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EducationMike Omotosho Scholarship by phyktor(op): 1:36pm On Oct 01, 2015
Application is now open for the 2015 Mike Omotosho Scholarship for Bachelor or Masters to study in Cyprus, Malaysia and India. Exam Venues - Abuja & Kwara Exam Date - 17th October 2015 To apply visit the Website below for more details. http:// mikeomotoshointernationalscholarship.com
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate Programme For 2015/2016 Session by phyktor(m): 9:48am On Sep 23, 2015
Makpenen:
No one to answer me? I have not seen my result both in my mail and profile page. Has every body gotten the email?
hmmm, i av nt seen mine too, jst hopin, ib second day
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate Programme For 2015/2016 Session by phyktor(m): 11:11am On Aug 22, 2015
iamayodeji:
Good information, how true is this?
source:pg school site
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate Programme For 2015/2016 Session by phyktor(m): 10:11am On Aug 22, 2015
UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN, IBADAN, NIGERIA THE POSTGRADUATE SCHOOL Candidates are to note that the Proficiency in English test shall hold on September 17, 18 and 19. Candidates actual date of test will be communicated shortly. Candidates who chose Ibadan as their test location are to further note that the test will be computer-based. Lagos and Port-harcourt will still be paper-based
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancies: Nigerian Breweries Graduate Trainee by phyktor(m): 5:26pm On Jul 17, 2015
Tosinayoko:
i havent got an email yet possibly good news on the way
same here o...overly hopefull
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Top 7 Reasons Why You Are Not Recruited by phyktor(m): 12:38pm On Jul 02, 2015
Nice pointz...God help.
FamilyRespect That Man by phyktor(op): 6:56pm On Jun 20, 2015
My last post drew a lot of grumblings from the men “world” especially the part where I said “I’m a feminist”. Calm down boys! I’m behind you on this one. I got you. No Homo.I also remember saying that I’m going to breathe down heavily on you (girls). Olu is here. Get ready to rumble. I like girls generally anyways. The cute ones, especially those you can carry easily carry. But beautiful, witty and intelligent girls intimidate me. These ones? They tackle you anyday anytime; ready or not. Did I hear someone whisper about me liking girls? Please what should I like? Oh! Kindly sit down here \________
Alright. That is a joke. I hope and actually wish my first child could be a girl. And this is why. I’m of a marriageable age. If I get married today and give birth say tomorrow. Before I clock 40 years of age. My daughter should be close to 15 years or more. Between 45-48, my little bae must be married and she should be giving me a grandchild preferably another cute little bae. I want to be a Grandfather to atleast 3 kids before I age 55. Before 70-75. A full fledge and accomplished great grandpa.This is just my mortal plan. Man proposes. God disposes. But having a son as your first issue? Cool story. The boy will like to flex and flirt before he eventually settles down tho. And Fiaaaam ! Time has gone. Some marry early though. Back to the groove. The feminist movement has help open (our) eyes and brought our mind the consciousness and importance of respecting our ladies, our women. Amazingly, we have a lot of young and energetic young ladies out there doing theirselves proud and their country. Against all the odds? This is impressive.I personally believe that ambition is priceless. And I’m not saying our girls shouldn’t be ambitious.But it can be costly. There are gains and pains associated with it. Ambition is a risk. Don’t let it ruin your deserved happiness. Yes! Your happiness. An average educated lady with nice ambitions will blatantly tell you that she can’t go out of her way to please a man, or be an housewife, or fix his mess and laundry and all. Yes! She’s right. You have a choice, a say.But the place and space of man in any sphere of a woman’s life must not be underrated. Everybody yearns to love and to be loved. After this virtue is respect. But a man needs more. He covets a woman’s submission. Especially in a relationship. An ideal relationship. Ideal.Submission or to be submissive is a beautiful mystery that only few women understand. Even the sucessful ones. What is submission? It can be simply defined as the state of being obedient : the act of accepting the authority or control of someone else. Somebody said and I quote. Obviously a man.
