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Application is now open for the 2015 Mike
Omotosho Scholarship for Bachelor or Masters
to study in Cyprus, Malaysia and India.
Exam Venues - Abuja & Kwara
Exam Date - 17th October 2015
To apply visit the Website below for more
details.
http://
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Makpenen:hmmm, i av nt seen mine too, jst hopin, ib second day |
iamayodeji:source:pg school site |
UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN, IBADAN, NIGERIA
THE POSTGRADUATE SCHOOL
Candidates are to note that the Proficiency in
English test shall hold on September 17, 18 and
19. Candidates actual date of test will be
communicated shortly. Candidates who chose
Ibadan as their test location are to further note
that the test will be computer-based. Lagos and
Port-harcourt will still be paper-based |
Tosinayoko:same here o...overly hopefull |
Nice pointz...God help. |
My last post drew a lot of grumblings from the men “world” especially the part where I said “I’m a feminist”. Calm down boys! I’m behind you on this one. I got you. No Homo.I also remember saying that I’m going to breathe down heavily on you (girls). Olu is here. Get ready to rumble. I like girls generally anyways. The cute ones, especially those you can carry easily carry. But beautiful, witty and intelligent girls intimidate me. These ones? They tackle you anyday anytime; ready or not. Did I hear someone whisper about me liking girls? Please what should I like? Oh! Kindly sit down here \________ Alright. That is a joke. I hope and actually wish my first child could be a girl. And this is why. I’m of a marriageable age. If I get married today and give birth say tomorrow. Before I clock 40 years of age. My daughter should be close to 15 years or more. Between 45-48, my little bae must be married and she should be giving me a grandchild preferably another cute little bae. I want to be a Grandfather to atleast 3 kids before I age 55. Before 70-75. A full fledge and accomplished great grandpa.This is just my mortal plan. Man proposes. God disposes. But having a son as your first issue? Cool story. The boy will like to flex and flirt before he eventually settles down tho. And Fiaaaam ! Time has gone. Some marry early though. Back to the groove. The feminist movement has help open (our) eyes and brought our mind the consciousness and importance of respecting our ladies, our women. Amazingly, we have a lot of young and energetic young ladies out there doing theirselves proud and their country. Against all the odds? This is impressive.I personally believe that ambition is priceless. And I’m not saying our girls shouldn’t be ambitious.But it can be costly. There are gains and pains associated with it. Ambition is a risk. Don’t let it ruin your deserved happiness. Yes! Your happiness. An average educated lady with nice ambitions will blatantly tell you that she can’t go out of her way to please a man, or be an housewife, or fix his mess and laundry and all. Yes! She’s right. You have a choice, a say.But the place and space of man in any sphere of a woman’s life must not be underrated. Everybody yearns to love and to be loved. After this virtue is respect. But a man needs more. He covets a woman’s submission. Especially in a relationship. An ideal relationship. Ideal.Submission or to be submissive is a beautiful mystery that only few women understand. Even the sucessful ones. What is submission? It can be simply defined as the state of being obedient : the act of accepting the authority or control of someone else. Somebody said and I quote. Obviously a man. “Submission has got a bad rap in years. The feminist movement has made matters worse. Women are forgetting that submission wasn’t your man’s idea, it was God’s. “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” (Ephesians 5:22). Again the word says, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fitting in the Lord.” (Colossians 3:18).” Men should however know that submission does not mean “subject to abuse”. Subjection simply implies respect for another’s authority. Nigerian ladies should understand that the key to a harmonious family life is finding that balance. If he loves or watches football, or has a favorite team, support him. Mourn his defeats. Celebrate his victories. Be on his side. Root for his team. When it gets to your turn to watch telemundo or Africa Magic, he won’t disturb you. He’d love you more. Respect! All men want to be successful. But it is so unfortunate that most Nigerian women measure success by what a man has accomplished and not by who he is as a person. It is the role of the women to help her man see the big picture in life, not through the eyes of someone who wants to purchase every latest trend of fashion, in mobile phones and cars. The role of a woman. There are good men out there. Nice and interesting guys too. But often times a lady or a woman gets too confused and sometimes doesn’t know what she wants. Here as it stands, you need to pray for discernment. Using your logical sense to calculate might land you in the dustbin. However, if you’re lucky to have a good fine gentleman to yourself. A man that literally adores and cares you. Be careful because as a lady, you may gravitationally start pulling towards complacency and overconfidence. Why? Because you’re getting too much attention and you’re overwhelmed. Your comfort zone can hinder yourgrowth.Nigerian men are driven by the need for significance. A man’s thirst for significance can only be quenched by knowing how important he is. That is why he will chase after every vain pursuit only to hear the words, “You matter. You are important. You are appreciated. You are significant .” If a man has never heard these words or sensed this approval from his woman, he can spend his whole life chasing someone else who will value his identity.Support your man at every turn. Be there for him to guide him. A man needs help in the small things like finding the car keys or in bigger things like building