how the senseless demi gods called Nigerian doctors, you included are incompetent. This is not about lack or unavailability of equipments, but simply because they don't know their left from right.

Thousands of Nigerians have lost their lives to the incompetency of your lots. Only God knows how many people you've sent to the grave.

Its a different thing if we don't pay for healthcare and doctors display this level of incompetence, but paying heavily and still can't get proper medical attention, is nothing but rubbish!

Pearl543:
Why are you so pained You sound so bitter

You really aren't making sense with what you are saying... Yes, their aim is to save lives but excuse you... How the hell are the going to do their duties, when there are lots of ungrateful folks and no equipment for therapy due to lack of funds. Even the government owned hospitals, get no aids from the government. So we shouldn't blame buhari What has he done to make the environment conducive for this doctors and don't dare compare over seas with this shit hole called Nigeria.
You should be happy sef that there are still good doctors who still knowing all this still go ahead to help when they can.

Yes, I Know there are quacks but still, how many of them have you met Don't let your sentiments do the thinking for you Mr man

Like I said, my post is not directed at poor people who can't even afford basic healthcare plan.

Many have comprehensive healthcare packages, are charged a fortune for healthcare by senile and foolish doctors, but end up misdiagnosed, wrong treatment proffered etc.

Why do you think wealthy Nigerians, your president travel out for healthcare? You think they're foolish?

If you can't perform simple diagnosis but complain about equipments, why should I take you serious?

It is better Nigerian doctors shut down their death traps called hospitals if they think the government is not giving them enough support, instead of sending more innocent people to their graves.

Pearl543:
[s]Woah... You amaze me with your post. Being educated doesn't means having sense Sha.

It's well with our Doctors.[/s]

Rubbish! Hopefully, you don't loose your life to a senseless Nigerian doctor!

Sterope:
What grave incompetence? Where is your research on that incompetence?

You have been acting like everyone hasn't got a story to tell too. Unlike you, many of us also understand that the fault also lies with our government and with us.

You're asking me for research on incompetence from Nigerian doctors when you could have simply done the research yourself? even a simple google search will help you.

It's not about having a story, it's about the fact that Nigerian doctors think we all should bow and kiss their feet's even though they don't seem to know their jobs.

AreaFada2:
Dude doctors are valued everywhere. Almost like gods in a place like India. Doctors of both genders are premium spouse materials in India. A society that values status.

They perform abroad because working conditions are quite decent. Pay is not too bad either.

Nigeria is a disorganised society so lots of things are upside down. Including people's mentality. You will only know if you have seen both sides.

If you are in a system that works you automatically become part of it. Simple.

I don't have any problem with that. Since they work in a senile and incompetent environment, they should be seen as incompetent dolts!

Buhari and his band of tax masters, are senile lots!

HBB1:
I have actually spoken with Foreign Nationals, who have worked with Nigerians (Doctors) abroad, and I must say they are highly rated.

One Doctor says, she has never worked with any Naija Doctor that didn't know his stuff.
He might not know how some 'equipments' work ( and you know how everything is now tech based in the West), but he knows the stuff.

Another (a Brit) asked a Naija guy in my presence, ' they must really train you guys well back home?'
The guy asks if they didn't train her well in her obodo oyibo, then she rolls her eyes and scoffs.
We joked about it later that Naija boys don kee this one with stuff.

Sad thing about healthcare is people will die, it is inevitable.

I laugh when people say, 'I will just travel out and see a Doctor!'
I come from a family of Doctors and I know the number of people that have died due to all sorts of avoidable events in the West-- it is only the informed that will know.

That said, they try to create systems (constantly) to grossly reduce such events.

If it were perfect there, why do you have hundred of thousands of litigations every year in the US?

Some US surgeon pays as much as 20% of their income as 'litigation' insurance.
Truth is every man is a product of his system-- you can never do better than the system you are in.

I spoke with a foremost British-Nigerian Surgeon and he surmised his expertise was based on equipment and exposure, nothing more.

There is no Genius, one-man army anywhere, your system molds you.

How many professionals here, can hold their own against professionals from the West?

How many?

If you can't, then you are no better!

This is a valid submission. While I did admit in my first post, that outside the shores of Nigeria, Nigerian doctors perform the truth is back home, they see themselves as demi gods.

There are simple diagnosis that doesn't even require out of the world equipments that your Nigerian doctors back home, cannot perform. They only want to be called doctors and seen as Albert Einsteins.

