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Impressive

I enjoyed the write up

I wish you better luck next time with other channels

City44:
Not just a writer, but a Lawyer and an author of over ten (10) books, with five published books. But I like to just remain anonymous here. I don't think I can reveal my identity here.

So when some people make some unguarded comments here, I just look at them and laugh! Anyway, life is all about learning everyday!

shinejackie:
@TeHN, l do understand the challenges you guys have had to contend with daily in an effort to offer the best to Dj, l also know it can be very frustrating doing these kind of volunteer work because you guys also have your personal and family life to deal with, but looking at the whole drama viz a viz all that has happened since TeHN took over, l will plead with the entire group to continue because it will be pretty hard for Dj's family to do the running around alone, so TeHN please don't back off at this stage, thanks once again to the entire group....jaybee3, picabeau1,Caracta,OAM4J and others that l fail to mention...............God bless you guys plenty.......

Thanks for the words
If you telling us to continue is one option..which i call option Z for now
Please what is your preferred option out of the remaining options

Let me enumerate them again

Lastly, TeHN would like to take a step back as we simply don’t have the resource to continue to help manage the case going forward. In light of this, we would also like you to consider and endorse your preferred choice on how the case is managed going forward

Option A
To delegate all responsibility to DJ’s brother – DJ’s brother has been extremely helpful all through the way and he is conversant with all processes as well as locations.
TeHN would transfer the remaining budget to DJ’s family and whatever support we might have as a group will be provided as individuals as of when needed

Option B
NLers to come up with a dedicated project team that’s capable of moving the project forward -
TeHN would be able to provide mechanism for funds collection and disbursement with this option but our involvement will be restricted to that alone

Gboliwe:
There are no other options Sir. Everything hinges on TeHN handling this and if they continue, all we ask is regular updates and we give the encouragement and suggestions.

ok

Gboliwe:
That's exactly what I addressed with my first post. Please, that is not an option.

However this is not an option that we want to consider as we have made the decision as a group
We need your views on the other options.

She had shown she was ill mannered and her response to the rejection showed that even more

Dont look back.. that was a bullet dodged

Please tag me when you post the thread on scammer ladies

Also are u a writer?

City44:
Thanks for ur comments.

Yes I ended the call immediately I noticed her rude attitude and I stated this in my write-up. But she was desperate for a relationship which I was no longer interested in. But instead of her to let me be, she felt she had lost out and started sending very offensive and insultive text messages to me.

I was pissed off and that was why I had to write the story and post it here to teach her a lesson and for people to learn from it. There is nobody that will not be pissed off by such behavior.

As for my experiences with scammer girls, I will try to open a thread and share some of them if I have the time, but I'm already writing some of them in one of my books which will be out later.

We need to expose and stop these scammer girls.

moca:
Thanks for ur answer.

Which means tehn won't venture into health related matters in d future?

Yes

olu4life:
I think I have to backdown abit since some of u have comprehension problem.
But in summary lemme rephrase all i've said today
1. If u go through my post in d previous page,I clearly stated that the brother's option is out of the question
2. I questioned why TEHN is backing down and not in support of it. Re-read my posts in case u doubt this point

Those are the options we have taken as a group considering our capabilities and the fact that we simply don’t have the resource to continue to help manage the case going forward.

3. I suggested the India option but seems suggestion is now a bad thing to do.

We did not rule out the India option but said the new proposed team can consider it but we are not pursuing that angle based on our recommendations from the doctors (both LCC and those assisting us via email)

For those of us old enough and for afficionados of good music
Let me treat you to some Youth Musicality

been listening to this jams all lat week and this week so far

Rude bwoisss


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yc6ztgbjeiw


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFtLONl4cNc

Im Sixteen and amma bullet in your heart

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_pTNO5IzyI

coogar:
she's suffering from asperger syndrome.
it's not really her fault for acting that way, it's one of the symptoms of her condition.

So whats your plan of action
Do you want to call off the union as the family has been stubborn on this action

StanleyDivine:
Your assumptions baffle logic. I ve known her for 4yrs + and I lived with her for almost 2yrs. The parents had a year to find at whateva "sinister" u assumed before approving the wedding. How then did u come to the conclusion that they acted promptly? Could u please explain how I cud ve cajoled them into allowing the marriage?

Problem started when my father-in-law, after the wedding, asked me to sleep-over in his place against the tradition of going home with my wife and my people refused to concede. He flared up,locked up my wife and has been insisting on calling off the union.