“Submission has got a bad rap in years. The
feminist movement has made matters
worse. Women are forgetting that
submission wasn’t your man’s idea, it was
God’s. “Wives, submit yourselves unto your
own husbands, as unto the Lord.”
(Ephesians 5:22). Again the word says,
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own
husbands, as it is fitting in the Lord.”
(Colossians 3:18).”
Men should however know that submission does not mean “subject to abuse”. Subjection simply implies respect for another’s authority. Nigerian ladies should understand that the key to a harmonious family life is finding that balance. If he loves or watches football, or has a favorite team, support him. Mourn his defeats. Celebrate his victories. Be on his side. Root for his team. When it gets to your turn to watch telemundo or Africa Magic, he won’t disturb you. He’d love you more. Respect! All men want to be successful. But it is so unfortunate that most Nigerian women measure success by what a man has accomplished and not by who he is as a person. It is the role of the women to help her man see the big picture in life, not through the eyes of someone who wants to purchase every latest trend of fashion, in mobile phones and cars. The role of a woman. There are good men out there. Nice and interesting guys too. But often times a lady or a woman gets too confused and sometimes doesn’t know what she wants. Here as it stands, you need to pray for discernment. Using your logical sense to calculate might land you in the dustbin. However, if you’re lucky to have a good fine gentleman to yourself. A man that literally adores and cares you. Be careful because as a lady, you may gravitationally start pulling towards complacency and overconfidence. Why? Because you’re getting too much attention and you’re overwhelmed. Your comfort zone can hinder yourgrowth.Nigerian men are driven by the need for significance. A man’s thirst for significance can only be quenched by knowing how important he is. That is why he will chase after every vain pursuit only to hear the words, “You matter. You are important. You are appreciated. You are significant .” If a man has never heard these words or sensed this approval from his woman, he can spend his whole life chasing someone else who will value his identity.Support your man at every turn. Be there for him to guide him. A man needs help in the small things like finding the car keys or in bigger things like building a business. It has become one of the popular sayings that “behind every great man is a far greater woman.”Men always find solace in logic. And it has proved to be a sure way of maintaining stability especially in times of uncertainty or danger. But it is clear that men most times lack that natural intuitiveness found in women. Especially in taking some decisions, he needs your input because he might not understand that deep gut feeling you have that something is not right. He needs your intuitive, instinctive, perspective and discerning insights when making decisions. But as his woman, you should be careful so as not to bruise his ego. A man is not molded to understand emotional and dynamics behind the problems that women face. So it is important that the woman doesn’t go about running and pouring all her cares, worries, fears, insecurities and troubles on him at once, it can be overwhelming. Make things simple for him. Every man requires that extra training to be a good listener and you will have to work at it until he is there. Lastly. Nag! But don’t use it as a weapon. Men enjoy peace, tranquility and control. There are amicable ways of settling dispute. Don’t injure his tolerance level. It will create distance. After all is said and done. Respect is reciprocal.Sadly, most girls are so ambitious that they are becoming the men they want to marry. https://oluomolale./2015/06/16/respect-that-man/
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NBC Aptitude Test Invitation by phyktor(m): 11:47am On Jun 17, 2015
simayg:
please send to me, mayorsilas3@gmail.com. thanks
plz send to me ajalaoluvictor@gmail.com. tnx
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NBC Aptitude Test Invitation by phyktor(m): 2:43pm On Jun 16, 2015
KissQ:
I have sent to almost everybody that dropped their mails so please check your mails and kindly share. Thanks!!
except dis ajalaoluvictor@gmail.com. am waiting plz. tnx
FamilyRespect That Woman! by phyktor(op): 2:08pm On Jun 16, 2015
Before writing this post. I had put a lot of things
into consideration. I want to be so careful with my
words so I don’t breed any kind of contempt.
I was created a male. I evolved Into a boy. My
metamorphosis will soon be complete as I foray
into the wilderness of manhood. Did I say
wilderness?
