₦airaland Forum

GloriousGbola:
if your wife is a complete housewife it means she has no income and is completely dependent on you

so if your wife has no income how do you expect her to pay bills?

you cannot eat your cake and have it.

it's not possible for me to have a full housewife and be wanting to share bills with her.

Kobojunkie:
If you wish for your woman to contribute, then embrace a partnership and forget about being head of family and what not. Otherwise, you and your women will get tired of going at each other over who does what when.

so what you're trying to say now is for the man to shoulder the responsibility 100%

EreluRoz:
I dislike men having such mindset, like that sharing bills wareva I detest it as well and as such I reply them in a very silly way.

Two people who are truly into each other won't even remember sharing bills or whatever, the man should be ready to be the financial provider while a wise woman know how to be his back bone codedly.

Men that go into marriage waiting to share bills with a woman always have problems because women are naturally not created to provide, a woman that shares bill with her husband most times loose respect for the man and before you say jerk marriage have broken.

A woman should help all round when needed without being told and not attaching her to a particular responsibility.

I understand your point though

EreluRoz:
I personally don't believe in women contributing financially at home however she should help immediately she observed the weight is getting heavier on you without being told.
Buy snacks for kids if you insist on a particular area.

buy snacks for kids when going to school right?? Thanks.

Like I'm very curious and willing to know the responsibility of the wife at home or let me just say where does she step in the bills at home. I mean which area is she suppose to be assisting the husband in the shouldering of the responsibility at home. I'll like the married folks here to enlighten us or give us an insight on the area where their wife cater for in the responsibility. I'm a young guy just getting into it and I'll like to know where my wife should be contributing to Thanks.

Happy birthday Daddy keep waxing stronger sir.

Gerrard59:
Those making dollars while in Nigeria have no reason to japa.

An instance is the children/close relatives of cocoa farmers and exporters. If I see any such person japa, I will ask hard questions.

shey na cocoa farmers dey cash out like this?

Dzzzz:
Seems you never chop today!.

what has this got to do with the post...you are not difficult to be identified.

Op please complete your testimony some of us want to be inspired Thanks.

Is the price still 45k??

Omo see #1200 bread nawa oo

IBB007:
Lol…it’s be very obvious that it’s the rich that are japaing

you no see the sitting room setting.

Hi @ OlawaleBammie I'll like to discuss with you some things pls how can I reach you..sorry for mentioning you on a dead thread.

Congratulations that person really tried for this period

Pls consider me sir @guobe
8134914304 opay thanks.

Dear sir @ guobe I don't know if you still have slot left I'll like to recommend my mum she's a widow and the 20k will help in her business thanks. This is her number 08140575040 Thanks.

Pls I'm not a widow I'm a man but things are very tight for me right now 2k will go a long way thanks for all you do.

That's a nice gesture thank you sir God bless you

Godliness and Contentment is great gain.

PinkNature:
Thank you. 🙏

you're welcome

Palazo:
Hello house, please I want to learn truck driving, I'm a graduate and I have a family. Have read from the first post to the last, what have understood was that people here prefer being a conductor through that means they learn but I'm a family man and wouldn't want to learn from being a conductor, not that I'm against it but nobody will provide for my family I'm the only one so you see. Which is why I prefer an affordable Truck driving school, I have more than 12years experience in car driving. Please can anybody help.

where are you located bro?

PinkNature:
Yes, check signature again.

I've sent it via WhatsApp

PinkNature:
My WhatsApp is one my signature. Thanks.

I can't find your WhatsApp on your signature...are you still interested in the books?

LillyandDaisy:
Have you finally get it?

Yes thank you.

PinkNature:
Sadly, I don't. Please, when you get it, please quote me so that I'll forward my number to you. I need it too.

I've gotten the books.

Hopez456:
Send a pm or drop ur mail if nobody has sent them to you.

ajiboyephilip2016@gmail.com thanks

Durhleepee:
Hi. I have the books, send me a mail so I can forward it to you.

alright thanks I'll do that now

PinkNature:
Sadly, I don't. Please, when you get it, please quote me so that I'll forward my number to you. I need it too.

Alright hopefully someone here will help me with it

DestinedForGrea:
Wow! I don't think this thread was moved to the front page, yet it attained 40 pages. It's worth it, too bad the OP has deactivated.

Oh okay, it was moved to front page. At some point, I thought it was fiction, but I realized it's true.

Things are happening o.

you made me remember this thread again..it was very emotional then and it trended then on Nairaland I think it was during the lockdown. I used to follow the Op then on Twitter but I don't know if he's still active there.

It's really tough out there brother. I'm also in your shoe just that I finished my NYSC Last year. The problem with most of us is that we only believe in white collar jobs and we don't want to explore . As for me I've already removed my mind from white collar job and I'm delving into agro business ...... I'm ready to go into apprenticeship to learn the trading so I can master it. I wish you all the best brother.

Pls who can send me the PDF of Small business big money and how to sell to Nigerians by Akin Alabi