Like i care if they care about me. I live my life for me and you don't have to know about my life.

I visit beautiful places for my mental health and need not to show them I'm living my dream life.

Most important thing in life is for you and your household to live well(no suffering).

We are in the era of sad people(especially youths) with beautiful pictures. Make sure you are happy in real life not just on social media.

Once you adopt this, you are mature.

thebosstrevor1:


No sir, the banks control crypto.

It seems you don't know that the bulk of institutional investors in crypto are banks

I know they hold bulk volume of crypto like they control forex market.
Do not forget that those running these financial institutions are capitalist. Once crypto gains ground, the need for more labour force will reduce drastically. As capitalist, even when they make huge profit they still retrench once they sight much labour force isn't required for a task. They are always thinking of maximizing profit

wealthgoddess:

You know I was just thinking the same thing, it is a lovely innovation but it definitely has a lot of negative sides too and I fear it might even contribute more to unemployment. Banks for example...without the physical cash will there be need for all those tellers/cashiers??

That's evolution for you. When crypto fully gets its ground worldwide, many in the banking system will lose their jobs no doubt.

bepositive11:


This guy has some good points and it builds on my comment.

Since you are codependent, she's likely a narcissist. Codependents usually attract narcissists

It's also possible that you are both codependent and if that's the case, one of you will eventually become the narcissist in the relationship

You gat my point. One will be the narcissist and the other empath

BadRadio:
I m lost bro... whatcha mean by that?

One of the games narcissist play is the (victim game). To get your attention and start manipulating you. You can read on Google ways of narcissist in relationships. What will follow this from her is love bombing and attachment. Guy, if you fall for all these, i pity your mental health. First phase, you are already having sleepless night. This lady will most likely drain your energy at the long-run. My advice for you is to flee from her if you are having anything serious for as regards relationship. But if na to flirt and move, all the best.

BadRadio:
We were just friends... we decided to hang out on a sunday evening at an eatery, we got talking... she was narrating the story of her life to me... she got emotional and teary as she slowly stressed on each sentence... I told her to say no more...went and sat closer to her... she placed her head on my shoulder... sobbing... I wrapped my arms around her and told her it's all going to be fine... I dropped her off at home and left.

That night I couldn't sleep... I kept on pondering on all that she had told me and it was really giving me reasons for concern... I felt I could help her but at desame time I am catching feelings for this lady and I dont know what to call it... I have been thinking about her, like a 100 times a day, thoughts of her occupies my head everyday and I barely sleep every night.

I get emotional everytime her story plays through my head. I feel I can make her pain go away. I feel I can make her happy. I feel I can give her all the attention she deserves. I feel I can care for her.

What do u advice guys... how can u describe my situation with her?

Beware of narcissist. Just my little advice

Even that decent religious girl you are seeing today dey street. May God help single men looking to get married in the future. Amen

BirtherOfKings:
There are only four responsibilities
1. Marry their daughter and take good care of her
2. Contribute advice and money as led by the spirit of God when issues arrive
3. Turn up for events like burial, wedding and child naming
4. Bring their daughter home to see her family or visit them from time to time

Exactly

SoBright101:
How did you confirm they are Babalawo before Christianity?

I never said they are babalawo. I was only following the context of the thread

SoBright101:
You should find another qualification for fake pastors. Stop comparing them with Babalawo.

Babalawo is a well known traditional profession except you mean fake ones.

I'm not arguing. Only taking of babaláwos that come to hide under Christianity. I know there are babalawos that stay true to themselves yet make it.

In summary, if one is babalawo let people know you and if you are a xtian, let them know not pretending to be what you ain't to get customers

SoBright101:
There is nothing wrong being a Babalawo, stop comparing your god of men with Babalawo.

Truly nothing wrong in being babalawo but alot wrong guising under Christianity.

TheRareGem1:

https://www.chronicle.ng/2021/07/cbn-launch-digital-currency-osinbajo-idea/

If the same algorithm in general crypto is adopted fully for this, i fear we might be trading this digital money with fiat money in the nearest future.

Happy birthday sir

Billyonaire666:


Yes of course. You are in charge of your life. No being can detect for you not even Angels or Demons.

I do what the fucck I want cos I know the deal. We are living in a simulation.

Thanks. I've gotten what I wanted to know.

Billyonaire666:


It was crushing that I had to go on one year vacation and met another twin flame. No other type of woman seems to cure the heart except Divine archetype of similar vibratory force. Looking at it from this point, I realize I was undergoing training to become a better version of myself.

So I am in a plural relationship now

Are you telling me one can have more than one twin flame too? �

Billyonaire666:


Sorry, I really do not send emails. I am very old school. I still fax and write letters though.

Ok. Can you share briefly your twin flame journey so far( the period of separation and How you finally reunite etc )?

Billyonaire666:


Okay then, let me spoil you more.

