₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
He is not one

bukatyne:
Bros,

I rebuked and rejected a 'Nigerian' man and God in His infinite mercy answered my prayers.

I have neither the strength nor time to cope with one

bukatyne:
I have never heard it justified any where else like this

Nigerian men (with Nigerian behaviors)! Tufiakwa!

olu4life:
Then I have all the patience in d world since no emergency. Thank God

Idowuogbo:
Oh I don't deserve a reply she? Are we done fundraising?

babyosisi:

I will do that then but please do not respond to them with that email for the reason I stated
I will cc ,caracta and maclatunji then and BC ehelpers

Will BC Chaircover too

Gboliwe:
Who be lad?

3cycle:
Lol, what do you want me to say? She has her reasons but very wrong to have generalised.

crackhaus:
Which is why excusing himself is the best in my opinion. He doesn't need to leave the house, he could just go into another room/area.

The wife will have to be clinically certified as insane if she keeps cursing when no one is listening/paying attention to her.

babyosisi:
Do you have an idea when the labs will be out?

crackhaus:
Get out of there as in to create some space between himself and her until much later.

Why the hell would he pack out of the house? If anyone should leave, it's the wife.

crackhaus:
Lol... her parents will definitely hear of it down the line.

My suggesting is more of a situational thing at that moment when she's running her mouth - there are only three things that can be done at that instance:
- Sit and receive all the curses/insults,
- Discipline the woman like a child, with koboko if necessary, OR
- Get out of there.

babyosisi:
You are correct but also now everyone knows what type of money we are talking about,at least an idea.

KingTom:
May God Almighty heal this man DJDOLA in Jesus name, and may He bless those at the forefront of his aid, bless
Jennimma
TEHN
Jaybee3
IdowuOgbo
Gboliwe
Pickabeau1 Generosity is your name
And many others In Jesus name.

babyosisi:
I know
My email is not sending email so I have no other way to send it
Moreover the public needs to have a fair idea of cost,they are the donors

shizzleStar:
Much as i dont easily advocate divorce, this case is an exemption. After all there are no kids, so no valid reason to be desperate to remain in a cursed marriage. With curses flying left, right and center, she will kill him one day, she is evil

crackhaus:
True on that.

However the power to do that is his and only his, we can't help him with that.
- Sitting that woman down and talking, ergo pleading/begging her to quit the insults is at best a wrong move in my opinion.
She already knows that what she's doing is wrong by all standards.

- Involving her parents may solve the problem for a minute, but will that automatically make her respect him more? At best, this would even make her feel like a child who got reported and scolded by her parents, she may not like this in the long run.

- Then there's the option of just outrightly asking her what he did to deserve such disrespect and insensitivity from her.
But hey, is there ever a valid reason for a wise & grownup woman to curse at her own husband...isn't that stvpidity?

If he cheated in the past and she can't stand the marriage anymore, then she better leave and not resort to cursing a man she's still married to, inadvertently making herself affected by the same curses.

So I'm back to my earlier advice - he should endeavour to be away from her once she starts running her mouth by shutting his mind and taking a walk to return at a later time, or moving to another room/part of the house and closing the door behind him.
Do that enough times and the woman will start to feel silly with herself for always nagging and insulting the empty chairs, or bed, or other furniture.

The above is under the assumption he has a job and real friends he can hang out with to be away from his caustic wife, of course...

passe:
I tried forwarding it but wasn't going through,hence the reason why I said the moderators should help.I have a feeling it has to do with resizing the poster,which I dont seem to know how to do it.

crackhaus:
Bro, it's the best I got that doesn't involve telling her parents or slapping the rude and disrespect out of her.

passe:
Please can the moderators in charge forward a copy of the poster to Stelakuko@hotmail.com or
Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com? We need Stella Dimokoko Korkus to put it up in her blog.She got a lot of traffic on it.Something good should come out of it.

3cycle:
Ofcourse I've met nice guys and great ppl.
Don't tell me you allow what they say affect you in here?

3cycle:
Why do you ask?

slim05:
Hello, i tried to transfer through fcmb mobile banking but the phone number of the recipient is needed, kindly update the account number with the phone number he used to open the account. Thank you.

aisha2:
Finally sent Jarus the message last night. I am still unable to go out but I was able to get some stuff done yesterday
I pray this week will be better so I can add more and also see some people and ask for their help

walearoy:
Bsc was missed cos of work which to me makes more sense than present excuse

crackhaus:
Anytime she starts talking, take a walk and shut the door behind you as you exit.