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So after all the issues raised

No suggestion has been raised so far aside what has been said so far by the report on Monday to confirm the primary source.

It is important to state that babyosisi and other doctors on NL has been consulted every step of the way.
I was the one who went there on Monday and wrote the report however I am not a doctor so there is little I can ask other than what one is told.


We have asked for a doctor to come in and support the team on ground..nothing

Yet the current hospital is being criticised

Which way

We need clear steps forward on the following

1. A doctor on ground to help with making sense of all the tests n ask probing questions

2.Hamed wants to become an outpatient..what next

3.further tests may be required to identify the primary source.


CONCRETE IDEAS ARE NEEDED NOT BASELESS CRITICISMS THAT ADD NO VALUE.

Keky:
I want Bayern or Madrid!!!! Bleep you UEFA!!!

Josef

chidyhels:
I won't blame the hospital. There need to do every test possible .


I had an uncle that had similar issue, it took yrs of diagnosis, back and front,before TB was discovered in his Spinal cord.

Life of more important here. The hospital is doing what they are supposed to do.

Thanks for stating this.

We know the process has taken a while but time and careful effort is necessary

Equality

Some girls have a bright future behind them.

Timbuktou:
A "r@pe victim" named names and gave a touching account of an assault that never happened and what was supposed to be a respectable institution was vilified for the sake of someone's words. Her story was published in the Rolling Stone and the world ran with it:

www.rollingstone.com/culture/features/a-rape-on-campus-20141119

And then the Washington Post tried to do some "justice" to it:

www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/u-va-students-put-their-names-to-account-of-attack-aftermath/2014/12/12/ea83fcce-822b-11e4-9f38-95a187e4c1f7_story.html

Ok..will read it later

Timbuktou:
A misdemeanour, you say? Lol. You're being too generous with people's liberties there. Going by this bill, every human should be in jail for almost every lie they tell, because humans lie for benefit which wouldn't probably be eligible for if they were forthright.

Exactly

About the "real r@pists", is it a dearth of elements in this group that has led to a rise in false sexu@l assault claims? Heard about Jackie from University of Virginia?

No..what happened

While seemingly absurd it's a way forward in trying to ensure consent given is given in a transparent manner


The issue now is what enter mines a reasonable measure of expectation before you can say a lady was not defrauded


If I own a jalopy but she assumed I owned a limo..can she sue for râpe

If I live like a boss but am a credit case can I be sued

The boundaries are limitless and depends on what the woman will think is a good level for a man that she will have given consent to
Where does it stop

At best the issue should be a misdemeanor
The real râpists need to be caught

aisha2:
Okay great.
Lol, in fairness to the guy I called him we sat and talked. He said he went to look for money I didnt believe him but I gave him counseling. He was a security guard and his boss who came back to Nigeria when the boy was like 1 and a half heard the story and practically adopted him. Even though the relationship didn't work out between them the boy is fine and great

We guys have to step up and take care of our kids
Or better ensure a kid never gets into the picture

It is well

U

aisha2:
Thank you for all your efforts. I Hope we can round up today and money disbursed tomorrow knowing banks it can take 24 hours before transfer is conplete and Christmas don reach

Let's hope so
We only have one response to the verification email
The others promised something today
Let's see

10 years old..wow

Some fathers damn

3 additional responses gotten and verification Emails sent

Let's hope this can be rounded off by tomorrow or day after

Thanks for the name
You are a darling lady also

Let your fire continue to burn bright

MizMyColi

babestell:
Online charity can be abused......all you need are pictures plus a really nice sob story and the scammers will have a field day. Am very wary of doing it.
I didn't see the post where the essay was waived,

Ok....that is why there are some criteria to try to sieve

Your point on online giving is noted

merit12:
Op howfar you?

You only told us about the abuse side of the story .


Wetin u do the woman.(Did she found out you been sleeping with your neighour or have 3kids outside)

What would have resulted let's hear your own fault.

Team black women

If this is true
Don't you think she should walk away from the relationship rather than go physical since she is not respected as a woman

..

alutacontinua:
I did not say divorce. I said SEPARATION.
Truth is there will be no next person after she lands bottle on your head and kill you, will there?


You need to show this woman some tough love, man! No offence but your manhood has been thrown in the gutter, you need to get it back WITHOUT DIVORCING HER! Send her back to her father's house for 2 months!


Sagamite, shymexx, coogar, TV01 this is one situation where I wouldn't mind y'alls methods
what arrant nonsense!

Dayum
First harsh words I heard from you
Lol

alutacontinua:
You need a separation from that woman.

1. That woman fit hit you with stick or land table or bottle on your head one day.
2. When a woman raises her hand to slap a man, all atom-and I mean every single grain of respect is gone in that marriage. My people call it 'see finish', and you ain't getting that respect back anytime soon.
3. The fact that this is her second time means she'll most likely keep doing it till Jesus comes.
This is one situation where I'll say you probably need to send her back to her father for some retraining (like coogar will say)

You are a woman hater for suggesting this

^^^^
Choi...
See analysis

I call this DNAnalysis

Op
You have not really said what the issue is
How long does he want them to raise your kid
This story has holes

kushsy:
This is great but picture of when pregnant? Most single men were never really never happy during the pregnancy period I doubt if they had the opportunity to take pictures except included widow and divorcee and Single mum by intent..on the whole a good gesture..my thoughts

Whatever they have
Let them submit

babestell:
Please those of us castigating rman should take try and understand his perspective. pickabeau1 thanks for replying him maturedly, even to me I think it is odd that u want a single mother to write essay. But then its their (donors) money and they call the shots. Christian charity clearly exholts anonymous charity and that is what he is suggesting,

There is a possibility that this may turn out of hand when the fraudsters start to capitalise on it.

BTW what happened to TEHN?

Madam

If.you reviewed the emails
It was mentioned that the sponsor had waived the essay right on the first day

I engaged your man to give ideas but he seemed to just want to criticize

I get your point on anon giving
Do you also believe that online giving should be stopped.

Seems a number of people are not fans of online giving

So far only one person has responded to the verification email

Another person has said she will get the documentation on Monday

We are waiting for the other two to respond

Our pool can accommodate some more

The survey will be reopened early next week

Gboliwe:
How can you be so sure?

Anyway, point is, I prefer online charity to offline. I'd rather help someone from this community than the one I see around. Its a personal decision and nobody should get angry when I decide to act on it.

I feel you

edwife:
Thanks pickabeau

Thanks pls unquote me because of the email

shinejackie:
.

True....

Yes

Gboliwe:
Yes I know and that's what the starters of this thread and the donors are doing in this small way- giving criteria for their help. In a more organised form, using NL as an example, TeHN fills in on that.

And I'm sure you are aware of the issues around Tehn


Edwife
Please contact aisha2 on aishagift@outlook.com

rman:
Exactly the kind of response I was expecting from the supporter club.

@Aisha2, apologies for being the devils advocate on your thread.

@others,

Enjoy your weekend.

I don't think there is a supporter club here

You have not responded to the last post I made

Playing devils advocate is about ensuring there is balance

You highlighted the use of the admin and super mod but in the absence of that what alternative is there?