While I bask in the aura of my natural machismo
and masculinity. I have this consciousness that
woman was created for man. So therefore a
woman must do my bid. This is how an average
man thinks.
But times are changing. Things are not the same.
The 21st century lady is different especially in the
African context. There is a radical evolution. An
obvious consciousness. There is a potent
uprising. And if you don’t fix yourself as a man
and you choose to be oblivious to this reality,
you’ll be grossly disappointed.
In a trado-African setting. A special importance
or acknowledgement has always been attached to
the male-child. I don’t understand the sentiments
shared. But the female-child is always secondary
and often relegated to the background.
But thanks to education and civilization. Thanks
to Mary Slessor too. We might still be killing
twins too. People are beginning to change their
views regards which particular sex holds the
highest importance. A child is a child. Boy or girl.
Accept what God gifts you. A child is a gift.
Howbeit, some folks are still primitive and still
hold on to certain cultural beliefs.
I’m a feminist. Maybe Like 70 or 80%. I’d discuss
why in my next post. But I believe that a woman
must be treated with utmost respect. Maybe
equal rights. Maybe equal liberty. But In most
instances, these vituperations are just. I admire
the strength of Oby Ezekwesili, Chimanda Adichie
(I’ve read her books), Odumakin and others too
that I don’t remember now. They’ve tried in their
own little but majestic ways by making their
voices known and heard. One of Chimanda’s work
even got to be featured on Beyoncé’s album, a
song titled flawless . But a lot still need to be
done in areas of orientation, sensitization and
building of self esteem. And taking this project to
the grassroots. Girls get punished for the same mistakes boys
commit while the boys gets away and move on. A
man will sanely impregnate a woman he doesn’t
have plans for but insanely scream her down to go
abort the resulting pregnancy. If I begin to go deep
into atrocities boys commit, I might lose the focal
of this post. So let me hold my horse.
Meanwhile. Men are physically strong. Maybe
mentally too. They are stereotypic. One mind, one
way. More aggressive in nature and selfish in
style. But women appear weak but they are rather
delicate. By default, they are built to absorb more
pressure, they are receptive, naturally resilient.
They take keen interest in little things and details.
They are hypersensitive. Maybe that’s why they
are jealous. But the summary is that they have a
mental edge over men.
But the truth be told. Moral decadence is high
and prevalent now. And it’s high time we put an
end to incessant rape cases, domestic violence,
women trafficking, kidnapping, body mutilation,
psychological and mental torture amidst many
more. A woman’s pain is enough. She is a
preserver of life, a gateway to unknown
generation. She is a gift. We need to open our
eyes and see them that way.
What can a man do? That a woman cannot do?
Actually there is one or two, maybe three. But
what a woman can do, a man cannot do half. A
man handles one objective at a time. But a
woman is born to multitask. A woman can pick
beans and breastfeed at the same time while
doing some light household chores systematically
together. She cooks, wash, iron and sings at the
same time. She can fry Akara for sale in the
morning, hawk moinmoin or vegetable in the
afternoon, fry oduku in the night, retires home to
cook dinner for her family and wakes up early to
do the same thing the next day.
Men cannot absorb pressure in the way God has
helped women to. Cannot house a baby for a
month talkless of give birth to one even without
the pain associated with it. The moment a girl
reaches puberty, the pressure from within and
without begins. For the guy, exuberance increases
with little or no pressure in comparison with the
girl. Above all, any degeneration in any society
affects the women and children more. They suffer.
That is where a man should be known but most
abscond from their responsibilities. Women are
the greatest casualties of war.
But times are changing. There is a reasonable
progress. Though slow, if not very slow. But the
arithmetic progression is impressive.
A man hustles. The woman hustles more. A guy
came out with a first class. A lady does too even
with distinctions. You are a breadwinner? A
woman brings food to the table too with fruits
and vegetables. Infact, they are plenty out there.