a business. It has become one of the popular sayings that “behind every great man is a far greater woman.”Men always find solace in logic. And it has proved to be a sure way of maintaining stability especially in times of uncertainty or danger. But it is clear that men most times lack that natural intuitiveness found in women. Especially in taking some decisions, he needs your input because he might not understand that deep gut feeling you have that something is not right. He needs your intuitive, instinctive, perspective and discerning insights when making decisions. But as his woman, you should be careful so as not to bruise his ego. A man is not molded to understand emotional and dynamics behind the problems that women face. So it is important that the woman doesn’t go about running and pouring all her cares, worries, fears, insecurities and troubles on him at once, it can be overwhelming. Make things simple for him. Every man requires that extra training to be a good listener and you will have to work at it until he is there. Lastly. Nag! But don’t use it as a weapon. Men enjoy peace, tranquility and control. There are amicable ways of settling dispute. Don’t injure his tolerance level. It will create distance. After all is said and done. Respect is reciprocal.Sadly, most girls are so ambitious that they are becoming the men they want to marry. https://oluomolale./2015/06/16/respect-that-man/ |
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Before writing this post. I had put a lot of things into consideration. I want to be so careful with my words so I don’t breed any kind of contempt. I was created a male. I evolved Into a boy. My metamorphosis will soon be complete as I foray into the wilderness of manhood. Did I say wilderness? While I bask in the aura of my natural machismo and masculinity. I have this consciousness that woman was created for man. So therefore a woman must do my bid. This is how an average man thinks. But times are changing. Things are not the same. The 21st century lady is different especially in the African context. There is a radical evolution. An obvious consciousness. There is a potent uprising. And if you don’t fix yourself as a man and you choose to be oblivious to this reality, you’ll be grossly disappointed. In a trado-African setting. A special importance or acknowledgement has always been attached to the male-child. I don’t understand the sentiments shared. But the female-child is always secondary and often relegated to the background. But thanks to education and civilization. Thanks to Mary Slessor too. We might still be killing twins too. People are beginning to change their views regards which particular sex holds the highest importance. A child is a child. Boy or girl. Accept what God gifts you. A child is a gift. Howbeit, some folks are still primitive and still hold on to certain cultural beliefs. I’m a feminist. Maybe Like 70 or 80%. I’d discuss why in my next post. But I believe that a woman must be treated with utmost respect. Maybe equal rights. Maybe equal liberty. But In most instances, these vituperations are just. I admire the strength of Oby Ezekwesili, Chimanda Adichie (I’ve read her books), Odumakin and others too that I don’t remember now. They’ve tried in their own little but majestic ways by making their voices known and heard. One of Chimanda’s work even got to be featured on Beyoncé’s album, a song titled flawless . But a lot still need to be done in areas of orientation, sensitization and building of self esteem. And taking this project to the grassroots. Girls get punished for the same mistakes boys commit while the boys gets away and move on. A man will sanely impregnate a woman he doesn’t have plans for but insanely scream her down to go abort the resulting pregnancy. If I begin to go deep into atrocities boys commit, I might lose the focal of this post. So let me hold my horse. Meanwhile. Men are physically strong. Maybe mentally too. They are stereotypic. One mind, one way. More aggressive in nature and selfish in style. But women appear weak but they are rather delicate. By default, they are built to absorb more pressure, they are receptive, naturally resilient. They take keen interest in little things and details. They are hypersensitive. Maybe that’s why they are jealous. But the summary is that they have a mental edge over men. But the truth be told. Moral decadence is high and prevalent now. And it’s high time we put an end to incessant rape cases, domestic violence, women trafficking, kidnapping, body mutilation, psychological and mental torture amidst many more. A woman’s pain is enough. She is a preserver of life, a gateway to unknown generation. She is a gift. We need to open our eyes and see them that way. What can a man do? That a woman cannot do? Actually there is one or two, maybe three. But what a woman can do, a man cannot do half. A man handles one objective at a time. But a woman is born to multitask. A woman can pick beans and breastfeed at the same time while doing some light household chores systematically together. She cooks, wash, iron and sings at the same time. She can fry Akara for sale in the morning, hawk moinmoin or vegetable in the afternoon, fry oduku in the night, retires home to cook dinner for her family and wakes up early to do the same thing the next day. Men cannot absorb pressure in the way God has helped women to. Cannot house a baby for a month talkless of give birth to one even without the pain associated with it. The moment a girl reaches puberty, the pressure from within and without begins. For the guy, exuberance increases with little or no pressure in comparison with the girl. Above all, any degeneration in any society affects the women and children more. They suffer. That is where a man should be known but most abscond from their responsibilities. Women are the greatest casualties of war. But times are changing. There is a reasonable progress. Though slow, if not very slow. But the arithmetic progression is impressive. A man