₦airaland Forum

edoyad:
Just like every neutral should want it

Except you r lewis or his fan boy

Palpitations of the heart

Bimfo:
Why did Klaus kill his real father? Them curse this guy

Yes he is cursed

Seeing his dead body crushed Esther
Maybe she is right after all


Tvd is getting boring... I'm surprised everybody is whining now

I said it since they brought up Silas...season 4/5

The best episode was season 3

Mystic falls vs Klaus

Choi........

See finishing move

Emaprince:
Useless thread!!!

Women will always keep discussing about men cheating when majority of them here tells us that they(women) cheats more than men...infact,they aren't lieing at all!..

I've seen naija ladies discussing men issue..saying that there's nothing like having a man you will call your own..smh...all these ladies I'm talking about has two to three boyfriends plus other men that get quickies..I looked at them and wondered why a woman will lead a slu.tty life only to demand for a mumu faithful husband...thunder fire all of una there!!!..
You women need to learn how to be faithful and content with what you have too...I don't think slu.tty naija women deserves any faithful husband because when they get one,they will start taking him for granted and may even start playing the game since she's very sure that the mumu husband won't stray...
Y'all just need to work on your wh.orish lives first and stop being obsessed with men..

zoelife:
. Divorce? Alimony? Yes, good for the now. But the divorce rates keep climbing. The marriage institution daily eroding. I think the divorce solution has in a way urged overcasual sex, homosexuality, singleparenthood and in extremes, heterosexuality. Our kids Can't we work on a more lasting, albeit slow solution?

That horse has since bolted
The marriage institution is on a slippry slope downwards

There is no lastin solution as long as the parties in the Union are human and imperfect.

bukatyne:
That is an option too

I guess due to pregnancy, she cannot do white so just trad & court.

30K should take care of court and 100K take care of trad depending on the culture and bribe price

Don't mind that poster jor

Edited:

Went back to OP:

Just working and wedding end of this month?

I doubt he can cope.

That's why I don't support loan..

bukatyne:
If he borrows about N500,000K he is paying back 40+ monthly. He still has 150+ to play around with.

This is a shotgun wedding so I doubt the option of saving till he can afford it and the wifey to be contributing because she is still a student though her family still has to pay their part.

I will just advice he lends what he can pay back without a dip in his resources.

Well...its an option...
If he wants to marry the girl....let him do a registry and a small read

bukatyne:
Don't worry, police is coming to catch you on whatsapp

LOL

Space for sale

In case...


Post...

I wish him the best ..from here na straight to heaven

Gboliwe:
@ 1stcitizen, you will be positioning yourself for great failure if you stop helping people who God brings along your path. Kai! Please don't shortchange yourself. Keep helping, keep on being kind, keep doing good. Only God rewards. Don't mind men, the bible say their hearts are desperately evil.

I agree.....
For some have met angels that way

Lot
Abraham
Etc

GoodFaith:
The mentality of Nigerians in diaspora is so backward, it is a shame, Call me Dr. with PHD, Call me Sir, Eng

Lol
They r more Nigerian than they care to admit
Anyhow......there is room for improvement for everyone

GoodFaith:
"Just like the Nigerians in diaspora who hate everything back home once they are opportuned to leave the shores of naija"
Nigerians in diaspora-- Over the last 15 years the Nigerians in diaspora values are = to the Nigerian back home

I don't get you

bukatyne:
He earns well and can sustain his family according to the OP but needs the more in bulk for the wedding ceremony

@OP: Your 'friend' can open a bank account with FCMB and take a loan of N500,000 or N600,000 and pay back in one year

Still not a good idea to borrow
What if an emergency ensues just after the wedding

lovelyronke20:
That's all for now, if you know any one else let me know or add to the list..

You are being sexist

Can we have female billionaires who married younger men to balance the equation

1stCitizen:
I have never expected thank you from those I help or any recompense. It makes me feel good knowing I could be of help. It also makes me feel bad when such people treat you shabbily when the only thing you did wrong was help them.

If I give you details of what I have suffered recently in the hands of someone I tried to help you will never want to help anyone again.

Good

I understand you

Continue to help

zoelife:
Hmmm, dis matter strong o. I've followed this post till dis point and I came to 2 conclusions. Its either Men learn and start deciding to stop cheating (on their own, not because women now cheat too). Or, the women will have to accept it as always (will we?) Its really sad!

No..one more option

Women don't tolerate cheats and leave marriages right away
That way those who don't want to mess up or lose via alimony or destroy their home don't cheat or hide it well

edoyad:
Where are those who were ranting that Rosberg didn't stand a chance ? Hamilton finishing lower than second hands Rosberg the title cos I know if Hamilton doesn't win the race, Rosbeg will.