HAHAHA

Just watched it

So funny

The guy is feeling so fly and the transgendered just wants to rain on his parade
She may be a lone ranger

Coogar
Tell us more about this beefed up woman

TV video link embedded


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Sfs9h3bIDg

will watch and comment later

TV01

City44

i enjoyed the post
You should have ended the phone once you saw her reluctance to give you her facebook ID
Her poor writing is not a fuction of her university status

She may jux be a SMS writer

Try other channels to find a date- recommendations, family etc

You are a good narrator

Can you open a thread on your experience with scammic ladies

We will learn from there too

Good support for Djdola's mum
Thanks House

gbadexy:
l doubt if any sane person here would complain if say 200k is given to his mum for empowerment. so far it is clearly stated.
Even if all the money is used for treatment and exhausted, request for more donations would be made so why not accomodate for the scheme that will improve his quality of life.

Don't bring statements like sanity to an already charged thread.

Calm down and be circumspect with your words

Empowerment will be considered.

You are also free to help the family in any capacity you see fit

gbadexy:
My brother, setting aside N100,000 for his mum asap shouldnt be too difficult notwithstanding your concerns for his trestment.
Do you know what it took for him to still come out to admit he wanted to ask but doesnt know how too? After treatment, wont he eat? abi doing little things that would reduce unnecessary worries too wont improve his morale and fighting spirit.
l know some people willing to assist in that regards but doesnt want to bypass tehn. l didnt think request like these needed to have been harped on repeatedly. lt doesnt even needed to have been suggested openly before it should have been noticed and done!

I don't recall any directive from tehn saying all assistance to help Hammed should come from us.

You or anyone interested is at liberty to provide any help for his family.

Please tell the person or persons to donate to hammed freely if they don't want go through tehn.


Before now, our focus was his health.
if any monies were provided to him by us for any purpose aside his health, another round of second guessing will start.

Monies for logistics were queried
Imagine what manner of furore will erupt with a line item of 70/100k or 200k?

SAMBARRY:
yes to scare them from perpetrating evil

So to you the best way to keep your child's minder in line is to use threats and violence then you come online to rant when you see cases of domestic abuse...


Such standards

Choi.....see haters just multiply as Brighton score second goal....

OK ooooo

Akpom can do better Na...

What the!!!

Ozilari

Lovely cross from chambers

Nice take down by walcott

More of that from him

EnlightenedSoul:
Sounds like you like your movies. I went out to see the one I told you about, and I gotta say I'm surprised we sat through the entire thing. It was wayyy more focused on the marriage life of Stephen Hawking than his work (I guess I should've paid more attention to the previews).

I don't know when I'll get to watch my next. It's a damn near struggle to find proper time, and I apparently suck at picking them when I do.

Yes I do like movies and tvshows

Hawking?
That guy is a genius but his theories are too advanced for everyday life lol

SAMBARRY:
@ The capitalized story for the gods. Your treating them right doesn't determine or limit what they can do or what they will do so the best thing to do is to create an air of fear when they are with you so that if they are entertaining anything stooped the fear of what they know you can do to their bodies will not let them dare it. E.g plugging hot pressing iron on their body till the mark shows . rubbish!

Are you saying the threat of violence against maids is good?

Logging in

Debosky

Since you r satisfied with Walcott and his mediocrity, just pray we do the needful against Brighton

Chelsea n City r already out so chances of retention are looking brighter

debosky:
Gradual descent into lunacy.

Henry having a lot to teach Walcott isn't/was never the issue - the strike force combined output is the comparison. The 2006 strike force was comparable in terms of output with the one today - unfortunately simple folk like you can't differentiate past performance from current performance. Complete lack of perspective.

There's no lunacy here..dude
Except that of continually performing the same action year in year out and expecting a different result....

Anyways.....whether Na simple or complicated... Walcott is not yet ready to be mentioned in the same breath as Henry.

If you like analyse that

Have fun

EnlightenedSoul:
I did, thanks.

Was it any good? The last one I watched (The Theory of Everything) was a disappointment to say the least.

Eventually watched another

Alexander and the Not Good Terrible Bad Day

Superfunny

EnlightenedSoul:
It looks like the research may be of benefit to Nigerian men after all lol (seriously tho).

Anyway, I hope you're having yourself a good day. The rare afternoon nap beckons...

Lol

I am...

About to watch a movie . Plastic
Looks fun

Will poultier....

Enjoy d nap

EnlightenedSoul:
Oh I know, I'm JS. It seems to be the general consensus on here.

Lol

EnlightenedSoul:
Conceiving/Having 'future children' without women

If you don't intend, or want, to support a certain member of your family - only the future kids, and not the mere 'toto' they come from - what better way than this?

Oh...I remember now
Thats not my personal view anyway