Emmaxy9:
I still don't get your point. You say Nigerian doctors do misdiagnose or apply wrong treatments causing death, but do you think everyone is perfect.I would like to see you study medicine and treat everyone perfect without taking a life during your career.
Another funny thing you said is that Nigerian doctors have empty nut heads. Please I'm begging you, there's no age limit in which one can be a doctor, you can enroll in a medical school and study it for yourself, thats only if you make it to the admission list.

For your information, doctors spend 6 years in medical school. They begin to read Anatomy, Physiology and Biochemistry which are all individual courses on their own under a duration of 1 and half years, after which they write their professional exams. More than half of the class fail out, while the good ones remain. Mind you its only the best of secondary schools that get to study Medicine.
Thats not the end. They keep on writing professional exams until graduation.can you do that?

I'm not saying all doctors are geniuses that cant make mistakes. All I'm saying is that it's not easy, so don't come here to showcase your senselessness.

Your first point is rubbish! Taking about me studying medicine and crap! Doctors are not running charity, they're paid for their jobs. So your point is baseless.

Your other vociferations validate my point. Nigerian doctors are a bunch of vain and senile peeps who are only interested in the prestige their job affords them, the supposed respect they get from poor people who see them as demi gods, rather than getting their jobs done. They only want to rant about how many years they spent in school, how intelligent they think they are but can't even perform basic diagnosis.

Your lots are sending people to their Early grave. Only God knows how many souls you've killed due to gross incompetence and negligence.

Nonsense!

Sterope:
Did a Nigerian doctor snatched your one and only true love?

My comment was purely for those who can relate to the grave incompetency not those who can't even afford basic healthcare

Fentanyl:




Empty head.

You should have countered it na, block head!

Emmaxy9:
[s]People like you my friend are one of the incompetent and fatuous elements of this country causing problems in Nigeria.
You said outside abroad they have no option than to perform? Do you really think doctors are slaves that just train and end up working all their lives for others? Do you think the conditions abroad are hostile like in Nigeria?
See, abroad there are different measures that endlsure the smooth Running of the hospital. Eg. Health insurance.
A patient can't just come for free medical services. Or can you run to shoprite and collect food for free simply because you're dying of hunger? No. [/s]

Complete bullocks!

You people think it is everybody in Nigeria that is poor. Some of us can pay for quality healthcare, some of us have comprehensive healthcare packages from our work place...but you know what, we'll pass on that.

The news is littered daily with gross incompetence from Nigerian doctors who have either misdiagnosed or applied wrong treatment regimen in patients leading to deaths and all. Thousands of Nigerians loose their lives yearly to doctors gross incompetence.

The Nigerian doctor is an empty nut head who is more interested in the prestige his Dr tittle accords him/her than getting the job done the right way.

You think your president, lawmakers and wealthy Nigerians who go outside the country for proper healthcare are silly? I won't even go near Nigerian doctors for a simple diagnosis... Incompetent lots

Dextre:
Nigeria is shit! If dat doesn't change,people will keep dieing finish. How many people in nigeria today will go to a doctor for headache afor example and when doctor says do MRI,won't blatantly refuse? In advance countries these things are what you do cos there is what we call medical insurance that covers it not that yeye NHIS o. But here in naija,you tell patient do MRI to elicit a diagnosis,dem go carry their bag waka go meet the next doctor say that doctor no sabi jo. And wen dey die,they will say doctors are quack. Or when they later found out it's some kinda brain tumor,they will say those doctors are not good sha. Nigerians are prolly the hardest sets of patient to treat,dem go come hospital come tell you diagnosis not complain o. Like walk in and say something like ' doctor I have typhoid'

My point is not factoring in conditions outside the doctors control. We totally understand the unavailability of equipments and medical insurance in this part of the world.

I have a comprehensive health care plan from my work place. I have never been to any hospital in my life (aside when I was a baby) and don't think I will ever be there for anything. I have friends and families who have suffered from outright incompetency from Nigerian doctors. These people are not your average or poor Nigerians, they can pay for quality healthcare but all you see is incompetence from our so called medical practitioners.

The news is littered daily with gross incompetency from Nigerian doctors. All the Nigerian doctor is interested in is title, Dr with nothing in his/her head.

Nonsense!

Nigerian doctors are an incompetent lot. Outside the country, they excel because they have no options than to perform. But here in Nigeria, they think they're demi gods because they spent 7 years at the uni.

Sadly, they cause thousands of deaths yearly due to their incompetency and lackluster attitude.