Season finale....

Just like Bernie wanted it

1stCitizen

The woman did bad but it does not mean you shouldn't help people again
There is a blessing which comes from helping people especially with no recompense

Never borrow to execute a wedding

Make do with what you have

If he is borrowing for wedding what of the accommodation or baby items

Lol..

This obsession with men on NL

First it was happy married men
Then caring married men
Now faithful....

Which quality will our happy married women alight on next?

Interesting....

naijababe:
Amen. And I am the one throwing insults ? Why some of you are so darn defensive is what I don't get?

OK..you win
I'm not defensive.. But you win

majekdom2:
the issue the lady even brought up is not about naija men, I never supported cheating. If its cheating is exclusive to NAIA ten bill Cosby who is having a tough time now, tiger woods, David beck ham , bill Clinton , Francois Hollander must all have their roots from nigeria.

I guess they do come from naija
LOL

naijababe:
'I admit, I didn't see your previous post' would be nicer but heck that's asking for too much now. And saying you are presumptuous when you are is now an insult too?

Go in peace too and God's speed while you are at it.

Frankly I did not see your post and your aforementioned post has no relevance to the post you mentioned...

All I said was simple..if women come up to demonise naija men as cheats because they r not exposed or being around other nationalities.. You should know better ...suddenly I'm presumptive?


Same to you...Godspeed

majekdom2:
its always a sad seeing a black man talk down his race simply because he or she mixed with some ill percentage of that race. The truth is majority abroad that talk this way don't even mingle,spend time , discuss life issues with these foreigers .90 percent relate closely with their fellow blacks wherever they are ... Been there. If nigeria men are ill , she can ask south African babes about their guys. I had friend in SA who says she can ever end up with a South African man because they don't respect women. We need to relate internationally before making assumptions.

I agree perfectly
Its the way it is...

If you put up examples of whites who cheats or those who engage in serial monogamy, these cats will still say you are looking for excuses for naija men

No need to bother convincing them

naijababe:
You are so presumptious even when you don't need to be. I guess the above post from yesterday was written while I was sleepposting The mind really does boggle

Now its resorting to insults....ok

Go In peace..I dont have strength for back n forth

Don't mention the info..she will say u set her up

Move on

She defriended you..delete her contacts n move on

Help the next person you meet

Strange

naijababe:
You know it would be really nice if you just admit that majority of cheating naija men act like it is their God given right to do so, they hardly show any remorse and would give all sorts of reasons for cheating rather than just admit they were wrong and apologise. If a man wants to marry another wife, he should be bold enough to say and do it instead of gallivanting around with side chick(s).

For someone like you who is a NID to also come out n say cheating is exclusive to naija guys also is mindboggling.


For the unexposed yes...its understandable

To your post...I know of few people who are unrepentant n find excuses up and down

Majority I meet either avoid cheating outright or make sure they don't let the wife know

urheme:
in fact my sister, the Nigeria man is the only man I see that can keep a very hateful woman for a wife once he gets happiness outside, don,t sleep with him, don't cook, don,t wash his clothes, forget he exist, he will still keep you as a wife even when he has plenty of them

not all though, but is funny

I'm not a sister...

Humans have issues..no one is perfect

bukatyne:
Bros,
I don't deify anybody

OK...but its easy to demonise our own.....

no need convincing u otherwise

as i said before......



with time we will all know better that the whites we deify are no better

bukatyne:
The issue is not that these things are exclusive to Nigerians...

The fact is that they are been justified is odd for a 'religious' country

There is a stark difference between 'I am a liar, I need to change' and 'There is nothing wrong in lying for me because I am a man/woman/child' etc. and others must NOT lie!

Who thinks like that?

A Nig

we all wish for improvement but the rants against naija gets too much
what i see here are things which happen in other places

its not unique here..

The exposed ones should know better

bukatyne:
I do not have anything against Nigeria; I am a proud Nigeria ( I am glad I was born a Nigerian .. Lara George)

I have issues against some Nigerian way of life

2 different things

I am sure other nationalities have their issues too however, I am only concerned with Nigeria

welldone bro


lets hope foe her support n favourable news from the second source

naijadeyhia:
Hi folks make una no vex for me o. I have been extremely busy hence my inability to catch up on this thread. However I was not too busy to meet with the ogun state house of reps runner as I promised. Met with her yesterday and not on monday as scheduled. She told me that she read through both the old thread and this one and was deeply touched by what she saw. She promised that her foundation will make a sizeable donation to DJ. She said the name of the foundation is EBUNOLUWA FOUNDATION. So TEHN be on the lookout for that.

PS: I am yet to meet with fasholas sis o. Free time for her has been an issue. I do not wish to send her the link because I dont think she would have the time to read up.