Family › Re: Fear Of Having A House Help by pickabeau1: 8:32pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: haves and haves not season 5? Sleepy hollow Flash |
Family › Re: Fear Of Having A House Help by pickabeau1: 8:09pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Fear Of Having A House Help by pickabeau1: 6:52pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
i don hear SAMBARRY: Like i said earlier she will be the one to determine how I will and should treat her depending on her actions. If she's good to my baby i will be good to her and if the reverse is the case she too go hear am. It's a simple matter of do me i do you law . No need for sentiments or putting me on a guilt trip. E no go work |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 6:42pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Ikanium: just the school fees Year one 36,000 Year two 27,000 Ok i sent u an email |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 2:40pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
This is good
Can you tell me what you paid in Year 1 and 2 as per School Fees |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 2:23pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Ikanium: i sent you a mail Sir i have seen your email Put the breakdown here |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 2:00pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
very good
This shows you are a student
You can remove it
It remains your last results and how much do you need |
Family › Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by pickabeau1: 12:00pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
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Family › Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by pickabeau1: 11:42am On Jan 28, 2015 |
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Family › Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by pickabeau1: 8:34am On Jan 28, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Must A Married Woman Be Monogamous? by pickabeau1: 8:21am On Jan 28, 2015 |
What of a married woman in polyandry |
Family › Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by pickabeau1: 8:05am On Jan 28, 2015 |
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Family › Re: A Wife's Greatest Weapon. by pickabeau1: 6:23am On Jan 28, 2015 |
Lateralmaths: In the bible Sarah called Abraham her lord. Is that not submission? Women these days will say it's a master slave relationship. Its like you are new here The anathema here is one word that begins with S |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 8:38pm On Jan 27, 2015*. Modified: 8:12am On Jan 28, 2015 |
Ikanium: i shall do as requested tomorrow morning God's grace thank you sir Ok.. remove my email from your post when u are done |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 7:57pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
dominique: Not this time around. It was the first time ok |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 7:23pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Dominique
I noticed you've been involved in supporting him Are you privy to his results |
Family › Re: Thank You All.. by pickabeau1: 6:07pm On Jan 27, 2015*. Modified: 6:33am On Jan 28, 2015 |
Ikanium: Sir the said laptop was a 14 inch London used Dell latitude the mouse wasn't working well. my aim was to use it for printing out original jamb results and printing of admission letters for new students i told the guy this and he obliged to give me but, I needed to pay my fees it was out of pity a guy even offered 23,000 for it the other guys i took it to were offering me 15,000 some 17,000.
Here is the break down of every thing i got, Ma'am somebody gave me 60,000, ma'am Dominique gave me 2,000, another man gave me 5,000 this is all i had.... my fees was 36,000, I paid for my hostel which was 15,000, i bought a bunk plus a mattress for 3,000, i paid other departmental dues, faculty dues, GST fees it cost me about 5,000, i was left with 6,000 i then bought some food stuff i was left with just 3,000 this was all i had i was still paying for materials and photocopying some....
Our results are being pasted on the board we go there to check
I have been following the importation thread for a while now i just need capital i plan to import female shoes, bags, wrist watches, jewellery, power banks, as this is a school environment i believe this will sell.. I will buy them from China, inform some of my female friends / course mates of my product i can even bring them to class in bag and sell them this are my plans Sir thank you sir
Thanks for your response However ur explanation is a bit jumbled. This is a very important skill you need to learn - presentation Can you collate it in simple like items From here I see you got 67k in your first year
Donations - 67,000 Expenses School Fees - 36,000 Hostel - 15,000 Bunk + Matt - 3,000 Dept Fees - 5,0000 Total Expenses - 59,000 Balance - 8,000 Obviously most of it was spent on incidentals So the next year 2 your laptop was used
So now I have the next question for you 1. How much is your school fees and where is the evidence of school fees paid in Year 1 and 2 2. I asked for your most recent result - provide the last result you have - you can send it to @gmail.com 3. You have not mentioned how much the seed capital for importation is and how confident you will be able to manage this biz considering this is something new to you |
Family › Re: Is It Right For Me To Help My Girl Friend Find A Job? by pickabeau1: 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
topcube: 10Q. I do not think she can do any business, I only want to satisfy her doubt (may be) for the last time anyway & set her up for recharge card business.