Divorced mothers and single moms will tell you
their ordeals. A woman is a manager, a natural
home maker. In some local or rural settlements,
the women go to farms while the husbands chill
out with friends, sipping on palmwine. I’ve seen
lady photographers before. I’ve seen lady
mechanics before. What’s new? We have male
professionals, the females aren’t sleeping these
days. Infact we are competing for the same
available resources and space. So cut some slack
and give that lady the respect she deserves.
Even women thrive in governance if given the
chance and right platforms to perform. But most
won’t believe me. Wait! I’d kill your doubts with
examples.
There is a positive correlation between equality
and economic growth. Countries that do not treat
women as second class citizens are often more
likely to prosper in a sustainable manner, and
thus is true regardless of the prevailing ideology
or religion of that country. Rwanda and the United
Arab Emirates are two classic examples. Both
countries rank high in comparative regional
gender equality surveys and both have
experienced an upward trend in economic
prowess and social development over the last 10
years and 40 years respectively. In the book
Flashes of Thought , the ruler of Dubai,
Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum, says of his
government: “our job is to provide an environment
that unlocks women’s potential- one that protects
their dignity and feminity, helps them create the
necessary balance in their lives, and values their
talents and potential. Given this environment, I
am confident that women will perform nothing
short of miracles.” To that end, 70 per cent of his
personal team are women, 65 percent of their
government employees are women and 30 percent
of the leadership positions are held by women.
Closer to home, let’s look at Rwanda. Since the
genocide ended over 10 years ago, women have
generally made up more than 50 percent of their
parliamentarians. Currently, approximately 63
percent of their members of parliament are
women. During that time, Rwanda has
experienced year-on-year GDP growth. Their GDP
per capita, their Gross National Income per capita,
their Agricultural Production Rate and food
production rate have all increased steady over
those years. this is no coincidence.
If you’re a man reading this. Never raise your
hand on a woman. Respect her choice or
decision. Respect a woman. Respect that lady. Help grow. Help her win.
And for the womenfolks reading this. I got your
back on this one. Start believing in yourself and in
what you can do. Meanwhile, I’m coming down
heavily on you in my next post.
Spread some cheers. It’s never too late to Inspire
someone today. https://oluomolale./2015/06/10/respect-that-woman/
EducationRe: University Of Ibadan Postgraduate Programme For 2015/2016 Session by phyktor(m): 12:11pm On Jun 07, 2015
YungMike:
Add me up on whatsapp -- 08065000615 Am a student there, will help in any info you need to the best of my knowledge. Will be creating a whatsapp group soonest with regards to the registration.
tnx man, looking forward to those info..leme even add yu
Jobs/VacanciesRe: GMAT For Free Download by phyktor(m): 8:27pm On May 29, 2015
plz forward it to ajalaoluvictor@gmail.com. tnx in anticipation
RomanceRe: The Worst Type Of People To Be In Relationship With. by phyktor(m): 1:40pm On Apr 13, 2015
bt someone will be with you with atleast a reason
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch A Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 1:30pm On Jan 03, 2015
#bin a long while...#hope we r all gud...#P O P so close...#God has bin gud.....#so good to go..
EducationRe: Nairalander Bags 1st Class From OAU, Wins Highest Number Of Awards. by phyktor(m): 1:10pm On Jan 03, 2015
congrats bro...i personally celebrate u....OAU firstclass no b beans..irrespective of d course
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Seekers: What Course Did You Study by phyktor(m): 11:38pm On Jan 01, 2015
B.sc biochemistry (ife)
NYSCPay Kwara Kopas Thier Alawee by phyktor(op): 8:21am On Sep 10, 2014
Dear Sir,
ACTS LIKELY TO CAUSE A BREACH OF PUBLIC PEACE IN KWARA STATE: ILORIN!
The above subject refers.
It is with a great dismay and sadness, we the Nigerian youth corpers serving in kwara state, wishes to bring to your notice that, we have not yet received our August Allowance as at 9th September, 2014.
