crossfm: Nigerian youth wake up and stop dieing for politicians,they have one single goal,which is to keep milking the nation dry.
The ones whom I pity the most are the thugs they will use in the forthcoming elections. Let their sons and daughters come home from Yankee and carry ballot boxes for their darling daddies. We move. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3SanMR2e_E
Is like they are spoiling the mood for this my brother hahahahahah.
bigpicture001: My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...
These are the proposals 1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..
2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her
3. I will be responsible for rents
4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..
5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.
6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..
7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.
8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..
Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?
Honestly man I respect you, you just gave me a model for marriage. However I don't know why your fiancee left, maybe you two should sit down and talk things out.
Please oh,I can't bear it anymore the temperature in my place is becoming unbearable,I can't go out and not come back drenched in my sweat,I mean everywhere is freaking hot!!!!. I live in warri to be precise,abeg how your own be?
HenryDion: If you're going to use a Tesla in Nigeria, make sure you go out with a full battery, and avoid long long-distance travel. We don't have charging ports in Nigeria yet. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Thank you Obviously the OP is a novice at self service, you are enlightened at it, you gave him advice quite alright. But my problem with your advice is the manner of approach, there is nothing bad in starting with words of encouragement, before advice,a soft answer repels anger and condemnation, you even rounded it up by telling him not to walk around with it, how do you think a WEAKLING will think on reading your comment, you could have presented your point in a manner like"ah bro you tried but next time do it like this and that". You could have a point on any discussion ground but the manner of presentation matters alot. Thank you.Peace
bigcee: Truth be told. You have a long way to go. You tried to create a guide line but you didn't blend it(removing the guide line). You need to invest in your clipper guard and also learn how to use it. Pls no carry that hair go out o. My rating is 0/10
Compare it with my own haircut and judge the difference.
If you think deeply you will see that she is right. Infact nobody can give you the kind of money you are looking for,na you know how you want your life to be,so you will know how to press on your hustling. I am with her on this one.
hotwax: My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.
She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle
The Problem
Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too. I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.
She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in. She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).
As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.
Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with. She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.
She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.
Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.
I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.
It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.
Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.
“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.
The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.
Honestly man this story is pathetic and heart breaking. But please man up and don't make any irrational decision against women or any decision at all,we still have good ladies. Peace
bestme: Hello, nairalanders in the house, pls I need your sincere advice in this matter.
I have known this lady I really want to marry for over 2 years now. Though our friendship have been a casual one. The issue is she told me she is a graduate and then i visited her house over 2 years back I met her mom and she asked me where I came from- my tribe and if I am a graduate and told her my tribe and yes I am graduate.
She said she wants her daughter to marry a graduate because she has done her best to train her school. It was of recent we started a serious marriage relationship and I told my pastor and we both met with pastor already.
It Is now she told me that she did not graduate that she was unable to pay school fees, though she went up to 500level and did I.T but her parents only paid 100 and 200 level school fees. She said she has no result/certificate. I told her am honestly disappointed for hiding this from me ever since and she said it is because I have not really made my intentions know to her.
One of the reasons I like her was being a graduate and I have not dreamt of marrying a non graduate.
Pls your sincere advice.
Hello this post is dated 2018 mods hellooooooo?!!!
Good evening NLs, considering the fact that New year celebration is done on the 1st of January every year and Christmas is normally 25th of course. So I was reasoning which of the celebration comes first? I think New year comes first,I mean 1 comes before 25. But nevertheless what is your opinion?
Mods please push to the front let's have a good discussion..
Efulefu: I bought my paper lamination machine in January 2021 for #27k by then.
Got a busy street nearby, where there is business center and NIMC / NIN registration center.
I laminate Nin Slip for N60, other papers for N120.
For 11 months: lets do the maths: I usually laminate 70-100 Nin slip per day, for the hope of smooth calculation, let it be 80. Other papers, lets it be 20.
That's agood amount... Guys,ladies don't be lazy please, embrace the corn-tree (9ja), there is alot to get with tiny businesses like this,it will only cost you time.
Note: [b]extract sundays, sickness days and other necessary leaves from the 11months and from the total amount. cold, rainy or hot weather is not in my calculation, I use to be patient and work from 6am to 10pm no matter the weather, only if there's no people (may be due to rain), Family matters are not honored by me within this time, to invite me to somewhere, na you waste your time, the N50 is better to me than your wedding or so and so....[/b]
Remember, at first I only had N30k, 27 out to buy the machine, 3 to buy laminating film.
I only have half of the money with me right now becuase of:
*Feeding *When I got my first 100k, I bought new SUMEC FIRMAN GENERATOR *My mom and Dad exfences *Bought a new bike for N380k *Bought a plot of land to build a small shop (computer center) *Buying of laminating film, which is currently 3.6K after each 4-5 days *Bought Infinix Hot 10 for 56k *And many other things.
Things that helped me More: *Patience *Perseverance *Prayer for success *Selfishness *Not having a boyfriend to distract me.
I will use my remaining 1M to buy computer, printer, photocopier and other computer center business tools.
Help other youths.
O baby you have done well,may God uplift you more. You have also inspired me for motivation next year,I hope to share a testimony like this next year before the year runs out,abeg reply amen for me biko
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