My objectives of opening this thread are 1. Would it be good or would she not be offended if I advice & get her Circular job, i.e. Office Asst., Sales Girl etc? 2. Am I on the right track, haven't been a graduate and work in a well established org. marry such a lady in the name of helping her?
Pls, note that I am taking into consideration that quote that says "Never marry out of pity". She has failed twice Let her work for a while and raise part of the capital to do her business idea. You can support with the rest If you can't take the time to upgrade forget her romantically and render the help to let her stand on her own feet. |
Family › Re: Is It Right For Me To Help My Girl Friend Find A Job? by pickabeau1: 4:03pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
So she has failed with two biz ideas, why do you think she can do any business topcube: Thank you for your positive contribution. I had previously taugt of that also, and I had taugt of setting her up for recharge cards business.
The other time she said she knew how to do bid (local jewries), I gave her money to buy the materials & start, within a month, the lucrative business became a tale, there was another day she suggested starting a Computer Business Center, I sent her to a Comp. training school, but, she couldn't cope due to her low IQ, I'm currently putting her through on some applications i.e. Ms Word, CorelDraw, Excel etc after paying for her 6 months training. All of this are eaten me up. That's why I am here for matured mind like you to advice.
I cannot imaging some people thinking, I don't love her or I am kettle calling pot black, I do not need to write an Autograph for me to prove a case or seek counsel. |
Family › Re: Fear Of Having A House Help by pickabeau1: 3:48pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Whatever! It's my daughter we are talking about and not just anybody. It's the house help that will determine the way i will treat her. If she treats my baby right i will also treat her right but if she abuses my baby i will also unleash on her. So issues like this are subjective So threats of violence or violence is justified where your daughter is concerned yet you come her ranting about the evils of abuse That means you are not different from those who can seat their housemaids on hot stove or beat them Is that not hypocrisy Ow-KAY |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 3:34pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Originalsly: @pickabeau....you asked me to suggest alternative treatments for you and the house to consider...I provided the link for you to get all the info you need...where did I vo wrong? @Ochon....if you had read the article you would've known no medical doctor or expert is needed to provide and administer the treatment. Don't ever close your mind that medical doctors always know best and are the only ones capable of dealing with health issues. Its not to suggest a treatment A treatment plan is needed which can be understood by everyone especially Hammed's brother and whomever will be mandated by the House to support and provide updates Do you get now |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:57pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Originalsly: Google. Aloe Aborescens- Alternative Cancer Treatments- Cancer Tutor. You can follow up on cancer tutor to learn more about the effectiveness of these treatments compared with chemo and other othrodox treatments.I posted this earlier. Medical doctors are generally banned from suggesting alternative treatments so don't even think about consulting hospital doctors about this. This is not about google You are free to propose an alternate therapy which can be tabled to this House for deliberation ochon: Mehn!! I'm just weak. Let's forget about updates for now then. and get his treatment started. Anytime we receive updates,we'll make do with it. His health is the most important priority not updates. If the house gives the go ahead on the chemo option and provides volunteers So far we only two volunteers |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:56pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
MoltenMagma: How can chemo be an option when the location/origin of the cancer hasn't been identified? Chemo in my opinion should be crossed out, and palliative treatment should be our focus. Can you provide more information on the alternative therapy for the house to deliberate upon |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:39pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Originalsly: If I could you didn't had to ask...I would've been there ages ago. I am farr removed from Lagos. ok.. no problem Can you provide more information on the alternative therapy for the house to deliberate upon |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:28pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Originalsly: Bro...I get that. Alternative treatment was a suggestion I put to the house. It was not taken up and I said fine...,that's history. My questions were based on the agreed way forward which is chemo. At the bolded...I know that...that's why I keep saying expected outcome. Same as if you get on a bus from Lagos going to Aba....your expected destination is Aba...but there is no guarantee the bus will take you there. I'm asking for the epected destination...and that seems to be a big problem. Dude/woman.. whichever you are You are not listening Alutacontinua clarified to you that you are free to suggest alternative treatments to the house as that has to be approved by the house Bring a plan of alternative therapy and the house will consider it |
Family › Re: Woman Turns 40, Had No Man...and Decided To Marry Herself. See Her Wedding Pics by pickabeau1: 2:26pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
 5minsmadness:
 @second pic, her mama be like, which kine mumu pikin I born so?  |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:15pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Can you be available to accompany Hammed for one of the sessions?