hustles. The woman hustles more. A guy came out with a first class. A lady does too even with distinctions. You are a breadwinner? A woman brings food to the table too with fruits and vegetables. Infact, they are plenty out there. Divorced mothers and single moms will tell you their ordeals. A woman is a manager, a natural home maker. In some local or rural settlements, the women go to farms while the husbands chill out with friends, sipping on palmwine. I’ve seen lady photographers before. I’ve seen lady mechanics before. What’s new? We have male professionals, the females aren’t sleeping these days. Infact we are competing for the same available resources and space. So cut some slack and give that lady the respect she deserves. Even women thrive in governance if given the chance and right platforms to perform. But most won’t believe me. Wait! I’d kill your doubts with examples. There is a positive correlation between equality and economic growth. Countries that do not treat women as second class citizens are often more likely to prosper in a sustainable manner, and thus is true regardless of the prevailing ideology or religion of that country. Rwanda and the United Arab Emirates are two classic examples. Both countries rank high in comparative regional gender equality surveys and both have experienced an upward trend in economic prowess and social development over the last 10 years and 40 years respectively. In the book Flashes of Thought , the ruler of Dubai, Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum, says of his government: “our job is to provide an environment that unlocks women’s potential- one that protects their dignity and feminity, helps them create the necessary balance in their lives, and values their talents and potential. Given this environment, I am confident that women will perform nothing short of miracles.” To that end, 70 per cent of his personal team are women, 65 percent of their government employees are women and 30 percent of the leadership positions are held by women. Closer to home, let’s look at Rwanda. Since the genocide ended over 10 years ago, women have generally made up more than 50 percent of their parliamentarians. Currently, approximately 63 percent of their members of parliament are women. During that time, Rwanda has experienced year-on-year GDP growth. Their GDP per capita, their Gross National Income per capita, their Agricultural Production Rate and food production rate have all increased steady over those years. this is no coincidence. If you’re a man reading this. Never raise your hand on a woman. Respect her choice or decision. Respect a woman. Respect that lady. Help grow. Help her win. And for the womenfolks reading this. I got your back on this one. Start believing in yourself and in what you can do. Meanwhile, I’m coming down heavily on you in my next post. Spread some cheers. It’s never too late to Inspire someone today. https://oluomolale./2015/06/10/respect-that-woman/ |
YungMike:tnx man, looking forward to those info..leme even add yu |
plz forward it to ajalaoluvictor@gmail.com. tnx in anticipation |
bt someone will be with you with atleast a reason |
#bin a long while...#hope we r all gud...#P O P so close...#God has bin gud.....#so good to go.. |
congrats bro...i personally celebrate u....OAU firstclass no b beans..irrespective of d course |
B.sc biochemistry (ife) |
Dear Sir, ACTS LIKELY TO CAUSE A BREACH OF PUBLIC PEACE IN KWARA STATE: ILORIN! The above subject refers. It is with a great dismay and sadness, we the Nigerian youth corpers serving in kwara state, wishes to bring to your notice that, we have not yet received our August Allowance as at 9th September, 2014. This has become worrysome upon our investigations and discovery from our colleagues and counterparts from other states that, they have since received their allowances for the month in view(August). As we speak, we are currently stranded by way of starvation as there is no money to take care of the necessaries. Pls sir, we urge u to kindly use your good office to ensure our payment promptly as further delay and denial of our allowances may degenerate to breach of public peace in Kwara State, Ilorin. Thanks for your anticipated corporation. Yours faithfully; Signed: Kwara State Youth Corpers 2014 Batch Pls kindly forward until it get to the appropriate Authority |
dubsy20: Lol. The Boss himself!! I really enjoy the way u guys r keeping the hauz lively. We @ the ghostmode department are also keeping it lively dia too.... **runs out**na xo... Proud memba...ghostmode department... @alhaji. Kulukulu.... Tempa...ur name z on d list..*runs out*. |
Wishin u guys a fruitful & fulfilin service year.... Safe journi to n fro |
Sermwell: Pls be sure there will be judgement day b4 asking dis question o!. Wat if there is notin like heaven,hell or judgement day?and wat if there is ![]() |
Imcomperable |
D prob is wu do u fink can best replace lucas? |
Rara o....dey won build more universities ni or wat.....itz so illogical n inrational at all....i doubt dz sha...... |
Deep sigh! |
tunapa2009: Am not sure ooo!!!!! These are d ones I was able to get for now... I just confirmed it Chemistry and biochemistry are not on the list..wtf!!! Oba adaniduro uni has done it again! |
WinnieDPooh: OAU fit paste that list for this night ooo. |
Alenkakent: Mehn,bch? Abeg tell d guy to check my number for bch/2008/035.. |
tunapa2009: Accounting,ECN,SEC,IED, ECN,EFC,MEE, PHY(2006 matric no), POL, EGL(5 students), LG, ARCHI, PHARM, History, law, phe, qts, urp, zoo, biochemistry, botany, food science, DCE, MEE..hw many 4 bch? |
Alenkakent: Abeg check if biochem dey there o. Thats allGbam!! |
Toyde: Plateau state poly, Uniben, benue state univ, abia poly............whc skul is next?Oau |
Alenkakent: @winnie, any gist frm oau?i gues we av 2 wait till 2mao....itz 4 already |
Opiosko: NA GOD! First to testify 20132424**. Gr8 Uniben. Thread mates, friends bros nd swt sis, i prophsy! una go testify soon in Jesus name.gud one, congratz...big Amen 2 ur prayer |