This has become worrysome upon our investigations and discovery from our colleagues and counterparts from other states that, they have since received their allowances for the month in view(August). As we speak, we are currently stranded by way of starvation as there is no money to take care of the necessaries.
Pls sir, we urge u to kindly use your good office to ensure our payment promptly as further delay and denial of our allowances may degenerate to breach of public peace in Kwara State, Ilorin.
Thanks for your anticipated corporation.
Yours faithfully;
Signed: Kwara State Youth Corpers 2014 Batch
Pls kindly forward until it get to the appropriate Authority
NYSCRe: NYSC 2014 Batch A Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 9:27pm On Jan 06, 2014
dubsy20: Lol. The Boss himself!! I really enjoy the way u guys r keeping the hauz lively. We @ the ghostmode department are also keeping it lively dia too.... **runs out**
na xo... Proud memba...ghostmode department... @alhaji. Kulukulu.... Tempa...ur name z on d list..*runs out*.
NYSCRe: Wishes & Prayers For 2013 Batch C Corpers Enroute To Their Various Camps by phyktor(m): 4:48pm On Nov 05, 2013
Wishin u guys a fruitful & fulfilin service year.... Safe journi to n fro
Christianity EtcRe: Will Everyone Watch Our Life History On Judgement Day by phyktor(m): 1:30pm On Oct 13, 2013
Sermwell: Pls be sure there will be judgement day b4 asking dis question o!. Wat if there is notin like heaven,hell or judgement day?
and wat if there ishuh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Describe Yourself In Just One Word by phyktor(m): 4:22pm On Oct 12, 2013
Imcomperable
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Liverpool Vs Crystal Palace (3 - 1) ON 5th October 2013 by phyktor(m): 12:02pm On Oct 05, 2013
D prob is wu do u fink can best replace lucas?
PoliticsRe: ASUU Demanded For N3tn, Not N130bn by phyktor(m): 2:00pm On Oct 02, 2013
Rara o....dey won build more universities ni or wat.....itz so illogical n inrational at all....i doubt dz sha......
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 11:41pm On Sep 23, 2013
Deep sigh!
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 11:27pm On Sep 23, 2013
tunapa2009: Am not sure ooo!!!!! These are d ones I was able to get for now... I just confirmed it Chemistry and biochemistry are not on the list..
wtf!!! Oba adaniduro uni has done it again!
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 11:11pm On Sep 23, 2013
WinnieDPooh: OAU fit paste that list for this night ooo.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m):
Alenkakent: Mehn,bch? Abeg tell d guy to check my number for bch/2008/035.
Guys,no vex say i put matric number o. My blood dey hot
.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 10:50pm On Sep 23, 2013
tunapa2009: Accounting,ECN,SEC,IED, ECN,EFC,MEE, PHY(2006 matric no), POL, EGL(5 students), LG, ARCHI, PHARM, History, law, phe, qts, urp, zoo, biochemistry, botany, food science, DCE, MEE..
Note: not all students are mobilised in some depts...
Please if u want me to confirm ur name.. Please make it snapping...
hw many 4 bch?
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 10:04pm On Sep 23, 2013
Alenkakent: Abeg check if biochem dey there o. Thats all
Gbam!!
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 4:48pm On Sep 23, 2013
Toyde: Plateau state poly, Uniben, benue state univ, abia poly............whc skul is next?
Oau
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 4:20pm On Sep 23, 2013
Alenkakent: @winnie, any gist frm oau?
@toyde and themmy, yarn me tori o
i gues we av 2 wait till 2mao....itz 4 already
NYSCRe: NYSC 2013 Batch C Corp Members House by phyktor(m): 3:17pm On Sep 23, 2013
Opiosko: NA GOD! First to testify 20132424**. Gr8 Uniben. Thread mates, friends bros nd swt sis, i prophsy! una go testify soon in Jesus name.
gud one, congratz...big Amen 2 ur prayer

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