Originalsly |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 2:14pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
ochon: 1. Thank God is mere hearsays. Yes it was hearsay yet it was the basis for the harassment and allegations made 2. Chai!! Wahala dey o.  If we can't get updates or the doctors' informations regarding their progress, then confusion and unrest will arise. This situation is critical. This is sad. Oga Pick, is there a way to see if a doctor can write down the progress of the treatment which an internet savvy neighbour or family member can then come online to update? Because without update (or with a wrong update), this project won't work out. Accusations will fill up the thread. This is possible and can be explored When i went to see the patient, I asked the brother why there was not much more visible involvement than what we were seeing I was told the other people are either incapacitated financially or in scattered places around. He is also not as internet savvy as you or anyone here so. He himself had to be available in a haphazard manner as he works daily You will do well to remember they considered a tradomedicinal outfit before TeHN took over If he does not work,he cannot earn hene the field worker had to stop everything for this He could not partake in the Xmas or New Year activities with his family |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1(op): 1:45pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Good suggestions However it is pertinent to note the following 1. on the emmy sexy handle --> all she said based on hearsay, demsay demsay DJdola has been posting with his handle not anyone or his brother 2. His brother may not be internet savvy to have an account. That was my impression when i met him He can update any of the volunteers or coordinating team by phone who can make updates. ochon: Okay, I get you. I only explored that option because I think the larger the audience, the greater the chances of getting more volunteers. But if this thread is enough, then let's carry on with it.
I think in regards to options and treatment, I feel TeHN should carry on with LLC option immediately along with option A (DJ's brother). Stage 4 cancer is very serious. The house hasn't come to general consensus on what course of action to take and time is ticking away. If the NY appraisal suggest we move on with Chemo, then since they're professionals and the funds to cover the expenses are ready, let's move on with it. Delay is dangerous. We can't keep talking while DJ is hapless.
For now, till option B (new team) is possible, option A is our only choice. The truth is, no matter if a new team will be assembled or not, no matter the number of volunteers we'll get, DJ's brother/family is/are our number one DEFAULT VOLUNTEER(S). He's been there all through before TeHN's volunteers took a step back. He'll always be at DJ's side no matter the number of volunteers. So if you ask me, whether option A or B, DJ's brother is the common factor. He knows the extent you guys have gone, knows the hospitals locations. The doctors know him too. He can do this. He can be in charge till the volunteers or new team arrives. If TeHN or we, weren't around but they (DJ's family) have the funds, will they fold their hands and watch him die? The answer is no!! So DJ's brother can do this till others can join him.
I think 50-60% of this job has been done. All he needs to do is get DJ into a private cab on the days he's needed, take him to hospital, stay with him for the day (or probably two days) of the treatment, get information from the doctors (probably written down by them in order not to misquote them), take him back to the house where DJ will be in the care of his family till the next trip, then come online and update us with the happenings and attend to our questions. DJ's brother can do this, he has no choice for now. We're limited for now. I'm sure others will willingly help as time goes on. I believe before the end of the 18 weeks, by the grace of God, DJ will even be more stronger to update us or go on his own. Typing without any definitive action is bad. While we wait on the volunteers, let his brother get him to LCC fast. Thank God he won't be staying in the hospital more than 2 days. So the care on DJ can come from his family watching over him constantly.
Lest I forget, DJ's brother must create his own handle and never use DJ's handle to update us. So that the issue Emmysexy raised about DJ not being the one that is commenting with his handle can be reduced. It's not a foolproof plan but it can help sha. So we can be able to ascertain updates by DJ or his brother. Also, if we can get more than 6 volunteers, it'll be better. We never can tell if unforseen circumstances can make a volunteer not to be chanced on the day he or she is needed.
This is my opinion, I hope one or two things from it can help. |
Family › Re: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by pickabeau1: 1:41pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emilyone: I saw the video. someone sent it to me through whatsapp.
The woman sabi lick lollypop well
She's a pro. Do the needful edu10ment: can someone send a thread or link to the de tape to enable usage informed decisions? Thanks.. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by pickabeau1: 1:38pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Roland17: God bless you for researching, the Europa league and champions league have both gone past qualifying rounds, thus by the Rule book Paulista is ineligible to compete in the Champions League for Arsenal.. Yep this was clear Thats why arsene could use Nasri in qualifying before he was sold to Man City |