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i love dis...serves dem right...even if ur husband isnt doing somefin right sexually,tell him.cheating isnt d solution.....foolish women disgracing womanhood dt needs help already.

Michellla:
OR maybe she's just pretending and when you wife her she shows you her true colour.

i love you jare....u spoke well as a lady,a pretending lady is worse dan an evil woman

mtchewwww....dumb...i guess u r high on weed d op below will concur

no wonder men dnt live long dis days...foolish women of bastard mothers

you are big disgrace to womanhood...thank God for God.....a big foolish woman u r....jst like a female OP said....a stupid woman lay a stupid bed....iraanu abasha

Hello health experts please i need help on what to do naturally to lose weight because i play football very well,but recently have stopped and am looking big...please what kind of exercise can bring me back to shape?
secondly: apart from threadmill,what other equipment can be used in the house that will concentrate on all the body...i.e..from the chest to the abs nd legs. Thnks

;Dlet me make this simple....RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BEFORE SHE DESTROYS UR DESTINY....d op below me will argue ;Dlet me make this simple....RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BEFORE SHE DESTROYS UR DESTINY....d op below me will argue

bro i admire ur courage...truth is dnt even think of lying to her....be truthful wif her nd she will respect u more if she truly loves u.

Estharfabian:
Well, if she says You should move on...it clearly means she doesn't see a future in the relationship.. the sad truth is she's no longer into you,.


I Honestly think u should move on..Work Your butts of legit and move to UK and prove to that Bîtch you could do Way better without Her...

ladies talking sensibly...i appreciate dear.

Estharfabian:
Well, if she says You should move on...it clearly means she doesn't see a future in the relationship.. the sad truth is she's no longer into you,.


I Honestly think u should move on..Work Your butts of legit and move to UK and prove to that Bîtch you could do Way better without Her...

ladies talking sensibly...i appreciate dear.

StefanSalvatore:
There's nothing 2 advice again. She's told u 2 move on jst gladly move on

noted!!!

sickstars:
exackly wat i always talk
Truth is no love in d relationship again

Cos love is sacrifice nd non of u is ready for dat

She feels why can t u cum dat if she comes ow is she sure u wont have side chic

U sef no wan go cos u feel u d man she gotto obey ur emotions

All i can see is lack of trust lack of commitment
Lack of understanding of both feelings lack of trust nd power struggle

thanks OP

sickstars:
Pleased broda jes trek an meet her in uk

U kno things of dis nature eez has a results of one guy interpreting love to her in a manners u cant do

So i advise u just go nd trek nd meet her

imagine u...anyways will i be selfish to say i need her bck in Nigeria?

prettymina:
Seriously I feel ur pain,seems we ar on d same track but in my case I don't any source of goin over there.but bro jst move on with ur life

finally someone who cares....its devastating to get such response,its jst as if av been holding her against her will nd wish..truth is i never expected such frm her by dis time.

we met in 2009 nd got dating nd in 2011 she travelled to the UK,but communication was good though there are some issues at times. but maturity sure have its way, recently i tried yo know our plan for 2016 nd as d concerned part,i gave her time to ponder nd give me a reply on where we r heading dis yr...but she told me she has no plan to come to Nigeria as i decided not to come to d UK as well,dt we both shuld move on wif our lives...please mature minds wot do u think i shuld do?

hello lets nt get it twisted there's no proof dat olamide destroyed headies green room...lets be careful wot we say pls.

Richy4:
Please next time, try and write in plain English language or something that someone can understand. I am not so sure but let me summarize what I thought you were trying to say

<<<< You were dating a girl 2 years older than you
<<<<You have a concern that she does not care anymore
<<<< she spent a lot of time with her friends and you are not comfortable with it... correct?

If all I have summarized was correct, then you need a little bit of growing up to do. for the fact that she was dating you or you were dating each other does not mean she will be there all the time for you. she has friends you know? those she knew before she met you. you do not expect her to abandon all her friends because you are the boyfriend.

Secondly, you are not married to her yet. if you do, that means you will not even permit her to visit her parent once in a while
There's a prayer point I usually do anything time I manage to go to church and they say pray for your family. I will say God please do not allow my female cousins to fall into the hand of possessive men..... this is because they are more deadlier than AIDS.

Finally, I know you loved her, but she needs some breathing space. a little time out. please understand that and when you put ring on it, it will be a different matter. for now you are just a thieve, you are stealing the show without her parent's knowledge. and thieves do not talk when they are stealing... when you became the owner, then you will be free to talk...



please ignore the advice if what I summarize was not what you meant. I DON'T READ THAT KIND OF SHORT HAND. I thought you needed urgent advice

nice one....but lemme correct ur summary a bit...am older dan she is pls,nd again am engaged to her nd its jst a matter of time before i put a ring on it.d truth is am never possessive in any aspect neither am i bossy...but i wasnt asking for too much trying to save my relationship.but it seems she doesnt care.

Oliviaarims:
The OP hasn't said she's disrespectful. She's simply facing other aspects of her life... Spending time with her girlfriends. I see nothing wrong in that. Maybe she needs a break... Some distance or sth. OP, she's probably going through a phase and she feels perhaps u're not the best person to help her pull through.... Or it could be that u're the reason for this new development.



Just try to be understanding and give her some time. Reduce the number of visits u pay her.. Reduce ur calls too. Just give her time to do what she wants. She'll come around in no time

thnks olivia

Khd95:
Ignore her too,for a week(s)
then watch her reaction,if she doesnt change,continue to ignore her,ladies love attention like weyrey,so deny her one.

i guess i will try dis...but if she remains adamant nd unchanged?

Tallesty1:
Do you have friends?

yes i have friends and i dnt mix things up...but she's all about going out wif her friends nd giving excuses of ow tired she is...blah blah blah

Please advise me in a mature manner...
Am in a relationship wif a lady dts two years younger dan i am for some yrs nw...we've had our ups nd dwns but love always settled our differences...but recently there has been some funny behaviour frm her,like she doesnt care abt her guy instead she places more value on outings wif friends nd later comes bck to apologise nd say all dis love written words to me.av tried to tell her abt it witout hurting her feelings at all...but she seems nt to be getting it at all.please advise me on wot to do even though we have a future togeda.do u think i shuld move on?

show me love

Lord am grateful....happy birthday to me.

such a promising life and you killed urself cos a woman told u some shit? big fool.

Durentt:
I swear sex na yeye sometin na awon werey 100% pipu dey like am i'd rather use my vaseline and satisfy myself very well

i disagree wif u...den d act of using vaseline to self-service urself is called wot?...sex is a wonderful thing nd to make such a statement means u r saying God only created werey of which u r one too....its jst been abused dts y...but i can stand anywhere nd say dt sex is a wonderful thing especially wen u r happily fixed to a sincere partner

mtchewwww....u never baff

fluxview:
inbox me your number lets talk. i have a solution for you. some people will come here and claim its there friend that has issue even whn its obvious that we are all masked behind our profile names yet they are still ashamed.
love your sincerity of mind

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hehehehehe...na to organise grandma's burial arrangements in advance o.

younghartz:
If ur class is too high for me, I'd change sch

hmmmm....u might never get d best from dat school