This is controversial but no doubts true. Just that the right brain has been infected and neutralizes by cosmic viral programs called Religions which neutralizes the gain-function peripheral of the mind. Where Religions have hijacked in the faculty of the mind was supposed to programmed by spirituality and knowledge of the Supreme Architect.

Know this and save yourselves from relationship crisis if you do not believe in twin flames or soulmates. Your Date of Birth and that of your spouse matters before you get married. It is not all archetype that can bond. Polarism and Polarity matters a lot on the alignment of Souls in the Omniverse. If you were born in August, you shouldn't marry August children, the Moon was in similar location during your birth so the magnetic effect on the planet then in relation to your soul had unique property which you both share and like repels in this universe and attracts in business cycles.

Do not believe me, I lie a lot.

Here's mine: oluwaseunogunniyi77@gmail.com.

I will appreciate

Billyonaire666:


Okay then, let me spoil you more.

This is controversial but no doubts true. Just that the right brain has been infected and neutralizes by cosmic viral programs called Religions which neutralizes the gain-function peripheral of the mind. Where Religions have hijacked in the faculty of the mind was supposed to programmed by spirituality and knowledge of the Supreme Architect.

Know this and save yourselves from relationship crisis if you do not believe in twin flames or soulmates. Your Date of Birth and that of your spouse matters before you get married. It is not all archetype that can bond. Polarism and Polarity matters a lot on the alignment of Souls in the Omniverse. If you were born in August, you shouldn't marry August children, the Moon was in similar location during your birth so the magnetic effect on the planet then in relation to your soul had unique property which you both share and like repels in this universe and attracts in business cycles.

Do not believe me, I lie a lot.

Hmḿmmm! May i have your email? I tried to send you a mail via NL possible

Billyonaire666:
Yes.

Soul mates are embodied Souls from the Collective Consciousness of a Higher Self. In essence in a multiplayer metaphase, one can split it's consciousness into many Avatars and all is one. Such Avatars in this world will naturally attract each other.

Twin flames are complementary opposites. Not just two individuals though, it's achetypical. Those will match your aspects unconditionally on a soul level. When you meet a twinflame it is love at fight sight and the feeling is usually beyond sex. It's just a feeling that with this person your life is complete.

The opposite complements you organically and you do not have to do much to orient the love. The sex becomes amazing without much efforts and you melt into each other. Metaphysically it's the reunion of souls to produce high capacitance plasma field of longitudinal standing wave of orgone energy capable of multiples of atomic bombs.

I know twin flames and soulmates when I meet them. My wife is my twin flame and my girlfriends used to be my soul mates. Date only when the spirit guide.

Hmmmmmmm! Thanks for this insight. I need more info. Please

I hear a lot talk of soul mate and in my quest for more details recently discovered another which is twin flame.

The first time I heard of the concept of soul mate was that this person(just one person) is your significant other (spouse). Lately, i came across twin flame which is considered to be just one person that wakens your spiritual growth. It is then believed that we can have several soul mates and could be your siblings, parent, friend etc but can only have a twin flame(your spouse).

I'm of a believe that you can marry whoever gives you peace of mind, share same core values and vision.


Please NL with idea and experience on this should shed more light if this concept is a myth or real.

Flier:
You probably married wrong partner
Marriage is good if you marry your soulmate

Is soul mate and twin flame concept not a myth?

Hmmmmmmm! Make i learn

Please can someone help with an affordable internet provider for unlimited subscription with fast internet and their tariff.

The most important skill you can learn today is "How to sell yourself". Irrespective of your intelligence or skill,if you don't know how to sell yourself, it's zero.

You can be the best for a position yet miss it if you don't sell yourself well. And you can have no skill yet thrive in life.

Op: learn to sell yourself first before any other skill

Success is when reality equals expectation.

I can't give my gf monthly allowance rather empower her. Doing this will make her proud of herself and self reliance/independent. I want an independent woman. Well, i can patch I'm some months if there aren't sales from her end. But I will surely always pay for her hair.

Brexxit:


I'm the guy in question.
How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?

Guy, go sort your relationship matter for house. No display anything here o

Eleyi gidi gan o

FatherOfJesus:
Personally, I am of the opinion that the leadership of any society is a product of that society. These leaders are there either because of our collective inactions or actions, we let them there anyways.

These leaders were raised in our schools, churches, mosques, homes etc. they are a representation of what an average Nigerian is.

What’s your take?

True. Our slogan says it all. Good people, great nation. Bad people,......

Congratulations to him

samwash:
If she takes 3days to reply,then common sense will tell you that you should take 7days to reply also.
Or better still find used or valid recharge card & send her, omits the last digit or replaced the last digit with another num & see how fast the response will be.

I don't play this mind game. I tell you to your face after giving tolerance of being busy for a while. And if it persists, We move immediately. Just turn status viewer then comment on any that interests me.

No time for rubbish